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Romance › Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by Benard94(op): 3:53pm On Nov 13, 2014
samflexxy:
yes I can cause there's no law that condemns it
what of societal and some religion laws
Romance › Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by Benard94(op): 3:21pm On Nov 13, 2014
samflexxy:
i don't see anything wrong in it
u can do it? what is ur reason?
Romance › Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by Benard94(op): 10:10pm On Nov 12, 2014
views....
Romance › Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by Benard94(op): 8:05pm On Nov 12, 2014
FLAWLES:
question for d GODDESS!!! bt dis 1na MU,MU kwestion oo
well... dts ur view. if u hear the arguements of those in support, u wont say dt
Romance › Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by Benard94(op): 7:59pm On Nov 12, 2014
trisha01:
dis kin question sef huh
what is ur view?
Romance › Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by Benard94(op): 7:46pm On Nov 12, 2014
There is this raging arguement in my area as to if one could date/marry his/her cousin. Some stood frankly against it while others saw no crack in it. Apart, what is the measure of closeness where one could restrict dating? Is cousin-dating ethical?
Romance › Re: Excessive Masturbation Leads To Infertility by Benard94(op): 5:34pm On Nov 07, 2014
[quote
author=Pennywise post=27810224]Those who want to masthurbate should go
ahead. It is better than risking HIV, syphilis and related problems with
strange girls. You have to be alive to consider whether you are able to
have kids or not. For those inhibited by the fear of God, pst Chris
says whip it out and masthurbate it.[/quote]must we leave d worst for d bad when gud is available? strange philosophy
Romance › Excessive Masturbation Leads To Infertility by Benard94(op): 4:58pm On Nov 07, 2014
Research has made it clear that some (not all) folks became sterile because in their days of self servicing, they have mast urbated all fertile seeds off their domain.
U may argue this with the uttermost plight of sensuality and prejudice but it is crystal clear that mast urbation wastes. Instead of unreasoneable religion pivots of later prayers,fastings or holy water, it is expedient to get off this hook and preserve seed for the next generatn.
N.B. Not applicable to all infertility. (because some may start a blind arguement with a foundation that stands on a slopy slate)
Romance › Re: Categories Of Relationship Searchers by Benard94(op): 4:41pm On Nov 02, 2014
mojeed4:
u forgot the divorced
dude! divorced are single too. divorce flows in d stream of married and unmarried.
Romance › Re: Categories Of Relationship Searchers by Benard94(op): 4:38pm On Nov 02, 2014
[quote
author=sylvalord post=27663754]DUDE U R THE ONE NOT THINKING STRAIGHT.
IF DARKNESS ISN'T THE OPPOSITE OF LIGHT, THEN WHAT IS? ITS EITHER U R
"SEARCHING" OR "NOT SEARCHING" GOT IT?[/quote]u av myopic view of it. anyway...
Romance › Re: Categories Of Relationship Searchers by Benard94(op): 1:36pm On Nov 02, 2014
Ameerasexy:
Is number 6 even possible..LOL shocked
very possible. Those whose homes are endurance nt enjoyment.
Romance › Re: Categories Of Relationship Searchers by Benard94(op): 6:56am On Nov 02, 2014
[quote
author=sylvalord post=27649942]OP ARE U ALRIGHT? undecided TOPIC SAYS
"CATEGORIES OF SEARCHERS" PLS TELL ME HOW THE BOLDED NUMBERS FIT
IN.[/quote]put on ur brain glasses and think. NOT SEARCHING is a level of searching. Darkness isnt an opposite of light,it is just d absence of it. Not searching is an inactive searcher. I do not say NO SEARCHERS but NOT SEARCHING. Always think well.
Romance › Re: Categories Of Relationship Searchers by Benard94(op): 10:55pm On Nov 01, 2014
Missmossy:
Funny list.
choose ur number. it isnt funny
Romance › Re: Categories Of Relationship Searchers by Benard94(op): 3:06pm On Nov 01, 2014
major466:
The list is authentic. Everyone is covered here. No escape.
ur number...
Romance › Re: Categories Of Relationship Searchers by Benard94(op): 1:37pm On Nov 01, 2014
iceberylin:
No 9 tho grin
pity
Romance › Re: Categories Of Relationship Searchers by Benard94(op): 11:53am On Nov 01, 2014
Harmthe:
grin
Choose urs
Romance › Categories Of Relationship Searchers by Benard94(op): 11:16am On Nov 01, 2014
These are the basic categories:
1. Single but not searching
2. Single and searching
3. Single but seriously searching
4. Married but searching
5. Married but not searching
6. Married and seriously searching
7. Searched out but still searching
8. Searched out but not searching
9. Searched, sacked and seriously searching
10. Single and searching for searchers

