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sonofluc1fer:
Assume only man needs x to survive.
Imagine x doesn't exist.
How will man create x?

Na wa. Critical thinking, nkita thinking.

I like the way you've structured it

It would be easier if anyone can tell of any element we never evolved with but we needed it as time goes on and with science we were able to create that particular element. Now, is there anything like that so far, no matter how minute or unimportant?

Maybe we should just skip to a direct question like how can water be created in large quantity for continuous use to satisfy an unlimited need of a particular specie in a waterless world?

I'm sure the op knows what he's talking about and where he's driving at though.

hopefulLandlord:
Bennyann, give this guy chance now

Onyeze is a confused person, doesn't know what he wants

he's a deist that believes in bible creation story, he's neither here nor there, very indecisive, he looks like the kinda guy that would say "I love my wife but I think you're the woman for me", he also sounds like the type that'll tell you to cook a food then say he's lost appetite a few minutes later

unlike my guy Adepeter2027 that is decisive, bold, courageous, cool, calm and collected, he chose atheism boldly and didn't waver, he'll stick with you if you chose him

I can't believe this. Because of you I'm giving it a thought. But it would be nice of me to wait for Onyenze123 to show up first. That's a simple courtesy

Martinez19:
over my dead body. Religious babes? Nah. I can't permit the indoctrination of my children.

Na so! We shall see. Last last you go feign Christianity

God will see us through o

1Sharon:
Ok I have read the story.

Smh If I was the fiance I would be very angry. One so and so pastor came to put mouth in ur relationship and say he shouldn't marry her? A so called man that is letting outsiders interfere in his relationship, when it should be his choice alone? That would piss me off I would leave the relationship.

Very annoying the wolves in sheep clothing called pastors that destroy more than they mend.

Yes! That's my sis

I feel same with the bolded you know. I wouldn't advise any lady to remain in a relationship in which the fiance is very confused about getting married to her.

Would humans exist without water?

Maybe another set of species that can adapt to an earth without water.

This thread would be interesting

1Sharon:
Erm..the OP is a bit long. I can't be assed

It's not fair o. You're really one unique being.

Ok, what would you have done if you were the op's fiancée?

hopefulLandlord:
send her PM and take it from there, no need to waste time

Really? I'm disappointed in you.

I thought you loved me and you would look after me. You mean you just gave him a pass like that without even screening him?

Should I think twice about you now? That's not how to look after me. Protect me small now

adepeter2027:
You and who Dae do secret love?



Me like our love to be public óò.

Really? you seem to be serious o.

Wait let me take permission from my lover first. Onyenze123 where are you o

Martinez19:
I was just kidding. If I hear say I marry a religious girl.

People who talk like you are the ones who end up doing what they boasted they would never do.

Continnuuu

Martinez19:
hmmmmmm. Please become an atheist and marry me. I need you my life.

My lover here is a deist, I think I met him as an atheist.
Seriously, why are you guys sooo late.... This is too bad.

Onyenze123 I need your permission to love another

adepeter2027:
I Have been rejected even before I woo her.

According to her Bible, Darkness cannot jam with light (atheist vs Christian)

...

Lemme confirm Sha.

Cc: Bennyann

Why didn't you tell me since now? you're already too late.

I have a lover here already - Onyenze123

But don't worry, I'll love you secretly without you realizing it

1Sharon:
What do you want me to say?

You be yeye girl I swear. See as you fall my hand

Be serious jor. don't you know you're the only sister I have on the atheist side

I'm interested in your opinion so I beg honour it. Should the op do away with his fiancée?

Hier:
Funny enough, I was really blessed by this, you know, in the former moniker, I do see athiest as this people I just wish I could disactivate their account, recently, I was hostile to hopefullandlord, and made fun of chemystery and otematum seem to be regular customer, though, 1sharon was a bit upset at me recently. .

It was recently, I felt, am not getting something right, though akint*m has considered me on my former moniker, claiming I was deluded and so. But I started respecting, after he said, he was once a fellowship president. But anyway, I believe we are all great minds and this section is home to me. I feel like, all the best post should be brought here, like football, fashion and business ideas.

I could remember one of the best thread then and bennyann mentioned Godsmopol and I was like, why will you mention me on that thread, I almost took it up. But I kept quite, the thread was about contributors to religion section. Obinna58 was at his best on e thread, hahn and I once met on a thread where a Ghana pastor bills member about 5000 dollars and on and
for different donations esp his popular pic where one truck disposing trash on his comment after comment. And am like. What the . . .

.Adepeter2027 broke me down with his reply my greetings recently, I really didn't want to, but i did, i was expecting a snub actually but the response stunned me, i was caught unaware. Though, now that akint©m offline, its a relieve kinda, but we all here see daily and we are unconsciously building bonds overtime not knowing. I would say, Revd Adepeter26 converted me..

I'm still growing daily

2 Corinthians 4:16 For which cause we faint not; but though our outward man perish, yet the inward man is renewed day by day.

are you Godsmopol?

Muafrika2:
I think the mum made it all up - or planned it - to get rid of the daughter in law.

Analice107 suspects so too.

You know only the mother's prophets were against the fiancée while the op's own wasn't against her.

It really calls for suspense.

analice107:
Does God have grand Children? Aren't we all God's kids and have unlimited access to Him? Witch Craft practices in the name of the Lord.

The mother is worshipping an idol in the name of a prophet and, the boy (not a man) is yet to grow up.

Who saw these visions for the prophet when he married his own wife?

Anyone who manipulates others is a Witch.

Hmmm, deep!

sonofluc1fer:
Hi babe, been a while. Missed ya

@op Sad tale of love dying at the hand of faith and superstition. I think that lady should be grateful she didn't have to carry your sad weak ass the rest of her life..

