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PoliticsRe: I Respect Tinubu, I Will Meet Him Soon, Says Saraki by Barselonia(m): 1:44pm On Jun 28, 2015
Serious shocked Why wouldn't u respect him, the jagaban grin grin
Nairaland GeneralRe: How Smartphone Is Ruining Your Life(photos) by Barselonia(op): 11:41am On Jun 28, 2015
Na so he Dey do my guy factism.... very soon oracle would be through internet
Nairaland GeneralRe: How Smartphone Is Ruining Your Life(photos) by Barselonia(op): 11:26am On Jun 28, 2015
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Nairaland GeneralRe: How Smartphone Is Ruining Your Life(photos) by Barselonia(op): 11:23am On Jun 28, 2015
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Nairaland GeneralHow Smartphone Is Ruining Your Life(photos) by Barselonia(op): 11:17am On Jun 28, 2015
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PoliticsRe: House Apologises To Nigerians For Fight During Plenary by Barselonia(m): 8:36pm On Jun 25, 2015
when u have too much money that u don't work for.... it usually control u atimes

CultureRe: 13 Unspoken Rules Of Courtesy That Everyone Should Adhere To by Barselonia(op): 7:52pm On Jun 25, 2015
INTROVERT:
Omg the first and last
lolz.... many Nigerians is affected with The courtesy
CultureRe: 13 Unspoken Rules Of Courtesy That Everyone Should Adhere To by Barselonia(op): 7:41pm On Jun 25, 2015
finally
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CultureRe: 13 Unspoken Rules Of Courtesy That Everyone Should Adhere To by Barselonia(op): 7:38pm On Jun 25, 2015
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CultureRe: 13 Unspoken Rules Of Courtesy That Everyone Should Adhere To by Barselonia(op): 7:35pm On Jun 25, 2015
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Culture13 Unspoken Rules Of Courtesy That Everyone Should Adhere To by Barselonia(op):
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PoliticsRe: Soldier Beats Up BRT Driver At Iyana Ipaja Today (photos) by Barselonia(m): 9:30pm On Jun 24, 2015
Na Nigeria dey complaint that Some of the BRT driver dey drive like crazy man ,now oga soja discipline one for u,una still dey condemn him again
PoliticsRe: Bauchi Govt Seizes 22 Vehicles From Yuguda’s Wives by Barselonia(m): 8:53am On Jun 19, 2015
Haykay80:
He said:” we have so far, recovered a total of 22 cars from
the wives of the former Governor, Isa Yuguda. We
recovered 11 cars from his first wife, seven from the
second wife and four from the third wife. We are yet to
recover the remaining cars from his fourth wife who is
currently out of the country.
well the fourth wife car can't pass 2.....
Na rank....first wife get d highest number of our cars...grin
SportsI Am Ready To Buy Arsenal At ‘whatever Price’ — Dangote by Barselonia(op): 4:48am On Jun 18, 2015
Nigerian billionaire Aliko Dangote insists that soon he will
have ‘enough time and enough resources’ to buy Arsenal
football club, whatever the price.
Dangote, 58, is Africa’s richest man having amassed a
fortune in the region of $18.4 billion (£12.2 billion). He is
currently the 67th richest man in the world.
He first spoke of his interest in purchasing the Gunners last
month when he admitted that ‘one day’ he hoped to buy the
club, adding that he ‘already knew’ his strategy to take
them forward.
That day may arrive sooner than first expected, with
Dangote telling the BBC Tuesday that completion of his
proposed oil refinery in Nigeria will provide the funds
necessary to launch a takeover of the club.
“When we get this refinery on track, I will have enough time
and enough resources to pay what they are asking for,” he
told BBC Hausa.
“There were a couple of us who were rushing to buy, and we
thought with the prices then, the people who were interested
in selling were trying to go for a kill,” Dangote continued.
“We backtracked, because we were very busy doing other
things, especially our industrialisation.”
“They are doing well, but they need another strategic
direction,” he added. “They need more direction than the
current situation, where they just develop players and sell
them.”
Stan Kroenke is Arsenal’s majority shareholder, with the
American owning 66.64% of the club’s parent company,
Arsenal Holdings plc.

