Romance › Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by Bhami(m): 11:43am On Dec 19, 2019 |
Well there's more to sudden change of his mind. To me I prefer the distance relationship.. |
Romance › Re: PLEASE UPDATE If There's Light In Your Area by Bhami(m): 4:18pm On Dec 11, 2019 |
We get light here at Oshogbo till 8am in the morning..ever since then not even a blink horpigee1: no light here since morning in osun state ilesa... not even flashing. |
Romance › Re: Is This Not Addiction? by Bhami(m): 9:41am On Nov 21, 2019 |
Person wey get d$$k no complain  Why you cum dey use panadol untop another man's headache. |
Romance › Re: I Love My Wife But Another Woman Has Brought Me Joy! by Bhami(m): 7:40am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Too much nollywood movie  |
Romance › Re: Don’t Be A “Mumu” In Love by Bhami(m): 7:28am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Nigga stop f**king the bitch you rather let her go instead of faking it. Pubichairs: My girlfriend then once cheated on me...I found out through her chats.. I didn't feel bad that much because I'm not a saint either...
She begged me to forgive her which I did...but she doesn't know I have moved on with my life since then...she de give me her cookies these days anytime I'm in the mood...she think say I still de plan my future with her...
My tit for her tat...no Nigerian girl go fit use my head drink garri ..
I get bored with only 1 girlfriend...sorry to say...but I will change after marriage |
Romance › Re: Don’t Be A “Mumu” In Love by Bhami(m): 7:24am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Good write up op. Most especially when thinking about the time/years you've spent together..you'll be like he/she will change with time or believing your next r/ship might be worse than your current or vise versa.then you subject yourself to one stupid commitment smh That shit called relationship issa scam.tbh  |
Romance › Re: Be Honest As A Guy! Can You Do This? by Bhami(m): 8:14am On Nov 18, 2019 |
Nah by choice but as for me Issa no no  |
Romance › Re: Let's Create New Relationships: Romanceland Matchmaking Thread by Bhami(m): 5:25pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Mehn this pathetic be strong babe . can we be friends?? Starry321: Age: 28
Location: Enugu state.
Occupation: Postgrad student. Still job hunting. Religion: Christianity
Genotype: AA
Relationship status: still finding it hard to say I'm single. My boo of 5 years just left me. 
Person of romantic interest: not necessarily romance. I just need a friend, male/female is fine. Just need new people to talk to.
What are you looking for and in what time frame: Friendship
Dislikes/exclusion criteria: liars, toxicity, users and people who are not straight forward. |
Celebrities › Re: Dija And Husband Expecting 3rd Child by Bhami(m): 4:14pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
Diswan just dey drop hit back2back  |
Celebrities › Re: Fans Hail Wizkid From Afar At A Tanzanian Beach (Video) by Bhami(m): 2:44pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
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Celebrities › Re: Fans Hail Wizkid From Afar At A Tanzanian Beach (Video) by Bhami(m): 2:23pm On Nov 14, 2019 |
What's the configuration and Intel or AMD?? WalkerMichael: STARBOY WIZZY... Blessed boy
. . By the way,
I have a like new FOLDABLE TOUCHSCREEN DELL Inspiron 11 3000 Series Laptop Pc Amd For Sale at an affordable RATE. no fault, perfect condition
Location: Lagos Price: 50k (SLIGHTLY NEGOTIABLE) Please message me on whatsapp or send a mail on NL if you're interested in this deal. |
Romance › Re: Let's Create New Relationships: Romanceland Matchmaking Thread by Bhami(m): 10:26pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
Age:21 Location:osun Occupation:computer Engineer Religion:Muslim Genotype:AA R/status:complicated Person of romantic interest:women Hobbies:v/games,swimming,football Dislike:lies What re you looking for Nd in what time frame:a bestie
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Romance › Re: How To Break Up With A Girl Without Hurting Her by Bhami(m): 1:09pm On Nov 05, 2019 |
Nah just to save you the stress Bhami: Why don't you man up and say it to her straight up. |
Romance › Re: How To Break Up With A Girl Without Hurting Her by Bhami(m): 12:53pm On Nov 05, 2019 |
Why don't you man up and say it to her straight up. |
Romance › Re: Has An Islamic Cleric Made Sexual Advances At You Before? by Bhami(m): 11:10am On Nov 05, 2019 |
This was about my ex, according to her it happens when she was just 11yrs old attending one Arabic school tho her parents were divorced while she lives with her dad and her step mother.she said this iman will just call her in brain washing her about guys like not to have anything to do with them they have nothing to offer and so he sexual harras her, when it becomes unbearable for her she had to tell her stepmom but the woman took it against her the woman had to go report the issue the imam.when the pressure from the imam is getting too much. according to her she had to give excuse and stop going to the Arabic school. |
Sports › Re: Football Rules When We Were Kids by Bhami(m): 11:28am On Oct 25, 2019 |
How about TORO beating theenchanter: Na to play ball inside rain dey sweet pass, esp on slippery ground, where dribbler and d dribbled dey slip.
