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we don't want to mess up and that is what you want to hear.

this should be a personal question, would you mind if sleeps around while you are on break and you don't? If you don't mind then break up you both fooling yourselves

babycakes, you cannot call him a looser! you are going through the same and I am in one. Listen, what you Nigerian girls don't know is that men are different. Some men don't like to be presssured at all, for me it pushes me away to take tha step even though I care about her so much. Girls who put pressure on men make men feel like they been manipulated although a side of him might say she is not. For him to stay that long trust me he is enjoying  rest of mind and he is very comfortable with her but she is pushing him and it is irritating. ( deep things to know)

On the other hand, he might be going through some emotional things which could be from his family and he is afraid mess up with her as he has seen before with a family blood member and he knows he also has those tendencies and he does not want to hurt her. If he comes back listen to him and lay down some rules, don't throw yourself to him and let him see you from afar and miss what he has always had and he will understand ( deep things to know from a man)

personally on the first look I get more attracted to tall well shaped girls or probably I should say slim girls. I might begin to like a fat girl    if she got good character and an appealing attitude. 

GUYS!, is the relationship going to turn to marraige or what. Let us face reality, you are like 19 years of age to 21 or younger, still going to college and have no plan or focus on a relationship leading to marriage and you have a girlfriend, you are both enjoying each others company, experimenting to gain experience and having sex. Men, the girl should understand. What does the girl want, me calling her, taking her out everyday and reading her bed time stories? A girl who is not ready for sexual relationship should not even smell relationship because the question will definately come except he his "the boy is nice" (Slacker).

first of all, how old is this girl? Has she exprienced sex before, what kind of family is she from, Omo ur mouth dey whaaaaazaaaa?, what is her religion. All this matters forget love for now. If she and urself are good with all these and then start to think of is she seeing somebody else and she believes if she kisses you she becomes a slot while she is already kissing another guy. All these matters. Omo Love na game o make you sharp well well

see, it don't matter. if you begin to see who calls first it becomes a competition thing and ego falls in. Naturally the men starts to do the calling and when a woman deeply falls in love with you she will be calling all the time. Anyways women (i mean matured women) don't want men who run after them and very predictable, they want the man in control, but not too much and become abusive.
don't get me wrong you still need to call your woman to strenghten your relationship with sweet words and so, and that is very important.

I think he is so sexually attracted to you or he finds your body irresistable if you both come close. If he only does in the public then it is what he enjoys, he is very comfortable with you and can show off with you anywhere. Question: How long have you both been together?
Have you heard of reverse phsycology? Be twice more affectionate than he is to you in the public he will understand.

sup james? first thing you lack self esteem in yourself, and the funny thing is no one said you were ugly you just think you are. Your ability not to handle rejection is another bad factor u have however I understand. Ma guy, you don't expect every lady to say yes to you in your first move. Ladies like attention, do some follow up and really mean it or fake it, they just want to see some seriousness and have some security. You have to love yourself first that will naturally bring out your pride and confidence follows remmember you only got yourself and lastly make use of your gift or talent you have with pride it will make room for you.

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I Heard Interest Rate On Fixed Savings Account In Nigeria Is High. Is That True? I need to know the lowdown on this. Please enlighten me on this topic.

Oracle who is this guy with bear chest? ...Abeg make e go wear shirt sef, He needs to hit the gym

you know what, bettyboop you are right. It is nice that we have different artist springing up however the quality of their production is lacking bad. I know some of my Americans friends who want me to buy them the 2 face idibia cd ( African Queen) americans here are begining to appreciate our african hiphop style; for us to get full acceptance we need quality right now. And you know Naija forever represent if you need backup and support!

tu face, he holds it down. Big ups to him if that is his next step. We don't mind supporting him if he gets a contract in the states.

who knows anything about AJA area

You know you are right Ijebuman. When I was in Nigeria some years ago I was living on the island actually very near the bar beach, and there was a rise in sea level that flooded the whole area including houses close to the sea. It has been predicted it might happen again in the near future. It might look good but the risk tied around it is great.

there is something I like about london, it makes you feel close to home(naija). the enviroment is crowded however you still get the naija flavor in it, the music, clothings, shopping and gists. I love places like that. I represent for naija anytime.

I really don't have up to 8 million naira but I can raise something, however whatabout other areas apart from lekki. Are there still available lands and houses in ikeja, Obanikoro, ilupeju, or any other cool area

WOWO means "terrible" period!

there is nothing wrong with wearing pink. I have got compliments from ladies when i wear a pink shirt with slacks.

first of all is it legit or not and what are the risks.

I do not live in the naija but what I know is 4000 naira is not enough to do anything or do you mean 400,000 naira? except you start i at a very very very very small scale. I will advice buy and sell anything people need every minute and hour like water or buy used video game for little kids.

i don't leave in Nigeria but with the value of money in Naija now, I don't know what 4000.00 naira can do, or do you mean 400,000 naira?

Any knowlege about real estate in Nigeria, is it a good advice to go into it.