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hopefulLandlord:Brother, Make sure it isn't in my case ![]() |
frank317:Thanks for the bolded. This is just the difference. A good girl who is willing to understand more about life and needs of others stands a better chance that bad girls.. but many good girls would prefer to remain in their comfort zone until it is too lateI gained a lot from your piece. Many devoted Christian ladies should go through it. If I wasn't willing to understand more about life, I am now. I'm willing to satisfy the needs of the man who is worthy of it ![]() |
hopefulLandlord:Funny enough, I don't put on all those things but I don't see them as ungodly. Who knows, maybe the man just for me might change me from those lifestyle ![]() I'm glad you miss me too. Thanks dear. |
GoodMuyis:I've never thought of the bolded that way. It's now I'm beginning to think in that direction. You may be right you know, but those involved know the real answers. Mine is to accept them and show them care when I can but when they demand for something not pleasant to God, then I'm sorry by God's grace, I will never fall for that. The last point you raised, must be taken seriously, a lot of guys had with wick emotion end-up engaging themselves. There is no way you can engaged in close relationship with friend without developing feelings for them, its Just natural, especially for young people. Even myself their two ladies very close me, I do partially avoid sometimes when i feel my emotion is not stable, one older than me, this one share personal stuff with me yet she is engage.Hmmmm. You noticed too. I've been there enough to know it doesn't turn out purely as portrayed. It's was only by grace I came out without being hurt. Just as you said, maybe it's the problem of young people mostly. And I agree again with your last statement. You know, good people are trap the most in that friendship of a thing, either because they're not ready for a relationship or because they always want to be around when the other is in need of them. but in either way, spending too much time with the opposite sex as best friends isn't advisable at all. Those who really want to stay pure in that should be cautious. |
hopefulLandlord:Is it the reverse you want for your sister? Aba! ![]() |
hopefulLandlord:Heiiiiiiiiii. Brother Hope, my lecturer, Oya teach me. I should have used the word 'spaghetly' in the place of 'Godly', don't you think so too? ![]() I miss you bro |
onyenze123:Thank you dear. You also knew where I went wrong. I noticed and I'm trying to come out of it. You know, I just locked myself in all in the name of protecting myself. It worked though but it's time to come out of it for my own good. Thank you onyenze123 |
obinna58:You know I'm free to do anything I like but not everything is permissible. I take charge of freedom and don't let it control me. Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. Philippians 4:8 The above is the type of lifestyle expected of Godly people. Anything that is of good report is what is termed as the lifestyle of Christians. About being harsh to people, that's not the quality of a Godly person. The Bible did not tell us to be, God doesn't support that. The worst it blinds u generally in everything and makes u understand that u still the best among others.The above is not true. Christians should be blind to the world and the fear of God will give us wisdom through it all. There's a difference between religious people and those that have the fear of God from the inside out. And those that have the fear of God, don't think themselves better than others or better than they should. And that's because they love their neighbors as themselves. That's why some say good people tends suffer the most cos no one will ever tagg any religious blinded bad even when they really are, this is as a result of 99% of religious people around.When I say Godly people, I'm talking about those that have the fear of God in them. Those that love God and reverence Him. Galatians 5:22-23 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. If the above qualities show that a Godly person is bad, then I know not what else to say. You have to know there's a difference between those that are like the pharisees and those that are like Jesus. I'm a very sociable and open minded person. All I've learnt is to come out of my closet and mingle, the right way of course . There's time for learning and time for applying it. Not because some people err in certain areas, means God told them to go that way. |
kingralph:That question came to my mind also. That's why it was qualified with 'Godly' so we know the 'good' we're talking about, if at all there are different levels or perception of the word 'good'. |
obinna58:Everything we do today determines tomorrow, whether we reap good or bad harvest. Godliness doesn't stand for something perceived to be bad, does it? |
MZLady39:You just opened my eyes to the bolded and I think that settles it. Thanks a lot sis. I don't know about any other but that man's mouth will eventually be shut that I believe. ![]() Thanks MZlady39. You've really been of help. |