Does anybody remember OGIRIGBAMILA? where u pass d ball to d wall and retrieve it behind ur marker.  |
Politics › Re: States’ IGR Hits N691 Billion As Osun, Ondo, Others Recorded Biggest Growth by Bhami(m): 4:31pm On Oct 11, 2019 |
Na so bruv dry like madt DOMINGOPAPI: Which Osun...? 
Nothing is happening here o;
Enu Gbe seriously...  |
Romance › Re: Any Guy Earning 50k Should Not Have Any Business Getting Married - Twitter Lady by Bhami(m): 9:39am On Oct 10, 2019 |
Damn kudos man  anochuko01: "Do not despise the days of humble beginnings"
Shes probably thinking how 50k would be able to foot her dream wedding.
Let me tell a story of this lady I know. She had a baby for a man who later dumped her. Then she had another baby for a young guy. This young guy wanted to write her but she didn't agree because he wasn't rich. She was also relying on her beauty to get a wealthy guy. To cut the story short, this young guy now resides in Italy, and just got married this year.
I didn't need a prophet to tell the level of regret in this lady now has about dumping her baby Daddy.
Finally, the day money becomes your priorty in Life, thats the day you begin to lose that life. |
Politics › Re: Ikpeazu Declares ‘Operation Zero Potholes’ In Abia State by Bhami(m): 10:20am On Oct 09, 2019 |
 MelesZenawi: Lolzzzzzzzz
Zero pot-holes...
Where the road dey....
So pot holes now exist before normal roads..
Ndi Abia Ndo. |
Romance › Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Bhami(op): 5:23pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
I called her this morning to take those following steps.she agreed we go tomorrow.I believe she's scared of going under knife or something cos as at yday she denied ever telling me about the prophecy frozen70g: Have you made efforts to find out from the doctor that advised her not to ho for surgery ❓
Have you asked her parents why she hasn't been operated ❗
Have you cared to take her to the hospital to find out what her medical Condition is ❓
Try and do all the above findings and the out come will determine your decision on her
The most important thing is that you love her and she is your spec |
Romance › Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Bhami(op): 5:20pm On Oct 07, 2019 |
Well so sorry bout that [ quote author=taiwozainab post=82928085]As for the tummy pain, I have same problem and I've been battling with it for almost seven years, we've done several tests and it all showed nothing was wrong with me, not appendix nor ulcer but doctors couldn't just fathom what's going on... I still go thru such pain and some elders say maybe when I start having sex it'll go...you know all these stupid bliv... I'm turning 20 soon and I take that as my predicament...if it's until I start having sex that the pain will subside then I'd rather endure for seven to 8 yrs before doing such.... What I'm trying to say is that make sure she gets that surgery done or use the risk of breaking up with her against her... Tell her it's her health and u Iove her that's why u are advising her to go for it. I wish I could go for surgery cos the pain is too much but I can't since I wasn't diagnosed with any form of ailment before an operation could be done[/quote] |
TV/Movies › Re: BBNaija: Mercy Receives Her N30m Cheque Prize (Photos) by Bhami(m): 11:05am On Oct 07, 2019 |
 Khd95: the show don end, but the aftermath go last till forever all thanks to nairaland moderators
brethren, gather ur thick shield, post-bbn war is coming..we will be seeing post like
"see mercy eating agbalumo on the street of lagos"
"mercy captured walking on the road" 
"mercy seen with $2000 Gucci bag"
God have mercy |
Romance › Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Bhami(op): 5:51pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Its like a polygamous FAM she has a step mom while her mom wasn't living with em divorced her dad doesn't give her that attention cos he believe she'll carry belle at the end of the day according to her.but I believe if he knows he'll take drastic actions. Alexaonfleek: isn't she close to her dad |
Romance › Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Bhami(op): 5:47pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Bruh she refused due to some prophecy we've been dating for like 10months but we start to have sex just last week I came to realize how complicated her health issue was yesterday Cutehector: You have been fvcking her na.. Na wetin just dey ya mind.. Mai friend will you carry that girl and go to the hospital yourself and pay for her surgery! |
Romance › Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Bhami(op): 4:55pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Those people do more harm than good they think them fit predict destiny.funny enough a lot of people fall for those traps but later regret. carzola: My girlfriends pastor told her to break up with me that God reveled her future husband to him...
