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Martin0:
Na so una take dey miss something oo!

U might not know if am serious or not!
Am one kinda a man most ladies won't get to understand! Sometimes una go tink say pesin dey play!

I might be serious ooo! Everything nor be play oo biacan!

What bothering you!
Gimmer ur mail na! Make we talk

You're full of surprises Martin I just can't tell......

I meet this Prophet through a friend of mine when he came for prayers... after he was done praying for my friend he told me that he would like to see me...all these was happening without the consent of my friend.....


When we finally met he reveal something's to me which happens to be true and he pray for me..... now that was when my problems started ever since that prayers things has not been the same for me again I lose everything I've ever worked for he still kept in touch with me and after several prayers my situation got worst and nothing seems to be moving fine

Now one of my friends advice me to stay away from him that I should cut ties with the prophet..... I listen to her advice and concentrate more on myself to my greatest surprise i was back on my feet like nothing ever happened to me..... everything starts moving fine even those I never imagined......


I cut ties with this Prophet I think august last year I've already forgotten about him..... I don't know how he got to find out about me again he's being calling me since new year eve and I don't want to pick his call not after everything I suffered from the previous calls.....please how do I handle these issue I hate him and I don't want to have anything to do with him.....


Please forgive my blunders and contribute to the topic....

Note:- mature minds only..... no bashing


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Martin0:
Bring ya hand ma put ring nau
My jus know say everything don complete

Hahahahahhe please I have something bothering me I'm thinking of creating a thread for it

Martin0:
Everybody likes to be respected!

U don still mention say again! anyway na ur mouth sha,but I know say u nor go talk am for reality coz I nor go even answer u!

OK tell me what you want lol

kallmemrB:
OK Ma I concur...That's For u as a lady

OK Sir you're welcome

Martin0:
Eh eh ok oo!
I don tell u nor dey call me "oga sir" again oo

But you know you men love respect nah..... OK sir

kallmemrB:
Hell No...But once u learn to view things in other people perspectives you can view it both ways

Funny you no matter how hard you try to you can't

Martin0:
U see say I follow u argue?
Madam u go work today

I dey work so Oga sir

kallmemrB:
That's ur View as a lady....Mine is it goes both ways

You can't view it both ways or are you a transgender....

Martin0:
Me know say u be Prophetess na!

No nah at least I like your openness

kallmemrB:
sorry to disappoint you...Not All Men....Its like generalizing that all ladies are olosho...Because you haven't met a guy willing to change for u doesn't mean there aren't Good men....Seems u haven't gotten to ur bustop yet...We All change for the people we love that's the honest truth...

Correction: Not all ladies but their all..Some are there for sex,money or just funFair same with guys...some guys put 100% in a relationship while the lady messes up ..Its life

P.S am not married oooo but I try my best to become better

No matter how you put it guys has done for worst than good

Martin0:
Ok oo! Good decision!
25 na wa ooo!

I bet you're in your late 20s

Blackhawk03:
Hahahaha

Biacan! Mama for the girls!

Sis nor mind me jor
They are asking for what they can not give

Martin0:
@ 17/18 u are already banging!
Na wa ooo this life don spoil finish ooo!

Chai biacan I hail u ooo! Abeg how old was ur bf then? Nor lie coz I go run leav u

Mind you I have never had sex all my life so don't say what you don't know about me......... he was I think 25

kallmemrB:
Darling I can bet you ain't married and also u need to work better on urself...Everyone in a relationship changes for his/her partner...There are some certain aspect that everyone work on...its not that ur perfect or sort but gotta make ur imperfections beautiful by working on some flaws he/she doesn't like

Honey since you're married can you tell me the places I need to work on listen well and listen carefully kallmemrB ladies put in their all in a relationship while men remain stagnant like a stick and you expect her to do all the changes Oga you on a long run......men keep asking for what they can not give in a relationship...... if the girl react to something you did bad you and your friends will start reading the sunday sermon meant specially for guys...... she's not a wife material,she's an olosho,ashawo kobokobo, guy my friend don tiedy her,she doesn't respect culture, she's a gold digger, she sees relationship as an avenue to make money......etc until you are willing to change no lady can take you serious......for your information 99% of Nigeria ladies are 50yards wife material......if you think I'm lying ask eboube or what so ever his name is

Martin0:
For men na wa oooo!
Biacan biacan I hail u oo!

Yes nah you just wrote in your favour

Martin0:
Hmmmmm you made good point!
I never knew you re intelligent to this extent! So why did u jus choose to remain single coz I know say na u decide!

If what you are online is what reality looks like then guy's should be flocking around but then I believe you made a choice to be single! Why that choice?

My first relationship was my last for now...... I have never loved anyone so bad like my previous relationship I gave in my all and at the end of the day what did I get in return..... Cheating,humiliated,broken,betray.....etc I have never been heat broken like then..... I felt like dying it took the grace of the creator and my family members for me to get back to my feet...... though I was still at 17/18 then I just zip up and vow never to love again........

Martin0:
Na lie ee!ah nor agree!

