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Jobs/Vacancies / Urgents...pls Check It Out by Benard5050: 6:16pm On Aug 17, 2021
Guys pls can this generator power dry iron?
SPG3000E2

Romance / Guys Check This Out by Benard5050: 5:50pm On Aug 17, 2021
Guys pls can this generator power dry iron?
SPG3000E2

Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Which Generator Is Best For Iron by Benard5050: 4:56am On Aug 17, 2021
Ayanya:
I'm not sure nd ts late to check but what i know is dat Firman products are strong and good. Mine is quite big and was around 220k as at 2yrs ago. U might want to consider making a budget of 100k so as to get one with high enough capacity for d purpose u want it to serve. You know things are now more expensive due to exchange rate. I hope ds helps



Okay Tanx

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Which Generator Is Best For Iron by Benard5050: 9:26pm On Aug 16, 2021
Ayanya:
Firman products are great,just buy a new one form a reliable source. Using mine for about 2 yrs now without any fault.


What's d capacity(Kva) of the one youre using and do u have an idea of d price now pls?
Romance / Re: Which Generator Is Best For Iron by Benard5050: 6:13pm On Aug 16, 2021
Kaluoko:
Na sumec u need.but ur budget is short.betta complete am buy sumec cos of atories that touch the heart.

How much do you think I can get it?
Romance / Which Generator Is Best For Iron by Benard5050: 5:57pm On Aug 16, 2021
I'm planning to open a laundry business pls prescribe a generator that can power iron, washing machine and pumping machine. Not the one that can power all at a time oo...

But d one that can power one at a time.

Budget is 75k/80k
Romance / Re: Which Generator Is Best For Iron by Benard5050: 2:49pm On Aug 16, 2021
Godada:


About #85000

Ok Tanx sir
Properties / Re: Which Generator Is Best For Iron by Benard5050: 2:14pm On Aug 16, 2021
Ngenge:
Any generator that uses diesel or water can serve

Diesel generators are always costly and won't suit my budget
Romance / Re: Which Generator Is Best For Iron by Benard5050: 2:12pm On Aug 16, 2021
Godada:
Sumec fireman 2900

Can you guess d price sir
Properties / Which Generator Is Best For Iron by Benard5050: 1:30pm On Aug 16, 2021
I'm planning to open a laundry business pls prescribe a generator that can power iron, washing machine and pumping machine. Not the one that can power all at a time oo...

But d one that can power one at a time.

Budget is 75k/80k
Romance / Which Generator Is Best For Iron by Benard5050: 1:24pm On Aug 16, 2021
I'm planning to open a laundry business pls prescribe a generator that can power iron, washing machine and pumping machine. Not the one that can power all at a time oo...

But d one that can power one at a time.

Budget is 75k/80k
Jobs/Vacancies / Which Generator Is Best For Iron by Benard5050: 12:55pm On Aug 16, 2021
I'm planning to open a laundry business pls prescribe a generator that can power iron, washing machine and pumping machine. Not the one that can power all at a time oo...

But d one that can power one at a time.

Budget is 75k/80k
Family / Re: Opinions Needed Asap by Benard5050: 7:32pm On Aug 13, 2021
Monogamy:
Check jumia for type of washing machines available in Nigeria, compare the rate and review about the product.

You should have your answers.

It's advisable to buy the materials needed in real office not online...

Okay sir
Politics / Re: Opinions Needed Asap by Benard5050: 6:36pm On Aug 13, 2021
Opinion needed pls
Family / Re: Opinions Needed Asap by Benard5050: 6:36pm On Aug 13, 2021
Opinions needed pls
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Pls Recommend For Me by Benard5050: 3:52pm On Aug 13, 2021
Thank u guys, more opinions needed pls
Family / Opinions Needed Asap by Benard5050: 11:06am On Aug 13, 2021
Guys, I'm starting a laundry business very soon and I'll be buying a washing machine this coming week. I planned to start from home due to my teaching job, I don't want to leave it now, so I'll be doing the work after I close from work and the weekend.

Even though I'm still hustling for capital but I have seen 100k and I want to make judicial use of it.....guys pls recommend d washing machine I can buy and pal recommend d generator that can power iron for me...i know 100k won't be enough I still plan to look for a little more money to d money on ground.
Romance / Re: Opinions Needed Asap by Benard5050: 9:36am On Aug 13, 2021
Guys I dey wait o pls
Politics / Opinions Needed Asap by Benard5050: 9:08am On Aug 13, 2021
Guys, I'm starting a laundry business very soon and I'll be buying a washing machine this coming week. I planned to start from home due to my teaching job, I don't want to leave it now, so I'll be doing the work after I close from work and the weekend.

