Politics › Re: EFCC Arrests Two Bankers Over N3.6BN Fraud by bewla(m): 10:02am On Aug 07, 2015 |
will see in court |
Nairaland General › Re: Woman Confesses To Selling 19 Kids To Ritualists In Imo State by bewla(m): 9:59am On Aug 07, 2015 |
ma gbe le |
Politics › Re: Aregbesola And Ajimobi Reject 'His Excellency' Title by bewla(m): 9:58am On Aug 07, 2015 |
i concur |
Sports › Re: Unbelievable! Register And Win A Samsung Note II!! by bewla(m): 9:56am On Aug 07, 2015 |
yet to read |
Education › Re: Deteriorated Road Seen In Futo (photos) And Yet The Government Does Nothing by bewla(m): 9:55am On Aug 07, 2015 |
u |
Politics › Re: Cash Crunch Hits House Of Reps, June/July Salaries Unpaid-Punch by bewla(m): 9:54am On Aug 07, 2015 |
them never here am |
Crime › Re: Woman Confesses To Selling 19 Kids To Ritualists In Imo State by bewla(m): 9:52am On Aug 07, 2015 |
and |
Celebrities › Re: Video: Davido Explains His Side Of The Alleged MC Galaxy Fight by bewla(m): 9:50am On Aug 07, 2015 |
r |
Romance › Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, And He Does Not Know It!!! by bewla(m): 9:38am On Aug 07, 2015 |
Portsmouth86: Newly married to my husband, since March this year ... I only have to look at my parents mum is 49 dad is 69 (yes 20yrs age gap ) they have been married 31 years.
My husband is currently in Nigeria, but we call and chat every day without fail which is important, and we will continue once hes here in UK, there's nothing that we don't talk about.
I don't believe there is a length of time you need to be married for you to know how to keep it strong and happy, Marriage is a union, 2 become 1.
 nothing to drag here but remember this if u from this part of d world u no what am saying u need to b strong and prayerful to keep ur man this africa even we the married once are not blind to whats out side more over if u want to flight if she is nest to u.u do what u want .so my advice is find a way to get is attention and b more prayerful and ask God wisdom to keep what u have lastly this my country full of surprise this is Africa |
Islam › Re: Very Moving Story: **my Mum’s Reversion Story** by bewla(m): 4:37am On Aug 07, 2015 |
Taqbir |
Romance › Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, And He Does Not Know It!!! by bewla(m): 4:33am On Aug 07, 2015 |
chuddyot: Please this story isn’t about me ,a female shared it and I decided to share here.. I have been married to my hubby for 8 years and we are blessed with 4 boys which I had vaginally. After my last boy, my marriage went from bad to worse, as in, getting my hubby’s attention over the years has been very difficult. To have s#x with him is even on ‘appointment’ basis. The rate at which my marriage was going, I knew that if I didn’t do something about it, it would move from worse to worst. I sought the advice of one of my very close friends and she told me what to do. As funny as this sounds, it was working very well and I don’t want what I am doing to end. I got a new phone and sim card, then opened new accounts on all the social media, putting all my best body parts as the display/profile picture, especially on facebook, whatsapp and bbm. I then sent a friend request to my husband. The silly man did not waste any time in accepting my requests. At first, he played hard to get but I still relented. Because my identity is not revealed to him, I went back to being the way I used to be with him that made him fall in love with me. I flirted with him badly, and he keeps falling more and more. NHW, you won’t believe I send pictures of my p&%**y to him every morning and if you see how excited he gets. Can you imagine, he does not recognize ‘it’! The relationship has been going on strong for 6 months. In that 6 months, if you know how much he has sent to me. He has been begging to see my face, but I know that if I try that…the relationship will be over. Back as his wife, his attention to me has greatly waned but he has been very polite and somewhat ‘nice’. He now locks his phone, as if… NHW, I would rather have my hubby as a boyfriend than a husband. What do you think? Should I continue or should I stop? Sister enjoy it while it last but Remember this africa if u get cut u on your own. |
Romance › Re: My Husband Is My Boyfriend On Facebook, And He Does Not Know It!!! by bewla(m): 4:30am On Aug 07, 2015 |
Portsmouth86: I think communication is key in any marriage, tell him how you feel, women can give the cold shoulder if hubby is not showing her attention, that's a bad move, since your husband will feel rejection, hints wont work, sit down and talk 
Marriage is a two way road and both husband and wife must make it a priority to keep the spark in their marriage ignited. Remember when you got butterflies the first time you met eyes with your spouse? The first time that you told each other, "I love you!"
