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Melsan:
Where are the good,godly single guys sef?

They know themselves than we know them
But are you not one?

hahn:
Jesus will be proud

Preach on! I like it when you're on that mode

Sarassin:
Every man loves two women; the one is the creation of his imagination, and the other is not yet born.

Then he loves no one.. The word 'love' is justified where there's no perfection.

hahn:
And your friend that wrote this is what?

You're the one that's my concern and I'm sure you're so used to her by now but then she will do the needed.

But me, I'm sure you're so beautiful on the inside so please stop disguising cos you're trying too hard at that.

analice107:
Bros, i no be virgin oo. Ah, and me i no want marry virgin man oo.

The man go don spoil before but is now born again and loves Jesus. The day i knew Christ, i stopped every nonsense and become a virgin again, let any man who is looking for virgin look somewhere else, because even if i were, immediately i hear that that's the reason he is coming, i wont marry him.

Men run around misbehaving, but want a woman no man has touched before.

To me you are, because of what you carry within. Your presence alone surpasses that of many virgins. And to God you're much more than a Virgin.

But please don't let kingebukasblog cry because you don't want his type.

I concor with the bolded. Can you imagine a man coming just because of that? Something that will vanish within how many minutes? We want men who love us for us.

analice107:
You are not only fallen but dead and lost at the same time.

'You are important to me, I need you to survive'.

KingEbukasBlog:
I think you should hold unto your virginity , good men like us are searching for your type . Keep it , guard it , treasure it . Its a thing of pride for any woman - I agree totally with this . And who said that being a virgin scares men away ? Ever heard of the Virgin Queen , Queen Elizabeth I . Men desired her as a woman and as a virgin . She was even an object of worship . Men wrote erotic poems about her and fantasized about disvirgining her in marriage . Kings , Dukes desired her as a wife while they kept w.hores (courtesans ) as mistresses . Sadly , she died a virgin but for a cause and for the good of her people . The point is : never for a moment think of losing your virginity as a woman . Once you've done that , you've decreased your desirability . Men like me won't care about you or even desire you because we see no future with you .

But not all men who seek virgins or are willing to wait are good men like the example you gave . But people change for various reasons . People can be taught to change , people can learn to change . Some people look for people who are their exact opposite so they can learn from them and subdue the destructive behaviors they have . And there are some who are willing to change , who have the desire to change but change isn't forthcoming . That's why its important to seek the face of the one who knows the end from the beginning . Keep praying . The delay apparently is to draw you closer to the type of man you desire . Remain single but don't discourage suitors from being interested in you even if you don't like them . Attention brings more attention . Your man could be drawn to you just because other men seek your hand in marriage .

I've heard being a Virgin scare men away. I've even heard it's old school. Some threads on nairaland about the issue also worsen the case. Like where some made comments like they can't stand the blood and some like ladies use the virginity to tie them down and a whole lot of other reasons why they don't like virgins. Maybe truly, just like you said, the Godly ones may prefer them or the other guys are just pretending because they've destroyed souls themselves.

The Virgin issues doesn't seem like a thing of gold anymore. I'm saying this because if someone can tell you're a Virgin they can say things to bring you down and make you believe you're the only one still living in 'the days of Elijah' .

The bitter truth is inspite of all those pretentious talks, they respect such persons and really hold them in high esteem except for ritualists and other evil men from the little I've heard. God help us.

Tosinex:
unhnmnn! Being a Pastor was not even part of my life ambition not even the least of it, and yet the roll call, I can't dodge it any longer! Arrghh! Lolz! But Rather give myself to it! And am still learning! Line by line, precept by precept, a little here, a little there and the LORD through the power of the Holy Spirit, has been faithful. Are you an American!

No dear

KingEbukasBlog:





Maybe . That would be great though

Then who will come for my type

Of course but in a subtle way . I realized that letting your intentions known to a lady at the first sight or at the inchoate stage isn't a great idea. Better when she grows in love with you and then you make your move . It makes the experience exciting .

You realized all that from those who do not deserve it and that might make you err in delaying the one who deserves it. But you're right, 'the first sight' aba!
But it works for some you know.

Its better you be yourself and flow naturally, anyone who falls for that will sweep you off your feet

Do you think the 'weaker vessels' should make any move ?

Personally I don't think so and I don't want mine to be so. Though it's worked for some but do you know some Godly guys get turned off when the lady takes his position in that?