After the break up he proposed to her, Trust my gf she knew it was a scam and didn't accept, She came back begging I refused her back. |
Romance › Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Bhami(op): 4:53pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
That's what I've been doing since the start of this relationship bruh had to bring her to my level tbh she had a rough past I'll try my best and continue persuading.I can only get to her mom we've met ounce like that coincidently the last time I asked for her mom number she only curb me and talk it off. guy1234: Bros, forget that she's your girlfriend for now, assume that she's your younger sister, what will you do. It's just ignorance beclouding her judgement.
Do all you can in your power to make her seek medical help. Call the mom and probably the dad and reason with them or any of her family members that you know of.
You might not settle down with her later in life, but you'll be happy you saved a life . |
Romance › Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Bhami(op): 4:29pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
The problem here is I don't think the father knows about her health condition her parent got separated when she was younger both they both live in osogbo her mom turn to Christian those white garment cos of some spiritual problem.after the break up or so. I believe they keep it away from her dad.the old man would have taken steps if he should knowvhe would have taken steps both her mom and her both believes in those wield stufffs so much Alexaonfleek: If she doesn't perform the surgery,i doubt she'll make it before the end of the year.it will rupture and kill her
If she performs the surgery she still has a chance to live. What I'll advise u to do is that don't break up with her yet,give her reasons to go for the surgery,talk to her and her family and please tell her to go to another church and look for a very good pastor or priest,I bet my right hand that that pastor she's going to is probably a fake pastor. |
Romance › Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Bhami(op): 4:20pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
She said no according to her, her mom took her to 2 different hospitals to make sure its isn't abortion.also noticed each time she hold on pee for a long time her stomach swell until she ease herself all this got me so confused cerpvad: Did you ask her if she has committed abortions before? This is part of the reason a lady could be suffering from stomach pains perpetually. |
Romance › Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Bhami(op): 4:16pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Funny part its getting unbearable for her too even in cold weather my gf body temperature gets high also stomach pains. She told me she uses some drugs as pain killer. I can't force her to for surgery she believes in a pastors so much and nah those white garment ones. She's really a WIFEY material but with this I gats find my way also we both of same age. dave4rella:
 Take her to a specialist hospital for surgery If she refuses, dump her sorry ass You can't be dealing with such a superstitious believer. Meanwhile make sure that her family member or parents will sign the consent form,incase something goes wrong. |
Romance › Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Bhami(op): 3:30pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Funny part was we've been having sex frequently lately which she feels wield this days I want her to come around so I can made her go for P T I'm scared already Bhami: Good day great ppl of nairaland, my situation is quite complicated of which I need help. almost a year since I've been in a relationship with this lady,she's the typo woman I craved for and wish to get married to.I learnt about her having stomach pains which she complain about occasionally first I thought it was about this their normal monthly dues which is mensuration. But she said no according to her she's been diagnosed of appendix when she was 16-17yrs now shes 21 also I discovered that each time she comes to visit her body temperature get hot. which I ask why didn't she go for surgery I heard that's the only solution to it. to my surprise she said there was a revelation about her not to go for surgery. Pls I need an advice on what to do she doesn't wanna go for the surgery this the Lady I love so much also wish to get married to. |
Romance › Re: Should I Break Up Or Continue With The Relationship by Bhami(op): 3:27pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
Lmao I dey try getting her off my mind I had to inform my mom about it which she persuade her to go for test I'm afraid if there's more to it if not how can someone toy with her health just because of some pastors ednut1: avoid such people if you want to leave long. Her pastor will accuse your mother of being a witch soon u go sabi. She is playing with her life. If u go nack am now the appendix rapture and she die. Nairaland awaits you. Young man kills girl friend during sex  |