davtosh:Thank you davtosh |
MZLady39:All I want is for the mouth of those who feel good girls won't go far in life, to be shut. And when they see good girls as liabilities, they should go to the bad girls to satisfy them and leave the good girls who wouldn't make it in life alone. It's a pity many people feel same about good girls in this generation and God will help us to prove them wrong. |
dingbang:Please what are the qualities of self righteousness you've noticed in Godly ladies? I just want to know what you term as self righteousness so I can learn. And are you saying Godly ladies who are open minded cannot be said to be self righteous? |
MZLady39:Wow! Dear sis, thanks for your words of encouragement. I think there's a lot I can learn from you. I can say I'm in my.... twenties . And I admire your stand in God through it all. I pray the desires of your heart are granted this year as you've encouraged me. I'm not desperate to get married cos I would have gotten married to anyone that shows interest if I was but the words of that man sometimes come to mind but I have to take dominion over it. If the man who genuinely loves me comes around now, I would be so happy but if he doesn't life goes on. But I will do anything to please God and also to wait for that one who is mine - that's my focus. Thank you MZlady39, I really admire the strength of your heart and yes it's been a while. |
Sometime ago, a man told me "good girls like me are the ones who turn out so pitiable and they eventually settle down with men that aren't noble or Honourable while the bad ones end up settling down with wealthy and Honourable men and tend to be treated like a queen as though they never lived a despicable life" I immediately renounced it by replying that won't be my portion and he'll live to see how God would beautify my life to the extent he would wish he had swallowed up those words. But after that scene died down, I thought to myself - is this man not saying the truth? Because I looked around me and realized most ladies have things going well for them and even settled down with high caliber of men one never thought would settle with them. But I thank God and I'm happy for such people because I do spend time praying for such people when I feel if they continue with that lifestyle, it may lead to their regret. So it feels so good to see them blessed and prosperous and especially, settled down with their own family already. I mean that's a testimony But what that man told me began creating fear in me. LESSONS LEARNT Though I sometimes get scared of what the man said but as a Christian, I shouldn't allow that and I think if what the man said come to pass, it would be because of some of my behaviors and principles I ought to change and which are: 1. I have to minimize the way I stay indoors or just keep to myself. I have to let go of the fear of going to New places, making new friends and getting to know people all in the name of protecting me. If God has protected me this far, He can't leave me now. 2. A strong mindset of being in only one relationship which it's a must it leads to marriage. I desire so much just to be in a relationship with one person in my life. I hate with a passion being in a romantic relationship here and there, not to talk of the imagination of being touched by different people all over the place. Eeeeeeeww. But what do I do when such a relationship doesn't work? Should I then kill myself or force it? NO 3. Being in a relationship with someone that's as Godly as you or should I say more Godly. Some persons especially pastors to be or pastors because of the height of purity they believe they've attained in life makes it difficult for them to overlook some mistakes their partners make which could have easily been overlooked by unbelievers or 'the not so righteous'. I desired being taken to the altar by a Pastor but I doubt that now. Because it seems those in the world know how to love their woman than the so called Holy Ghost filled men. 4. I shouldn't give too much attention to those who claim they love me or they just want to be my friends. I've observed most men don't like to be given attention by the woman they claim they love, even the so called good guys. It's like it's in their nature, immediately they find out or they think you care too much for them or you love them way too much, they then think you can't do without them. This makes them take you for a fool or a non entity. No wonder good guys get married to bad girls and vice versa. That makes me wonder, when they get married, should their wives not care for them or give them attention as they desired? I doubt if they would find that funny This 4th point should be my No.1 lesson but I don't think it would be easy for me to go by it. Because my heart is filled with too much love to give out. To me, it takes more than a strong heart or a strong decision not to care for those you like not to talk of those you love or cherish. I hope I get to that point though but it will really hurt not giving attention to the one you care about. 