Even though I'm still hustling for capital but I have seen 100k and I want to make judicial use of it.....guys pls recommend d washing machine I can buy and pal recommend d generator that can power iron for me...i know 100k won't be enough I still plan to look for a little more money to d money on ground.
Romance / Re: Opinions Needed Asap by Benard5050: 8:58am On Aug 13, 2021
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Romance / Opinions Needed Asap by Benard5050: 7:49am On Aug 13, 2021
Guys, I'm starting a laundry business very soon and I'll be buying a washing machine this coming week. I planned to start from home due to my teaching job, I don't want to leave it now, so I'll be doing the work after I close from work and the weekend.

Even though I'm still hustling for capital but I have seen 100k and I want to make judicial use of it.....guys pls recommend d washing machine I can buy and pal recommend d generator that can power iron for me...i know 100k won't be enough I still plan to look for a little more money to d money on ground.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Pls Recommend For Me by Benard5050: 6:19am On Aug 13, 2021
No comment guys, Nairaland not like this b4
Career / Re: Pls Recommend For Me by Benard5050: 6:18am On Aug 13, 2021
Hmm
Career / Re: Pls Recommend For Me by Benard5050: 9:31pm On Aug 12, 2021
I have dry iron

I've paid for the pressing table

I've done fliers

I planned using my residence for now and when d business expand will rent a shop


My main problem is the Washing machine and generator...

I need to know d quality product to buy and as things be now e be like say na one out of d two my 100k fit buy...

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Career / Pls Recommend For Me by Benard5050: 8:29pm On Aug 12, 2021
Guys, I'm starting a laundry business very soon and I'll be buying a washing machine this coming week. I planned to start from home due to my teaching job, I don't want to leave it now, so I'll be doing the work after I close from work and the weekend.

Even though I'm still hustling for capital but I have seen 100k and I want to make judicial use of it.....guys pls recommend d washing machine I can buy and pal recommend d generator that can power iron for me...i know 100k won't be enough I still plan to look for a little more money to d money on ground.
Jobs/Vacancies / Pls Recommend For Me by Benard5050: 8:15pm On Aug 12, 2021
Guys, I'm starting a laundry business very soon and I'll be buying a washing machine this coming week. I planned to start from home due to my teaching job, I don't want to leave it now, so I'll be doing the work after I close from work and the weekend.

Even though I'm still hustling for capital but I have seen 100k and I want to make judicial use of it.....guys pls recommend d washing machine I can buy and also a generator that can power iron for me...i know 100k won't be enough I still plan to look for a little more money to d money on ground.
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Teachers Are Urgently Needed by Benard5050: 9:37pm On Aug 11, 2021
Is there accommodation and what's d pay like?
Politics / Re: Dickson: Secondus Cannot Be Stampeded To Resign by Benard5050: 8:17pm On Aug 09, 2021
Politics is really a dirty game

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Politics / Re: How Personal Interests Fuel PDP Crisis Ahead 2023 by Benard5050: 2:00pm On Aug 08, 2021
That's politics for u
Politics / Re: Oba Of Benin Gets Quadruplets by Benard5050: 6:54pm On Aug 06, 2021
Congratulations to His Majesty Omo N’Oba N’Edo Uku Akpolokpolo Ewuare II
Romance / Re: Who Is A Narcissist And How Are You Sure You Are Not Dating Or About To Date One by Benard5050: 5:24pm On Aug 05, 2021
binarymachine:
I thought you loved me… you used to be so charming and nice to me, texting me almost every second of the day…..oh babe, you’re so nice, you’re beautiful, we are so compatible. Come meet my mom. Two months into the Relationship, Boom. The real narcissistic personality comes out. They are not able to regulate their emotions any longer. They become very angry quickly especially when they’re not getting their way, they become very hypersensitive to criticism. They literally doubts you on almost everything leaving you feeling like you’ve gone crazy.

Narcissistic partners are very captivating at the initial stage of a relationship and with time, the relationship becomes very challenging, how well do you know your partner? How well can you tell if they have these traits? Accordingly, There are certain things to look out for in your partner to conclusively tell he or she is narcissistic.

