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RomanceRe: 15 Types Of Women You Should Never Marry If You Want To See Your Grandchildren by BigDan69(op): 9:08am On Aug 01, 2021
LordIsaac:
They seem to have all or 1 of the traits mentioned. In my opinion, I'll rather that we just pick one who is amenable to corrections.
Exactly bro, check the context well u will notice I was emphasizing on the ones drunk in the particular trait
Romance15 Types Of Women You Should Never Marry If You Want To See Your Grandchildren by BigDan69(op): 7:52am On Aug 01, 2021
1. The chatterbox/gossip

They never mind their own business, always focused on what other people are doing or how they are living their lives. Guys, you do not need this kind of woman as a wife. What you need is someone that would build a home with you and this requires some focus on her own plans and life. If not, then you are fighting a losing battle.

2. The desperate chick

These sets of ladies will seem fantastic at first; well, at least until they jump the gun and start talking about your wedding location, how many kids they want – right after the first date! When a woman moves faster than normal, watch out. They need a man so desperately that they are willing to put anybody in that slot, even the homeless guy on the corner.

3. The overly-critical woman

Next are the overly critical ones; no matter what you do for them, it’s just not good enough. If it is not done according to their standards, it’s not going to work and they will quickly take it out of context, to become some sort of insult or some reason to wage war against you. They have a lot of emotional baggage and will make you an angry and bitter person, You need to be extra careful with this one.

4. The high maintenance/spoilt brat

In this category, they have expensive taste and expect you to shower them with only the best things, take her out to posh places on a regular basis. If you don’t have a lot of money and a penchant for luxury, don’t even bother. They are used to having everything handed to them and are unlikely to make the best wives. Being obsessed with material things is not a healthy trait and if they care more about the material things over family, faith and spiritual fulfillment, then they will not make the best partners. They might even lead to your ruin as you want to do things beyond your power to satisfy them.
 

5. The clingy/attention seeker

These ladies can be a nuisance. They can’t do anything without the company of her man; they can adopt your interests, call you 20 times a day and flare up anytime they are not around to monitor you. They could insist that you spend every waking moment with them, refusing to let you go out with the boys or spend any significant amount of time with anyone else. While it is good to like and want attention from your man, when it becomes an obsession, then it is not a good idea.
 

6. The bimbo

These ladies are the majority you see on the streets. These are intellectually challenged women who look great but, in all honesty, shouldn’t open their mouths. Their skills are unquestionably only rooted in the physical realm and you do not want to bring a girl like that home to meet mom and dad.

7. The club/party girl


Club/party girls are nothing more than fantasy women who have been practically living in bars and clubs since they hit the legal drinking age. They have the most beautiful faces, nicely painted mouths, big eyes, great legs, dressed in the most flashy clothes and all the curves you could ever ask for. They get invites to parties constantly. They may be carefree and wild; however, once you take a closer look, you’ll realize that their entire life is a party and on most nights, will most likely end with her waking up hungover, or worse still, in some stranger’s bed in the morning. Such ladies might not have marriage in their plans.

 

8. The gold digger

 

These group of ladies will ask you questions and compliment you (if you impress them) on your expensive gadgets, phones, watch, car, job, where you live and so on. They are basically looking for wealthy sugar daddies to fund their lifestyles; they want to flaunt their designer items and post it on social media. They’ll size you up within the first five minutes and drop you just as quickly if your cash flow runs out. They will suck your wallet dry and leave you dry.

 

9. The feminist

 

The feminist women are common these days. They can never be pleased by men as they believe that they are the cause of all the pains and ills of the society. They also believe that women are much more intelligent than men and are capable of doing things “the right way” or better; anything you do will always be negative to her.

 

 

10. The changers

 

These kind of women are everywhere and many men are wary of; there are some men who love them though because of their own insecurities. They claim to love you just the way you are but little by little, they start to change things about him; from his wardrobe to his taste in music.

