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Oya oo, rape apologists food is ready.

Come and tell us how everything is the women's fault.

tbaby4u:
BEST advise so far. OP's husband is a gold digger. He married her because she is a career lady earning big and not for love. Op, pls I beg u,NEVER RELEASE YOUR PIN TO HIM OR U REGRET IT. Any man who puts his eyes on his wife 's money is a gold digger. A woman is to earn her money to support her family willingly and Op has done that by refurbishing his flat for him. How else can a woman help her husband? And she is also paying some other bills too. So, d man should go n hustle for his own money. YOUR WIFE'S MONEY IS NOT YOURS MR GOLDDIGGER. SHE CAN ONLY USE PARR OF HER SALARY TO HELP PAY SOME BILLS IN D HOME, BUY THINGS FOR YOUR CHILDREN, BUY HER OWN PERSONAL THINGS N ALSO SEND SOME MONEY TO HER PARENTS WHO SPONSORED HER ALL TRU D UNIVERSITY. HER PARENTS THAT INVESTED SO MUCH ON HER, ONLY FOR U MR GOLD DIGGER TO COME FROM NOWHERE, PAY PEANUT AS BRIDE PRICE ONLY N SUDDENLY THINK U OWE HER. Yes, u may owe her by marriage but pls, remove your eyes from her money. Go and hustle as a man. What makes a real man is d responsibilities he shoulders not some ENTITILED MENTALITY KIND OF MEN WHO ARE LAZY. WHO ONLY THINKS D DICK DEY CARRY UNDER IS WHAT MAKES THEM A MAN, WHO ALSO THINKS THAT D ONLY WAY THEY WILL MAKE IT IN LIFE IS TO TARGET RICH CAREER LADIES TO MARRY WHICH HE DID BUT NOW DISAPPOINTED THAT THE REASON HE MARRIED U IS NO LONGER POSSIBLE. LAZY ENTITILED GUYS EVERYWHERE. LADIES, BEWARE OF USELESS ENTITILED MEN, ALL THEY WANT IS A WOMAN THAT WILL SHOULDER THEIR RESPONSIBILITIES, BLEEP FOR FREE AND STILL CHASE AFTER OTHER GIRLS WITH THEIR MUGU'S MONEY.

OP, pls do not keep quiet on this issue, it is very obvious now that he married u because of your career n money n he is disappointed because u are smart too. Pls. Involve your family members because even your parents that sacrificed all their money to train u tru school that made u who u are today are not after your money. A man comes from nowhere n suddenly feels like a king, he feels entitled. For him to even seize your Atm card n pin shows he is a complete gold digger n I'm sure he is not working or does not have a good job. Na their way be dat. Ladies, beware of Gold diggers n entitled guys. They r everywhere, infact they are so much here on nairaland, jobless lazy youths looking for ladies to scam all in d name of relationship. Ladies, watch how they will attack my post now. I know they will attack me n I don't give a damn! Lazy youths!

This is the best post on this thread, men these days are just lazy and gold diggers.

Don't make the mistake of marrying him because he will also display this stinginess in marriage
He isn't testing you, forget what guys here are saying.
Run, run from him because people like him can be stingy to even their children. I made the mistake of marrying one, since we started having kids he has never gone out and come back with biscuit or juice or a small gift for our kids. Not to mention me the wife, that one na mission impossible.

ImaIma1:
What was your dating like? Was he this selfish? Maybe he has gotten used to you handling all the expenses that it is now hard for him to release his money.
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Our dating was 2 years, one year long distance and the other year occasionally spending time together in the same house. I didn't used to ask for money then because he was struggling, I was even saving my own for after marriage and not spending on myself because I saw a bright future ahead of us.

godblessuyirich:
MY DEAR I AM STILL IN IT OOO WITH A VERY BROKEN HEART COS OF MY KIDS. BUT PLANNING ON HOW TO CHANGE MY LIFE FOR GOOD. I HAVE TOLD MY GOD I MUST EXPERIENCE LOVE IN THIS MY LIFE TIME. NOTHING IS BETTER THAN LOVE. I DID ALL I DID FOR MY HUBBY COS OF LOVE BUT HE FEELS I AM A FOOL. I DONT WISH WHAT I AM GOING THROUGH ON EVEN THE PERSON THAT KILLED MY PRECIOUS MOTHER. I AM ALWAYS SAD, ALWAYS DAYDRAMING, FILLED WITH REGRETS AND WISHING I COULD TURN BACK THE HAND OF TIME

My sister are you also in the same shoes!!!
Hmm, I will make sure my daughter doesnt make the same stupid mistake I made of helping to establish a man.

I don't think I will marry him again.
Ungrateful, selfish, stingy, argumentative, sex is all about himself, not caring at all. Just an all round negative person. Only thing he is good at is conversation and gisting, he can't do good for others without expecting something back.
I am 8 months pregnant and was vomiting and rolling on the floor yesterday and he heard from pallor where he was pressing phone, he didn't want to leave his precious Facebook and attend to me so he just sat there and did nothing. After like five minutes he brought our two years old baby to drop with me in the room and returned to the sitting room to continue pressing phone.

This is someone I have passed through all manner of inconvenience to make him comfortable, I spent all my savings from when I was working before marriage to furnish our house after we got married because he didn't have much. My parents sponsored everything about our marriage and all he did was show up and go home, they were even willing to pay for our flight ticket back home but as of today he doesn't talk to them or even call them, just cut them off th totally. They are the ones assisting me with money now that I don't have s job and am pregnant because he doesn't like to give. Last time I asked for money to buy new clothes he came from work that evening and started venting all his anger on me and saying very insulting words because he didn't like the idea of giving me money.
But his unemployed friend outside was receiving monthly stipend of 20000 from him before the guy got a job, his friend that was living with us for 6 months was receiving daily transport fare and recharge cards from him. While the only thing he gives me is market money and that is after he had complained that the money is too much.

I made a big mistake thinking if I started small with him and helped him grow he will appreciate me and treat me well. He is just a very ungrateful and entitled person.

Good day mamas, I am new here and I just found out I am 7wks pregnant.
I have a son one year I am still breastfeeding and for some days now his stools have changed from hard and brown to watery and yellowish.

Please does anyone know if the change in stooling has anything to do with my breastfeeding while pregnant?

thanks

How far OP? Gotten more responsibilities?

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Lmao

Lol, how unusual. My former boss would have made you regret asking for more duties.

Anyway if they are paying you more then no qualms

RisMas: Delenfer has since had his ears made pointy and endured a series of painful tattoos that now cover his face and arms. However, looking like Lucifer has made his quest to find a girlfriend – somewhat difficult.

Gee, you don't say.

Why is that man always looking perpetually confused? See the way he is staring at the corns as if he doesn't know what to do with them.

montestic: my top 10:
1) Living in Bondage
2) Glamour Girls ( They used to chase us away whnever they were watching it bcs they said we were kids then)
3) True confession
4) Jezebel
5) Betrayal
6) Rattle snake
7) Day Break
Nneka the Pretty Serpent
9) Igodo
10) Ikuku

And there was nothing inside the movie sef, after all the chasing. I downloaded the stuff from youtube to see what the big deal is but there's nothing