Chinny024:


Go with someone, may be ur jnr sister,good nanny or ur mum preferably for the main time to be staying with him while you balance things.....Don't in any way leave him behind for ur sister in law no matter how una relationship take sweet.....Of course, ur boy will be put in sch there ASAP to reduce word load on ur mum, or sister or Nanny..Do family planning(implant) as return of fertility is fastest with that method while you are putting things in place at least let him be 3 before you consider another one....There's no award for who suffer pass..Shalom

I was heavy before the job came seriously.. that's my main challenge now walahi

Chinny024:


How will I dash someone my child na... Haaa,after labour pains and hot fire....The only pain that has moved my brain to default setting even as a nurse...
Omo,I can't... Anywhere am going, gummed to my body ooo...How could they intimidate her to such an extent?...
They only wants that child to forget her and once detachment sets in,forget it...She will be a stranger to her own child..Tufiakwa

Seriously oo.. reminds me of wat I m dragging out with my hubby.. I got a job in another state recently, so we are practically doing a long distance marriage .. hubby said I shd leave my 18 months old son for his elder sister to take care of him.. I said no I rather quit the job. I can't leave my son for any one it's not by force

It's true.. my last antenatal day, when the doctor came in and saw the crowd she was very angry .. infact they drove some women away

Southernigbo:
This wan wey na only hausa and idoma students full there campus, na University be that one?

U sabi well well.. even idoma lecturers plenty for their pass BSU

Stargurl20:

I pray the lord ease your affairs

Amen .. thank you

I don't even know whether I should be happy or sad.. I m just indifferent about this news.. I am scared of resuming because of how inconsiderate and wicked my lecturers are. I m heavily pregnant and I know the pressure will be much on me. When I was ready they didn't call off the strike. So many questions lurking in my mind, I just got a new job in another state.. how do I navigate all these with my condition and my toddler.. God..

Ladymillion:
Try and go on Secondment there first to enable you make contact, transfer of service is subject to availability of vacancy.Vacancy determines acceptance. While on secondment, you should be able to properly understand how they work and how to go about your Transfer of service request because you are now an insider , it takes a while to conclude though.

Does this apply to university staff too? As in lecturers

glossy6:


Hmmmm. I laugh in Latin. last yr Oct, I brought an 11yr old naive girl from the village to help me at home. she bedwets and mop up the mess with the pillows.

I enrolled her in a private school close to my house where she was admitted in Basic 4. I bought textbooks for her & she started schooling immediately. But aside the bedwetting which has stopped after much coaching, she can't wash dishes clean enough even up to now. she sweeps the house using 2 hrs 30 mins on the average. At the end of the sweeping exercise, you will wish she never did.

She tell lies more than any human being living. I have been asking after her homework which she kept on saying she was not given. She will be idling away while my kids sweat it out doing loads of homework. I wasn't ready to confront the proprietress on this since I had confronted her when she was in Basic 4. I don't want to be seen as disliking her teachers. hers was the only school that admitted her in Basic 4, others went as low as basic 2.

About 5wks ago, I brought up the homework issue again and I sent someone to confirm from her classmate if they were not given homework and why?

2wks later the story remained same but she went to school to allege that house chores does not permit her to do homework. that she is being starved (she serves food to herself )......and lots of unprintable lies.

Conclusion: you hardly can find a good one. No matter what you do to them, you are not her biological mum and she can NEVER appreciate you.

Wow!! You just described my own.. the one I have will be 10 years in November. She is very adamant, lies a lot, if she does something and you scold her she will get angry and go on a hunger strike...

idyexcel:
You don't have to be too hard on yourself. You did what anybody with conscience would have done. Maybe that's why she loved your son. What is meat and juice? My advice is when next you go looking for some helping hands, go for someone younger, someone you can still mould, someone that is still naive. Maybe it's even better you go to the villages.

It's not all the time oo.. these ones especially from the villages are not naive oo.. there is one that I have now 9 years , she lies alot , very stubborn and adamant , anytime I scold her for doing something wrong she will refuse to eat, does whatever she likes.. I want to return her after her exams

[quote author=Babamide post=113209702]Wedding day chairman of the occasion. Hope you are still assisting her with monthly stipend and some other things.
In my own opinion, there is no end in sight for both of you. She just needs time and space to get married before she falls back into your loving arms.
How come your wife and kids didn't notice your divided attention? It is either your story never happened or your FG civil servant wife has her own side piece [/quote
Exactly!! Is it that for 2 years your wife and kids don't come visiting?
Hmmmmmmm