You will fall into any of this basic categories. Classify yourself without prejudice.
Jokes Etc › Re: Which Tribe Is This Child? by Benard94(op): 8:13am On Oct 29, 2014
achinaboy:
my tribe,,,igbo,ok?
u think so
Romance › Re: Virgin's Forum by Benard94(op): 7:28pm On Oct 28, 2014
akinsal:
Wow i love this and i av been following this thread for a couple of months now. as a matter of fact i am one of dis who look for ppls trouble especially in sexuality section but dis thread made me av a new perception about dis issue and dats why i av newly registered dis ID.

I must say it isnt easy remaining a Virgin 28. @times i ask myself if im okay sexually? but d urge is there so dat gives me an answer dat im okay. probably because of my upbringing, shyish nature,lessons learnt frm ppls mistakes and God's support dats why i av been able to uphold it.

Anyone who has schooled in a typical nigerian higher institution will agree wth me dat virginity is nothing. I remember back den in sch while studying in night class i see guyz and gals in dark corners doing d thing @ d peak of d night some even do it on concrete gutters i just wonder how useless such ppl could b to d extent dat dey find dia self in such a place. some ppl call it konji however i think its a demonic issue.

while a corper i served in a local govt in southsouth nigeria where its lik d major occupation of d ladies both married and unmarried is
prostitution. infact while i was a church usher i do recieve txt msgs frm dos choir girls. however i just take it as a test frm probably d pastor or frm some quarters to know d kind of church worker they have. Sometimes i feel wat if d msgs wasnt wat d person intended? dat means i will embarass myself approaching d lady who sent d txt. dat will b so shamefull to me...Lolz.

but i av dis principle dat keeps me goin and its if i can survive in dat island where i served den i can survive anywhere.

dos who av served as a corper will agree to this fact that it seems dias an immorality that comes upon dem bth guyz and ladies. u see ladies who are engaged or even in a relationship messing dia selves up while in service. infact dat alone made me to loose hope in finding a graduate who can boast of being a virgin. except very very few once among them. and mayb dats d reason for d NCCF and NACC,MCAN thinggy. i believe dia strict rules goez a long way in helping youth corpers in dia way of life while in service.

The advise however is that if u are a virgin @ a marriageable age i think its best u get a spouse who is @ ur level(i.e if u are d spiricoco type look for d same person like u. if u b open eye virgin look for open eye spouse like u) so dat the two of u will learn it together. but in order to achieve this u need God. u can av it as a prayer point wat kind of spouse u want and definitely God answers such prayers. it may tarry however it cant b too late.

for dos who are 16 and above i think u can still make it it all depends on ur mindset and determination. its not hard @all being a virgin just watch d kind of friends u disclose virginity issues to cos most will advice u wrongly. move wth friends who av good moral virtues and dat will help u.

Also d advantage of being a virgin is dat dias dis "trust" issues ur spouse will av on u.
I believe as long as i dont marry a virgin i cant believe it even if she tells me she only had done it once.

d issues is however how to keep being faithfull to ur partner even after marriage. because its been said dat virginity doesnt determine a goid marriage.research has shown dat most virgins after marriage do worst dan dos who wernt virgins in d first place.mayb d curiousity to know how sex will b wth other opposite sex. outside marriage. all in all i think u need God in all u do.

as for me wat i av experienced wth ppls way of life has made me not to b in a haste to b in a relationship except i am fully sure of d virginity status of such person.

for dos who av lost dia virginity, i will say its however not de end of d world. my advise is such dat u shud stop being promiscous and live an upright life. do not b swayed by material pleasures.

