Romance › Re: Marrying An Older Lady? by benueman1(m): 11:31pm On Nov 29, 2020 |
Congratulations guy go and marry your wife, you are already comfortable with her, older means 25 year older but 2years is not a older to me,,, infact understanding matter alot, she is mature, she will likely to give u rest of mind,, pls invite us to wedding next year.. congratulations..
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Properties › Re: How Do I Handle My Landlord?? by benueman1(m): 4:29pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
Mama4dworld: Hello everyone... please advice me.
My landlord is ignoring me.
My house is leaking.... very very badly. I have complained to him on several occasions and he has done absolutely nothing about it. I have been experiencing this issue since the rain started this year.
And this man doesn't give a damn about it.
When it rains everywhere will be soaked.
NB: I moved in during the dry season last year. This is something I wouldn't have known.
What can I do...I really want him to pay for this...it is sincerely not fair...the worst part of everything is...he doesn't care.
What can I do?? I can help out as a lawyer, we write to him to repair leakage within two, failure to do so you shall repair it and deduct the cost from your next rent.., once your landlord see a lawyers letter he will know you are not joking.. |
Christianity Etc › Re: William Kumuyi Celebrates His 79th Birthday by benueman1(m): 11:05am On Jun 06, 2020 |
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Romance › Re: A Beautiful Virgin Married A Man On Wheelchair In Lekki Lagos. by benueman1(op): 7:50am On May 26, 2020 |
Randy100: Something is telling me that the guy in wheelchair is stinkly rich. Op can you confirm my suspicion? The guy is just normal guy, he into I.T, he did not have car at the time of this wedding. |
Romance › Re: A Beautiful Virgin Married A Man On Wheelchair In Lekki Lagos. by benueman1(op): 12:45am On May 26, 2020 |
[quote author=benueman1 post=89963679][/quote]let try and go marry my own wife....
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Romance › Re: A Beautiful Virgin Married A Man On Wheelchair In Lekki Lagos. by benueman1(op): 12:41am On May 26, 2020 |
benueman1: Its looks like miracle last weekend 23rd of May 2020 in Rccg Jesus Assembly Mega Parish beside Mega chicken Lekki-Ajah Expressway where a wedding between Dammy Akintade and Chisom vivan took place, only ten people allowed to attended the wedding because of the Covid19 and the social distance rules in Lagos state. One Redeemed pastor was present the Ass. Prov. Pst. Femi Mosuro with two bestman James and Nero, both groom and bride parents. The interesting side in wedding is that the girl was too beautiful for a man on a wheelchair to marry, and also it was said that the lady is virgin, Now am 32 year, am lawyer still single, my sister once told me that ladies don't marry for love, they marry for comfort and guys who gat money to take care of them. Now my perception has changed there is still true love, there is still unconditionally love,, The parents of the lady refused to give aproval for the wedding last year, but this year true love prevailed, Question: Can Nigerians ladies bear the burden of a man on a wheelchair I think this lady deserves a special recognition, her name is Chisom vivian..
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Romance › A Beautiful Virgin Married A Man On Wheelchair In Lekki Lagos. by benueman1(op): 12:31am On May 26, 2020 |
Its looks like miracle last weekend 23rd of May 2020 in Rccg Jesus Assembly Mega Parish beside Mega chicken Lekki-Ajah Expressway where a wedding between Dammy Akintade and Chisom vivan took place, only ten people allowed to attended the wedding because of the Covid19 and the social distance rules in Lagos state. One Redeemed pastor was present the Ass. Prov. Pst. Femi Mosuro with two bestman James and Nero, both groom and bride parents. The interesting side in wedding is that the girl was too beautiful for a man on a wheelchair to marry, and also it was said that the lady is virgin, Now am 32 year, am lawyer still single, my sister once told me that ladies don't marry for love, they marry for comfort and guys who gat money to take care of them. Now my perception has changed there is still true love, there is still unconditionally love,, The parents of the lady refused to give aproval for the wedding last year, but this year true love prevailed, Question: Can Nigerians ladies bear the burden of a man on a wheelchair  I think this lady deserves a special recognition, her name is Chisom vivian..
