Christianity Etc › Re: Is The Deeper Life Bible Church A Cult ? by Benevee: 3:06pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
Now with all you've statement, I can say you are not w deeper life member,or you have never served there as a worker.
meanwhile I'm not a member there . |
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Family › Re: I Just Cut The Cord With My Father by Benevee: 2:44pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
Beverly1: Hi fellow Nlanders
I was born into Catholic faith and practice till I was 12 and I enjoyed it. My parent became deeper life member while we were living apart and now a pastor in that church. I re-united with them when I was 12 and since then I've been attending the church with them and still attend Catholic occasionally....I love the preaching from the founder of deeper life as he preaches the bitter truth but I believe most other young pastor see d church "doctrine" as commandment and so must be kept 100%.....the founder of the church addressed this issue several times but NO.
18 years on since we re-united, I'm a graduate, married and living abroad but my father still forcing his believe and doctrine on me. I considered myself spiritual but not so religious. I connect with my God easily but not a 3G church guy.
He made me and my siblings antisocial and introverted simply because he believed we shouldn't be involved in any social activities even sports. I still remember being beaten for playing soccer, he believes we would be influenced badly. Watching TV was a crime especially movies.
Fast forward to yesterday he rang my wife to check on us but the first question he asked was if we attend to church. I told him it's been raining and temperature was really low....then he started lamenting asking if I won't go to work if it wasn't Sunday,complaining about the country where I can't worship God...then to get me more exasperated he asked and insisted I tell him how many time I've been to church lately and how many times I've read d bible....I told him we've been attending but he insisted on a number.
This got me so mad that I stood up for myself under a heavy breathe as I do not want to disrespect him or hangup on him.I told him I do not appreciate being asked questions like a 10 yrs old boy and at my age I should know how to live my life and what's best for me.....he got angry and said goodbye and I guess he was still on d phone but I didn't know...I just hang up.....Now I've block him from reaching me ... planning to change my numbers.....but not any financial support. Only cutting all communication with him but not with my siblings as they mean more to me and I wanna see them through as much as God help me...
Please is this not an over reaction because I loved him as he's a very responsible man who puts the family first and strived to make us who we are. But we do not av a close relationship because of his believe even though he's been forcing it. OP I wish I had a dad who can control me like this spiritually, maybe you don't know what it means to have a dad, I lost my dad at the age of 13 ,never had the opportunity of a father to son talk ( man to man) you are a grown man behave like one and talk to your father instead blocking him,even if he's not your father consider his office as a pastor |
Politics › Re: We Are Investigating Abia Killings -umahi(photos) by Benevee: 7:01pm On Sep 16, 2017 |
OK
meanwhile..
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Nairaland General › Re: Plateau State Government Sets Curfew by Benevee: 8:42pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
k |
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Celebrities › Re: Nnamdi Kanu Is God,he Created Me-young Ipob Youth by Benevee: 7:13pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Arthurwinner: set your English in order ....wat did he know nawa o correct me sir |
Politics › Re: IPOB Unrest: Nigeria Police Orders The Removal Of Abia State Police Commissioner by Benevee: 3:18pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
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Celebrities › Re: Nnamdi Kanu Is God,he Created Me-young Ipob Youth by Benevee: 3:16pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
He is still a kid ,what did he know |
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Crime › Re: Biafra: Army Reacts To Viral Video Showing IPOB Members Tortured by Benevee: 10:11am On Sep 14, 2017 |
lol |
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Politics › Re: "My Experience With IPOB Boys In Aba Today" - Young Lady by Benevee: 3:23pm On Sep 13, 2017 |
BininEmpire: Zombie who care to know who you're,
All I said is that You must be a descendant of prophet Muhammad the child rapist  its till paining you. eyah sorry eh |
Politics › Re: Video: Nnamdi Kanu Accounts For Supporters Who Were Killed During Raid | by Benevee: 3:18pm On Sep 13, 2017 |