#Proudly a virgin @ 28 and im loving it#
Love it...keep the right track
Romance › Re: Virgin's Forum by Benard94(op): 7:27pm On Oct 28, 2014
OlaBlaize:
I don't think so.
Wear your glasses and check my initial comments
Jokes Etc › Which Tribe Is This Child? by Benard94(op): 7:17pm On Oct 28, 2014
Tribe...

Sports › Premier League 2014 Summer Transfer Wrap-up by Benard94(op): 12:35pm On Sep 02, 2014
The transfer window slammed shut on Monday night with a new record high for top-flight clubs' spending of over £800 million.
ARSENAL

In: Alexis Sanchez (Barcelona, £31.8m), Calum Chambers (Southampton, £16m), Danny Welbeck (Manchester United , £16m), Mathieu Debuchy (Newcastle, £8m), David Ospina (Nice, £3.5m), Elias Chatzitheodoridis (Mas Kallitheakos, Undisclosed), Hugo Keto (HJK Helsinki, Undisclosed), Ben Sheaf (West Ham, Undisclosed).

Out: Thomas Vermaelen (Barcelona, £15m), Johan Djourou (Hamburg, £2.5m), Thomas Eisfeld (Fulham, Undisclosed), Ignasi Miquel (Norwich City, Undisclosed) Zak Ansah (Charlton Athletic), Lukasz Fabianski (Swansea City), Zachari Fagan (Welling United), Bacary Sagna (Manchester City), Chuks Aneke (Zulte Waregem), Nicklas Bendtner (Wolfsburg), Leander Siemann (Porto B), Wellington Silva (Almeria, Loan), Carl Jenkinson (West Ham United, Loan), Benik Afobe (MK Dons, Loan), Ryo Miyaichi (FC Twente, Loan) Jon Toral (Brentford).

Released: Daniel Boateng, Park Chu-Young.

ASTON VILLA
In: Carlos Sanchez (Elche, Undisclosed), Joe Cole (West Ham), Aly Cissokho (Valencia, Undisclosed), Tom Leggett, Isaac Nehemie (Both Southampton, Undisclosed), Philippe Senderos (Valencia), Kieran Richardson (Fulham).

Out: Jordan Bowery (Rotherham United, £250,000), Samir Carruthers (MK Dons, Undisclosed), Karim El Ahmadi (Feyenoord, Undisclosed), Marc Albrighton (Leicester City), Nathan Delfouneso (Blackpool), Nicklas Helenius (Aalborg, Loan), Yacouba Sylla (Erciyesspor, Loan), Jed Steer (Doncaster Rovers, Loan), Antonio Luna (Verona, Loan), Daniel Johnson (Chesterfield, Loan), Aleksander Tonev (Celtic, Loan), Janoi Donacien (Tranmere, Loan), Joe Bennett (Brighton, Loan).

Released: Aidan Grant, Andras Stieber.

BURNLEY
In: Lukas Jutkiewicz (Middlesbrough, £1.5m), Marvin Sordell (Bolton, Undisclosed), Michael Kightly (Stoke City, Undisclosed), Stephen Ward (Wolves, Undisclosed), George Boyd (Hull City, Undisclosed), Matt Gilks (Blackpool), Steven Reid (West Brom), Matt Taylor (West Ham), Nathaniel Chalobah (Chelsea, Loan), Michael Keane (Manchester United, Loan).

Out: David Edgar (Birmingham City), Joseph Mills (Oldham), Junior Stanislas (Bournemouth), Chris Baird (West Brom), Luke O'Neill (Scunthorpe United, Loan).

Released: Kyle Brownhill, Alex Coleman, Luke Conlan, Jack Errington, Micah Evans, Luke Gallagher, Nick Liversedge, Archie Love, Brian Stock, Keith Treacy.

CHELSEA

In: Diego Costa (Atletico Madrid, £35m), Cesc Fabregas (Barcelona, £30m), Filipe Luis (Atletico Madrid, £15.8m), Loic Remy (QPR, £8.5m), Mario Pasalic (Hajduk Split, £2.4m), Didier Drogba (Galatasaray).