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/06/i-am-ready-to-buy-arsenal-at-whatever-price-dangote/

cc ishilove lalasticlala
HealthRe: Community Panics Over Decaying Body In Lagos State-owned Gardens (photo) by Barselonia(m): 9:29am On Jun 17, 2015
naija no dey things serious na
RomanceRe: 13 Signs Your Wife Or Girlfriend Is A Borderline Or A Narcissist by Barselonia(op): 9:17am On Jun 17, 2015
RichardFuld:
I slap women who dares disobey me.
But mind u there are narcisst boyfriend.. maybe u are one with way u talk.... grin
Romance13 Signs Your Wife Or Girlfriend Is A Borderline Or A Narcissist by Barselonia(op): 9:02am On Jun 17, 2015
My girlfriend / wife doesn’t have a personality disorder.
She’s just emotional . Maybe, maybe not. Borderline
Personality Disorder isn’t as mainstream in public
awareness as other psychiatric diagnoses, but it’s a very
real problem that affects many individuals and the people
who are in ongoing relationships with them or trying to
end relationships with them.
Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a kissing cousin of
BPD. There is usually some overlap between the two.
Most people think being a narcissist means that you’re
conceited or vain–there’s a lot more to it.
Men are typically accused of being insensitive and out of
touch with their feelings. We rarely talk about women who
emotionally abuse the men they claim to love . There are
different reasons why this is a silent epidemic:
a) Society and psychology hold a reverse sexist attitude
regarding the perpetrators and recipients of emotional
abuse.
b) Men have been brainwashed into believing that “she’s
just expressing her feelings” when she’s being abusive
and that “he’s insensitive and doesn’t understand.”
Unfortunately, many mental health professionals
perpetuate this phenomenon through their own gender
biases . Should these men enter into couples treatment,
they often get tag teamed by their girlfriend/wife and the
therapist into believing they’re the problem. Should this
couple actually find a shrink worth his/her salt that tries
to hold the Borderline/Narcissist accountable, said shrink
is duly fired and vilified by the BPD/NPD.
c) Men are too embarrassed to talk about the hurt, pain
and confusion they experience as a result of the way
these women mistreat them.
Warning: Being involved with an abusive Borderline or
Narcissist May Be Hazardous to Your Mental Health
Here are some common side effects of being in an
abusive relationship, whether the abusive individual has a
personality disorder or not:
1) Censoring your thoughts and feelings. You edit it
yourself because you’re afraid of her reactions.
Swallowing the lump in your throat and your hurt and
anger is easier than dealing with another fight or hurt
feelings. In fact, you may have stuffed your own emotions
for so long that you no longer know what you think or
feel.
2) Everything is your fault. You’re blamed for everything
that goes wrong in the relationship and in general, even if
it has no basis in reality.
3) Constant criticism. She criticizes nearly everything
you do and nothing is ever good enough. No matter how
hard you try, there’s no pleasing her or, if you do, it’s few
and far between.
4) Control freak. She engages in manipulative behaviors,
even lying, in an effort to control you.
5) Dr Jekyll and Ms Hyde. One moment she’s kind and
loving; the next she’s flipping out on you. She becomes
so vicious, you wonder if she’s the same person. The first
time it happens, you write it off. Now, it’s a regular
pattern of behavior that induces feelings of depression,
anxiety, helplessness and/or despair within you.
6) Your feelings don’t count. Your needs and feelings, if
you’re brave enough to express them, are ignored,
ridiculed, minimized and/or dismissed. You’re told that
you’re too demanding, that there’s something wrong with
you and that you need to be in therapy. You’re denied the
right to your feelings.
7) Questioning your own sanity. You’ve begun to wonder
if you’re crazy because she puts down your point of view
and/or denies things she says or does. If you actually
confide these things to a friend or family member, they
don’t believe you because she usually behaves herself
around other people.
cool Say what? “But I didn’t say that. I didn’t do that.” Sure
you did. Well, you did in her highly distorted version of
reality. Her accusations run the gamut from infidelity to
cruelty to being un-supportive (even when you’re the one
paying all the bills) to repressing her and holding her
back. It’s usually baseless, which leaves you feeling
defensive and misunderstood.
9) Isolating yourself from friends and family. You
distance yourself from your loved ones and colleagues
because of her erratic behavior, moodiness and
instability. You make excuses for her inexcusable
behaviors to others in an effort to convince yourself that
it’s normal.
10) Walking on landmines. One misstep and you could
set her off. Some people refer to this as “walking on
eggshells,” but eggs emit only a dull crunch when you
step on them. Setting off a landmine is a far more
descriptive simile.
11) What goes up, must come down. She places you on a
pedestal only to knock it out from under your feet. You’re
the greatest thing since sliced bread one minute and the
next minute, you’re the devil incarnate.
12) Un-level playing field. Borderlines and Narcissists
make the rules; they break the rules and they change the
rules at will. Just when you think you’ve figured out how
to give her what she wants, she changes her
expectations and demands without warning. This sets
you up for failure in no-win situations, leaving you
feeling helpless and trapped.
13) You’re a loser, but don’t leave me. “You’re a jerk.
You’re a creep. You’re a bastard. I love you. Don’t leave
me.” When you finally reach the point where you just
can’t take it anymore, the tears, bargaining and threats
begin. She insists she really does love you. She can’t live
without you. She promises to change. She promises it
will get better, but things never change and they never
get better.
When that doesn’t work, she blames you and anything
and anyone else she can think of, never once taking
responsibility for her own behaviors . She may even resort
to threats. She threatens that you’ll never see the kids
again. Or she threatens to bad mouth you to your friends
and family.
https://shrink4men./2009/01/21/relationships-with-borderline-narcissistic-personality-women/
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Science/TechnologyRe: Gate Tower Building With A Highway Through It by Barselonia(op): 7:48am On Jun 17, 2015
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Science/TechnologyGate Tower Building With A Highway Through It by Barselonia(op): 7:46am On Jun 17, 2015
One of the most curious building in Japan is the Gate Tower
Building in Osaka, Japan. The 5th, 6th and 7th floors of this
16-story office building is occupied by an express highway
- passing right through the building. On the building's floor
information board on the ground floor, the tenants for the
three floors are listed as the Hanshin Expressway. You
can’t alight there tough as the elevator skips from the 4th
floor to straight to the 8th.
The Gate Tower Building is actually the result of an unusual
compromise between the land owner and the Japanese
government. The land has been occupied by a wood and
charcoal processing company since the early Meiji period,
but the gradual move to other sources of fuel resulted in the
deterioration of those company buildings. In 1983, the
redevelopment of the area was decided upon, but building
permits were refused because the highway was already
being planned to be built over this land. The property rights'
holders refused to give up, and negotiated with the Hanshin
Expressway corporation for approximately 5 years to reach
the current solution.
Aside from the intrusive highway, business at the Gate
Tower Building is almost normal. The highway does not
make contact with the building, and a structure surrounding
the highway keeps noise and vibration out.