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Politics › Re: "My Experience With IPOB Boys In Aba Today" - Young Lady by Benevee: 12:03pm On Sep 13, 2017 |
BininEmpire: You must be a descendant of prophet Muhammad the child rapist I know it pains u to know I'm an Igbo guy  |
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kalu Emerges With Mammoth Crowd Amidst Detention by Benevee: 10:48am On Sep 13, 2017 |
gullible followers. |
Politics › Re: IPOB Members And Hausas Clash At Oyigbo In Rivers State (Photos) by Benevee: 11:06pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
AFONJACOW: anybody can claim anything... u sound like ndi ofe mmanu you don't need to believe me anyway. |
Politics › Re: IPOB Members And Hausas Clash At Oyigbo In Rivers State (Photos) by Benevee: 10:47pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
alablec: When one lit fire in a dry bush, he can never predict how far it will go. I just pity those hailing Kanu; a child that trows stone into the market will not know if it will hit a member of his household. We all have family members outside our land! my brother the thing just tire me
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Politics › Re: IPOB Members And Hausas Clash At Oyigbo In Rivers State (Photos) by Benevee: 10:10pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
AFONJACOW: maybe am not
am Igbo from Anambra precisely from dunu-kofia LGA |
Politics › Re: "My Experience With IPOB Boys In Aba Today" - Young Lady by Benevee: 10:03pm On Sep 12, 2017*. Modified: 10:54pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
Some gullible idiots will still come here to defend this situation.
am not surprise that the Biafra agitators are all illiterates, either of the mind or of education
quote me not.. |
Politics › Re: IPOB Members And Hausas Clash At Oyigbo In Rivers State (Photos) by Benevee: 9:37pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
motherfucker: You are not serious. Ful.ani herd.s.emen have been killing people and Bu.hari did forking northing about it. Na Igbos him sabi attack. Let those in the North carry out reprisal attack on Igbos and we will bury this country once and for all.
The shit Buhair is looking for he will get it. That man will not die a peaceful death... go tell him. you are here beating an empty chest ,if you are given a weapon now to fight you'll be the first to poo on your pants continue, keep on deceiving yourself..
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Politics › Re: IPOB Members And Hausas Clash At Oyigbo In Rivers State (Photos) by Benevee: 9:33pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
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Politics › Re: IPOB Members And Hausas Clash At Oyigbo In Rivers State (Photos) by Benevee: 9:32pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
AFONJACOW: save ur strength , leave pH before it became too late... simply do I look like a Hausa man to u? |
Politics › Re: IPOB Members And Hausas Clash At Oyigbo In Rivers State (Photos) by Benevee: 7:59pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
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Politics › Re: IPOB Members And Hausas Clash At Oyigbo In Rivers State (Photos) by Benevee: 7:50pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
. Ipob now acting foolishly why attack the Hausas? will attacking the innocent hausas in the street bring Biafra,?? don't you know this can cause an uproar in the northern region putting the lives of innocent igbos in trouble( which is even the worst as hausas can kill without sympathy)
pls my Igbo brothers take it easy.. if Biafra is really the will of God no man can stop it.
meanwhile #istandwithonenigeria |
Politics › Re: Gov. Ikpeazu Declares Three Days Curfew In Aba Amidst Crises-chief Press Sec. by Benevee: 5:17pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
source |
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu Under House Arrest, I Can't Confirm If He's Dead Or Alive - Lawyer by Benevee: 5:01pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
Op why not stop all these nonsense
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Fashion › Re: Lady Buys Python Skin Handbag In Port-Harcourt, Neigbour Sees It & Faints (Photo by Benevee: 2:16pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
she saw something you didn't see
op u r on your own o |
Politics › Re: Nigerian Military Release Video Of Ipob Militants Attacking Them by Benevee: 1:31pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
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Education › Re: National Open University Of Nigeria (NOUN) Students by Benevee: 12:40pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
Pls did anyone know why bio191 was canceled today??
went to my study center for the exams and was told it was canceled, with no date fixed to write it.
am I the only one with this problem?
I need answer Asap pls |
Family › Re: Pornography Is Addictive by Benevee: 8:15pm On Aug 31, 2017 |
na wa o |