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funkmrflexx:
I've been dating my girlfriend for 2 years now. At first the relationship was all rosy and sweet but now it's no longer so. Recently I noticed she doesn't allow me to touch her or be Intimate with her, she denies me sex everytime I ask. This is a girl I do everything for. I try my best to make sure she's OK in everyway. I even assist with her school sometimes because her parents don't have. But I noticed that she finds me irritating. I can't even touch her, kiss her nothing. I have talked to her severally about the issue but she always brushes me off. I even jokingly told her I would cheat on her she said no problem that sex and intimacy aren't that important in a relationship. I asked her if she was scared of getting pregnant but she said she wasn't and besides we usually use condoms so that wasn't a reason. I have started suspecting her that she has someone else. But she always tells me she's loyal to me. This is a girl I'm planning to marry. All of a sudden I find the relationship boring, no excitement. I even asked her what was the problem she said nothing was wrong. I don't want to get married and start cheating on my wife because of lack of sex

So I met another girl some months back, we got to know each other and we started sort of dating,
She's not as beautiful as my girlfriend but she makes me very happy. Anytime I'm with her she always has a way to cheer me up. And the sex part is awesome because she likes those things i like in sex and I'm very comfortable with her. But the issue now is she's pregnant for me. And I want her to keep the baby. The truth is I have fallen in love with her.

What should I do?

Joesno:
I wouldn't av been able to type this about an hour ago, if not for supreme intervention.
I can beat my chest and boldly tell u that the distance between life and death is less that a thin thread, jst one silly cut, boom! you are off to whatever remains in the afterlife.

I almost lost my life drowning inside a beach today, is not and never a good experience. I prepared heading home less than a minute after I was brought out, I av never been to a beach before not until today, and boom! Death staring right in front me. I can't really tell how it transpired, all I can say is that I was struggling, if not battling with death, but it seems I came out victorious. Thanks to my fellow beach mate, I nvr saw his face coz I was stl struggling even after I was brought out. Not funny!

I was forced to settle than after insisting to go home less than a minute after the incidence. When I was going out, I keep thinking about the ugly scenario, seeing alot of persons having fun, dancing, eating, swimming and doing whatever fun stuff u can imagine, I felt like crying reminiscing about what jst happened and how I could av lost my life for something I am not good at, all in the name of fun, another thing I am allergic to. It's not funny should incase u find it hilarious

The problem now is, I don't know if I should move on with my life like it nvr happened, like I should feel free with myself, like I nvr went to the beach but keep living the way I do, putting this behind.

Or

I should keep living with this bad experience, putting death that can happen anytime as a consideration, with today's case inclusion, like I should start viewing life from a different perspective of death u know, I would av been dead today leaving grieve and anguish behind for my families; my parents, siblings, friends, gosh! What was I thinking? I felt like crying, something I av nvr thought of.

Pls I need u to say something, I admit my negligence and stupidity going into something I av nvr done and extremely poor at, but I need u to say something encouraging and intriguing, u know.

Have u ever experienced something like this, U know death?

How did u fight it? Did u move on?
Did u start living differently for the fear of death? Like being extremely careful with anything that is life threatening?

Most importantly, how did you move on?

Thanks, I really appreciate your response.

Drybones:
Dear programmers, Why haven't you created your own Facebook, instagram or any other idea you have?

What do you think are your limitations.


Seun,lalasticlala,mynd44

Bless1256:
@biden123 this the trend which I created. I available to testify and provide every single evidence

QuantAnalyst:
Hi Nairalanders,

1 - 2 Million naira loan is needed for 1 year at 50k - 100k monthly interest.

Please drop your comments below if interested.

Thanks.

Bless1256:
Can I pm u with the details of the chat?
I just dropped d beginning of the chat



quote author=biden123 post=97482452]
I can help you track the phone number but I need evidence of scam.

I can't see any scam from the screenshot you put up there

LordKO:
Almost all male and female receptionists everywhere are in this appalling act, each with their own tactics. In this case, the guy was direct and crass in his approach. I have had countless experiences with female receptionists in different places.

Bless1256:
I just published his phone number and other evidence on how i was scammed it's with me,I can provide it whenever am being called upon



quote author=biden123 post=97482276]
I didn't see where you disclosed your personal details here so how the hell you got scammed?

Florblu:
I told my dad i have eaten amala just two times this year and he screamed.

Bless1256:
Please my dear nairalanders I was scammed this afternoon, the person used my details to purchase something online and that's the last money that I have,I have the person phone number and evidence of everything i can give you the number base on request since it's a public forum and don't know if such person is here.
Please you guys should help me out,I need justice, please,my heart is seriously in pains

GentRoyal:
Sent

GentRoyal:
Delete your account details, I don copy am.
If ₦2k no too small, I go send am

GentRoyal:
How s/w developer go broke?
Ur clients nko?

Driedfish:
Meow meow.



West brom might just get to surprise liverpool.


Make klopp boys no sleep on deck sha

NGpatriot:
Nuisance and worthless fake prophesy pastor, l see calamity in your household.

Righteousness2:
Your Plumber is killing you but you here to display Nonsense..
Your Plumber is killing you but you here to kill young men and take them to Eternal damnation and Destruction.

If you as a Man cannot see the Spirits in some of these ladies, I am sorry for you.
Many of these things you see them do on social media is not them, it's a Wicked force that has taken control..

If you as a Man do not guard yourself, you become a Casualty of what you cannot understand..

tubetv:
congratulobia o...e good for am o


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SAJWEtUOouU

Patriarchy001:
Tunde Bakare recently took to his pulpit to give examples of graduates who finished from university but found something doing with their hands - he particularly laid emphasis on the woman who sewed his agbada, bragging on how she graduated from university few years ago but decided to start sewing clothes instead of looking for a job.

He also gave examples of other graduates who sew agbadas for a living of whom he patronizes their business.

Watch from 2:45

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qcaTyH2oSHs

In his words:
"The Future does not belong to Job seekers"
"Government cannot keep on employing people, that's not their job"

Do you agree?

DropsMic:
This year was good to me tho. Despite the pandemic i got lots of website design jobs. Cryptocurrency also buttered and is still buttering my bread.


The universe really smiled down on me....

doggedfighter:
They invaded where they were calling upon the name of the Lord in prayers and abducted a man of God and his wife.


And the all powerful God was just there watching.

Even parents or husbands put up a little fight faced with such situations.


Anyway, it's mysterious ways things !

senami2019:
Hi Programmers.

My org needs a searchable database for a website.
Its a business database;

There will be several fields to search:
Such as name / location / industry.
We would also like feedback/comments/reviews to be left on these businesses.

Which programming language would be best for this and how much will it cost?

Please email me your asking price for programming this database.