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papyjaypaul:
Have you noticed women often say they want a man that is TALL, dark and handsome? Why do you think they chose height first? They want that protection even if it's just what it is, a tall guy. It's part of their DNA and hypergamy, women love protection and your height is one of it.

I mean, tall girls do have the advantage of literally seeing things from a higher/taller perspective, so they’ve probably got a clearer view of the bigger picture in life and relationships! 😆

First off, you’ve got to love the fact that they’re always above the drama . They’ve seen the height of it all, so they’ve got a pretty solid perspective on how to keep things calm. When life throws obstacles their way, they just step over them without heels, no problem. It's like they're built for emotional stability. Their shoes are already in their feet.

And don't get me started on their confidence! I mean, when you walk around with an extra few inches of height, you've got the altitude to feel top-notch. It’s no wonder they're more poised, like they've mastered the art of staying grounded while standing above everyone else. Height gives you confidence because you can see above small things. This is why women wear heels, even when they don't need to. If she can see your head as a guy, she can see where the nonsense you are spewing is coming from. You as the man will respect yourself before cappimg


But let's be real, shorter ladies might be dynamite in their own right, bringing the sass and spark probably because they are closer to the ground but for tall ladies, they might just be holding the emotional manual for how to navigate relationships with grace... and an extra legroom for flexibility. If you mess too much with her, she will give you a long jump kick. Don't mess with their hearts legs.

Some of them always mention tall because their IQ is low. Who told them that tall guys are stronger or so?

The strongest and toughest guys i have met so far are average and short. Tall guys looks weak to me especially the slim ones because they always lacks stamina.

Tall guys just mean to be taller than them or from average up to my understanding. All these are only seen online but offline girls choose or follow anyone with the swag or character they like.

Engineering sef is not that important again because many people have started studying it unlike before and we we are not advance nation that has much Engineering Tech sectors

You see Tech courses, they are the real deal because you can work anywhere.

Why should a woman be shy around her husband. I don't understand this topic

Women with their inferriority complex. Always not contented with the way they are.

Even the beautiful ones among them need men validation to accept they're pretty.

No matter how good looking a woman is, she will still be checking whether she is really among the hot ones, still be looking for artificial package to apply .

Funny gender

And you, what will ever give you the visiblity?

You will keep contesting till you reach old age without scoring 1M votes

The Muslim Muslim ticket is what even made Northern elites to support Tinubu against Atiku.

This Sowore is just jelous of Obi.

What keep making them mad is how a first time contestant scored 6M votes with small party. Something that has never happened before.

Nigeria election race has always been between two major parties but Obi came and change the game

They have finally woke up to support state police. Bandits has showed them shege

Malpractice is in every state.

The schools that are published normally are the ones that refuse to pay or settle the authority.

Another thing is states with high population must always be on top.

Ranking states for malptractice makes no sense . Must there be statistics for everything?

ShinjaWWest:
Obi,Igbos pride and president

Anyway God bless the good people of Southsouth and southwest

South South don't need your friendship

Friendship is not by force but mutual understanding and trust between two patners but unfortunately no part of south trust you

helinues:
2027 election is already a done deal for president Tinubu, we are only waiting for formality

We shall see

This one is just mocking people greater than him.

Is he cursed not to be great as well like the top men ?

Old man behaving like kid

Benue are their own problem.

Fulani can't settle and attack in your land if you didn't welcome them. Hold your politicians and community leaders accountable.

Anambra don't welcome them, that's why they don't attack even when the state borders Kogi. But they attack state like Bayelsa despite the location.

Kobojunkie:
Why would I want you to read a romantic book after clearly posting a link revealing the science behind the brain-chemicals that people confuse as love, many times?

2. If you were observing norms, you would not be regurgitating the same farce that people did many ignorant, maybe even bothering of delusional, ideas people threw about many hundreds/thousands of years ago, as though it were the norm of today.

3. Again, go read some books on human relationships and behavior in general, your brain, and maybe even critical thinking, to help rid you of these delusions you continue to cling to.

Okay, no need for further arguement.

Kobojunkie:
1. Please stop feeding yourself these nonsensical tales in these numerous attempts to evade responsibility for your own choices. The problem isn't with the women but with those of you who walk around life expecting all women to be the same when the same you would never expect that all men are the same. That is one of the biggest reasons why you choose women who are obviously bad for you, only so you can then turn around and complain that it is women to blame when the roosters come home to roost. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

2. How old are you, since I am not sure where you get that these women define love in the manner that you do? It almost seems more like you believe that because you think a thing the it is what others think. I really suggest you spend some time reading books so you can get past these ignorant ideas you hold regarding women and dating, as clearly you are well on your way to heartbreak and possibly loneliness with those things you have in your head.

3. Nonsense talk!

Alaye, i don't read romantic books. Am not the type

Am a human being and observe the norms in the society. I don't have to read book to know some things that is stearling at me as am in this world.

Are you into relationship or single let me know where your problem is from?

