₦airaland Forum

Buhari government is the worst in the history of Nigeria.... We keep moving backwards......
"CHANGE" destroyed the country, now they presented "NEXT LEVEL".

Korllami007:
She don chop life with different guys within the two years and those guys don move to another fresh and young chick. Now, she fall back on with that guy as a last resort.

She use my guy as generator when nepa take light.

Every guy would be used as generators by the ladies... Even guys the get backup babes.

elyte89:
Make dem try am with just 3mushin kids...dey will b held into a barren draw

Mtchewwwwww!!
How many players from mushin has played for the national team?, talk more of to travel out..

Chioma don't deserve this ugly Indian hemp smoking man.... With his frog voice..

Logunyakata:
What am about to say here will generate lots of abuses but I don't mind as long as I get d right pieces of advice.
I am a married man.My wife and I leave apart within Nigeria due to my work.I work outside d state where my family reside but visit my family every two weeks.
Somehow,I started dating a 25 year old girl whom I eventually developed feelings for her and decided to keep her as a permanent side chic and didn't want her to ve any other boyfriend.
I provided all that she needed within my limited resources and ensures that she does not lack.I even helped her thru school until she graduated.
Along d line,despite all I did to provide for her,she cheated on me with someone she met on social media just b'cos d man promised to give her #100k.And after that,she kept sleeping with d man who kept giving her different amounts of money ranging from #30-50k while still sleeping with d man who is also married.
And d painful thing about d situation is that d very week she first slept with d man for #100k,I gave her #70k to take care of some bills and told her to hold for me until d next week to give her d balance of #40k she requested 4.I was able to discover what she was doing when she went into d toilet at midnight to receive a call from d man who was also expecting her that same day ,since he didn't know she had another man in her life. She was begging d man not to get angry,telling him all sort of lies for not meeting him at d hotel as he requested.Unknown to her,I was by d toilet door and listened to all her conversations as she thought I was deep asleep.She was shocked when she came out & met me by d door.Obviously she had no choice but to confess that she had been sleeping with d man for about three months and she needed d #100k to buy additional clothes to boost her wardrobe as d money I had given her for clothes was not enough.I was very shocked that she could do what she did for money to buy clothes.I am a very jealous person and I could not imagine that she had been sharing me with some other person,but b'cos of d love I ve for her,I 4gave her and continued in d relationship and ensured that I kept providing for her just as I provided for my family.She never lacked.Despite that Nairalanders,she just cheated on me again with another man in d hotel,obviously for money.Obviously,I ve ended d relationship and want to move on but d challenge I ve is that I can't stop thinking about her while at d same time I don't want to remain in that kind of relationship b'cos she will not change.She will keep cheating.What I observe about her is that she is used to living a social media life where wants to compete with her friends on social media or celebrities in terms of dressing and class of living. Posting pictures in expensive dressing & grooming, brandishing her iPhone which I bought for her.She was using an iPhone 6 but pressurized me to buy iPhone x for her which I did.Recently,b'4 d break up she was even requesting for iPhone xs max and #150k to buy clothes & shoes.
I knew from d onset that she is a very materialistic person but I never held it against her.This was a girl that when I met her,she was struggling to survive.
She was travelling from one state to the other to sleep with different men to raise some money to support what her parents were giving in school.
I liked her despite my observations.She demanded for #80k for her birthday just one week after we met and I gave her.Two months later,I caught her making a sex video call with someone while they were both masturbating but I still stuck with her.Things that could ve scared most men.I just liked her.After that incident, she promised to be stable with me and let me know whenever she has a single man to marry,so that we can peacefully part ways but she rather cheated on me twice despite my efforts to provide for her.
So,nairalanders,I ended d relationship some days,ago but I keep thinking about her and can't concentrate.Am even tempted to go back to her which I know it is not d best decision.Though she has been begging for forgiveness and says she want me back.
I am just confused.I need advice.
I know I ve done wrong to love another woman beside my wife whom I still love very much,but am just caught in d web of this girl and do not know if am normal.
Pls,u shld all temper justice with mercy as u abuse me but give me d right advice.

You are not normal, She will still come back to beg you because of the free money you give her.

Logunyakata:
What am about to say here will generate lots of abuses but I don't mind as long as I get d right pieces of advice.
I am a married man.My wife and I leave apart within Nigeria due to my work.I work outside d state where my family reside but visit my family every two weeks.
Somehow,I started dating a 25 year old girl whom I eventually developed feelings for her and decided to keep her as a permanent side chic and didn't want her to ve any other boyfriend.
I provided all that she needed within my limited resources and ensures that she does not lack.I even helped her thru school until she graduated.
Along d line,despite all I did to provide for her,she cheated on me with someone she met on social media just b'cos d man promised to give her #100k.And after that,she kept sleeping with d man who kept giving her different amounts of money ranging from #30-50k while still sleeping with d man who is also married.
And d painful thing about d situation is that d very week she first slept with d man for #100k,I gave her #70k to take care of some bills and told her to hold for me until d next week to give her d balance of #40k she requested 4.I was able to discover what she was doing when she went into d toilet at midnight to receive a call from d man who was also expecting her that same day ,since he didn't know she had another man in her life. She was begging d man not to get angry,telling him all sort of lies for not meeting him at d hotel as he requested.Unknown to her,I was by d toilet door and listened to all her conversations as she thought I was deep asleep.She was shocked when she came out & met me by d door.Obviously she had no choice but to confess that she had been sleeping with d man for about three months and she needed d #100k to buy additional clothes to boost her wardrobe as d money I had given her for clothes was not enough.I was very shocked that she could do what she did for money to buy clothes.I am a very jealous person and I could not imagine that she had been sharing me with some other person,but b'cos of d love I ve for her,I 4gave her and continued in d relationship and ensured that I kept providing for her just as I provided for my family.She never lacked.Despite that Nairalanders,she just cheated on me again with another man in d hotel,obviously for money.Obviously,I ve ended d relationship and want to move on but d challenge I ve is that I can't stop thinking about her while at d same time I don't want to remain in that kind of relationship b'cos she will not change.She will keep cheating.What I observe about her is that she is used to living a social media life where wants to compete with her friends on social media or celebrities in terms of dressing and class of living. Posting pictures in expensive dressing & grooming, brandishing her iPhone which I bought for her.She was using an iPhone 6 but pressurized me to buy iPhone x for her which I did.Recently,b'4 d break up she was even requesting for iPhone xs max and #150k to buy clothes & shoes.
I knew from d onset that she is a very materialistic person but I never held it against her.This was a girl that when I met her,she was struggling to survive.
She was travelling from one state to the other to sleep with different men to raise some money to support what her parents were giving in school.
I liked her despite my observations.She demanded for #80k for her birthday just one week after we met and I gave her.Two months later,I caught her making a sex video call with someone while they were both masturbating but I still stuck with her.Things that could ve scared most men.I just liked her.After that incident, she promised to be stable with me and let me know whenever she has a single man to marry,so that we can peacefully part ways but she rather cheated on me twice despite my efforts to provide for her.
So,nairalanders,I ended d relationship some days,ago but I keep thinking about her and can't concentrate.Am even tempted to go back to her which I know it is not d best decision.Though she has been begging for forgiveness and says she want me back.
I am just confused.I need advice.
I know I ve done wrong to love another woman beside my wife whom I still love very much,but am just caught in d web of this girl and do not know if am normal.
Pls,u shld all temper justice with mercy as u abuse me but give me d right advice.

You are not normal..... She will still come back to beg you because of the free money you give her.