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Romance › Re: HIV Test by Benard94(m): 12:50pm On Jan 11, 2016
luvguy:
guity kid
it is guilt nt guit...u knw yourself
Romance › What Is The Significance Of White Wedding Gown by Benard94(op): 12:48pm On Jan 11, 2016
Why do brides use white as wedding gown? I suppose it connotes being chaste...or is it wrong?
If am right, i think some shouldn't wear white.
#justsayinginpassing#
Romance › Re: Height : When Do You Say Someone Is Tall Or Short .... by Benard94(m): 12:41pm On Jan 11, 2016
sexyexcalibur:
so for you, ?
i dnt live in the world of imaginations. Bring them to my house, i will tell u my standview pts.
Romance › Re: What Is Your Definition Of Love? by Benard94(m): 12:36pm On Jan 11, 2016
I don't knw wat is love but i knw wat is not
Romance › Re: Height : When Do You Say Someone Is Tall Or Short .... by Benard94(m): 12:32pm On Jan 11, 2016
Those words have no absolutes. They are relative my guy
Romance › Re: HIV Test by Benard94(m): 12:24pm On Jan 11, 2016
luvguy:
go 4 ur Hiv test nw, 4 ur own good.....so as 2 live longer oooo....dem no dey find black goat 4 nite oooo
we should look into excusing some minors like this from this forum
Romance › Re: .. by Benard94(m): 8:34am On Jan 11, 2016
chidekings:
How bro


Cc Lalasticlala,pls I need more contributions, just don't want to make a mistake I will regret
u put a leg in the river, crocodile chop am. Wetin go happen if na ur head u put to swim. If the girl should leave for a campus, u are forgotten my guy. Take ur heart off it and look fwrd to a stable girl. #mysisi#
Romance › Re: Hausa/fulani Guys Have Swag! by Benard94(m): 8:49pm On Jan 10, 2016
Is onila falling? Dnt just fall on fulani's dagger
Romance › Re: .. by Benard94(m): 8:45pm On Jan 10, 2016
chidekings:
Pls take out time to read as I try to explain this whole thing that have kept me emotional unblanced for some time.


I am a fair average successful guy,a businessman and a student,have been in relationships and ever since I started all this relationship stuff,I had never for once been emotionally attached to anyone and that's why up to today am still frnd with almost all my exes except for one.
Now the matter at hand,I started a relationship with this young girl of 21 on october,she has the qualities I thought I need in a woman,at the initial stage ot was all lovey dovey,she was all over me until December 6,she started been aloof and distant ,still pick my calls,still claims she loved me but everything changed.i tried within my power to find out what was wrong,she told me am being too serious about the whole stuff that she is fine and if any problem arises she will tell me.after that day she started been herself again.then on 24 Dec they traveled and she promised me she will come to the city and see me on 28.fast forward to 28,she did not come called me in the night saying her cousin sis had a weeding ceremony so she could not make it and promises to make it up to me.due to network wahala in the village we could not communicate until 3 she came back.she called me telling me they are back and promised to come see me sunday .on Saturday she came around where I make my daily living,she greeted almost everyone she knew there and yet she did not come to my side telling me later in the night that she did not want to disturb me and cancelling our meeting on Sunday claiming she is travelling.

This girl have some academic challanges which have been been disturbing her ,jamb have been making a mess of her education ,this year's jamb she is to write it with her younger sis she senior ed by 2yers. I had to ask the sis without my girls knowledge to let go of her own jamb for this year for my girl to be given a last chance,which she reluctantly agreed after much persuasion from me.

Here is my dilemma ,I have been emotionally attached to this girl and I want to have a future with her,my frnds have always said that I give easily on relationships that I got to fight to some extent the one I love,and most of my exes after break up always tell me that I never loved them cus at the slightest misunderstanding I give up...that's why am trying to fight for this one,should I give up on her,should I break up with her ,should I give her space?.and just confused on what to do.

Pls forgive my long epistle and grammatical blunders and render mature advice for me.

Cc decker,sonofmark,yourmain,and all naira sees
dont knw y people keep following those dt av long reverse 4rm following them
Romance › Why Do People Find It Hard To Believe Me? by Benard94(op): 12:03pm On Jan 09, 2016
Good day! I have been brooding on this issue for sometime but of recent, it seems answers are not coming.
I am a young guy between ages 26 and 28. I am friendly,active and move with people alot. Inspite this, i have never had a girl nor had s3x with any girl. The issue is that whenever discussion gets to that area and i tell people that, they laugh with a high level of disbelieve. I always re-affirm my reasons are determinatn and concentratn not to get involve in such act till marriage and ensuring i only get along with the girl i would marry and no s3x with that also(no heart breaks). No amount of explanatn made people believe me. Is it a strange thing? Some even rise from their depth of doubts that i try o...but i dnt see it big. It should be a norm as i see it. Why could people not believe me easily?
Romance › Re: Seemingly Contradictory, Can Someone Explain? by Benard94(op): 4:41pm On Jan 02, 2016
adepeter26:
Ladies, come in na undecided
Help me beg them o
Romance › Re: Seemingly Contradictory, Can Someone Explain? by Benard94(op): 4:16pm On Jan 02, 2016
Surprisingly! Gals are peeping from a long distance. Are they afraid to bail us out?
Romance › Re: Seemingly Contradictory, Can Someone Explain? by Benard94(op): 3:06pm On Jan 02, 2016
The answers am getting hinges on multiple dating from guys. Is this the apparent answer?
Romance › Re: Seemingly Contradictory, Can Someone Explain? by Benard94(op): 2:39pm On Jan 02, 2016
I am getting answers that are thought provoking but i think gals should contribute. This is more on their doorsteps.
Romance › Seemingly Contradictory, Can Someone Explain? by Benard94(op): 2:33pm On Jan 02, 2016
Welcome to 2016 my dear nairalanders!!!
I was pondering on a seemingly contradictory issue. When you ask single guys about their relationship status, 95% profess to be single and seriously single. Drawing the same question to the ladies' zone, 95% are also engaged.