 

11. The bitter woman

 

The women in this class always seem to be angry at the male gender all the time, maybe because they have had their hearts broken one too many times. They are always bashing men and talking about how they are not good or useless. You might not want to settle down with someone so bitter and angry like this because when the opportunity arises, they would hurl hurtful insults and intense, hateful words your way due to all the unresolved anger.

 

 

12. The selfish woman

 

The selfish women are the ones determined to make sure they always come first and if what you want is a happy home and a partner that wants your happiness as well as hers, then you should steer clear of these ladies as they would not be able to build a cheerful and loving home with you.

 

 

13. The flirty woman

 

The flirty women always seem to shift interest from one person to another; like a butterfly from one man to another, making them feel like she is interested in them. Well, you need to beware because a habit like that might be hard to break after marriage.

 

 

 

14. The commitment phobes

 

The commitment phobes usually find it hard to commit to anything (school, jobs, family, friendship) and seems to lose interest in everything quickly, always looking for the next thing to jump into. You would have a hard time keeping them focused in the marriage.

 

 

15. The disrespectful woman

 

The disrespectful women are always rude to people; they consider them beneath their standards. You need to think twice about marrying her because respect for a fellow human being is a very important attribute and should not be taken lightly.

 

So guys, when you want to lock it down to one woman and spend the rest of your life with her, you need to make sure she’s worthy of your time and attention. Be careful
FoodRe: The Gigantic Rat I Killed by BigDan69(op): 6:14pm On Jul 30, 2021
cheesy grin grin grin cheesy cheesy cheesy


iamyemiakins:
Kill them all!
No mind that toto licker
RomanceRe: What Was That One Reason That Made You Cheat On Your Partner In A Relationship by BigDan69: 6:02pm On Jul 30, 2021
Haven't cheated but what's the meaning of "ekuke"?
RomanceRe: Are Nigerian Girls Really Useless? OPINION POLL by BigDan69: 6:00pm On Jul 30, 2021
Lol no one has shared, meaning.... cheesy cheesy grin grin grin
FoodRe: The Gigantic Rat I Killed by BigDan69(op): 4:36pm On Jul 30, 2021
Totilopussylick:
you should've said so from your previous Post.


Say no to #animalbrutality#
I did from my other account, tot it was same account. All the same how do propose I stop them eating my birds without hurting them
FoodRe: The Gigantic Rat I Killed by BigDan69(op): 4:34pm On Jul 30, 2021
Generalwoodz:
1 2 3 stones! Haba na angry angry
Fear God na that small baby rat is what you used those heavy rocks on? Is it Goliath? Are you David?
Lols, bro its one single stone, it broke.
FoodRe: The Gigantic Rat I Killed by BigDan69(op): 4:32pm On Jul 30, 2021
cayorday89:
I was about asking same question until you post this, all the same, find person wey go chop am, you no fit just waste food like that... If you blame others for eating anyhow things, then you shouldn't be killing things anyhow its a greater offense... #NoToAnimalBrutality, unless you wan chop am..
Understood. Nevertheless, how do you propose I get rid of them without hurting them as I believe they are more than one. Because I wouldn't give someone what I cant eat myself (that's bad) if I keep killing them.
FoodRe: The Gigantic Rat I Killed by BigDan69(op): 10:57am On Jul 30, 2021
DaddyRochie1642:
Oga what about all those chicken pepper soup and goat meat pepper soup that you've been eating and Licking your fingers grin
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FoodRe: The Gigantic Rat I Killed by BigDan69(op): 10:56am On Jul 30, 2021
Totilopussylick:
Why killed it when you know you won't eat it huh



This poor rat probably was hunting for what to eat....and now is dead.


Africa selfish Sha.
It was eating my birds, you want me to watch it eat all my poultry birds because I refuse eating it? You are quick to call me selfish. Now apologize

FoodRe: The Gigantic Rat I Killed by BigDan69(op): 10:55am On Jul 30, 2021
gasparpisciotta:
You sure say you no wan cook am?

What are those three stones doing? Are they not meant to support the cooking pot?
grin grin grin grin
U made me laugh hard, its what was used to kill the beast
FoodRe: The Gigantic Rat I Killed by BigDan69(op): 10:54am On Jul 30, 2021
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


This is a fortune.

