Whoa this topic is really serious but honestly lost for word
1.You guys must have really grown close and he must obviously have grown close to you,can't you talk to your cousin to understand what exactky she wants becos she definitely needs to move forward except if the guy is really stupid to go back to her
2. Family ties are really important as well and if she already knew before u guys were dating and she was o.k with this.

Am at a cross road here,i can't say leave the guy becos u worked hard for this relationship and my other mind states to leave the guy becos of family.
Really do what u feel is right from within u.

No i actually haven't spoke to the girl
I just felt i shouldn't invade since she didn't tell me about them initially and i've always been trying to make a smile or at last try to be close with her and she only ever told me about one other guy no mention about him ever,

I met

Am sure u're a christian and read your bible very well,if yes
U know if u chase her out,u can't get married and if you date someone else then ur commiting adultery,learn to forgive her.

I don't think the result is staphylococcusi since a lot of reply states it can only be contact by toilet and other info written u shouldn't be urinating blood and u should feel pain while urinating so that means u've contact a sexually transmitted diease if that's the syptoms.
U defo need to leave the sorry ass of the guy he's not worth it
Definitely get urself treated and obviously we can't help not using condoms at times but only God help us,
Cheers
take care love

This story is quite sad honestly becos it just shows that a lot of marriages are just not working and partners are not happy in their marriages.
@poster u would have to discuss with her in the understanding of how we women think and no harshness,give her space,cojole to a lot of things she does,even if she's wrong apologise and even give her gift,no woman in her right mind won't miss her man if he does all that,
I hope all works well for both of you at the end of the day, u can only keep trying and not give up,
It's just shows that you need to understand people properly and priortise things but really try and hold on,
Pele,it is well

Maybe his duaghter should speak and beg with her father,am sure he loves her a lot and would want her happiness but didn't you guys know about this obstacles,dating 5 years before reaching this stage,
After the daughter begs the father,u can go and beg the man urself to let him understand that you love and have his daughter best interest at heart,
All is well

Didn't really gte the gist,she went with some else
Habi wetin i hear even though her b/friend wanted to take her

Abeg she no bi serious person,

From my own understand,birds of same feather hangs together,they compliment each other anyway,
Whoa very classic
U've slept with girl A which girl B is aware about and yet she still decided to date you
Is that how they do their own paraole sleeping with each other's partner regardless of if u and the first girl was serious or not,just basically wrong and shameful especially btw friends,
Regardless of how you feel and reason why u've got this thinking as well is how you've met her but decision has to be made by you and whatever happens you will have to live with it,

Like my sis always said never chase a guy away
Tell him u're in a relationship at the moment but can't say what tomorrow brings
If he's urs u both would still hook up regardless,it's just the timing,

Whao some harsh repy there
anyway @ poster,u alway learn the hard way don't u
Instead of hanging out with your male friends like you states why don't you hang out with your boyfriend instead to build a more solid relationship and anywhere u hang out and your b/friend has got an issue with within reason should be stopped.
Just talk to him and stop hanging out more with male friends

U should so much like a joke to me,maybe it's becos of your age, hahaha