This is confusing...who are the ladies dating? Pls i need answers
Christianity Etc › Re: If Jesus Were To Marry, Would He Consider You? by Benard94(op): 3:19pm On Dec 17, 2015
Solowande:
he would have married a virgin. just imagine a son of man born by a virgin married to a prostitute, god forbid.
Hmmm...
Christianity Etc › If Jesus Were To Marry, Would He Consider You? by Benard94(op): 2:34pm On Dec 17, 2015
Just thinking though...Jesus didnt get married and couldn't based on the biblical facts. As a lady, would Jesus ever consider you if he were to marry on earth?
Let us lay in mind the:
1. Moral Perversions
2. Misleading Pollutions
3. Methodical Prostitutions
4. Matrimonial Pornographers
5. Maker's(GOD) Purity
Guys are free to respond also...
Romance › Celebrate With Me by Benard94(op): 7:10am On Oct 28, 2015
Today is my birthday-28th October...the day i have been waiting for.

Although no girl to celebrate with me here...Nairalanders, wish me HBD to make it bubble...:-D
Crime › "AK47 & Bullets" SMS: How Would You Explain Your Innocence? by Benard94(op): 4:31pm On Oct 22, 2015
Police arrested you and collected your phone, a text message came in saying “Abeg if u da come, buy one AK-47 and 4 Bullets make we take do night things” hw do you explain to the police that your friend meant a vodka (Ak-47) and 4 Energy drinks. To make matters worst, your friend name hiz ROBART and you saved it as ROB-1 in your phone, wah will u do to convince the nigeria Policemenhuh
Romance › Re: Happenings To Ladies At Different Ages by Benard94(op): 9:52am On Oct 22, 2015
I have not seen any lady comment on this thread...are they embittered?
Romance › Re: Happenings To Ladies At Different Ages by Benard94(op): 8:54am On Oct 22, 2015
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Hard truth they can't swallow gringringrin[/color]
better swallowed nw
Romance › Re: Happenings To Ladies At Different Ages by Benard94(op): 8:46am On Oct 22, 2015
Beesluv:
lol
funny?
Romance › Happenings To Ladies At Different Ages by Benard94(op): 8:35am On Oct 22, 2015
Age 13-Avoid boys, they are evil. Age 18-I dnt want to see u with that boy again Age 23-We cant see ur bf yet Age 26-Where is ur bf? Ur mates are getting married Age 30-We av told u to stop selecting men Age 33-There is ds powerful man of God in Lagos, he has helped many ladies Age 39-Manage him like that, we will take care of the wedding Age 42-God if it pleases u'tears' Age 45-I need it anyhow whether jobless or poor, just be my husband
#Benard# Add yours...
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Needed…@Highest rates by Benard94(op): 4:24pm On Oct 03, 2015
fullstreets:
7th, ladies night. May d gods give my boss running stomach if him no close early dat day.
It no reach that now
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Needed…@Highest rates by Benard94(op): 12:27pm On Oct 03, 2015
dharay99:
is i† a mus† yhu quo†e mi.? mtcheeeeeeeww.!
why won't i when u spew irrelevances on a slate of greatness?
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Needed…@Highest rates by Benard94(op): 12:18pm On Oct 03, 2015
dharay99:
0c†ober 33rd.!
must u joke with everythg?
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Needed…@Highest rates by Benard94(op): 11:31am On Oct 03, 2015
Hope we are noting our buffday mates...av nt seen 28th o
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Needed…@Highest rates by Benard94(op):
Buying pi coin at the rate of 600 naira serious sellers should DM or contact me on 0.8.0.5.1.4.4.9.2.3.9
kindly check my Nairaland profile to confirm that I have been here for years now and I have clean track records of being legit.
Pls this is for serious ones only.
Thanks
Education › Re: For The Geniuses Only by Benard94(op): 6:28pm On Sep 21, 2015
Geniuses are few
Education › For The Geniuses Only by Benard94(op): 4:12pm On Sep 21, 2015
what is the answer? For the geniuses only.

Romance › Re: How Do We Define Indecent Dressing? by Benard94(op): 12:24pm On Sep 02, 2015
Ok...nice view.

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