5. I should not love first. I should be the one to receive love, enough of it before I can say yes, it's time for me to give back love. This is a major lesson I've learnt but it's also the one that would really hurt if I have to make the person who genuinely loves me and is not blinded by ego go through that. He doesn't deserve it. 6. I no longer believe in the platonic kind of friendship between members of the opposite sex. I'm a kind who do have one close friend at a time depending on the change of environment and it turned out guys have been more of my close friends than the ladies. Though ladies are more comfortable with male friends but I think I can advise that the opposite sex shouldn't be a 'best friend'. I realized it doesn't actually turn out pure as people portray. And that's because one of you might have developed or will eventually develop what I can call a Sexual kind of feeling towards the other. And guys out there who doesn't want to come closer to you for friendship sake but for relationship sake will find it difficult to come closer to you and may eventually quit and that's because they see what you don't see or what you pretend to never see. After my platonic friendship with the second or third guy, I came to the conclusion that there's nothing like 'best friends' between a guy and a lady and that's because I got to know they had feelings for me in one way or the other. Though some denied the feelings, I eventually got to know through how they tried having a feel of my body. That shows there seems to be something going on behind closed doors so I wouldn't advice anyone to get so close to the opposite sex in the guise of best friends. I also wouldn't advise anyone to leave his or her partner in the friendship of the opposite sex. What's my fate then? I'm waiting to see because I refuse to be a good girl gone bad. I won't let the words of men that want to destroy me change me. I won't let the failure of good or Godly guys loving me change me. If someone like me exists and can still love then there should be someone for me out there who is good, Godly and still knows how to love. I refuse to be among the good girls who end up badly. God help me. I hope to look back on this thread and smile that I made it, some time in the future. Are you married or single? Let me know your view of good, Godly single girls, the advantages and disadvantages. |
This is serious! This is what hahn's thread has turned into. The first time I saw a thread like this had something do with HardMirror. Hmmmmm This thread is full of haters, pretenders, deceivers and confused people. It seems those trolling know each other outside nairaland and they come here and try to involve innocent minds. Please Seun, there should be a DSS or SSS section. I mean a section for investigations and undercover stories by amateurs and professionals. I'm just tired of rumors, backbitings, backstabbings and hateful rantings on the religion section. Everyone here seem not be given a chance to be trusted even and this won't make the religion section to consist of what it was purely meant for. This section has become too corrupt for my liking. LiberaDeus I came here for you.... I hope I'm safe? ![]() |
As shared on Whatsapp: I have no words to describe how disgusted and enraged I am by such corporate callousness! This should be a crime! Nigerians and Ghanaians AT HOME, PLEASE READ: They are killing us slowly in English speaking west Africa , and we do not know. Apparently, for 9 years, a civil law case was brought to a court in Nigeria against Coca Cola Bottling Company on both Nigeria and Ghana , who are manufacturers of Fanta and Sprite, which impacts directly on our health and lives. Basically, one Dr Fijabi, had in 2007, bought about N12 million worth of Fanta and Sprite drinks from Coca Cola Ltd, and exported same to the United Kingdom. However, on reaching England, under Health and Safety regulations, the authorities tested the products and found them to contain "poisonous levels of Benzoic Acid and Sunset addictives" And were therefore declared "unfit for human consumption". The whole export consignment was consequently destroyed. Dr Fijabi therefore, sued Coca Cola for Negligence, breach of duty of care to its customers, and loss of earnings. The Almighty Coca Cola Bottling company offered only one defence in court : That Mr Fijabi did not tell them he was going to Export the Fanta and the Sprite to England; and that they were strictly manufactured "FOR LOCAL CONSUMPTION ONLY." In West Africa. So what Coca Cola Bottling Company is telling us, is that, If they knew the Fanta and Sprite were to be exported to England, they would not have added so much poisonous acid; But for the people of Nigeria and Ghana it is normal to poison us. That is the official courtroom statement of Coca Cola Bottling Company of West Africa . Yesterday, The Lagos High Court under Justice Adedayo Oyebanji, was 'crying' when She gave judgement against Coca Cola, declaring them callous and negligent. She 'cursed the parents' of NAFDAC the distributor for coca cola products in West Africa for not carrying out proper laboratory checks on 'minerals' production in Nigeria and Ghana. Cancer was listed as one of the ailments that the present Fanta and sprite can cause, especially if taken with Vitamin C tablets. She therefore, ordered Coca Cola to henceforth add a WRITTEN WARNING on Fanta and Sprite bottles that "this product must not be taken with Vitamin C." This is something you people in both Ghana and Nigeria should concern yourselves with, but not whether Dollar has gone up or down. ©Mazi Abe Media (MAM)™ March 2017" |
