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Vanilla4:
Do she insist?

No I decided that

Vanilla4:
Totally normal to feel that way. I wouldn't go long term with someone's partner, likely a person can take that partner from me.

So you agree with breaking up with her right?

advanceDNA:
Mumu....u are still blaming urself.....thats the result of the manipulative words she used on by telking u its ur fault she loved someone else...u cant see u never meant anything to her..if u did someone she met few weeks back wont just come and rake her heart..m
....oga ade...she's a user .... she doesnt deserve ur tears or love.... if i hear u say u love her gain ...i go swear for you

Have broken with her yerstaday never wished that but I had no choice even tho I love so dearly I’m thinking of taking back the cell phone as you said

Is hard for me but I believe I’m gonna be fine with time

Vanilla4:
Looks like a R/ship hunter, they put them in a friendship position but trying to hunt a partner... Don't be confused, you've broken up already... That was quite fast... What to do? Make yourself happy. You have to try.

I’m just so pained that I’m now an option to her someone she met at February and both of us has been since august even tho we started counting the relationship from October.
Maybe the guys cares for her more than me or shows her he loves her more than me?
that’s what I’m thinking but again I can’t be an option to her if she values me I’m seriously hurt even tho I love her

Vanilla4:
If someone likes me and changed their mind, I will ask questions that wouldn't put pressure on myself. You totally like your GF, you didn't ask the right question.
Your girl says she likes someone else, play cool and start with, What is the guy like? Where did you guys met? Did he knows you have a BF? And the questions that keeps her in an almost checkmate position, You like him, does he likes you? You don't let someone feelings drown while it is still fresh. What are you going to do about it?
Her reactions and answers tells you if she is totally into him.
Love is not a competition, don't put yourself in such position of an option instead delete yourself from the picture. If someone loves you, you are second to none.
She is still in that early phase, that puppy love phase. Do something...

I’m broke up with her yerstaday but I’m so confused right now please what do you advise I do?
The guy knows she has a boyfriend cuz he was the one advising her when we had issues that was what she told me and he was also her primary school classmate… he got her contact from her brother when he posted her on his WhatsApp status that’s how they started relating since February this year..
the guy stays at a nearby state and they have seen ones and he calls her often they do talk sometimes for hours..
All this she told me I’m just pained that she is confused between me and the guy who to go for?
Can you believe she told me she doesn’t know if she should leave both of us as she doesn’t know what she wants?

Nonywendy:
Take it if that will make u happy.

Okay

Houseofglam7:
We’ve seen your wallpaper
Congratulations 🎉🎊🍾🎈
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Are you okay bro? If that's your issue okay

Should I take the phone I bought for her?

Uptheante:
If you believe this, then you can also believe that pigs can fly.
That guy is already drilling your girl's kpekus & she enjoys his di*ck so much, hence, she has already made up her mind to dump you.
Just dump her ass immediately before she frustrates you further.
Fine & decent girls plenty, any quality wey you think say she get, millions of other girls also get am.
After dumping her, make sure she doesn't wiggle herself back into your life after her new guy has finished vandalizing her kpekus. If you do that, you'll be one of the greatest fool of the century.

Thanks boss

Please should I tale the phone I bought for her?

akube34:
it’s gonna be very hard especially if you truly love her. A lot of people will see just move on like say e easy like dat. But the truth is you really av to follow their advice and move on slowly

Okay thanks I will even tho is hard

Jflex07:
She dey use your head. Reverse psychology here.. Dump her fast bfore she comes out plain and dump you

Okay bro

MrBrownJay1:
Bro, your babe and all her reverse psychology tricks...

Yes that's what she is doing I'm breaking up with her

JoeRizzla:
Interesting,

A little misunderstanding your gf don dey knack another guy.

Said they haven't knavked but she likes him

akube34:
she don Dey knack the guy since. She can no longer cope with you na y

What do you advice I do bro?

My girlfriend of 7 months just told me that she now like another guy and is confused between the both of us

That she developed feelings for him when we were having issues he was her emotional support

She said I should give her some space to sort herself out and this girl has been giving me attitude resurrecting old issues we had not knowing is because of this

I thought Nairaland was wrong when they said girl are loyal to their feelings now I have experienced it first hand

Please folks in the house what should I do?

Trust nairanders at your own peril

NoFucksToGive:
Don't mind the guy. The guy is looking for customer to deceive 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Swears 😂😂😂

udemzyudex:
You're stupid and you lack sense.

I see say na your fellow scammer you wan dey defend.

Senseless being.

Go hustle bro stop to day follow them scam your fellow country men how much you think say you go collect? Poor boy wey still day do mummy thank you 😂

Pat081:
If they born you well do it if you will not use the rest of your life in jail

Who go arrest am?

Yesterday a girl I trusted with everything and thought she was different just actually confirmed to me that “Nigerian girls are useless all of them”
She kissed a guy at a house party said she was feeling down and her friends invited her to a house party she went and got tispy, kissed one of her guy friend and held his dick but they didn't do more than that expecting cuddling..
That she was feeling guilty since last month when it happened that was why she has been giving me attitude lately.
I'm kinda shocked tho but why was I even expecting less?
My folks in the house what will you do in my kind of situation?
Forgive her or break up?

VictorUSA15 the werey clown I day see your dog face

SenecaTheYonger:
You’ll be alright bro. You guys will be back together. Plus it will take a while for her to get a BF so there’s plenty chance.

Your excuse is not enough to break up. I actually don’t chat with my babe even when she’s online.

It’s good to give her space to miss you. But not too much space that she’ll get used to your absence.

Okay bro I will just give her space

SenecaTheYonger:
Are you? Cause that’s just play play break up. And you two will still be back before next week fucking.

Gettoutofhere

Go and die bro

SenecaTheYonger:
Mtcheww.

Are you okay?

SenecaTheYonger:
why did you leave?

I saw her online for more than 4 hours yet she didn't text me asked her if she is tired of the relationship she said she don't know that if I want to breakup I should just say I got upset and ended it

OloYeOfEgbE:
Who broke up with who....?

It was mutual

Jnrprince1:
Abi your dick small

Why you talk like that?

Rokiat:
It’s not just about sex but some women are truly irreplaceable.

Some of my exes stay salty and in my inbox begging me to come back 8 years later while my current man stay obsessed.

For me is sex ooo nothing else

orohbiro:
Your loss another man gain

Her loss not mine

Dshocker:
No worry, na 9½inch go take over

She no go fit collect am 😆

EastAlchemist:
Bros e sure me say you Dey cry

Lol 😆 I no day craze sef

I'm jealous just broke up with my ex today I'm her first, she is very tight and sweet I'm just imagining how the next guy wey go knack her go enjoy I know say if him won put am e no go enter, him go gats go slow just the way I day do and if the guy sabi knack besay e don finish omo I jealous am ooo