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@nethacker,Yeah, it happens!

Waiting to inhale(exhale)

@ nethacker, mouth too much. Its nice knowing you feel this way. I feel same way too.As long as you want to sha!

Wondering what this site is all about? Do you actually get to meet someone you have talked with, yabbed after a long while?

If you have, especially the opposite sex, did the person strike you as a likeable person and do you still talk?

Or that meeting brings about an end of the friendship?

Will like to know.

Easier said than done, I would say!

Guys, most of you can not do it.

Good to go out with such ladies, but to make them wives, you bolt!

@omofola
Good for u and may your hope and dreams come to reality.

@nethacker

May your dreams and hope come to pass too.

Cheers!

[color=#000099][/color]You r impossible!

nethacker,

Blushing!!!!!!!!

Thank you.

Ina so'n ka!!!!!!

I am sure you guys, nethacker and Ifeleke, have actually had to go out with older ladies. They are talking from experience.

If you as a lady finds out that all the guys you meet are always younger, would you go ahead to get married to one of them?

How would you cope with been humble at all times, when you can be sure that any ill move could be counted as being superior?

How would the guy's family also relate to you on seeing you as older?

Is it a thing of the mind or it doesn't matter in the world we are in anymore?

What age difference would be seen as extreme? Five years?

Candid opinion, please!

Hi, thanks.I will call you soon. A pleasant day to you!

Yeah! Yeah!! Read all your comments guys. But lets be honest with ourselves, you guys are always edgy like some things have got the better part of you.

If a guy comes on to say he wants a girl who is already working, no one or no guy raises a eye lid.

Yes, I am working and it okay for a job. I have gone out with guys that had no job, and I helped look for jobs too. Helped some morally and financially,(no need to blow my trumpet).

Now if I say I want someone who is working, I don't think that is bad. Note, I didn't say I want someone who is made. I said working. You could be working and could also be contented with the 10k job, but how serious are you about becoming better?

I ain't scared and I am no gold digger!

Guys, real men are scarce, likewise real women, and I know my worth!

Anyways, want none of you, so you can go on and holla or scream and get abusive.

Peace!

Well, I have not been able to do it still. I don't want to bother myself with it again. But is it true that there is a column to download referees' fprm or there is nothing like that?

Is this all we do till we go for the test?

I put in for Industrial relations, who has the same course and please what do we read?

Thanks.

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My heart is hard after having some bad relationships.

Told myself I won't love until after marriage. Then you know the guy is there and there is no going back.

Right now, I want to get married and wait for the good man who will convince me that it alright to love again.

All I see are they who are still looking for jobs, and I dont have time as my friend.

Will I eventually have a good man after been hurt?

I was once good and still believe I am but care less now.

Please can anyone who applied for the masters programme with Unilag, tell me how she/he went about it?

I have filled the online data and printed it out but can not seem to get the passport to come out right while printing.

Also, are we to send any stuff to the school, before the test or wait for an information from them?

What is the composition of the test?

Can I still change my course now and it wouldnt affect anything?

Please I hope to get a response to all my questions.

Thank you.

Well, I do have reservatios about the paegant show as I see it depreciating yearly.

The trend of girls that now go for the contest is so bad and anyone would be picked when they dont have any girl up to standard.

When I saw the 2008 queen, she looked like she had been going through tough times, because I watched it last year and she was no where like she managed to look last year.

I would have gone for the girl they picked for the IMO queen, but she was picked out and could not contest with the last 10.

Some of them, even tripped on their gowns and what does that mean?

The last girl to be interviewed was bad at her english coordination, but was in the top 10!

Well, I think there is need to re-programme this shows.


Anyway, it shows how desperate girls are about making money.

Lastly, I dont think they should be allowed to pick people for other designated duties, which would leave them with lesser qualities, which are nowhere near world standards.

This is my opinion.

Please who knows about University of Ibadan's post graduate forms?

I filled its application online and paid into First Bank but I cant seem to log in after 72 hours.

Tried all numbers asked to reach in case of inquires, but got no response.

Please is any one experiencing this too?

Thanks

I have a guy who I have been in and out with roughly two years but I think or feel his orientation about women is bad. He calls but feels he should not waste too much money on things like calls or gifts. Right now, I asked him about his apartment, but the money is not complete. Should I go ahead to bring part of the money or let him do it on his own. He says its a major factor to our settling down, but he gives me the creep at times.

Its good to have people to talk to atimes. I asked not because I have made up my mind.The esan guy asked me to get married to him and wants to know when to meet my parents in less than three months!

I told him that I would like to know him better before I introduce him to my folks and well he flared up and asked if it is because he is poor or has a terminal disease he has to recover from. I think he is pathetic and told him. I am waiting and hope to get my bearing soon.

Thanks fella for the good and the bad advice, will sift them through.

