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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Nigeria Customs Recruitment 2019. How To Apply. 3,200 Officers To Be Recruited by bchi(f): 12:58pm On Apr 17, 2019
Patwitme:
yes the person can apply so far he/she has the required discipline. is a federal job moreover there is nowhere it was stated that a third class should not apply.
can statistician apply?? but not practising the course
Culture / Re: As A Nigerian-american, I Would Like Insight On Which Language To Learn by bchi(f): 5:45pm On Apr 08, 2019
uchefefe:
Hello!

For background, I was born to a Igbo father and a black American mother. I grew up in the U.S., and because my father didn't teach me anything about Nigeria, for the first part of my life I didn't even know I belonged to another culture. As I got a bit older I would question him about things pertaining to Nigeria; his response was "that's not important" or "don't ask such questions, focus on your book instead". At some point I asked him if he spoke another language. He confirmed that he did, but when I asked him to teach me he told me "no one speaks it, instead we just use English" and I accepted that answer.

I had a revelation one day in middle school when eating lunch with one of my friends. Like me she was born in the U.S., but had Chinese parents. We had gone to school together for nearly 10 years, so I was shocked when one day she picked up a phone call from her grandmother and spoke to her in fluent Chinese. When I questioned her on how she learned, she told me that her parents had been teaching her. That way, if she ever goes to China she won't struggle to communicate with her people, and if she chooses not to go she'll at least be able to talk with her grandparents that don't know English.

This impassioned me and that evening when my father came home from work I begged him to teach me Igbo, even though "no one speaks it". He agreed and taught me simple phrases like "kedu", "afa m bu", and "o di mma". The thing is, which it was nice to know these things I could not actually use them to communicate. I didn't understand Igbo grammar and my vocabulary was limited to basic greetings. When I began asking him the name of household items and chores he became angry with me. He told me I was focusing on Igbo and not my books (even though my grades were great), and that he'll punish me if I keep asking so I stopped.

Getting more so to the point, I'm now a graduate student in my early 20's. While I have tried my best to study Igbo, I have met many frustrations that have led me to investigate Hausa and Yoruba. At this point, it simply pains me that when I meet people from my country, I have no means of communicating with people from my country besides English. I plan on moving to Nigeria in the not-so-distant future, and when I go I want to be fluent is something.

Between the three major languages, the arguments I have for each are:

Igbo
As an Igbo person, it makes sense for me to prioritize my language. I don't want to just sit there confused and lost during family gatherings, I also want to be able to speak to my grandparents who don't understand English well. That's really the only positives of Igbo though, even excluding the past experiences mention above, I've over all become disheartened by the idea of learning the language for a variety of reasons.

Yoruba
One thing I like about Yoruba language is that Yoruba people seem to have put a lot of effort into developing it and teaching it. Most Nigerians I've met in the U.S. that speak a Nigerian language speak Yoruba, despite the fact that I've met mostly Igbo people. In addition, of Nigerians I've met also born in the U.S., only the Yoruba's are able to speak their language. Despite that, my family roots are in the South East. I may be able to speak with more Nigerians by learning Yoruba, but I'll still be disconnected from my family. Yoruba people might seem to have less of a "complex" when it comes to their language than Igbo people, but I have observed it's still there.

Hausa
I've only ever met one Hausa family in the U.S., but from what I've observed in Nigeria they seem to practice their language the most. In addition, it seems like Hausa is a lingua franca for most of the country, and many non-Hausas are fluent in the language. Hausa is one of the few sources I can find unadulterated practice of the language. It's also West Africa's most spoken indigenous languages. It still has the same problems a Yoruba though when it comes to connecting with my family. I also don't know how realistic it is to expect to live in the Northern Part of Nigeria as I have limited experience there.

Like I said, I want to move to Nigeria at some point and that's where I want to raise a family and start a career. When I have children I don't want them to grow up like me. I want them to be connected to their people and be able to communicate with them on a level no other group in the world can. I can tell my children to love and embrace African culture and languages when I know none myself.

I decided to come here for insight from other Nigerians as I have no one to talk to about this in real life. Given everything I've said what do you think I should do? At the end of the day I just want a sense connectivity and belonging among my people. I want to put my efforts into learning a language its speakers wholly embrace so I can pass it on to my children.

Also, I don't intend for this to be tribalistic at all. I would also appreciate if responses avoided tribalistic sentiments.

you don't need to move back to Nigeria to learn Igbo language or any language. you can make friends from Nigeria that can help you. if you don't mind send me a DM via this platform, so i can send you my Whatsapp number. I can teach you general igbo, you know igbo has different dialects. Anticipating your message. take care
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Vines Realty Nigeria Job Vacancies (6 Positions) by bchi(f): 8:49pm On Feb 04, 2019
marketers needed not those position. you must market the brand. have it in mind before applying.

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Religion / Re: The Man You Marry Can Make Or Break You – Mrs. Oritsejafor by bchi(f): 11:36am On Nov 25, 2018
I always say this. marriage determine your destiny. some marriage can destroy ones destiny or ambitions.
Early marriage isn't an award. it might favour nkechi, it might not favor Tayo.

