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Naturally, virtually every grown up girl is someone's ex. If you are matured enough and has found what you want for a life partner in her then there is no need wasting time but you need to talk to your friend about it and see if he approves. It may be wrong for you to jump in if her former relationship newly crashed or your friend still loves her.

All in all. It will be the biggest mistake of your life to marry someone like my ex. . because u will die in 12yrs.

Missy B:
Even though I think the second part of Your comment is beautiful, I find the first part questionable.

How do women try to be men?
How is that supposed to be the cause of the finger-pointing?

I think it's in the Human nature to assign blame when something goes wrong [prolly because it's one of the easiest things to do], run away from our faults.
It takes only a fine nature and a humble person with good morals to assert his mistakes and take responsibilities for them.

Lol. You mean its in our nature to transfer blame on something we are guilty of?. I guess you are actually doing the "finger-pointing"

Why is there this age long battle of the sexes?. Anytime a blamable issue crops up about male and female intimacy/relationship, a very big battle will ensue with each side defending their sexes.

Couple of weeks ago, I was heart broken and emotionally f'kd up and accused the whole female hood of being way too immoral and untrustworthy ( May be true "Just my opinion" ). Every now and then many topics springs up about men which are always guided by the inconclusive notion that men are cheats. Come on someone need to take the blame. Will this battle ever end or are we all guilty of the same thing at the same time?.

This thread is useless. We have heard better cases of over-inflated contracts, this is nothing to tickle anyone or make u freak out on NL. Zooms off

I will marry a very ugly woman . SO i don't have problems watching my back. She can go clubbing either with me or her friends. Letting the pretty ones go clubbing alone or with her gang of pretty vanity friends is a risk i can't afford to take.

because we live in a Hot world. Besides your argument is a complete fallacy of over generalization calls for review.

Mr. man I think you may have lost your sense manliness
A woman is supposed to submit to her husband and any man asking for that is in line. You may have been cheated from desiring that by anyone you are currently putting up with but that is no excuse to relinquish your right to a submissive woman.

Get a grip on your manliness dude!.

t00my:
eehya, another man who will be scarred for a long time. It is always the same thing, a boy/man falls in love with a girl, they get their heart broken, swear never to love again and treat women like excreta from then on. Just be strong, it's one of the things you have to go through in life.

No way man.

ElRazur:
Lwkmd.

E be like say this thing still dey pain you. Oya no vex o. Pele.

Amebo okunrin. Yuk.

Nothing dey pain me. I just dey vex say i no dey see u in person as u dey yan this dust. U better arrange yourself. gbeborun wey dey call person Amebo.
I no just get your time, i just dey look you pitifully. Make i go arrange myself for friday night. No worry, i go drink beer for your head, maybe that one go help you dey normal small.

ElRazur:


Makes no sense.

Omo nothing you do will change the fact that you be amebo. Nice try.

Makes sense to me. It will let me ascertain your state of mental health cos you sound like someone with a broken head. Maybe i should blame it on the internet and d computer at your disposal.

@Poster,

**wonders WTF is wrong with this guy*** ignores and strolls on,

@Poster.

They will give birth to you of course. So that u can come to future naira land and post nonsense.

ElRazur:
Yeah am razz. So what?

Soooooo the son of your father. U get accident recently?

@Poster.

Stu.pi.dity is not a right but can be a privilege if properly managed. Ignorance on the other hand is a a disease. You are diseased my friend.

Oh, so they've been working since?. Ha!

tkb417:
LOL; what is happening?

the railway association are at work abi

no vex; at least we are keeping the thread alive

Lol. Your friend sounds like someone who drank raw koko. The way he describes the stuffs are so pathetic. Wish i can help.

OMG. I can't believe this is happening.

@Mam-gee.

ElRazur:
Omo I thought you are meant to be ignoring me?

Okay, your point is?   Yeah I lived in Shomolu. And what? The price of tea in china and jonathan goodluck. WTF?

lwkmd.

Now i get the clearer picture. lol

ElRazur:


**Hugs mama-gee** my number one enemy for here.


But the question is, wetin be him own concern? He is a guy for crying out loud.


Look at this guy. You talk poo, people correct you, you wan come dey use style dey talk non-sense. lwkmd.

Yeah I lived with my sister for Shomolu for sometime before we moved out. Omo It aint the "baddest" and e no be the "goodest" either.

I just hate the fact that, there aint privacy.  

