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RomanceRe: Still Wondering Why Nigerian Men Have Difficulty Getting Married, Early In Life? by bernardette(f): 8:40am On Mar 24, 2016
Jameskyle:
Most of us are not done With the sweet yummy tight young growing virgins dammit.... U don't know Wat u missing after getting married and sticking to one partner for life shocked
u are unwise
RomanceRe: Still Wondering Why Nigerian Men Have Difficulty Getting Married, Early In Life? by bernardette(f): 7:44am On Mar 24, 2016
[quote author=SIRTee15 post=44054014]Forget it, it's money factor.
If guys achieve economic stability early in life, majority will get married on time.
Look here, marriage no be joke........ and as a man, if u're not financially ready to meet it's demand......
OYO for u
Ur wife will not even respect u......
And there's little u can do if she start cheating on u..... SIRtee, you are still going backward...economy economy....stop blaming economy, and do something about the economy, let a man plan himself early in life, and see if he won't succeed despite economy palava it saddens me that, majority of ouryoung men can't take the pain to think smartly anylonger, and why...one of them are the courses we put in for, in institutions, courses that are not needed in Nigeria, imagine a young man, telling you he read french for 4 years..and if he had been the type to learn other innovative courses, such as agriculture, it ll dofor him, but majority ll prefare going for the so called courses with beautiful names, another issue is HANDSET, ofcos, the technology is to broaden our thinking , but instead, its the source of most young ppl's downfall tell me why economy ll nt decide ur lifefor you..its time we stop giving xcuses... put ur effort in God's hands...God bless our hustle...read my signature......
RomanceRe: Still Wondering Why Nigerian Men Have Difficulty Getting Married, Early In Life? by bernardette(f): 7:18am On Mar 24, 2016
SIRTee15:
Forget it, it's money factor.
If guys achieve economic stability early in life, majority will get married on time.
Look here, marriage no be joke........ and as a man, if u're not financially ready to meet it's demand......
OYO for u
Ur wife will not even respect u......
And there's little u can do if she start cheating on u..... SIRtee, you are still going backward...economy economy....stop blaming economy, and do something about the economy, let a man plan himself early in life, and see if he won't succeed despite economy palava...andd let him put it all in God's hands...God bless your hustle...read my signature
Come Lagos..... and see the rate married women cheats..... they don't even hide it again.
My sister, economy is not pleasant and this is putting a lot of strain on guys to start a family.
Except u just want to do the I don't care family style...... Dey born dey go.... God will watch over them.

It's not only a Nigerian problem.
It's endemic among educated young men in emerging economies.......
Egypt, India, Pakistan, China, Mexico, Indonesia......
Al jazeera even did a documentary about the issue one time like that.....
Eligible bachelors who desire to start a family but keep pushing it forward due to lack of financial independence in developing nations.
RomanceRe: Still Wondering Why Nigerian Men Have Difficulty Getting Married, Early In Life? by bernardette(f): 10:58pm On Mar 23, 2016
skywalker240:
to some extent u ar right, but u also hav 2 tk this in mind, that u ladies always go 4 d so called best(made men)
be sincere, wil u ever pay attention to a shit parker?
80% ladies fault, and 20% guys
if we continue to blame one gender or the other, solution ll never surface...a female like myself, you dnt have to own a mansion b4 you could win my love...a man, who can use his head to make life good for himself, and is ready to step out of the "shit parker" you mentioned...with my assistance, he ll step out..not a man who stays in the city flexing with friends, crying NO JOB..and wake up one day, all he can tell you is that I am not ready for marriage, even at 35yrs of age, I ll ask him, what have you been doing from 25yrs of age?..tell me why I wont move on to a better man...most of our young bachelors of 2day, shld stop being lazy..plan for a family early..with that mentality..u ll knw a lot is at ur fore front that you must work on..its nt bad if a man starts his plan on what tto settle down with at age 21..b4 he is 30..and with the help of rich minded ppl, he ll get somwhere..and there won't be crisis, from fiancee, and also their parents xpects more from them as well..dnt wait for a secured job somewhere to determine how you run ur life..cos mostly that's the main issue..
RomanceRe: Still Wondering Why Nigerian Men Have Difficulty Getting Married, Early In Life? by bernardette(f): 10:15am On Mar 23, 2016
harakiri:
@Theblessed]



Really?



Create jobs how? Create jobs from what? Perhaps you should give ideas how a penniless jobless man can "create" employment out of thin air. From your post, you are obviously not in touch with reality and you are quoting the same jargon the govt folks use when they want to shift responsibility from themselves.




Pull which resources together? There are people who have NOTHING to use as leverage. Once again, you are obviously not in touch with reality. Do anything for work? Pack $hit abi? When last did you see a "$hit packer"? How much do you think farm workers get paid? It's barely enough to feed for a day so when and how can he save for marriage? You are obviously one dumb a$$ bimbo that has no idea what the real world is like.



The "laziest" Nigerian man has more positive innovative ideas than the average white boy on the streets of New York.