http://www.amusingplanet.com/2012/01/gate-tower-building-with-highway.html?m=1

Science/TechnologyRe: 28 People Who Have Messed With These Statutes In The Best Possible Ways by Barselonia(op): 4:12pm On Jun 13, 2015
Lordave:
Tag Lalasticlala to move the thread to front page first. Nice threads like this shouldn't be wasting in technology section.
have already done that but no response yet..
Nairaland GeneralRe: Take A Good Look At Your / Your Partner's Fingers by Barselonia(op): 10:55am On Jun 13, 2015
Mikaelz10:
Interesting superstition.
he b like say that thing affect u
Nairaland GeneralTake A Good Look At Your / Your Partner's Fingers by Barselonia(op): 10:27am On Jun 13, 2015
were do your finger fall

mine is A

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Science/TechnologyRe: 28 People Who Have Messed With These Statutes In The Best Possible Ways by Barselonia(op): 8:52am On Jun 13, 2015
Lordave:
Cool photos


The white fact man should have pulled his d1ck na,


Don't forget to add those snubbing handshakes like they don't see them, eg, Remi Tinubu sad
lolzzz... u can help with that na
Science/TechnologyRe: 28 People Who Have Messed With These Statutes In The Best Possible Ways by Barselonia(op): 8:42am On Jun 13, 2015
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Science/TechnologyRe: 28 People Who Have Messed With These Statutes In The Best Possible Ways by Barselonia(op): 8:37am On Jun 13, 2015
still blazing

Science/TechnologyRe: 28 People Who Have Messed With These Statutes In The Best Possible Ways by Barselonia(op): 8:32am On Jun 13, 2015
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Science/TechnologyRe: 28 People Who Have Messed With These Statutes In The Best Possible Ways by Barselonia(op): 8:28am On Jun 13, 2015
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Science/TechnologyRe: 28 People Who Have Messed With These Statutes In The Best Possible Ways by Barselonia(op): 8:23am On Jun 13, 2015
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