What’s the point of changing the dress code. That white and khaki shorts were very good. You can make changes without making too much as to confuse everyone
These Pentecostals sef, the juju wey the Adeboye’s Oyedepo’s of this world use hold them strong well well cos with recent’s happenings they should know they’ve been scammed.
I have no pity for El Rufai. This reminds me of what Peter Obi did to him during the Anambra state elections, where he was held locked down at F Hotel until after the elections had been concluded.
History is happening to him again a second time 🤣🤣🤣
Chopping and changing a product that’s not broken. Soon he’ll make using WhatsApp feel like a chore just because he wants it to become a revenue generating app
Flana: I met this lady in my estate sometime in 2022. We exchanged numbers, but we never really had the time to hang out back then. Sometime in May this year, I saw her number in one of my old iCloud accounts and decided to give her a call. She picked up, but she didn’t seem to remember me—in her own words, because we used to only see each other on the road before she moved out of the estate.
We chose a date and location to hang out, and it all went well. We had a great conversation, and since then, we have been calling and texting each other. We went on a second outing, and she asked me a question that I actually expected of her: what did I really want from her? I told her that my days of playing games are over, and that I need a friend, a partner, and someone I can build a relationship with. In turn, she told me that she hadn’t given relationships a chance since her last one ended two years ago. She also mentioned that she doesn't want to have too much history with men, which is why she has been trying to protect herself.
Since then, things have been cool. We talked on the phone almost every day, and everything was going well between us. However, I noticed she asked a lot of questions, but whenever I asked her something, she was always reluctant to answer. I told her what I do for a living and where I work, but she would only tell me her job title, never the name or location of her workplace. I didn’t really have a problem with that, though.
A few weeks ago, she called me in the evening, crying on the phone, and told me she had just been informed that her dad passed away. Being the kind of person I am, I have never really had anyone close to me lose a loved one where I had to console them. I just told her, "May his soul rest in peace," promised to call her the next day, and hung up. Due to work stress, I didn't end up calling her until the third day. I noticed she wasn't really responding the way I expected, and after some questioning, she opened up. She said she hadn't expected me to just end the call like that on the night she found out, as she really needed someone to talk to, and then I didn't check back until three days later. I apologized and explained to her that it wasn't intentional—I just didn't know what else to say and wanted to avoid repeating words or rambling, which might not be comforting to someone grieving.
We eventually agreed that I could come for her dad’s wake-keep and burial. Initially, she only wanted me to attend the wake-keep because her family's village is far from her hometown and she didn’t want to put me through the stress. But I insisted that the stress would be worth it, especially since I would be experiencing a burial ceremony for the first time in my life. The wake-keep and burial were scheduled for last week Thursday and Friday, respectively.
God bears me witness, I had fully prepared my mind to travel. But on Wednesday evening around 5:00 PM, one of our clients called stating they were in the middle of a time-sensitive project, one of their services was down, and it needed urgent fixing. Normally, I could have resolved this remotely, but traveling from Abuja to an unfamiliar village where I wasn’t sure if there would be a network connection was a risk I wasn't willing to take. So, I picked up my phone, summoned the courage, and told her I wouldn’t be able to come as scheduled. In the middle of my explanation, she cut me off, saying she already knew I wasn’t coming. She said if I had genuinely planned to come, I would have been checking in with her since that morning. Because she hadn't heard from me all day, she had already concluded I decided not to show up. Then she told me, “I don’t think this whole relationship thing will work. You should just forget about everything and have a good life ahead of you.” I asked, "Just like that?" and she said yes. I wished her a good life ahead too, and ended the call.
After 20 minutes, I messaged her asking for her account details. She sent them, and I transferred some cash to her. She messaged me the next morning, thanking me very much. Why I sent the money, I can't really tell, but it genuinely calmed my temper down.
Since then, I have been calling and texting her, but she hasn't responded. However, I noticed she called me twice on Saturday, but I wasn't close to my phone. Since then, I’ve been calling her twice every day and dropping messages, but getting no response. I called her yesterday, and luckily, she picked up. I asked if she was back, but she said she was still in the village. I asked if she could talk, and she said yes. But as I was trying to explain myself and apologize, not even 30 seconds into the call, the line dropped. I called back and it was switched off. I called again later in the evening, but there was no response.
