₦airaland Forum

just be nice to her and politely let her know that it wont work,am experiencing one lately,i do send her recharge card often so that she may not feel ignored,no point laying a lady when you know deep down it cant move to the nxt level.

i was in tears while reading the topic and comments,7 months ago i lost my wife of 5years in marriage living behind 2 lovely sons who are age 4 and 2 respectively,she was a pillar to me while i was an undergraduate at uniben,the cause of her death is still a mystery, i ve been praying for God to see me thru,my 2 boys keep asking me 'Daddy when is mummy coming back from the market, cos the day this unfortuate incident happened, she called that she will pick up some provisions from the market while she drop the senior boy at school,before she left she complain that she was not too ok,i insisted she shd rest and she our Doc b4 leaving for the market 'dont worry dear am fine;she came back frm market while i was at work, she when to the clinic herself,she was diagnoze treated she ate very well,i closed frm work having picking up the kids frm schl,we were all 2gether at the clinic till 8pm when she requested that i shd send for her sister which i did,she told her sister that to take the kids to her place that let me remain,i stayed till 12am when nurses ask me to leave,while leaving she said 'take care of the children,then i said am i not doing well enough?she replied i know you can but i want to be sure,i told her the kids are fine and not to bother,not knowing i was seeing her alive for the last time,barely 30mins while at home trying to catch some sleep,the Doc drove to my place,which i find unusual,he was trying to be over friendly,i kept calm when back to the clinic,at the entrance my senior colleagues came to me and said God will take control,i went to her bed on looking at her closely she look as if she was sleeping,then i told them she will be ok everybody shld go and sleep,not until the Doc said ur wife is no more,at that moment i went blank,12hrs later having regaining consciousness,my mum,brothers were sitting by my bedside in a different hospital entirely praying,then i knew my wife is no more,its a terrible experience no one will understand except someone who have had similar predicament.the idea another woman is out of the question,how will i explain to my kids that am having another woman in there Daddys house.HOW?

this guy is really funny,just some few courses and you are contemplating suicide?haba no be so you are still very young,mine is even worst than yours.i finished secondary school 1998,failed waec that year left for lag to an uncles place to rewrite same waec failed the second time,my uncle gave up on me that i should go the village to join my parents since i was not serious academically and mind you we were victims of kano riots around 1999 and do you believe that all that my parents ve laboured for all the years of sojourn in the ancient city was burnt down, my parents and younger siblings came to villa on tatters,i joined them later at villa that year but couldnt cope with the kind of livestyle i found myself in my home state at delta, having grown up at kano then boarding school at jos,i said no this not the kind of life i intend leaving, while most of my former schl mates were in different federal uni cos we do communicate thru letters, infact i start deceiving myself by visiting my friends in their various campus attending lectures with them and having campus chicks as girlfriend not until i started getting into trouble that i eventually enter the street to fend for myself,to crown it all i wrote jamb 5 times,i spilled 2tice at uniben studying an engine course graduating at 34,so guy u aint seen nothing just wake up frm that ur childhood blunder,once you dead in a couple of weeks you re forgotten tho ur parents will bear the pains for the rest of their lives and guess what you gonna rot in hell cos God gave us life not to take it on our own will.STAY BLESSED.

i remember back in the era of the demolition man at abuja,Mallam El rufai the current Governor of kaduna state.He ordered his guys to demolish the slum i was residing at jabi area of the FCT,i have no choice to relocate to an uncompleted building to spend most of my night while during the day i hustle for all sorts of manual labour within construction sites,i remember vividly when we use to offload a trailer load of cement, we fight just to get our name on the list of offloaders, it was terrible back then for survival most times at the end of the day one is left with barely nothing a hand to mouth situation,however by the grace of God ve been able to struggle to survive with a wonderful job at the ministry of defence,with a family of my own and earning a pay that is beyond my imagination,so its left for those guys to keep their hope alive,that there is light at the end of the tunnel,once there is life all hope is not lost.PEACE

can someone enlighten me please,what of the case of a late individual and the said account is still used for transaction?or can the next of kin stand for the person as stated.

Maj Gen wambai or Alamo,guys ve u heard of such dubious names in NA or the Armed forces,heavy scammers instead of using their God given talents for productive ventures rather they are out there to swindle ignorant people.one day the arm of the law will catch up with you

A guy in my dept is struggling to graduate with the so called 2.2,however he is a guru in design and fabrication of machine tools infact, he lectures strenght of materials in a state university,most professors in my dept require his expertise in most of their designs for seminars and publications,we ought to have grad last year together but he is have some outstanding to clear,we pleaded with him to come over to clear them,he is not bothered cos he is making money big time out there,so my guy its all about perception and what u can offer,not the damn grade.

am very much interested in a professional courses like mechatronics,i had a foundation course at UNIBEN where i recently graduated in production engineering,i would be very happy for more knowledge and exposure,kindly keep me updated.thanks

holluwizzy:
I am yoruba to the Cor

I once had an isokoo gurl as GF!!!

Larshing around is her hubby so I had to let her go which was painful

But now!!! Good single and not searching.

lkewise while serving as a gallant AHUWA at Dodan barracks at the obalende area of Lag island,i had one Bose very cute and fat at backside she love this ewa agonyi so much that i order my younger colleagues to buy for her every morning,it was really fun then,i miss her no doubt but finally settled with a wife from my dialet IBREDEto be precise with two lovely sons,while i rep the great IGBIDE kingdom.

HI nairalanders we are specialists in the laying of tiles marbles and granite with with wealth of experience across the federation contact us on akbenzon@yahoo.com our charges are very much affordable.

Be careful about rumour mongers where we not told His Excellency is at saudi to celebrate the sallah?or for his normal medical checks.If Dead then it is the will of the Almighty Allah.

Is there a credible ICT company out there that would be lable to supply laptops and its accessories on large quantities to military formations across the country interested organisation schould mail akbenzon@yahoo.com.for more information.

i can very much be of great assistance provided you have the capital for a start up. The business is very lucrative.i do supply fast growing fingerlings and juveniles also i specialize on various types of pond construction eg wooden ponds,plastic ponds,concrete ponds and total recyclatorysystemof pond aquaculture.for more info call Benson on 08036975972 or send a mail to akbenyon@yahoo.com.cheers

Is there any credible ICT company out there that will be able to supply laptops and its accessories on a large scale to military formation acrss the country.interested org to contact akbenzon@yahoo.com for more information or call benson on 08036975972.