Invite a girl over, when you're done with her and she askes for transport fare, put this giant rat in her handbag.

It's about time someone taught these vaginarians that just because you visit a man and he shags you does not make him responsible for your transport fare.
Boss did a lady just bill you after shagging?
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RomanceRe: Ever Visited Someone You Met Online? Share Your Experience by BigDan69: 9:37am On Jul 30, 2021
Lols... Fun memories indeed
RomanceRe: When You Over Colour Vs Natural, Your Take by BigDan69: 9:32am On Jul 30, 2021
Cute
FoodThe Gigantic Rat I Killed by BigDan69(op): 9:18am On Jul 30, 2021
If it were to be some NLers, its straight to pot. But lets mind what we eat please for reals even if sapa is afoot cheesy, I know some NLers eat these animals for fun and not because of hunger. Besides we were the ones criticizing China for eating all sorts.

RomanceRe: Share Your Heartbreak Story Here by BigDan69: 11:41am On Jul 29, 2021
summerflame:
Adetola kemi, my beautiful full figure 8 ex - here is my prayer for you - u shall know no peace in any of your relationships, your mother will dwell at your misfortune cos she has always been supporting your evil and flirting ways saying it's because u are still young, sorrow will be your portion and u will never find a man who will love u and care for u like me in Ogun's name .... I know if I use God or Jesus, they can reconsider.....
Tf! Omo this one loud, the stratimg was like "okay lets hear how sweat the babe is and her looks" then it escalated so quickly.
FamilyRe: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by BigDan69: 11:13am On Jul 29, 2021
Folorunsho15:
Thanks boss, always good to have people with experience ��
My pleasure
FamilyRe: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by BigDan69: 10:26am On Jul 29, 2021
Folorunsho15:
I feel you bro, currently in this kind of relationship but whenever I think about marriage omo I'm just sacred and I've been looking for a way to step out man. The OP has finished it, it's like they are wired to take the revenge for their fathers actions on you when you haven't done anything wrong but to love and care for them. Ladies raised by toxic single moms or from a toxic family with an abusive father is a risk not worth taking imo. I just hope this one will not go and commit suicide cuz she always threatens that
Omo draft reasons why both of u cant work, your peace of mind is more important. She is using that 'suicide" to scare you, pls don't buy the format (been there too). And most importantly, don't call it quit physically, a long text/whatsapp explaining yourself and giving her room to talk is better and safer. Good luck
RomanceRe: Share Your Heartbreak Story Here by BigDan69: 11:50pm On Jul 28, 2021
I had this promising relationship with this lovely girl, we were more than lovers, we were good friends. Initially no secrets,everything was so sweet. I loved her sha!
I tried to meet her needs too when she's down,in short we were thinking towards marriage.
Until she suddenly changed. She will shout for me like this ehn?,smh, I really don suffer o. She'd leave me in the midst of a conversation and not even care to come back, she started calling me Mr. xyz (real name withheld) in our conversations,she did many things enough to make me mad and just call it quit but guess what? I was in love, I just thought twas mood swing or something. When I saw that it was getting out of hands, I started watching out. Behold she started telling red lies(that's what I call Lies that the liar forgot he/she has told),yet I played along however at that point I asked her what was wrong with us?
She refused to talk,she said I won't force words out of her mouth,after much pestering she talked! She wanted out, she said I should pause anything called love between us, she started saying this and that....I gave her space (in pains, Choi! I don love sha) and asked again and she said I was too good for her. Like seriously? Have I ever condemned you? She said No. Have I ever this,that she said No. Have I offended you? She said No, We can make it work na. I begged this girl "taya" but she refused to "gree". I'd call her like this,she won't answer,she refused to see me sef. At that point I knew her heart is now elsewhere. I woke up to the reality!
It was very painful to know that someone I love and I thought loved me back could just wake up one morning and say She doesn't want me again.I'd planned the future with her, she left me all to myself to achieve it alone. I still miss her sha. I was really wounded in my heart then too,she left me with no choice than to believe that Love is scam!
Exactly my story cry
RomanceRe: Kayanmata Dealer Jaruma Laments After 7million Ladies Sent Obi Cubana’s Name by BigDan69(op): 10:25pm On Jul 28, 2021
Gadafii:
10 million clients kill you there.