Kobojunkie:
1. It has nothing to do with your being soft but merely the fact that the feelings she once had have slowly faded over time. The exact same happens when a boy who initially liked her, after a while, no longer finds her appealing. And has absolutely nothing to do with the person that is no longer liked, but the person whose emotions are no longer as they were.

2. What you are trying to describe are the brain-chemical induced perceptions that people confuse with love. Yes, brain-chemical-induced feelings fade over time, and, naturally, since the brain can only withstand that much mental assault from those chemicals for only a short while.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u5CG_vEHrQE?si=5gUlbp1kqVAso9DO

Have told you the fact.

Even that woman currently with you is dating you for a reason. Financial benefit or other things she found attractive in you.

We men also love Beautiful ladies that is attractive which is lust. The women we truely love are our Mum and Sisters same for women.

When a woman is beatiful and attractive almost all men in her environment loves her and will like to date or marry her.

Kobojunkie:
1. What exactly is the point of shunning the girl in this case? She is not into him and acts on it. The most the guy would do in that case is walk away. So, why shun him as if she is expected to act according to his own emotional needs?

2. Nonsense! She is not into you, AND she does not owe you any respect at all. There is no law out there requiring others to give you the respect you feel you require from them, so why do you think it makes sense to insist others give you respect as though it is something you are entitled to? Don't you realize how absurd that thinking is?

3. Nonsense! He simply needs to try finding himself a girlfriend who is not only into him but also shares his ideas. That is the simplest, really.

Even a woman that initially loves you may later find you boring or weak and start disrespecting you if you're soft. What we call love most times is just lust and other attractive features both gender found in each other.

You're yet to understand women especially the ones of this generation.

Let me remind you again, love for this generation is just attractive features both genders posses. So don't whine yourself

Some women love for money, some love for your handsome appearance, some love for your hardness or ruggedness e.t.c. True love almost don't exist in this our generation

So when you're soft and also not rich, women won't find you attractive, therefore no love for you

almarthins:
Walk away without jealousy.

The sign is very visible that she doesn't love you like you want. She has romantic feeling towards other guy. Withdraw totally from her, and spend more time building ur self.

Not only about not being into him. The guy is too nice and the type that don't shun a woman when she did wrong.

A girl may not be into you but will give you maximum respect when she is with you.

She clearly don't love him, but the main issue is not regarding his presence as well which is totally bad.

If the guy keep being too soft, he will continue having same issue with other women. Women don't like soft men

dederocs:
Nobody invited them, they settled in Benin as offsprings of slaves of the Benin kingdom, Benin and Edo people never for once spoke about them, if they are tired of being in Benin, they can pack and go to where they like. I wonder why all these hysteria, Benin people have never talked about igbanke, inconsequential topic.

You're deceiving yourself.

Assume they truely settled in your land, the name of the settlement would have been Benin name and you would have influenced their language and culture just as many fulani in Nigeria can't speak fulbe but only speak hausa.

How woud they change the system when they make a lot of money from JAMB registration fee

Rhymesy:
How do you feel when a woman you love and cherish most constantly picks romantic calla in your presence?

Because the girl observed that you're a simp and can take any rubbish.

Shey when they tell you guys to man up, you thought the person is giving you wrong advice.

Ask yourself what else do you gain from the girl apart from Bleep. Is she the only girl in your town? Then why stick with a wayward girl that has no respect for you?. Abi u no sabi talk to women?

A real niqqa

And some mumu men will come online opening topics on how to be attractive to women

Whether you're ugly or handsome, your boldness and moves matters to women. The young man is not rich yet was able to seduce his oga daughter.

doncartel:
People don’t know that Michael Jackson was also from Anambra State.

People already knew that Michael Jackson is Kenyan

Not funny

Nice one.

All Igbos outside SE should not allow themselves to be manipulated.

FG keep making Nnamdi Kanu look smarter than the Government.

Am not IPOB fan but saying they are quiet after Nnamdi Kanu's arrest is a big lie.

Do you know howmany soldiers that has lost their life since they detened Nnamdi Kanu?


Abi you don't read news online ?

Nawa o

Why are Nigeria tribes so calm with these fulani bandits?

The funny thing is if a group start treating their Bleep up, some fellow southerners (yorubas) will be the first people to defend same fulani online and call the people intorelant, wicked.

The only way to stop these fulani bandits is never to welcome them in your forest. Don't ever give them land, you can be called wicked, trabalist that's all.

No matter how peaceful you're currently living with them, with time they will show you their true color.

Benue people are their own enermy. What has their politicians done so far to stop the killings?

Be doing work out daily. It will help to keep your body agile and active.

Which deal will be more than what Tinubu offered him already.

PDP should just forget about Wike as it stands. Are they expecting him to work against APC by 2027 when tinubu kept him relevant today

This is content.

They must not shout if they are really deaf.

Even people that talk don't make noise inside bank

jmoore:
Without any security agencies, you think you will be sitting comfortably typing babablu bulabu?

My point is what is so special in choosing to be a military man over other professions.

But your IQ is very low to understand