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Travel / Herdsmen Along Ibadan Express Road. by bchi(f): 5:18pm On Sep 21, 2018
please Nigerians be careful while travelling from Lagos to Delta.
yesterday 20th September ,2018, would have been the end of a friend of mine's life and other occupants.
They were travelling with FAMOUS TRANSPORT COMPANY from Ejigbo to Owerri. The driver noticed two men on the Ibadan express road after ijebu-ode he speed up, The guys notice and started shooting towards the bus. While my friend was seating with the driver in front, he was busy with his phone and he didn't know what was happening until he notice the driver moving his head and behold a man shooting at their bus. Only thing my Friend heard the sounds of the shooting like someone breaking dry sticks flying and passing the bus but none of the bullets hit the bus. And they all escaped by the effort of the driver and God being with them
I Thank God for saving all the occupants lives. Please let everyone be on alert while travelling on the Road. HERDSMEN ARE EVERYWHERE
PS: MOVE TO FRONT PAGE MBOK
Nairaland / General / Re: If You Have Touched This Ball, Then You Are Truly An Old Man! by bchi(f): 3:38pm On Aug 26, 2018
AFO anu
Celebrities / Re: Vera Sidika without makeup, wig and fake lashes looks urecognizable by bchi(f): 9:51am On Aug 25, 2018
vera is a nice person, down to earth. Social media may make her look like difficult person but she's not.
vera keep living your life
Programming / Re: Interested In Teaching Yourself Programming? file on link by bchi(f): 5:49pm On Aug 03, 2018
can I have a chat with you. via email. thanks in anticipation.
Travel / Re: Ambode’s 100 Bus-stop Shelters Are Springing Up In Lagos (see PHOTOS) by bchi(f): 8:14pm On Aug 02, 2018
please let him remember Ejigbo , Isolo, ikotun.
Celebrities / Re: Ubi Franklin And Lilian Esoro At Their Son Jayden's 2nd Birthday Party by bchi(f): 5:31pm On Jul 19, 2018
only a woman can make a rich guy humble
Sports / Re: The Nigerian World Cup 2018 Tracksuit Cost 72,000 Naira - Fans React by bchi(f): 9:30pm On Jun 01, 2018
buy naija and grow naija. That means buy ABA made or Lagos made
Investment / How Can I Get Loan by bchi(f): 8:25am On Apr 28, 2018
please my people, how can I get loan with NYSC CERTIFICATE as collateral?? I need your advice
Business / Re: Ideas Of Best-selling Fiverr Gigs For Nigerians In 2018 by bchi(f): 10:31pm On Mar 16, 2018
youngmajor:



SEE SOURCE FOR MORE

How can I start DATA ENTRY on fiverr?

I need a data entry job.

URGENT REPLY PLEASE

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Business / Re: How To Sell T-shirts On Amazon And Make $400/day Without Investing A Dime!! by bchi(f): 9:36pm On Mar 11, 2018
can I apply through phone or PC CAN CANVA WORK ON PHONE. REPLY urgently . THANKS
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Department For International Development (DFID) Entry Talent Programme 2018 by bchi(f): 6:59pm On Feb 25, 2018
can Nigerians apply
Career / Re: Top 7 Mistakes African Freelance Graphic Designers Make. by bchi(f): 6:59am On Feb 17, 2018
How can I learn graphics and which app is very good for graphics on PC and mobile??
Business / Re: How To Make Money On Fiverr: A Beginner’s Guide by bchi(f): 1:23pm On Feb 10, 2018
nice one . thanks for the explanation. I have looking for this
Business / Re: Freelancing: Why Nigerians Should Start Today by bchi(f): 9:11am On Jan 29, 2018
does freelance has data entry work??/ link me how to go about it. Or any data entry online job

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Romance / Re: Lady Warns Yahoo Boys: "Come With Your Work ID Before Asking Me Out" by bchi(f): 5:39pm On Jan 26, 2018
grayht:
Nbeke wants to trend grin grin See her face like Aba Mannequin
Imagine if she's your sister or your sister is involve. How will you think??
Travel / Re: Getting A Green Card By Adjustment Of Status: My Yankee Experience by bchi(f): 12:38am On Jan 10, 2018
some one going to US for a conference, can he update his status without getting married there?
Must he join an association before going?
reply urgently
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by bchi(f): 9:01pm On Jan 08, 2018
EZEIGBO1OFIMO:
nné , if you don't know the difference between SAT and GRE, then you need baby steps cheesy.
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If you're in Lagos, make out time on one of your Wednesdays and take a stroll cheesy to the US embassy and attend the general orientation by Education USA. if you have nice stats (GPA, LOR etc), then you can get into their paid service; its fantastic cheesy .
I'm not the one applying for it
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by bchi(f): 8:02pm On Jan 08, 2018
k199192:

