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Tosinex:Amen dear one. Amen! |
hopefulLandlord:Hmmm! I can't believe I'm taking such lessons from you. I am not a shy. Why shall I shy ![]() |
Muafrika2:Locks? Wow! ![]() I will still endure it for a while. I won't forget the occasional blow dry. Don't be surprised when I pm you on natural hair issues someday. Thanks. ![]() |
Muafrika2:Dear Sis, I won't be surprised if he is. I feel relieve knowing I'm not the only one who noticed the trend about most of them. I better not say more because enshy won't like this and I understand him and also respect him. All of a sudden I'm now like the devil because I want us to learn to make each other happy but they don't see it. There are times we tell each other to the face our wrongs and improve on them. We don't always have to face outside, we concentrate within as well especially on issues that's like a canker worm but it's being treated as a trivial issue. God help us. Thank you sis. I really do appreciate. |
All hopefulLandlord and CatfishBilly have said concerning sex issues seem strange to me because it contradicts nairaland stories related to it. Which is which now? |
Tosinex:You're a wonderful person Tosinex. God bless you. |
KingEbukaNaija:My dear, I'm so trying my best to have a good time right now. I've learnt a lot of positive lessons here from the ladies and guys that have commented to motivate me, lessons that have helped to shape my short time negative mindset about an idea and I don't want to trade those lessons for anything. Sighs My emphasis on love is because without love for someone, I can't have a romantic relationship with such a person. Especially for someone like me that hardly falls in love. And it's important the person loves me cos I don't want to feel sad all through. And you know what men can do once they love their ladies. I want to be a part of that experience. Do you prefer romance before love? You seem to hammer on that ![]() I've not read much on the book, just the summary. the title scared me so I ran away but when I see the book now I will read it because of you. I'm on Whatsapp. And about having it easy, maybe it's a yes because blood doesn't flow in my veins as it does in yours. ![]() The issues I've had is to struggle it out with men physically with my very small stature ooo. I don't know how I'm able to fight off big bodied guys especially when they want to take what's not theirs by force. God's been faithful bro, it could have been a very different story occasionally. I'm sure I may not find it easy after I've given my heart to someone. But His grace is sufficient. |
RighteousI:I don't understand all you said. I just wondered what could have happened to me if I had replied your pm. If you are a Christian, then it hurts. And you are not stable with your accusations due to the bolded. These are the people who misrepresent Christian men and make one have a bias judgment about them. Nairalanders have taken heed to your advice. They will be careful of me. I tried my best not to say the below but I guess I can't hold it in anymore. Learn how to control your temper if it seems one doesn't give you attention. You don't in turn carry out this act of wickedness. Some commented on this thread before even sending a pm but you made no comment whatsoever but tried sending me a pm on the 13th. I tried scanning through your posts on nairaland and saw nothing to make me reply your mail. I was just waiting for something to encourage me replying your mail but I had none. Then I saw you eventually made a comment here on the 15th with some accusations you have no proof of. I was happy to see you comment so I decided to give myself the chance to have a chat with you directly from here. I tried to make sure there was no misunderstanding only for you to prove me wrong. Shouldn't I then be grateful all ends here? It's people like you that make ladies not to reply pms. People like you that call yourself Christians that's if you are and you can't man up to a lady. You feel rejected when no one has rejected you, then you reacted by giving false accusations. You're free to do this to me over and over again as long as it's on nairaland only but be careful not to do it to others. Learn from this behind your phone screen. You're free to reply and vent more of your frustrations but I'm sorry if I indirectly caused it because seriously I never meant to. Thanks for passing by and please do have a nice day. Gosh! Today has been so bad chatting with strange nairaland guys out of nowhere. Whoever is using an alternate moniker to get to me, please be real, I prefer those I'm familiar with. At least I know their thoughts and can easily relate with them not with you I know nothing about. So please, reason with me and don't vent your frustrations on me whoever and wherever you guys are. |
hopefulLandlord:Tight promiscuous and loose unpromiscuous? How are my sure you are not saying it because you want to prove there's no difference between the two? And it's like saying the promiscuous are better of even in their promiscuity. Or does it have something to do with their genetic make up? And what are you doing with all those kind of ladies? When are you planning on getting married? For how long do you plan on living like that? Brother Hope ![]() Come out of this I beg. |
CatfishBilly:You mean there are no differences between those who have multiple sex partners and those who don't? |
MZLady39:I'm honoured big sis. You'll hear from me soon. Thanks |