So it depends on the lady if it wouldn't affect her later and the guy if he wouldn't be turned off by her and would still treat her as though he did he proposed.

My then school mother proposed to a guy and after a while she felt so bad and embarrassed because she got to find out the guy has been telling some people she was the one who did the proposing and this is someone who accepted the proposal.

So whatever rock our boats but I believe one thing, a matured and a wise man, when he's seen that special one, he will make sure he wouldn't allow her go through all the stress and torture of proposing. He will know she's too important and special to force her indirectly to that point. And again it's a woman's honour when she tells it out that her man proposed to her because she would feel so blessed and special than when she will tell just one confidant that she did the proposing.

I'm sure the Godly guys out there want to make their partner happy and make her proud, so they know what to do.

hopefulLandlord:
wow! Bennyann likes to marry a man that him looking out of his window would set off a chain of reactions that would involve extramarital sex, extramarital pregnancy, attempts to cover up the pregnancy, murder, extramarital child and the death of the child

interesting

brother Hope you no go kill me.

I don't desire all those but the love he had for God.

If it were you that committed all those, would you have gone back to God? From your heart? With a broken spirit?

That was even in the old testament. It seems I like those in the old testament

CatfishBilly:
So you try to discard my claim and want me to accept yours? The sheer hypocrisy, man
That is why I brought in a neutral figure, like every other medical researcher does all over the world. Research articles published in reputable journals. If you don't want to accept it, that's your problem.

If you are so convinced about your experiences, write an article on it and publish let's see if it will survive peer review.

I see, you're a fan of 'majority leads. That's to say the candidate with the majority of the votes is the right one.

The funny thing is the Bible doesn't find all this strange at all.

CatfishBilly:
This is a variant of God of the gaps argument/Argumentum ad ignorantiam. Because it is unknown therefore it must be prayers.

Oga dont fall my hand here ooo

CatfishBilly vs spacetacular..

You've met your type I'll always call her on you

akintom:
The crux

1. do we yet understand the human physiology absolutely? No

2. is there a 100% (absolute) medical procedure, by which death can be certified, in ALL cases of death suspicion? No

3. can we have a case of revitalization, after death has been certified, based on present level of medical procedures? Yes

4. do we have absolute medical explanation, for the rare cases of revitalized dead? No

5. Is whatever responsible for the revitalization, part of physiology of the dead? Yes

6. Could words (prayer), be responsible for the unknown? No

7. Therefore, "miraculous revitalization" is a religious assumption for the unknown.

Your post is so bias. Like seriously? All your questions and answers made sense until you got to the last one and do you know why? Because you made it look absolute, like 100%, like generally it can never be while the others you gave them hope....

When you check within you with this way of write up, you yourself will know you were so partial. That alone speaks volumes.

1. Do we yet
2 . is there a 100%
3.... Based on present level
4. Do we have absolute
5. Is... part of

Then when you got to prayers, you generalized it in an absolute way.

Take am easy now... Must you defend to that extent?
Let your heart still be intact ooo

onyenze123:
Yes Doc

So you where do you stand?

analice107:
Hahahahahahahahahaha, you this girl.

Big sis, it's not my fault oo. You know hahn most times forget we are humans trying to understand each other.

CatfishBilly:
Nope, I wasn't offended one bit.
We're good, fear not

Thank you dear.

BoboYekini:
I'll be brief.
Good girls finish last because they are sickly sweet yet pretentious little snowflakes that do diddly squat to improve their attractiveness but trust in God and male rabid lust to send them Prince Charming(Omo Dangote's) while turning up their noses at besotted Brother Kunle in the church pews.
Invariably, beyond a certain age, they become dry and wizened. In character as well as in appearance.
This is true for maybe 50%. The other half, well, life just happens.

I did not get all that. Please what do you mean by sweet and pretentious?

hahn:
Oh crap

If you really believe that why don't you say, no children will suffer ever again to the glory of god?

Why can't your god heal all the sick people in the world and remove poverty?

Instead it is seeking adoration and blind faith

I have put your god in it's place a long time ago

Here

Ok. Soothe yourself. I'm really tired of answering such questions.

But hahn what is wrong with you? What's your problem? Is it that you hate God or you don't believe in His existence?

The former seems to be the case. You need to watch yourself man, watch your emotions. Acting like this all because of a 'non-existent' God will do you no good. Infact it doesn't speak well for you.