Na d shomolu wey u dey live dey disturb you little mind. I aint here to bragg with you guys about who lives where or not cos i always know that it is the people from the worst areas in Lagos that struggles to impress others who don't give a fk about them. If your comfortable you won't be noisy. You just perm, relax and talk sense.

agabaI23:
I think what the guy is saying is that the wife was cheating on him

No mind people wey no go school to sabi how to use their head.

[quote author=@labiyemmy link=topic=445650.msg6037392#msg6037392 date=1273857557]How can you landlord, who you wrote about using "his" - meaning he is a man, now also turn out to have kids from 3 different men?

If she is a woman, then honestly speaking, what offence has she committed? Please tell us what law she has broken.


hmmmm - Bros. Wetin be your won abeg? I bet it is a face me I face you kind of house?[/quote]Use your head. His wife bore him 3 kids. probably got the pregnancies from other men not his husband ( landlord. )

I wish i dey stay in a face me i face you like you.

ElRazur:
E be like say I don hit you where it hurts. Pele o. **chuckles in a mocking way**

My thread na joke. Yours na indication of an amebo. A male amebo. Kai.

Oya tell me more about yah landlord.

I have paid you more attention than necessary. **Ignores your ignorant rants **

I see, Real men should be posting poo like this https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-445093.0.html .
You are a glorified mumu.

ElRazur:
Omo nah wah o. Aint you a male? Shouldn't you be less concerned with all of these? Kai. I hope you get a job sha. Amebo and busybody no fit a man jare.

I can see that you are really busy male and your job is to get concerned in what doesn't concern you. Comment no be by force oo. Ode oshi.

Since i moved into my house, I have been wondering if the 3 kids living with my landlord are actually his children because 3 of them don't have any form of resemblance. The two guys are dark and of different looks, while the girl is fair and looks yoruba-ish. They don't resemble their mother either. The family have been living peacefully till a neighbor engaged the landlord in exchange of words during the last sanitation day. We thought everything has died down and forgotten until my landlord came back now with his kins men and a paternity test result. The house is on fire, The wife is about to be thrown out.

Since i moved in, I have developed this relationship with the landlord, I seriously can't ignore the situation and don't even know what to say to him  . I wish he doesn't have heart attack.

I dey think whether to make small travel oo  . This one pass padi padi matter oo.

Make i dey watch as the saga continues,

apache77:
guy, i feel u, but hers is a psychological problem, its medicall, it seems wat eva u give her, she\s still sleep with others, u sleep with her well, u give her money plus wat she gets so money is not it, its psychological asides therapy, ders nuthin u can do, run, i had a similar though lesser proble, my own gurl was just a flirt, she loved flirting wit men, not necessarily sleepin wit dem, but it riled me no end, we'v dated for 5years now, n though i suspect she has slept with maybe a couple of guys since we started, she has not taken another boyfriend since me, though i know she still sees, probably still sleeps with the guy who was with her before me.

Theres nuthin you can do except u want to be a cukoo

Don't wanna be a cukoo. I have moved on. She is just exactly what you described. Lesson learnt, Never fall in love with all your heart.

odiaero:
am still thinking of wht to say, will be right back

I think saying yes will make bedrocker's day. C'mon there is no shame. You too can make good couple.

@Poster.

I kinda like your courage. But how does it feel to bone your fellow man?. What partner u looking for. guy-girl or guy-guy. Make i know who wan donate yansh. Inyamaaa.

Dolemite:
I'm not saying prostitution is the ultimate solution to the Aids epidemic, but question, if you had to choose between your moral and religious beliefs and saving millions of people, which would you choose?

Are you trying to infer that dropping my moral standards and religious belief would save millions?. Come on man. There is HIV aids everywhere because people don't uphold those moral standards and religious beliefs. My religion forbids pre marital sex. Adhering to that will definitely save one from contracting the disease via sex. Stop turning issues upside down.

Dolemite:
Morals, religion, laws and conscience are all relative, don't you understand? and about human survival, Aids kills millions each year, in countries where prostitution is legal the level of Aids transmission is actually lower than countries where prostitution is illegal - held back by your morals, laws religion and conscience.

OMG!.
I just pray that you are not seriously serious with this. So your point now is that we should abandon, morals and our religious beliefs inorder to curtail HIV aids?.

baybbootz:
Everybody cries_{no matter how "hard" they could be},everybody gets hurt.Its just the manner of approach to healing that matters. Your manner of approach,from what have noticed,wont take you far.
Goodluck!

Thanks for your concern, but I have survived the situation already. Just lamenting ( Not out of frustration or anger but by experience )