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Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Just Confessed She Fornicated Inside The Church by benueman1(m): 10:18pm On May 25, 2020 |
Lifedonor: I will have to go straight to the point.
The lockdown due to covid 19 made my girl friend and I bond even closer to the extent she practically was almost living with me. She only leave my place to her house (not too far from mine) just to change her clothes or her other items as the case maybe. Sometime along the line I fell ill and she was very much helpful.
Fast forward to early May, I discovered she had become too glued to her phone. We would be seeing a movie on TV and her phone will be with her (chatting) at a point I complained. This got worse to the extent that when I wake up in the night say 1AM this girl is still up charting.
Two days ago I went to the hospital for my final check up and I left with the keys since she wasn't around when I left the house. When I got back I found her small Nokia phone on the table and I decided to go through it.
The messages I found there are things I won't want to talk about but the major one that promoted this thread is that I saw a message from her choir member telling her that he is on his way to church already and that she should come fast before the program starts so they can meet. I went through his previous messages with her and lo and behold they have been dating for a month now.
Guys when she got back I threatened fire and brimstone and booommm! The confession. They usually meet an hour before choir practises and they went behind the church towards the generator house to kiss touch and romance that was the reason she always left the house so Early.
Do you guys know that we had a very good sex that same day she left to the church to kiss this guy. Do you know she bathed in my house, she used my deodorant, she ate my food and wore the clothes I bought for her. Apparently she kissed and romanced two guys in less than 3hrs.
This is the second time she is cheating on me. I know quite sure there could be more but this is the only one she agreed to may be cos there was a text evidence.
She has been pleading and begging. But if she could do this even in the church and on a day I was in the hospital ... I am thinking of quitting. Pls advise me
She is 22 in her finals the guy is 25 same university (I live in a university town)
I have met her parents and I have verbally told her that I would marry her. If not for the way 2020 turned out I wanted settling down November this year. We have dated for 2yrs
She even spoke to my mom in the morning of the same day. let me show you an example of true love, you see ..
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Crime › Re: Osun Mother Ties Up Her Son In Sack Over Evil Spirit Allegations (video) by benueman1(m): 12:17pm On May 19, 2020 |
sirblend: This happens when you take advice from fake men of God......e.g pastor Chris Onyakilome and Prophet T.B Joshua. Na wa for you ooo...., why are you dragging pastors into this matter? can't you think straight for once? |
Romance › Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by benueman1(m): 12:51pm On May 09, 2020 |
"I took courage and approached her and she told me she is engaged to be married this December but the problem is that after that our chat she has been tailing me. She always comes around me to sit close to me during service meetings. Some times she'd be starring so much at me that you'd wonder. I'm beginning to think wether she actually told me the truth about her relationship status earlier or she is just trying to hold on to me as alternative just incase here marriage plans with the other guy goes south."
You are a man, be bold, ask her again the first question you asked her, if she said she still engaged then bye bye to her, but if not represent your proposal this last time, because i sense you love her, but never allow lady to use you as speared tyre, shine eye,,,, |
Family › Re: My Wife Is Angry With Me Because I Bought Underwears For Her Niece by benueman1(m): 1:46pm On May 05, 2020 |
"I took all kids out for clothes shopping just before this pandemic and I bought clothes including under wears for all kids but my wife wasn’t happy because I bought bras and under wears for her niece. She said the clothes are fine but I have no right to buy under wears for her. She accused me of sleeping with her niece which is not true. I only did it because this girl was in need of clothes just imagine for 2 years no clothes while she keeps changing our kids wardrobes like every 4-6 months"
My brother, you are a good man /good husband, God will bless you always, U have done nothing wrong, your conscience is clear, you only marry a bad woman, she has low self esteem, very insecure for competing with a small girl from the village " her niece" she should be grateful to you for allowing her niece in your home, so your wife didn't trust you. please don't stop been nice, teach your children to be kind before your wife teach them wickedness,.. caution ur wife never never to rubbish your image or else you will sent the young girl back to her village. Any way don't mind any body blaming you, you gave her money for 2years she refuse to buy the cloths for the niece she must be a shameless selfish wife, she need to repent. |