Out: David Luiz (Paris Saint-Germain, £50m), Romelu Lukaku (Everton, £28m), Demba Ba (Besiktas, £4.7m), Patrick van Aanholt (Sunderland, Undisclosed), Ashley Cole (Roma), Sam Hutchinson (Sheffield Wednesday), Frank Lampard (New York City FC), George Cole, Daniel Pappoe (Both Brighton & Hove Albion), Billy Clifford (Walsall), Tomas Kalas (Cologne, Loan), Wallace (Vitesse Arnhem, Loan), Thorgan Hazard (Borussia Mönchengladbach, Loan), Bertrand Traore (Vitesse Arnhem, Loan), Cristian Cuevas (Club Universidad de Chile, Loan), Mario Pasalic (Elche, Loan), Ryan Bertrand (Southampton, Loan), Gael Kakuta (Rayo Vallecano, Loan), John Swift (Rotherham, Loan), Oriol Romeu (Stuttgart, Loan), Kenneth Omeruo (Middlesbrough, Loan), Christian Atsu (Everton, Loan), Marko Marin (Fiorentina, Loan), Josh McEachran (Vitesse Arnhem, Loan), Victor Moses (Stoke, Loan), Fernando Torres, Marco van Ginkel (both AC Milan, Loan), Nathaniel Chalobah (Burnley, Loan).

Released: Samuel Eto'o, Henrique Hilario, Milan Lalkovic, Adam Nditi, Jhon Pirez.

CRYSTAL PALACE
In: Martin Kelly (Liverpool, £1.5m), Fraizer Campbell (Cardiff City, £900,000), James McArthur (Wigan, Undisclosed), Zeki Fryers (Tottenham, Undisclosed), Chris Kettings (Blackpool), Brede Hangeland (Fulham), Kevin Doyle (Wolves, Loan), Wilfried Zaha (Manchester United,
Health › Ebola Versus Cooking Ingredients by Benard94(op): 3:52pm On Aug 08, 2014
can anyone tell me what happened to this baby?

Romance › Rate This Couple by Benard94(op): 2:30pm On Jul 25, 2014
Pls is this Photoshoped or real?

Romance › Re: Dress To Kill by Benard94(op): 11:25pm On Jul 23, 2014
geni340: nofin bad in it...i show mi cleavage once in a wile
U
Romance › Re: Dress To Kill by Benard94(op): 2:15pm On Jul 23, 2014
Karleb: Simplicity = moderation, don't under-dress and don't over-dress.
A good point
Romance › Re: Dress To Kill by Benard94(op):
Karleb: Should there be a dressing standard? Yes!


What should the standard be? Simplicity! wink
Can u try to demystify it...simplicity may seem ambiguous to some folk
Christianity Etc › Re: Debate: E-bible Vs Hard Copy Bible by Benard94(op): 8:29pm On Jul 22, 2014
Jackeeh: Colossians 3:16 - the first nine words. Joshua 1:8. It doesn't really matter if it's e book or hard copy. What matters most is how much of the word you know, meditate on and apply.
Hmmm..m.more
Christianity Etc › Debate: E-bible Vs Hard Copy Bible by Benard94(op): 3:58pm On Jul 22, 2014
This is not a thread of assaults and abuse. As the real world is gradually swallowed by the e-world. In the church, should e-bible subvert hard copy?
Prove your points... Biblical references are welcomed.
Romance › Re: Dress To Kill by Benard94(op): 3:49pm On Jul 22, 2014
Hmmm...
Romance › Re: Virgin's Forum by Benard94(op): 2:02am On Jul 22, 2014
MrDoGood: u dey look for wife?
U av one for me?
Romance › Dress To Kill by Benard94(op): 5:44pm On Jul 21, 2014
Dressing to some doesn't depict morals (especially the female gender). Putting on of seductive, sensitive and suggestive dresses is rampant in our society even among d so called married. Look at d response of some ladies:
1. I am myself, dey should keep off their eyes
2. Can't they control themselves and stay?
3. I dress for myself not for anyone to see
4. I can dress d way I like, d best guy will still come for me etc

Outcome:
Some were raped and some are still single at 35.

Decency in dressing is not pride, u dress well, u keep your life

Question:
Should there be a dressing standard? If yes, what is d standard...?

#onlyfrommaturedbrains#

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