We pay 887usd for health insurance in my school. St Cloud State university. Maybe you can checall it out.
How did you apply to the school.
can I pm you??
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by bchi(f): 7:42pm On Jan 08, 2018
PrinceDekunle:
Hi guys,

Please what is the best way to have foodstuff sent from naija to yankee, something like garri, pepper, maggi and dry fish.

cc lagosismyhome femi312 and others

Don't carry anything that has chicken flavor especially Noodles, you can take out the spices and add Africa natural spices.
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by bchi(f): 7:22pm On Jan 08, 2018
imperiouxx:


First of all, agent can't do anything good for you, we all know that here. For your question, by doing online research on your own. Search for government (public) schools in inexpensive states. Good luck

Thanks very much.
Is it necessary for the person to write SAT or GRE exams for going to embassy.
What are the requirements for before going to Embassy.
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by bchi(f): 7:20pm On Jan 08, 2018
scripted:
Please everyone I'm currently checking ticket prices and the way I'm seeing them, 920k please can someone point me in the right direction. From Lagos to Montgomery AL ( MGM )

Forr cheaper flight USA is ROYAL AIR MARCO. ( MOROCCO FLIGHT from Lagos, it only leaves once in a day before 6am) the best is to go to airport in the evening of a day before your flight date. Bear it in mind, I don't work with them
Thank me later

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Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 13 by bchi(f): 7:03pm On Jan 08, 2018
how can one apply for M.sc in a good school in USA with low tuition via online #NoAgent recommendation Thanks
Career / Re: Employees Don’t Leave Companies, They Leave Managers by bchi(f): 9:18am On Jan 08, 2018
Samyj247:
my boss is wicked. he pretends as if he likes u but will finish u at ur back....
you spoke my mind
Career / Re: Employees Don’t Leave Companies, They Leave Managers by bchi(f): 9:16am On Jan 08, 2018
postbox:

Naso
you just spoke my mind
Religion / Re: Pentecostal Getting Married To A Catholic by bchi(f): 8:30pm On Jan 02, 2018
Thanks for all explanations, advise ,critics and comments.
HAPPY NEW YEAR.
This is a post I made 2015 and the mods decided to bring it up this year, showing there's nothing God can not do. Thanks mods ,am grateful
By Gods grace , we are getting married this year.

I got to the church on my own to see how things works there. I will tell you, there are alot of difference. I learnt a lot especially discipline before entry, though I came early before mass started.
Things I didn't see are
They didn't worship( worship songs)
No testimony
No tithe
No dancing.

it was awesome especially the teaching from the priest.
my doubt has been cleared.

Mind you, I was given birth in METHODIST. I grew up in an Orthodox church..

The best place in Catholic are Charismatics and Adoration (I haven't attended)
LOVE YOU ALL.
WISH YOU MORE GRACE TO RIDE THIS YEAR

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Art, Graphics & Video / Re: Professional Graphics Design by bchi(f): 8:18pm On Jan 02, 2018
missyblissy:
Did u marry the Catholic brother?
Not yet. By Gods grace this year. Got to the church on my own to see how things works there. I will tell you, there are alot of difference. I learnt a lot especially discipline before entry,though I came early before mass started.
Things I didn't see are
They didn't worship( worship songs)
No testimony
No tithe
No dancing.

it was awesome.
my doubt has been cleared.
Business / Re: UBA Card Maintenance Multiple Charges by bchi(f): 2:45pm On Jan 02, 2018
I was complaining about it this morning. I have deleted all the messages. its alarming. God will help us in this country

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Celebrities / Re: G-worldwide Serves Kiss Daniel Court Papers by bchi(f): 5:07pm On Dec 19, 2017
penetraits:
Interesting Things about being a graphics designer
1. Like minds everywhere
Your imagination can be a source of inspiration, inspiration can spun you a world of creativity, and creativity brings innovation. Nothing inspires better than being among like minded people and that’s what you have as a graphic designer.
You get that chance of being among creative people who understands what it’s like to create something new every time.
2. Inspiration everywhere
The graphic design profession creates an inspiring environment where all you see around you is creativity. A look at the pal next to you snaps up your imagination to do something better and that way you all get to inspire one another. You can either do it yourself in your imaginary world or better still do it better by tapping on the inspiration that surrounds.
3. The software packages you have to work with are constantly updated
Technology is evolving everyday and so is your working application tools is being updated sooner than you have learnt the previous APP. This only means the tools you use for your graphics creation challenge you every day. It’s tough on you because you have to keep up with the trending application packages in use but with time you get better on the job as you get to learn new things on the job. Remember you can either do it alone by yourself or share the new App idea with your mates and get the ones you are missing too.

4. You are able to join cool graphic design communities
The graphic design profession offers you the chance of networking among other graphic designers globally. You can share your designs among people in your network and you can get a job offer for your creation.

5. You get to share your work online
The graphic design profession gives you the chance of showcasing your work on the internet. The social media is there to share your creation to thousands of people worldwide.

If you found this profession interesting talk to the signature.
nice write-ups
how can I be like you, what will it cost me to acquire the knowledge??

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