The term “Narcissism” is most times used in recent years without understanding it’s indept meaning. Let’s look at the meaning of narcissism.

What is Narcissism?

Narcissism as otherwise seen as Narcissistic personality disorders (NPD) by psychologist is defined as a trait that solely relates to insecurity, a pattern which is characterized by lack of empathy, controlling, arrogant, inability for one to manage any kind of disappointment, chronic validation seeking, feeling entitled, grandiosity, extremely self centered with some degree of selfishness. Study shows that there are 4 types of Narcissism and not all Narcissist are the same. For the purpose of this topic I may not want to go into that. Alot of people have either found themselves in relationships with such partners or encountered people who exhibit these tendencies.

Who Is A Narcissistic Partner?

Narcissistic Partner is an insecure person in a relationship who seem very charming and nice at the start of a relationship but later becomes that person who lacks empathy, feels entitled, always expecting special treatment to be given to them but nobody else, they’re very concerned about their appearance, very prone to throwing tantrums, with too much sense of self importance, they get angry very quickly especially if they don’t get their way.

How Well can you tell if your partner is a narcissist?

Ever noticed your partner liking and showing so much care at the beginning of the relationship and later declines as the likability decreases, they only tend to appreciate you when in need? They become highly self centered, Your value comes when you’re able to meet their needs, they get hurt and lash out easily, their only concerns are their goals and reputation, lacks empathy whereby your significant other should be loving. They are all about knowing how you feel about them. all about themselves. Desperately needing validation and adoration, Very controlling, watch their reaction toward criticism, do they over react? Are they very manipulative and defensive? Do they make you feel bad for ever speaking up? Are they the type that’s always on the “ I know more than you” side? Feeling too important, acting like they know more than their partner while their partner is always wrong? Projecting everything they can back at you leaving you feeling You’re not enough, Are they ready to sacrifice anything on the platter of their ego? With too much sense of entitlement? These are signs you should look out for in your partner, if you find these traits in them, it’s safe to say they may be narcissist.

Ultimately, Being in a relationship with a narcissistic partner takes alot of work and patience because they make you feel very special until these feelings start to shift , as soon as there are some stress in their system, maybe things not going as planned, work day didn’t go the way they want, kids behaving badly, they become manipulative, Gaslights you, egocentric, extremely self centered and you begin to blame yourself for their actions, you devalue yourself, you loose focus and self esteem.

Narcissistic partners projects issues or fault back unto their partners, they say things like, “you made me do what I did, you didn’t allow me to finish what I had to say, you interrupted me” . Once this happens, you may not want to confront them any longer, they dismiss you with that, they make you understand their point is more important than what you had to say. The point you’re trying to make at that point doesn’t make any sense. They make you look like you’re the controlling one while they are ,trying to make you feel you’re the one with the issue here, and you’ll just pull back and begin to apologize. This is exactly what they want ,they want you to feel you’re the one with the problem and not them. If you try to point their mistakes or remind them, maybe they forgot to pay some bills they promised, they will be like” because you’ve done it before, please face your problems.

People in this relationship always feel they’re not enough“ If I was enough, he wouldn’t cheat on me, if I was enough, he wouldn’t insult me, if I was enough, he would be present when I needed him, if I was enough he wouldn’t do this and that” These aching feeling of not being enough is one of those Signs you’re currently in a relationship with a narcissist, you keep making excuses for them , hoping they’ll change, but no matter how you try, they just make you feel you’re never enough. Oh please, just stop this, the truth is that it has nothing to do with you, they just can’t regulate their self esteem, they’re are now insecure, they now feel entitled, broken inside, they tend to protect it by all means, they feel no one is better than them.

Unfortunately, people with narcissistic personality often see nothing wrong with what they do, as such there’s no point for change in them, in as much as a narcissist cannot completely change, there are certain things they could do in hope to recovering such Relationship. Narcissistic partners should break out of the norm and focus on showing more empathy for others, they should care about how others feel, they should drop their ego, Stop thinking they are better than others, they should welcome critics as a step to their growth and reviving a narcissistic Relationship.
Source:
https://flipmemes.com/2021/06/25/narcissistic-relationship-how-well-can-you-tell-if-you-are-dating-a-narcissist/


I can't believe I'm a typical example of this cry cry cry

I want to change pls

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