CatfishBilly:Doc, are you sure about that cos I've heard the opposite? Especially for ladies that welcome the introduction of the different sizes of manhood |
KingEbukasBlog:I'm willing if we love each other. Love is the watchword Seduction is very ambiguous . In some cases , it does not necessarily lead to sex or falling in love ; it could be a form of manipulation or control like Cleopatra and Julius Caesar and Marc AnthonyDon't tell me you have a cleopatra in life? It won't be funny. I'm not gregarious , don't have many friends . But have close to 120k followers on social mediaThen you're better than me. Nairaland has been my only social media. I will upgrade later in the year ![]() And tell those ladies they're blessed to have you. I'm a man with intractable levels of testosterone , it has not been easy. I'm not surprised to know it's not been easy for you. Art of Seduction .Hmmmm. You're really into studying humans and how they behave. In this case then, I will be an anti-seducer. I refuse to be seduced ![]() |
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Tosinex:It kind of scares me because the task of such wives aren't easy. If I know that to be my calling, then I will always pray ahead for grace. It isn't easy at that level at all. One has to be watchful and not even close their eye lids for a second. |
hahn:Every time you remind of your favourite word 'intelligence'. I feel like using a face-palm ![]() I should be the one saying all you typed there and just replace it with atheists. ![]() |
hahn:We're in this together bro. But one is more confused than the other. For sure, that isn't me ![]() |
RighteousI:This is interesting. Make una see me see trouble ooo. Do you see me begging for a husband? And yes, I find it difficult to pretend because I will be caught within seconds and if no one catches me, I will expose myself because my heart can't stand it. And please I need proof to the bolded. This thread consists of things that seem to be against Christian men and there you are saying I'm looking for their sympathy. Where? Online? you no know me. And also please, do you love me? If you do please tell me cos I don't understand where you came from to start throwing accusations at me. But I tell you, it won't give you the opportunity to know me outside here. Except you pretend to get to me through another moniker and that's for those of you with multiple monikers. At least, now I know I didn't misunderstand you. Evidence to the bolded please. You went around looking for loopholes. I know something annoyed you but I wish you will spit it out and not let it control your judgment. Please check yourself. And may you not fall into the hands of a 419 who you think she's not. How will you feel if you judged someone wrongly especially someone so close to God and God doesn't joke with her? If somehow you find out she's Godly, how would you feel after all these drama and what do you think should be your reward for that? If truly you're a Christian, beware man and let the Spirit guide you. If you're not a Christian then I will understand. But there are other ways to get my attention than losing me like this. |
akintom:This is not about sentiment bro. What's unknown and especially what you don't believe in shouldn't be talked about with so much authority. Is it reasonable in science to say what's 'unknown' has no probability of occurence in the happenings of events? You didn't even go by the rules of science when concluding, all because it is an issue you want to go all out against. I would say it's still a scientific theory and you have no right whatsoever to conclude what you know not about. It's better, logical and more scientific when you still leave it in the archives of the unknown till you find the answers to all the unknowns or better still give some credit to it like you did with the rest. That's what I was referring to. You see yourself? Anyway I wasn't expecting otherwise since you have no God. I should then say here, that it's the religious that are actually open-minded. They give a bit of acknowledgment to other issues but here, you're so close minded to anything relating to God, so you're not in the best position to conclude. As a matter of fact that's your opinion. When it comes to issues like this those who are very sentimental about their belief system are not allowed to carry out results and you know why. Do you hope that a handsome robot, will ever propose marriage to a born again sister? yeye, is this all you could come up with? How you take enter here now? ![]() Prayer don't work, it has never worked. Whatever incidence that chanced on prayer, is a coincidence.When science or medical bodies give up on a patient having a particular issue but the patient eventually turned up healthy and sound without medical explanations. Well, that's also a coincidence right? But it would no longer be a coincidence when they start experimenting on the healed patient to find out how and why she survived even after she has told them it was God. That's when they will remember there's a scientific explanation to why the patient survived. To you, that's when you say it's not a coincidence right? Who are we deceiving? You couldn't work on someone and you gave up. the person survived which shocked you and told you it was God. Then you who gave up on her because you know her case was a lost cause will now start giving her scientific reasons why she MIGHT have survived. The one who went through all the sufferings and pains, is so foolish and so in the mood of a joke