Just because you're married doesn't mean you can't flirt with your spouse and still court them. Tell them how much you love them or how attractive they look. Drop a pick-up line or two. "Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?" Ha - okay, it may sound corny but your spouse will appreciate your efforts or above all else get a good laugh.
Never let the sparks die out. Take your spouse out for a date and if possible set up a date night schedule. This will allow you to have quality time together and reconnect after a hectic week. Having alone time will help you appreciate each other and unwind from everyday stress.
Make sure that your spouse knows that they are a priority in your life and not just another person in a schedule or scenario. They are important and life wouldn't be the same without them - make sure that they are aware of that! Don't assume!
Make time for each other. It's very hard when you have children to get away but remember that without your marriage you would not have the foundation of your family, Keep in mind that your marriage is just as important as your children. You're setting the example for your kids when it comes to good/bad relationships.
That is my view on marriage and how to keep it alive. thanks how long have u being in one with this your long story . |
Celebrities › Re: Dj Jimmy Jatt Clears 'gay Scandal' Buzz by bewla(m): 4:21am On Aug 07, 2015 |
Any how money na money them no wright gay for one |
Politics › Re: Lawyer Sues Buhari, Osinbajo Over Assets Declaration by bewla(m): 4:14am On Aug 07, 2015 |
at the end who pay who |
Politics › Re: The Elite Used Boko Haram For Their Selfish Interests – Outgoing COAS, Kenneth M by bewla(m): 4:12am On Aug 07, 2015 |
crazy war zone |
Politics › Re: Yobe Tribunal Admits N15m Bribe Exhibits Against REC by bewla(m): 4:08am On Aug 07, 2015 |
oh my head who do we trust again in this crazy zone |
Politics › Re: Emir Of Kano Sanusi Visits VP Yemi Osinbajo(PHOTOS) by bewla(m): 4:01am On Aug 07, 2015 |
long life to us all better Nigeria is here we say now |
Celebrities › Re: Taribo West Hairstyle Live On by bewla(m): 3:59am On Aug 07, 2015 |
originality |
Celebrities › Re: Taribo West Hairstyle Live On by bewla(m): 3:57am On Aug 07, 2015 |
no be mistake at all |
Politics › Re: Buhari Begins Total Probe Of Jonathan’s Govt by bewla(m): 3:55am On Aug 07, 2015 |
on the contrary. i dey warm bench |
Politics › Re: How Boko Haram Members Decapitated Nigerian Police Officer (graphic Photos) by bewla(m): 3:53am On Aug 07, 2015 |
this photo again |
Culture › Re: King Of Swaziland Chooses Wife, Test Coverless Girls' Publicly (PHOTOS) by bewla(m): 9:11pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
tom |
Jokes Etc › Re: Some Funny Pictures And Lovely Memes I Have Ever Comme Across. by bewla(m): 9:03pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
sikira kosi rice |
Politics › Re: Senators Abandon Lawan, Tinubu. by bewla(m): 8:56pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
no time |
Nairaland General › Re: Swaziland’s ‘prettiest Virgins’ Dance Coverless For King Mswati by bewla(m): 8:49pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
eye popping |
Autos › Re: How Many People Grow Up To Know This??? by bewla(m): 8:48pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
another name is tan le se meaning who get. leg |
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Celebrities › Re: See Photos:mr Fat Competition In Ethopia:fat Men Walk Long Distance Nak*d To Win by bewla(m): 8:38pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
it cant be what am thinking |
Politics › Re: Nigerian Army Finally Reunites Chibok... by bewla(m): 8:35pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
what |
Foreign Affairs › Re: ISIS Circulates Sex Slave Price List & Executes 19 Girls For Refusing Sex (PICS) by bewla(m): 2:33pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
no matter.how them paint us will still be who we are Islam is my religion am Muslim and am not a shame to say so ALLAH will cast it doom on does that want to bring down his kingdom in the name of issi boko haram or any order militia group |
Politics › Re: Boko Haram, Soldiers In Gun Battle In Yobe Town - Daily Post by bewla(m): 2:16pm On Aug 06, 2015*. Modified: 8:33pm On Aug 06, 2015 |
As u fight to end this boko thing may u not lose your life u b victorious by the nama of the most high |
Celebrities › Re: Top Five Nigerian Musicians That Took After Their Parents by bewla(m): 8:07am On Aug 06, 2015 |
that apala crowner u no mention na ojoro jo |