Thanks for all yah mails. I appreciate all the good and bad comments. Well, i NEVER HAVE BEEN LOOKING FOR THE RICHER ONES, BUT THE ONES i REALLY LOVED NEVER STAYED.Right now, I want to consider the eshan guy, and I would work to make things right .If it works out fine but I would say I have been to careful all my life and its time to take a stand. The UK guy, its scary to go into something with him. I flow more with the eshan guy, we talk gist, yab and fight,and come back again.I just want to just know that I wont face oposition with his family.

this is why i am reluctant about the whole issue. I atimes get the feelings this guy has hidden agenda. atleast the girl would help him out abit. He even had plans to live in his fathers home that was left behind, that is at the B/Q. But atleast the UK girl, wont be asking me to give him money

Thanks for your words so far.

About this extrovert guy, well he is the one in charge of his home.

Lost his dad, like 22 years ago, takes care of his mum and 3 siblings. I dont have an issue with that. 
He used to be a cassanova, but now is ready to settle down.

He believes I dont send him and well pains him. I like him alright but just been cautious which he knows.
His job too is a point to me.I ready pray he gets a better job and add value to himself as he had been taking care of the others all his life.

Well, I pray things work out. Want to be serious this time.

I would start by saying I am not materialistic, but need candid opinions.

I have had good relationships, only for the guys to walk out. Leaving me devastated. Right now, I have about three strong options. I dont want to make a wrong choice and want to get committed to the one i choose too.

The 1st is someone I had been talking to for two years but haven't met. He is 15 years older than I am and resideds in UK,promised to come back soon and wants to marry me. I have shooed him away several times, only for him to remain persistent.

A class mate of mine in school asked me to go into a serious relationship with him too, by the way I will be 32 this year. He is my cousin's family friend and is that a criteria of getting the good man?

But there is this particular one I met and we talk well. He makes me talk unlike the others. He is Eshan, while I am yoruba.I know little about guys from that side. He is 8 years older too. He says he is serious and wants to settle down. Just met him like two months ago. Well, why I would give this one a chance is becos we talk well. But we are opposites, he is an extrovert, I am an introvert. He loves grooving but I am opposite. I am churchy but he is a different from me.

I am scared to jumping into the wrong one, what do I do. I pray and I am still praying.

Hello everyone, has anyone been invited for British Airways aptitude test? My friend was invited and would like to know what their test format looks like and how best to prepare.

Thank you fellas!

What i dont seem to understand is why do people who are supposed to be decent and actually nation builders get so wrung up and act frustrated?at the slightest question or information that seems to have passed you by,you slash cold water or shouldi say mud water on other people's face.the funny thing is that these people who do these are very unserious in the first place and well even if they are given every opportunity to get the job,they still dont get things done.
The information had been pasted about UNDP job a long time and Jenik only referred to it.

So why get upset about what had passed Mudom?Always learn to be patience and dont pour faults undue on others.

We will all get the desired jobs,but dont tred on people on your way up.

well dear friend,u dont need a foreign degree to work with an NGO,but for the foreign ones,it could do u some good.basically,what you do need is the exposure,join different organisations,develop yourself even locally and it will definitely pay off on the long run.You could get engaged in different volunteering activities,where your skills could pay off.go online and read about NGO and UN organisations,to get the feel of what i mean.GOOGLE out

well,i think its actually interesting to see a lot of people vot e to work with NGO's,but point of notice.

i hope its not for financial gains?cos if it is,u'll be dazed.i work with an NGO, and for real it could be frustrating when you see your pay and if you do have to travel milws to get to your home or work everyday,but its the passion that will definitely get you going.

Now for volunteers,it is known that no salary is paid,but you could get stipends for transportation.

well, the joyful thing in all these,is that you know that you are affecting lives for good,never expecting gains in return,though it may come on the long run.

For those who actually want to start somewhere,there are a lot of NGOs,orphanages included,where you could share your love with others.

I am about to start with an orphanage myself,despite where i am.
One love!

I actually think the same thing happened to me. I went for the test at Queens’ College around August last year, was called up for an interview by March this year. Had it at 2 different branches at VI.till now, haven’t heard anything. Lets just keep hope alive still.

hi guys,how possible is it.in the lagos we are in,that you get to have a social life at all?if you are into no relationship,how with the work stress do u get to combine all?i have this guy i have been talking with online for like weeks now.though he's not in naija,he is schooling in uk,his masters though.we talk and chat both.but can this actually lead anywhere and i dont want to be desperate.though he knows i like him and he did say he likes me,but does it hold water?
actually,asked me out.does it make sense?please tell me.

i met a guy thru a friend of mine,when i chatted with him online at work and for like two weeks we talked both on phone and thru chatting.he started making advances at me,wanting to meet me at all cost.until i gave in to meeting him at an eatry.we talked and then he was bent on doing another date.wat do i do?wat if he asks me to come over to know his place?
the thing i know about guys is dat once you are in their territory,they would want to ask you to go out with him,saying that you both have a chemistry.
A diversion,a guy you said yes to.and that very day,wants to stick his tongue down ur throat.is dat the way it is with guys?and is that guy not even sex starved or on heat to want to grind into you in the processing of kissing his new girl.does it make any sense to go into this relationship or stay out of it?