Because of this, you don't know how to manage communication. When no one is trying to harm you, you run straight into a violent defensive mode.

If no one tell you, I have to.

When you hear or see the word God, don't scare easily, just calm down and control your temper.

I can say of another moniker with this temper of yours but yours is kind of worse.

Calm down man and take life easy. Infact take God easy because to you, he doesn't exist and you will be better of from the inside out, ok.

*sighs*

CatfishBilly, please I hope we are good? Don't let hahn put asunder in our small friendship

Tosinex:
Pastor? Me? Lolz... Am just a minister of God in Christ Jesus charged with a duty, "am set on a course I must follow" thank you.

Aren't you? Or don't you have the calling? You sound like one though

hahn:
Not everyone needs god's grace to "rise"

In fact it is because of god many people are down

Like seriously? You ehn

Your testimony will change to the glory of God. That I'm sure of, no matter how long it takes.

hahn:
I know this doesn't concern me but @ emboldened is such a rude and arrogant statement

To assume that simply because someone doesn't "believe" in your god equates to the person to have "fallen" is presumptuous and arrogant

Hahn, na wa for you oooo. We dey fight?
Fallen' is your problem abi. Sorry oooo. No vex

Do you know that word was used for the righteous in the Bible? I never knew it's a word that triggers something in you.

Sorry OK. It's obvious we think differently

God forbid I fall but if I should I will make sure I rise each time by the special grace of God.

Later you will say some group of people are not intelligent

CatfishBilly:
Wow.
I wish could put down my thoughts like you.
Oya, Godly men of Nairaland and beyond. Y'all heard her.
Y'all should comman take over. Atheists can't handle this.

It's not something nairaland can handle ooo
This thread was created so I can come back to it and give a positive news to the glory of God that there's hope for good girls out there.

And I've learnt a lot, so much from the wonderful ladies on this thread and some gentlemen.

It's high time I put this thread to rest because I've gotten all the counsel I needed.

Doc, there's no harm in giving God a chance.

If you fall please rise again
By the time I come back to give a different testimony, make sure you aren't where you are now

Paulscholari:

Anything to say?

BoboYekini:
Why wouldn't I be atheist? Tell me. I get to apply energy to other things than these endless back and forth.

Everything involves energy now. And why should you be an atheist? Because you heard there are wolves in sheep's clothing?
Anything that has a solution has an end, ok

enshy:
We need all agree on something here:
Who is a godly woman?
Who is a godly man?
Who is a Man of God?
Whats the purposeof marriage?
bennyann talks about godly men or pastors whose lives are worse than the sinners.
Please help answer these questions...Rem our purpose is always to edify, comfort and exhort...The simple hearted are around reading every word we post.
analice107, bennyann, MZLady69

Dear enshy, please help us with the definition though I know where you're driving at.
I will say anyone who does the will of God can be said to be Godly just like Daniel.

But you know there are titles in place already like pastor, bishop, reverend and the likes. I'm sure you'll agree with me that they symbolize Godliness...
I'm also aware among men with those titles, some are of God and some are not.

I only spoke of the attitudes of some if not most of them. It's better we know there are sheep and wolves in the house, rather than going straight into the trap set, all because we feel they should be Godly.

And if there's nothing in us that isn't worthy or of good report, please let's say it to ourselves, for many of us don't want to see them as issues. But if all these things are brought to awareness, it can bring about something better.

Because of these issues some run from the house of God instead of running to it. And most are just simple issues that can be dealt with when we apply humility not minding you operate in a certain level of authority.

God is still God. He knows who are His.

The simple hearted should know when they see all these, that there are indeed wolves in sheep's clothing so they shouldn't be perturbed.

CatfishBilly:
Oya, bennyann, what are your own qualities that you look for in a godly man. Come talk your own.

Look at you who couldn't say yours and you want me to spit out mine.

Hmmmm. Sincerely, I don't think I have the answers anymore because at a point, I think I felt confused.

I wanted a God fearing man, someone who loves God and i can see the passion burning in him. I think that was all I cared about.

I've learnt there should be something more. But I thought a God fearing man should know how to express love easily to anyone he's chosen. But I realized it isn't always so. The issue of ego comes into play like you have to be careful not to err a little because you're with God's anointed. When it happens then it means you're disrespectful not minding the source of the error. There's also the issue of who to approach first. They can spend time with you which can possibly chase away suitors and say nothing. If you're weak enough as a lady to take the first step, then it will be made to look as if you've destroyed your pride or thrown away your integrity.