E get when you dey ever agree lol

Martin0:
See in my own way this is what I think about relationship and what one should expect either trust or being open.

Sometimes It gonna look like this it doesn't matter how open or trusted one would be!

Expect for them to treat you with respect, to be
patient with you, to understand that if you’re
being short with them, it’s probably just because
you’re having a bad day and has nothing to do
with them. That’s the thing: They have to know
that it’s not always about them. There are other
things happening in your life that don’t revolve
around the relationship and that’s okay. It’s not
an insult.

Expect trust. Without trust, you have nothing.

Your partner should trust you completely until
you give them a reason otherwise. If they don’t
trust you, if they’re already paranoid in the
beginning and try to control you, the
relationship is doomed. Because it’s not about
you. IT’S NEVER ABOUT YOU. You could be
the best significant other ever and it wouldn’t
matter because you’re with someone who’s
violently insecure and will always find
something wrong with you.

Expect to be made to feel good about yourself,
especially when you’re naked and vulnerable.

Sex should be a “NO JUDGMENT” zone.

Expect differences of opinion, expect fights,
expect it to not always feel right, expect to feel a
little bit bored sometimes, expect to feel a little
overwhelmed the other times, expect to question
things, expect to flirt with other people because
it reminds you that you’re still wanted by other
people who are not your partner, expect to be
with someone who loves you as is and doesn’t
want to change you. THIS IS A BIG ONE. It
seems like so many people get into relationships
just to transform someone into another person.

Why do we do this? Don’t date a fixer-upper.

What’s the point?

Expect to be taught new things. Expect to have
your mind blown. Expect to want to be a better
person.

Expect your partner to be faithful, unless you’ve
clearly discussed otherwise.

Expect to be emotionally supported. DON’T
expect to be financially supported.

Expect passion. Expect love. Expect anger.
Never expect indifference.

Expect them to hate you when its over. Feel
relieved if it’s ever not the case.

Some of the things you wrote are not meant to be there..... all those things are for men

Martin0:
Na wa for u ooo!pesin nor go play with you again? A whole ur fine face na I wan slap! I can't do that!

**holds her by the waist**

That means you let yourself to get influenced by what most broke guys say here...... listen Martin give in you all in a relationship and don't take advice from guys here cause they don't know where they are heading to some of them are frustrated who can't decide for themselves.......they are all over these forum

Sorry for bringing your ex into these...... but I must say that those ladies where been played by men........one thing about men is that when they see ladies put in their all in a relationship......they would just take advantage of them which is why it is hard for a lady to trust a guy talk more of loving him......


Martin you guys can act like fools just to get the honey pot...... but when angry all the beauty of the lady will fall on deaf ears after you've given her a factory resetting slap.......so men can do anything to hot the one they claim to love when angry



Leave me jor put a ring on it

kallmemrB:
Will ur changed character show on ur makeup.....he knows ur beautiful but left cos of ur attitude no makeup in thevworld can cover that

Lesson number one never change just because of a man if he's not willing to take you the way you are then so be it...... but one thing is for sure you can't waste my time and expect me to back off no that's not possible.......

Yeligray:
your case is special

I thought you left your bad habit in 2017 I never it was with you all these while....... welcome to 2018

Martin0:
Na wa for u oo! So pesin nor dey play with you again abi

Na from play e dey turn real

Martin0:
Which fear again biacan

Nah just now you say you go slap me....... tell me is that not one reason why I should be afraid

Martin0:
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Iffa slap u eh why u dey point finger to ma face? u wan cry

My dear ladies don't know what they want in a relationship jor!
Some ladies are not ready to give it all too!
You don't expect me to be open to a lady who's not ready to give in..

See lemm tell u forget say u be woman ooo!
I know everything about women and there is nothing one can tell me.
I have seen ladies who have the right men at their tip and yet they loss them to another,such ladies what will u say of them?

Martin don't quote me wrongly I said one of the major key not all..... now you get where I'm coming from

You guys should stop using that words......that ladies don't know what they want in a relationship.......like I said earlier if you're not ready to give in don't expect miracles biko
Martin you just lie there....... for the fact that you know everything thing about your ex doesn't mean that you know everything about ladies........

Those type of ladies where not into the relationship in the first place so don't generalise


Ehmmmm wait I dey come nah me you talk say u go slap

Lol she's not serious lady that's not how it's been done...... if I'm the one I'll make sure I put on my best dress and pay those makeup guys to make me look beautiful like never before...... so that when he sees me he'll be left with no option than to cancel the wedding and plan mine....... beauty dey kill me

Martin0:
Na wa oooo

Wetin be the exact tin wey make u fear me abeg this fear wey u dey fear I nor use am take know u oo!

Nah you develop the fear nah

rawpadgin:
so u haff finally dropped me for someone else

You're the person I'm getting married to nah have you forgotten....... you can't do this to me not now please biko

Martin0:
How?

You nor waiting I dey talk about

I guess this is "BECOMING" PART TWO

So bellanaija can bring herself so low to involve in these act