But why are we not frowning at this jaruma witchhuh

Imagine a man selling juju online in how to hypnotize women and sleep with them till their eyes clear, imaginehuh
You done see am , life no balance
RomanceRe: Kayanmata Dealer Jaruma Laments After 7million Ladies Sent Obi Cubana’s Name by BigDan69(op): 7:19pm On Jul 28, 2021
Cerebellum:
OP, 7 million kee you there!huh
You be fool
RomanceRe: Kayanmata Dealer Jaruma Laments After 7million Ladies Sent Obi Cubana’s Name by BigDan69(op): 3:35pm On Jul 28, 2021
Enginiaman1:
Kai nah,one of her daughter nah Nairalander,why you day expose her mama and she day read this topicgrin grin grin grin grin grin
Lols grin grin grin grin
RomanceRe: Share Your Last Screenshot Here. No Cheating! (pictures) by BigDan69: 3:09pm On Jul 28, 2021
usen1234:
Play with confidence, don't forget to thank me later
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RomanceRe: Kayanmata Dealer Jaruma Laments After 7million Ladies Sent Obi Cubana’s Name by BigDan69(op): 3:00pm On Jul 28, 2021
ishadfurnitures:
She only has 1.2m followers on her IG where she get 10m from ? Attention seeker
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RomanceRe: I Just Broke Up With My Girlfriend by BigDan69: 2:41pm On Jul 28, 2021
Jeetech01:
Relationship is complicated.

Most times, one person need to act a fool for it to work.
You are wise
RomanceRe: Can #2million Finish A 2bedroom Bungalow With Parlour. by BigDan69: 2:39pm On Jul 28, 2021
NOGRUDGES:
Yes if you are a multiskilled craftsman who can come up with a building plan, do the pegging for foundation escavation, handle carpentry, masonry, iron binding and electrical installation.
Lols
FamilyRe: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by BigDan69: 2:38pm On Jul 28, 2021
obinna58:
If she says she was raised by a single mother then you'll need to unlock your third eye and sense.
No be lie cheesy
FamilyRe: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by BigDan69: 2:37pm On Jul 28, 2021
TarOrfeeek:
My current GF is from a single mother home.

Immediately I finished reading this topic. I will break up with her mentally.
Ha! This one dey find excuse to break up since
FamilyRe: My Marriage Has Finally Crashed! by BigDan69: 2:36pm On Jul 28, 2021
Not just single moms, same effect if they dad is hostile to the mum (domestic violence). My ex was already wired to attack my every word and action. We tried to help her get counseling but she still was same. She ain't violent physical but damn, she is a psychopath.

She used to say she is damaged psychologically.

Had to let her I know I need my peace of mind, after doing my best but since change was forthcoming. My peace is mind is important. I just pray she finds someone who can handle her and most importantly, I pray she changes as well.
RomanceKayanmata Dealer Jaruma Laments After 7million Ladies Sent Obi Cubana’s Name by BigDan69(op): 2:12pm On Jul 28, 2021
According to the intimacy therapist, who deals in different fetish relationship enhancers, since the burial of the barman’s mother that garnered attention across the country, his name has been frequent in her mails from ladies who want to have Obi Cubana as their man.

In response to an Instagram user who lamented the frequency of ladies in the comment session of the aphrodisiac seller asking to have Obi Cubana as their man, Jaruma declared that out of her 10 million followers, 7 million already sent requests to have him.

RomanceRe: I Just Broke Up With My Girlfriend by BigDan69: 3:44am On Jul 28, 2021
citywal:
is it a bad thing to love someone? Like wtf
That's life bro. Just accept it and move on
RomanceRe: I Just Broke Up With My Girlfriend by BigDan69: 10:04pm On Jul 27, 2021
Congrats

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