MrPresident1:Ok. Following |
MrPresident1:I get you. But the abomination took place because the people of God allowed it,right? |
Muafrika2: ![]() I understand you. It's like our prayers mean something different to God. And the amazing thing is that God's way turns out to give a more beautiful answer than the one we're expecting that looks so direct. God knows best. He's really mysterious and amazing. His ways and thoughts are really beyond ours. What should comfort us is that He does all things for our own good. ![]() |
enshy: ![]() Me I can't wait ooo. I only pray I should fulfill all I had to by the time He comes for me. I really wish I'm with Him now but I must fulfill my purpose. |
MrPresident1:What I understand so far is this: God's people were the ones that committed the abomination by desecrating His temple and disobeying Commandments or warnings. So God brought desolation upon them through the heathen as a form of punishment. So the abomination that caused the desolation at that time was the desecration of the temple. |
CatfishBilly:You ehn. ![]() That falls under the desecration of the Holy place and that's one of the main abominations that caused desolation. But how many years ago did you watch the movie that you still remember that? |
MZLady39:Thank you dear. Forgive me for not mentioning you because in my mind I did on my last two threads. I guess it's because I haven't saved your moniker yet I failed in that. Please forgive me sis. And thanks for the referral. Will check that also. |
MrPresident1:Next part please ![]() |
“When you see Jerusalem being surrounded by armies, you will know that its desolation is near. Then let those who are in Judea flee to the mountains, let those in the city get out, and let those in the country not enter the city. For this is the time of punishment in fulfillment of all that has been written. How dreadful it will be in those days for pregnant women and nursing mothers! There will be great distress in the land and wrath against this people. They will fall by the sword and will be taken as prisoners to all the nations. Jerusalem will be trampled on by the Gentiles until the times of the Gentiles are fulfilled. “There will be signs in the sun, moon and stars. On the earth, nations will be in anguish and perplexity at the roaring and tossing of the sea. People will faint from terror, apprehensive of what is coming on the world, for the heavenly bodies will be shaken. At that time they will see the Son of Man coming in a cloud with power and great glory. When these things begin to take place, stand up and lift up your heads, because your redemption is drawing near.” Lk 21:20-28 NIV http://bible.com/111/luk.21.20-28.NIV |
DoctorAlien:Thank you so much. I was really enlightened. The other sites I tried were talking about Zeus and the rest but everything within me accept the site you shared. But you know the abomination comes before the desolation. I just want to be sure if the desolation will take place after rapture. What's your say? |
Pidgin2:You're right sis. I believe it means the anticrist will deceive God's people so as to be allowed in God's temple. May God see us through. Thanks sis |
enshy:Amen |
alBHAGDADI:Thank you alBHAGDADI Your insight shows you know where the main antichrist will arise from, that's why your ideology seems slightly different. And I have the same idea with you on that especially since their own Jesus is expected to fight the Christians or soo... But about what causes the desolation... The Bible shows the children of God are the ones who originate it by involving themselves in abominable things against God and the desolation takes place after so much warnings and corrections until their cup of iniquity is full. Then God uses his enemies or unbelievers to cause desolation as the punishment for the abomination committed by His people who has rejected or forgotten Him. And please, will the desolation take place after the rapture or before? “So when you see standing in the holy place ‘the abomination that causes desolation,’ spoken of through the prophet Daniel—let the reader understand— then let those who are in Judea flee to the mountains. Let no one on the housetop go down to take anything out of the house. Let no one in the field go back to get their cloak. Mt 24:15-18 NIV The above is the reason I ask. Because I thought after the rapture no one can run or hide from the antichrist. “If those days had not been cut short, no one would survive, but for the sake of the elect those days will be shortened. Mt 24:22 NIV I see the above supports it's after the rapture. Thanks. |
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. There's time for learning and time for applying it. Not because some people err in certain areas, means God told them to go that way.