Sincerely I miss you too but not Lucifer you know

I can't believe I'm with you on this. If I should put myself in the lady's shoes, I would leave without looking back because it doesn't make sense when an entire family is unsettled because of me or my fiance is confused about me.

My fiance being confused about me in itself is more heartbreaking enough. But it seems his lady is the understanding type but I know she's going through severe emotional torture at the moment.

Lalasticlala, OAM4J, Mynd44, seun.. This seem to be a serious issue to the op.

But may I make it known to you that it was first opened on the religion section before the romance section. The topic involves God and prophets. Please no bias when it calls for front page I beg. Give it to the religion section.

Lepasharon, 1sharon say something here now.
Sonofluc1fer I sight you o. Well-done!

analice107:
My dearest, What you just said up there is a serious issue most people, both males and females are grappling with. The reason is, Most woman raise their kids stuck under their armpits from Childhood. Especially the male folk.

There are people that can generally be controlled no matter where they find themselves and whoever is involved. They accept hook, line and Sinker, what the Pastor mother or even sisters says as truth irrespective of what the Bible says. Mom is always right, whether it's to their own hurt.

And so funny, men fall for these more than women. When a woman falls, she usually realises herself and retrieves, but when a man falls under a prophet's schemes. hmmmmm.

A friend related an incident once. He proposed marriage to a lady, she took it to their prophet, the guy didn't know that the prophet had interest in that affair and wanted them to be perpetually under him when they marry, he kept coming up with what the lord had said. His lord kept changing his mind for years, when he couldn't take it anymore, he left the girl. That's how much people can be controlled by others.

Some mothers marry their sons per say. They marry their Husbands and marry their sons as well. They raise their sons from the cradle to depend on them solely. They plant the thoughts of loving their sons and taking their interest first before anything else, hence keeping them perpetually controlled.

When a son is raised to accept whatever mother says, that man will forever live a miserable life, and i have met so many men like that, even in this global age.

But most of the time, these kinds of mothers releases their daughters to marry into other families and use their daughters to control the men.

I have a friend whose mother won't even allow them to live and work in different cities, only him as the last Child broke that yoke and left the city where all others are.

She plans to control them by making them meet every sunday after mass. They all must attend the same Mass. 6a.m Mass so that they can have time for their meeting. They rotate their meeting venues.

They discuss what happens in their respective families openly and she in the head as the master decider of what shd be done next.

The Daughters in-laws are put under her, because, she married them for her sons in the first place, so what can you say if she takes a decision you don't like? So, the sons just have to enjoy whatever comes in from the woman.

The last boy is yet to marry, but she travels often to spend time with him. When she comes, she wants to meet all his friends males and females.

A lady like this, has total control over her sons and they won't even know she's controlling them.

Wow! Life sometimes.

But big sis, according to the op's story, the mother loved the lady and she has been nice to her until she started hearing from prophets that she's not meant to be her daughter in law just when the wedding is at the corner.

You know some of us really want to please God and this brings confusion when some prophets are saying something different from our plans and believes.

What do you think he should do in the midst of the confusion he finds himself?

Muafrika2, where are you?

Who really wants to get married? You, your mum or the prophets?

Who will your wife spend her life with? You, your mum or the prophets?

Who is supposed to choose a wife for you? You, your mum or the prophets?

Who will tolerate the weak and strong points of your wife day and night? You, your mum or the prophets?

If I were to be a man, I would rather do things which decisions would result in something I would rather blame myself or praise myself for and not blame another. If you eventually get married to someone else and you realize you're not seeing the results you want, won't you start blaming your mum for the rest of your life?

Be a man! You know what you want. Be ready to take the praise or the blame concerning your decisions.

I understand you being troubled about your mum not being in agreement with you. But do you because of that want to choose your LIFE partner at the detriment of your joy and happiness? Except you yourself is looking for an excuse to do away with the lady.

Check within you, do you feel at peace with this lady? Does everything about you and within you feel calm when you're with her and when you think of her ONLY? Even when you have some quarrel or any other issue with her because we're all not perfect of course, do you in those times still love her, still feel peaceful and still feel encouraged to marry her? If yes, to me those are the signs she's someone you can be with and tolerate and love for the rest of your life. As long as you're very comfortable with her then I don't see why you want to please others and displease yourself.

Then talking about God, you said you asked God for one thing and you saw it in her, now are you doubting God didn't answer your prayer or you are someone who God can't listen to and answer his prayers? If you communicated with God and you're doubting Him, why should you trust others who claim they communicated with Him too?

Try to hear from God yourself, that alone will settle all these confusions. Tell God about this confusion and tell Him to come to your rescue. When you are determined to hear from God and willing to take His instructions or believe His answers, you would then feel at peace when someone else confirms it. It's all about a Peaceful heart and God is peace.


I wish you the best OP.

Analice107, ecilana701, MsNgo40

dingbang:
Bennyann

What I do?

Muafrika2:
No prob

As I have posted above, they all interfere with the structure of the hair. Go for it if you really want to and ensure to only use genuine products, treat regularly.

But there will not be turning back, and you can always grow it again when you want to revert to natural.

I don't want to go through the stress of growing it again.
I'll keep it still. Thanks sis

onyenze123:
Obim, I can't cheat on you. Even if the sky is falling down, I remain faithful.

Oh my heart!

Be careful o so you won't lose an admirer

onyenze123:
wow, I have met another Christian like bennyann. keep it up

Looking for opportunity to cheat ehn? You let me catch you.

You know you're the faithful type, please don't break my heart OK?

Hier:
abi now, loooooool. As many as are . . .

hmmm

analice107:
Same to you dear. September shall be better than August. Happy New Month sis.

Amen!