But from most I've seen and heard around me, the issues are centered mostly on ego.

Those are some of the things I've noticed and I think it's an indicator whether one is the right partner for the other or not.
Then it dawned on me that if you're genuinely loved by someone, that alone can solve so many issues naturally without using much effort. So I can't say I don't want a Godly person because of those little issues that can cause a mighty storm. I realized I have to be loved first and then it should be mutual. You know, it shouldn't just be about giving love. You have to receive love also.

So the man must love me like no other, and I'll get to know that when little issues don't break us apart.

He must be a lover of God just like David and Joseph. He must put God first in everything he does that even I can't stop that.

He must be presentable and also teach me to be presentable I mean to his taste

He must be a good listener since I spend time alone mostly, when I get very close to someone I tend to talk a lot and voice out my visions and aspirations. If I'm snubbed, I'll feel like

He must be in charge, responsible and also exercise his authority in a loving way though. I like to see a boss in him, a teacher, a leader, a mentor, a refuge and a comforter. I always want to look up to him for almost anything even if I will be the greatest supporter he's ever seen.

Whether he's a pastor or not, he must and it's a must he knows how to play football both on the field and with the computer I don't know much about football but I will like to stay around with him watching football or playing the game. I like sports, I just haven't put much attention for a while now. I will like someone who will take me back to that era.

I like my position as the weaker vessel and I just want it to be like that in a very virtuous way.

It seems I'm dreaming Who's going to be that macho man please wake me up

Tosinex:
no vex, relax, take a chill pill, "all things work together for the good of them that love God, to those who are called according to his purpose" if a goodly Christian marry a Christian brother, I don't see any trouble, don't forget marriage has its own issues and like I said in my earlier post even MOGs faces alot of temptations, so if you get hooked up to a Pastor, keep praying for him not to fall because he's going to face temptations from the opposite side and that's no option, and the wife also should make herself beautiful so that the man will always have in mind that he has a beautiful godly wife at home. Good gals may end up bad if they lack direction into the marriage they are entering. Bad guys having wreck havoc will always come to the church to pick up the good gals whom will fall for their tactics and later regret. In all things, pray to be led into the right marriage, having entered it pray to keep it going and growing, you may want to channel your search to some preferences like he should be Pastor, he should have a call upon him, etc when you find him still pray because there are many wolves in sheep clothings. Sometime ago I wanted to partner with a brother who said he has a ministry, he has a call, we were even about to start things together when the LORD gave me a revelation about him, I have to pick my race! So Pray and don't be afraid am sure the Lord will lead you to the right person. Gracias

Thank you Pastor.

analice107:
imaooo, Sis, I love Sarassin, but am not in love with him.

I love intelligent men, and he is.

OK sis. I know people like you don't joke with men of Valour so I understand.

MrPresident1:
Killing serpents and celebrating weddings.

Many can not see the connection, this is truly shameful.

The seed of the woman will bruise the head of the serpent; Jesus will destroy the serpent.

He is coming to take his bride, the church, to himself; Jesus, the last Adam, is coming to comfort his bride, and take her to himself forever in marrriage.

What is crazy or too difficult to understand in all this, ehn? What is hard about this symbology?

They make jest of what they do not understand instead of seeking understanding.

Miss his coming, that is when you will understand thay you are truly the mad one.

Seun come and see oo, the Op has just explained the trend on nairaland. You're quickening the coming of Christ without knowing

Lalasticlala, run for cover so your head won't be bruised oo

This is funny.


But I thought singing of the national anthem is a pledge of loyalty to the country. shouldn't that be something good or is there another national anthem?

Stanza 1 or 2? Let me sing it first.

1.
Arise, O compatriots, Nigeria's call obey
To serve our fatherland
With love and strength and faith
The labour of our heroes past
Shall never be in vain
To serve with heart and might
One nation bound in freedom, peace and unity.

2.
Oh God of creation, direct our noble cause
Guide our leaders right
Help our youth the truth to know
In love and honesty to grow
And living just and true
Great lofty heights attain
To build a nation where peace and justice shall reign.

Demons can't sing the national anthem. The lyrics are even too powerful for them to try.

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Let's not forget to pray for our leaders daily and Nigeria as a whole. It's our duty as watchmen.

Analice107,
Dear Sis, are you secretly in love with someone here or is my mind playing tricks on me?