I really like her, and I want her to know it wasn't intentional, but honestly, I am feeling exhausted.
You are now becoming desperate. Let her be, keep moving, if she comes back and reach out to you, don’t go and start apologizing for nothing, just gauge to see if she’s still interested in what your proposing. If she doesn’t you have your answer.
Renewed Hope wetin. Nothing APC no go use as achievement. This is a list of the best universities in Nigeria. Not compared to their counterparts both in Africa and the rest of the world.
Go and bring that list and tell us how many Nigerian universities made it there.
I met Alex 3 times, and that 3 different times, he gave me an honor i will never forget, no one has given such honor before, he is a great son of mine
The first time, he came to my house with a cow, ogene boys and other gifts, to invite me for his movie premiere, a movie he did with Stan Nze. When I got there, I was welcomed with masquerades, it was an experience I will never forget
The second time and third time, he visited my hotel room with gifts, money and fruits and asked me to pray for him.
I want to appreciate his friend Ik ogbonna, he is indeed a good friend to Alex, both in life and death. I heard Alex was preparing big for my 80th birthday which will be next year, but he is not here again. May his rest in peace and May God give his family the fortitude to bear the loss.
Alex came, he saw and he left an indelible impression
~Pete Edochie
Amen Amen Amen. Live well so that in death even for the little while people will remember you, they will speak well of you
helinues: Make I also shook mouth about this matter here, safe. I have been reading the dragging on other social media
Education is actually overrated. It's a new form of modern slavery, time wastage
At the same time, acquiring enough knowledge about things required one form of education
Both primary and secondary basic education should be converted to something like technical schools where as the students are learning education, they are also learning how to do things , electricians, Pa position, clerks, hair dressing, basic car repairing, it's all forms of technical education.
Some professors can't even near some places where Peller can go. There should be a rethink about this
Rich man is talking, yet you are claiming you have an idea, my friend turn your idea to money
What can I say.. Peller is the new measurement of success.
gentlesil: My brother has reported his wife to the ministry of social welfare because she is neglecting her role towards their three children- 9, 6, and 3 years old. He said of late, he is the one that bath them, Wash their clothes and take them to school. The only reason she cooks in the house sometime, is because she herself must eat. She always lay all manner of insult on him even threaten to harm him, if he dares her. The situation is now affecting him so much that he wants to saperate from her and ask for child custody, not divorce yet. So he wants to know the possible outcome from this. Please suggest one, two or three possible outcome. Thanks in advance for your guidance
If he can prove that he is the best parent to take care of his children. The court will grant him custody because under the child rights act, the law looks at what’s the best for the child/children of the marriage irrespective of sex or the child or parent.
Let your brother hire a good lawyer and document everything to prove his case.
Chijeep: To cut the long story short, I did my traditional marriage 3momths ago, though I met the girl online but before we even started talking about marriage, our chat always flow with fun and togetherness.
But the moment we return back to our base after the marriage this girl started behaving like introvert and a bit celibacy. Won't want to talk to me like in the aspect of gisting and barely share issues and decisions with me. Even the aspect of food she hardly find interest in eating what I'm able to provide. I've confronted her more than 3 times and reminded her that I told you already before we go into this union that I'm not rich yet and I'm managing, and she assured me that she's also not from a rich home either and she'll be supportive. but now the girl will be acting as if I'm forcing her to eat the rubbish I provided.
I told her that she's free to quit the marriage if she's not that impressed and happy but she doesn't want to or maybe she's thinking of how people will see her.
PLEASE WHAT CAN I DO AS THIS IS AFFECTING MY EMOTIONS?, BECAUSE I'M A GUY THAT DECIDED TO LIVE AND DO MY THINGS ALONE, SO THAT I'LL BE ABLE TO HAVE MORE TIME WITH MY WIFE AND CHILDREN WHEN THE TIME COMES.
Return the bride to her family, since you contracted a customary marriage. Dissolution is return the bride and ask for the bride price. OR take another wife since nothing stops you from that speaking legally.
Again you are still flexing unnecessarily. What did you sue the person for at the high court ? what are you waiting for to institute the action at the FHC.
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