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Dont Abort the pregnancy! Dont!! Its just 3weeks..Good..Take full responsibility of the pregnancy nd Start working towards getting a job.. Nine months is a long period of time fam..You can make it!!..If u abort it u will feel relax towards getting a job nd probably regret aborting the child if u later get one...Let the pregnancy be a Goal for you in getting a job to take care of ursef nd your babymama and be Successful!! GoodLuck Fam!!

Smh

swaggzo:
This is what we get when all the boys on nairaland keep making some of these females feel like they're goddesses
allow her rock her boat my dear.

When will you people growup nd Advice people without attacking them verbally? You ShuttingUp is better of ur Shallow Advice *spits*

rokiatu:
If you was dumb enough to have unprotected sex when you are not ready for a child yet then your stupidity is beyond measure. My only advice is to stop wasting time thinking so much and go look for any kind of work for that matter even if you have to clean shoes. You are going to be a father congrats in advance. When you was hitting it raw and enjoying yourself, you didn't think about this day abi? When you was c..umming in her, you had no idea there was a thing call,pregnancy right? And the morning after you and your dumb gf couldn't think of a thing call "the morning after pill" ni? Well you see God give us a brain for a reason, if you can't think and make logical decisions you will be left to face the consequences.

Welcome to the real world.

I swear you're really an hypocrite, i wonder how ur husband cope with you..I would have love your Advice buh concluding that she shouldnt accept him back because of him hitting her which is [Both their cause] shows the high level of hypocrisy in your life nd how unforgiveable you're..*spits*
Mirajj dont take this Advice and if you do..Tell her to allow you marry her husband

babyosisi:
Now back on focus

Let me tell you this
Anyone reading this your former guy on this thread will come off seeing him as regretful of his actions,that is not the picture he painted previously.
I know it is not possible to chronicle a year with him in one post
I commend your maturity in not returning to this thread despite the provocations
Keep it that way
You came off smelling like roses.

Now to the abuse
Not just this man,any man that will raise his hands on you,pummel you and boast about it openly is not worth a second chance
Don't make that mistake
Don't let him sweet talk you into a second chance
Whatever lessons he learned from this,let him use it to better his next relationship,same advice to you
There are many men out there who would not lay a finger on a woman and there are many women that can testify to it
I am glad you have mended fences with your parents and gone back to them,that is a testament to the type of parents you have.
That is where you belong for now
Stay there
Get your life together
If you dropped out of school,get back
If you are looking to further your education,do that
Having a baby out of wedlock is not the end of the world,you can still achieve the dreams you had as a little girl for yourself.ahold your head up high,look yourself in the mirror and congratulate yourself for having the courage to leave despite the baby.
We all make mistakes,we are human,you made yours and moved on from it and for that I commend you
I wish you the very best.


Beautiful baby btw,take good care of her and when you are emotionally ready,you can allow him do supervised visits with her

Hehe..

Ewuro4:
Because she's a loser na

LMAOOOOO...Loser y u editing their post?

babyosisi:
I thought as much

See i just love u and that sweetcocoa girl..

pickabeau1:
So says the epitome of good wifery...

Clown

You r just a much older version of the OP

Easy babe

pickabeau1:
Ehya...classic diversionary tactics



Its not an issue for me nor a source of anger
As I said earlier its the clueless ones who grovel for a piece of 'wisdom' I pity..

Your true bigoted and hateful nature is creeping out gradually so its only a matter of time

Jab Aye!!

pickabeau1:



And you are the sensible one

Hohoho...

Well at least your e- accolades make your life worthwhile

Well said!

pickabeau1:



Ehya....you are the one who entertains us with your stories

My pity is for those who believe your horse shït and are listening to you advise them when they may even have better lives than yours'

God bless you for this!! leave the hypocrites alone

sweetcocoa:
Can we not do the "he is a man and she is a woman" thing? I don't like to think like that, it makes me feel like a hypocrite and I hate being one.

She is stuck with a child because she wants to be, she is an adult who got pregnant because she engaged in unprotected sex with a man, she wasn't raped, so why use that to score points?