Nonsense!!!



More Nonsense!!!



Sniffling cultures? Good heavens!!!

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I can't bother myself replying rubbish.
....seriously, aside being a female...the lady is right, there is no point in what u are dragging with her, and whatever she has stated, are for you to get the true fact in them...I am afraid most of you with this mindset of 'NO JOB, so I can't marry' may evn end up loosing the real wife materials...and when you have acquired all you want to, a gold digger comes forward, when she sees you are desperate for a wife...create job urself...u complain about from what resources?...that's why u are a man...mingle with like minds...u are here complaining and some young men are making it...from which resources could that have been as well...its time you think well,nt jst deeply, Nigerian young men...even the bible said...don't miss. Your chance to marry a good woman...she is your main source of success...its time you divert your mindset from what the economy can offer you....or else you lament for ever, poverty is a choice.....read my signature below
RomanceRe: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by bernardette(f): 6:49pm On Mar 12, 2016
skywalker240:
Lady, i never said you were,..
Now your question just said it.

Do you want to know my honest reply to the question u asked?
what I mean is that, such issue shhld be treated equally, irrespective ofgender, a man that womanizes and a woman that sleeps arround, all need to face it..instead, the society ll tell u to forgive ur man, and take him back, infact, bcome a prostitute on the bed, jst to satisfy a womanizer u call your man, so tyhat he won't look elsewhere..but for a woman, ...she ll rather be condemned, if possible, she may be stoned, as ppl do in the olden days...
RomanceRe: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by bernardette(f): 6:43pm On Mar 12, 2016
skywalker240:
Lady, i never said you were,..
Now your question just said it.

Do you want to know my honest reply to the question u asked?
what's ur reply?
CrimeRe: Stepmother Tortures 10-Year-Old Girl With Fire (photo) by bernardette(f): 6:40pm On Mar 12, 2016
Flexherbal:
Do step fathers do this? Men don't have that time.
no they dnt, but instead they rape their step daughters.....God shall bring justice to all of them as due
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CrimeRe: Student Sentenced To Death For Stealing Recharge Cards And A Mobile Phone by bernardette(f): 8:11am On Mar 10, 2016
gerald09:
24 n in high school n stealing cell phone Wow! I can imagine how s*tupit he is, y bother going to skool he would have spent does yrs knowing politician n perfecting his robbing skills. U don't rob peoples cell phone or laptops, dats grounds for execution either by d court or d people, instead u rob their future and resource and they'll worship and celebrate u for it.
hmmmmm...
CrimeRe: 3 Men Arrested For Gang-raping Woman While Boyfriend Watch by bernardette(f): 7:59am On Mar 10, 2016
Aviero:
You'll be surprised to know that most victims of rape were not dressed indecently.

Some of you just read thrash on the net and conclude. SMH
yes, its true...some men are jst bastards...
LiteratureRe: Unplanned Love (imaginary Love Story) by bernardette(f): 10:13pm On Mar 09, 2016
Adeola nao....
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LiteratureRe: Unplanned Love (imaginary Love Story) by bernardette(f): 10:31pm On Mar 08, 2016
This is fantastic, abeg no tell me say na there e end o...continu...
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Enjoys Talking With Me The Bathroom While I Take A Dump! by bernardette(f): 1:28pm On Mar 04, 2016
doyin13:
Your problem no hard at all. . . . .

Just chop every yamma yamma thing known to man.

By the time u mess alone, she go knw wats up.
looooolllllllzzzzzz
RomanceRe: I Caught My Best Man With My Wife Two Weeks To Our Wedding. by bernardette(f): 10:42pm On Mar 02, 2016
skywalker240:
first of all ,
nice novel,..oya straigth to mattaz at hand,
Will u still marry an unfaithfull partner?
I am nt justifying this lady's act o, but what if it were the man that had sex with the lady's chief bride maid especially during the so called bachelor's eve, when its an uportunity for the 'groom to be' to mess arround.
CelebritiesRe: Mercy Johnson Shares Photos Of Her Daughters by bernardette(f): 8:58pm On Mar 02, 2016
Palmwinetapper:
God will never punish me for saying the truth but will punish you for lying. Please, help me, what is there to be jealous of?
your own pikin fine?...maybe u still dey beg God for one sef....be careful with ur statement o...this children are indeed beautiful...I dnt knw why you celebrity fans act like this...if u dnt knw what to say, keep quiet
CelebritiesRe: Mercy Johnson Shares Photos Of Her Daughters by bernardette(f): 8:52pm On Mar 02, 2016
Can't wait to be a mum too
RomanceRe: Is It Wrong To Have Sex After Taking Holy Communion In Church Today? by bernardette(f): 4:31pm On Feb 07, 2016
LORDSAMURAI:
are u any better?
....let your conscience judge you, if you knew its normal, why are you worried as to post it here...fornication is sin...and it remains so..no matter what. Our society preaches, remember, He said..'I am the God that changest not'

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