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man I'm sorry for your loss, so sorry. but remember she always wanted you to be happy, she wanted you to survive, for you to survive now you've got to move on men... don't drown in the past like I'm doing, it's been more than 16 years now but my chest and heart literally aches and painfully hurts me anytime I remember mine.. things are really hard for me now, sometimes when I remember the incident I decline for 3months to 4months in every aspect of my life... nothing makes sense anymore you get confused. hope you never get to that stage where you will have to close your office door to cry in the office... I hope and pray. my hearts goes out to you, and try to express yourself to someone anyone, don't build a wall around yourself don't isolate .. try in all forms not to blame yourself for anything.
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

romeo411:
I honestly want to switch to programming as in carrier change, considering that I am 40, can I still make it giving every input I put in.

so man just checking, how has it been going?

vanida6:
Sinces last week i'm just having a dream that am craying and tears will be rolling like i was beating seriousely,this got me scared cuz i dont no what is happening to me,,,please i need help cuz am worried...thanks!

how're you doing ??
hope you're still praying hard ??

CallMeGrace:
I asked a guy out..
I will never do that again

why?
it's cool you don't have to feel bad about anything ... sincerely speaking all my life I've never talked to a girl, but they keep asking me out, i don't see anything bad in it .. still single though

yes you can

mytime24:
She need help

she needs help and support, but that support aspect is always hard

once had that kind of experience (without support)... it comes with (frustration) might be what led her to prostitution , though mine was due to a drug i was taking as a result of health complications.. later got addicted resorted to crack ...omo !!! no be here (5 yrs i will live to regret) ...led to depression shaa, my aggression and every other stuff got very bad i aged quickly and looked rough ...24 now but people i know are up to 30 -33 do greet me even some of my friends wife...
stopped(about 2yrs + now)

Tankunland:
And last Please if you are too weak to move on or too tired to live again and you think suicide is your escape please speak out, yes some would laugh at you and call you names but speak out as there is that one person that would listen to you.

I LOVE YOU SHOLA AND REST IN PEACE

i don't even know what to say ...
thank God for your life... your strong bro..

bro thanks a lot
i love it, can i mail you please.

kalufelix:
Wow..what a wonderful piece... I made cautious efforts to change course switch career and started using drugs so i could atleast shut my brain and get 3hours of sleep...

when i did drugs i could last 3 days without sleep...there was this time i stayed for up to a week plus without sleep..i forgot my laptop @ school and went home with an empty laptop bag...finally lapsed inside keke though.. one of the things i love most is that endless researches in different fields and actually excelling like you've been there before.. people think you are a genius they see your near perfection but you see the million things you cant do.
But the depression aspect don't really know what always causes it... really can't say the pain never goes away, it's just the only one thing left to figure out.... sometimes you skip a day..some days you feel trapped in a loop, like you're reliving that particular day the thousandth time.. god life is really scary.

Zikar:
Elon Musk isn't depressed.

people do hide their stuffs very well ... you will understand once you're there , only the fear of people finding out will make you mask it.

Things are still tough but never felt better, i know i will pull through someday, i can never give up, i think i have passed that stage. The battle remains my secret.
To the those out there going through the same stuff, to those with different stories of loss and pain.. you're the definition of strong and fearless, you're capable, you're brave, you are loved.