He didn't just write how he beat her up, he wrote what led to that path which the OP didn't refute, please understand that I'm not making excuses for the guy but I'm actually beginning to understand what men mean by saying "women use the excuse of being women to get away with so much" this is actually true to an extent as can be seem from so many posts here.

He knows she's on NL yet went ahead to write that thread, he was never ashamed to reiterate that he loves her in all his posts. We are all human ofcourse and I can understand the OP feeling hurt but she's too abusive, she could have passed her message across without all the insults but she just couldn't, because that's how she is, just like the dude said.

mcdokwe:
Sweetcocoa I didn't harass any of her friends neither did I find them sexually appealing. Yes, I said I enjoyed the sex, yep, after my silence wouldn't make her keep quite. I still couldn't match her and for my own sanity have forgotten all she said and that was long before the so called beating.

Bros you dont owe this people anything stop replying them and focus on other things[How u guys goona take care of ur daughter together without raising her with hatred]...

Pathetic you guys seeing him Hitting her as the only problem..Am not supporting hitting a lady buh u guys are too judgemental without good reasoning...*looks on*

mcdokwe:
i know she has an account, I posted what I did so she could read it too, if not that you are more interested in insulting me, you'd also see where I said I hope she'd post hers tøo. That said, It is my sincere hope that others learn from this. It's so funny how people say stuffs here but I have sworn not to let them make me say things I shouldn't. You guys are strangers, we may seem enemies now but I'm deeply convinced that if the need arises, she would stand up in defence of my person.
It is unfortunate that she didn't say the situations in which I tell her she's vulnerable. Lol.
For the records, I tell her she makes herself vulnerable when after her moodswings and the accompanying unguided insults come begging, yes I cuddled her in cases like that and remind her they're uncalled for and leaves her at the mercy of my forgiveness (frequently) now I wouldn't want even my enemies daughter to be that vulnerable. Will she also say I don't tell her that? It would have been much better if after the insults she allows every thing die down on its own without having to apologize for something that would be repeated. I invited an ex, (she won't say the lady came around for something and was a bit stranded when I called just to ask if I could invite her without the so called invitee knowing) yes and I apologised but it wasn't a problem when her friends [males included] help themselves to my pot. (a broke ass nigga) that I was, fending for her friends as well. Lol.
You see, I loved you doesn't mean I can't do without you, I fought for us not because we were the best but because I believe we've seen the worst of each other and deserve the best when we could be. But my only advice would be that you desist from saying unsbustansiable lies, so that in the future you'd have very few things to be apologetic for. You could be better and I want to see that part

I see you guys coming back together soon..

AmazingZeus:
a round of applause for you because you deserve it,don't fall back oh cos you have post ume to write which is the koko

Yess bruv! Unilag putme..NotAjoke..Thanks #WishUSuccessInursToo

Elxandre:
Hey bro, how many minutes were you given?

3hrs30min

rotyme:
23*.... Thanks bro...

Good one bruv..

rotyme:
i thank God dat despite the stupid/cruel invigilator that brought to my center that doesnt allow me handle the math, i still received a favorable message from Jamb.......Keep it coming lord

God is good..ur score? check hw i posted mine

beatsbyj2g:
like seriously ur score is out n u've nailed jamb.... Mehn am happy for u oh tension is still killing me ya

Boss cool down jere nd free your mind...Go to ur hall, dont talk too much, take water before the exam nd if u lucky like i was yesterday in unilag computer centre ur centre might be fully air-conditioned..just enjoy ur exam nd eye fine chicks too #IsAllowed

Woke up to jamb's message: 24* my score..ThankGod!! Dat should b enof fr me to enter Unilag #Economics #GoodLuck to those writing 2dae #dont wait for expo or clue #Do it ur self and b proud of ur result #DontPanic

yemicoal:
Might be an hoax.. Don't conclude yet

its actually an hoax..modified d story twice..first asked to confirm if he was really dead..nt confirmed yet buh i got this from a friend now
"August Alsina is NOT dead o eyin aye...That fake ass website is circulating pics of himfrom last yr when he fell off the stage"

Not confirmed yet

Why one earth did i check shadowgwalker profile? *spits* *eeewww* *iyama* *vomits*

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