to tell you it was God right? Whatever you say for this can be smacked down by the other and this is where we have to think, Like use our heads.. Just as you've seen two medical persons here in the monikers, spacetacular and CatfishBilly but both of them are on the different sides of the divide. That should tell us something.. Anyway, Just as there are rules, procedures and strategies to be followed during surgeries, same is applied to prayers. So in reply to the robot statement, do you expect to make babies when you've not known your wife? (aside going for artificial insemination and the likes) These are two living things ooo. Grow up by being fair, then you will stop using handsome robots to support unanswered prayers. That trend is still so partial. You can say that, but a victim of religious charade, have me to thank.Don't thank yourself yet. It isn't over until it's over. |
akintom:This my people sef ![]() They're my pet names or short form of my names combined. Benny Hinn wasn't the inspiration at all ![]() Brother Akin ![]() |
onyenze123:Thank God we're on the same page. ![]() |
Tosinex:That's true but sometimes I shouldn't wait for the weakness to take over me before I allow God's strength prevail, right? Am I making sense at all? well, I understand what I was trying to say ![]() |
Muafrika2:Don't tell me you go natural too do you? Thanks for the advice because I'm fund of just packing my hair in a bonny form. Thanks dear |
Muafrika2:Thank you dear and I thought I mentioned you all along. I'm sorry about that. I was never expecting the thread to be nice, I posted it in my weak moment. At a point, I felt like deleting it if I could. |
hopefulLandlord: ![]() Like seriously? He seem to be talking about me It's true though, anyone can be anybody online. |
KingEbukasBlog:Aaaaawwww. Thank you ![]() Sometimes the thought of marrying the wrong woman can put a man off you know . Other reasons like finances . But what do I know ? I've not even dated before so my comments are mostly what I think and deductions made from a medley of romance stories that I read in books ( not romance books , I hate those) . But I believe mine would be a romantic adventure that my lady to be and I would be proud of .The thought of marrying the wrong man puts me off too Hmmm, talking about finances. It's been a major issue and it's also been like a litmus test of true love. I've seen and believe that those who are ready to stand for each other and are determined to make each other happy scale through easily and that's when one is not leaving the entire work for the other. It would be nice to have someone who is financially buoyant but I prefer to start and to go through it all with the person. You have no idea the blessings that follow when two people who have the interest of each other at heart join forces. It works like magic because the fire is there, the motivation, the love you need to move ahead and the determination to make sure your partner get the best you can offer. I love that kind of start and I believe in it a lot. So, Were you ever seduced? How did you arrive this stage with your hairs still intact? Any form of challenges you went through? And what books did you read the romance stories from? ![]() |
jonbellion:So you that you're younger, you're not a virgin? ![]() And I hope you're doing good? ![]() |
KingEbukasBlog:I Can't say that for me. Any man who is a Christian and a virgin should know how to love his partner, because sometimes, he tend to feel like, after all they both met each other virgins so there shouldn't be any special treatment. It sometimes create ego in a man that isn't matured enough. Those are some of the consequences of two celibates coming together. I prefer a man who loves me whether he is celibate or not, as long as the feeling is mutual and he is also God fearing. |
KingEbukasBlog:Heiiiiiiiiii. Ebuka, what if you find no virgin to marry? what then will you do? Become a reverend father? This earth is in dire need of your seeds. ![]() |
RighteousI: ![]() I laughed and laughed and laughed out everything within. You're so funny. But please next time mention me now ![]() You said 'dangerous issue'. What's dangerous here? Is there something you're not saying? You better start talking now. My my! The bolded is so funny.. Analice107, MZlady39, Muafrika2, please come laugh with me. Besides, I was in a confused state when I created this thread. It's very unlike me to voice out my personal thoughts but it was coming to a time I felt I should forget looking out for a fellow believer but I knew it wasn't the right way to go, so I came here to voice all out and surprisingly I got my answers and I also got my thoughts cleared. Thanks to the ladies in the house first, then to the guys. If only they knew how they've helped. Let me put all my jokes aside. You get to know if one is good not by what she tells you but by what you've seen her do and by words she speaks from her heart. Yes, people pretend but if you're really a true Christian man, you should be able to discern. No one can claim goodness for long. Character smells and if you're watchful, you would notice. People who are good don't really say so, but their words and works speak for them. |
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) what more can I do, I've no other duty than to help the people of God in the way I can, His grace is sufficient for me and for you too, Amen!


Shame the devil.
but when I see the book now I will read it because of you. 
That trend is still so partial.