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snowdrops:
So why did you guys date him/her?

Thot she was human, till she proved to be a goat.

luap:
@BlakkBoi not sure but Boi usually refers to a boy girl or gay man or boy. Usually the Boi is a submissive male. I can understand that you are shocked if this is the case. I think it would offend women to be viewed as sexualized objects.

Just want to let you know I understand where your coming from. I am not a gay guy so I am not trying to make the moves on you or build rapport.

I wish i have an idea of what ur talking about.

baybbootz:
Anyway its your life, I hope generally bashing us will make your hurt and pain go away,but I doubt it.

I don't mean that all girls are bad, but i never anticipated that anything could make in my 30yrs life experience. I wish u know me personally. you would have sounded differently.

Dolemite:
Human morals is relative, for example in Northern Nigeria, old men get married to 12 year old's completely normal there, in the west it's a huge taboo. . .it depends on where you're born, so sometimes we need to put these morals aside if they hinder our survival as humans.

I feel you on this one. We really need to do away with morals, religion, laws and conscience so that we can thrive in our survival as humans. People like u should be elected lawmakers and presidents due to your great understanding of the human survival barriers.  

Whats ur gender?

Oh, sorry i forgot gay's lack gender. Just stuck in between.

goat

Dolemite:
Why are you surprised? prostitution is the world's oldest profession, naturally it is when the purpose of humans is procreation, we wouldn't be able to procreate if we find intimacy disgusting. . .personally i believe legalizing prostitution would limit the spreading of std's.

I love your sense of understanding. You do belong to the class of people without regards to acceptable human morals.

baybbootz:
@blackboi
Sincerely you should change your attitude towards women,really it wont take you far.Am sure behind all this hate,is a poor broken-hearted miserable and sad dude. I understand the pain.

I think you just want to get on my pain. You kinda hate me kinda but its OK.

I have sold my conscience for love. U just visited a guy . C;mon

blakbarbie:
@poster time heals all wounds, what doesnt kill you only makes u stronger, in other words, you'll be alright.

It sure does. YESSS. I am really getting healed, and thanks for d support.

davidif:
Oga poster, you too funny

Every serious sh*t is funny.

kemisuga:
@ Poster - Sorry alittle.
Guys are not good to be pity. Cos they are worst.

That be 2 in every 1000 guys believe me, we are wonderfully created in the image of God with a heart of gold. I have to strongly disagree with you on that notion.
Can u imagine a 3yrs relationship girl that just hit the rock jumping into another bed in less than 72hrs. Its in U peoples DNA.

Believe it or not! girls are auctioning their virginity on the internet for $20,000. The highest bidders gets to break the cage and enter the place. NICE!!!!!!!
The human race is kinda doomed to stupidity. And if i may ask, Why are the women pioneering all the disgusting things in the world?.

Prostitution,
Plastic Surgery ( Breast Augmentation )
etc.

The craziest part of this is that 10% of the bid amount will be used to support a brother in Nevada. C'mon, support a brothel?. Now i'c where this is heading to. Prostitution is about to be legitimized. So fasten your seat belts girls, its time to get commercial and make some mega bucks selling the ultimate product.

Really disgusting to me.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/australiaandthepacific/australia/7704737/Anger-over-reality-television-virgin-auction.html

Bawss1:
The dude is just a clown.

I hope u aint just referring to this dude, I just hope so.

flexshop:
Ladies beware- Blackboi turning blackheart

I aint turning blackheart. I am just trying to save my brothers from the wicked.

valacious:
guy simple word---leave this babe. I very much understand how u feel, cos my broda has been there b4, at the end of d dat, he realised d girl dey use jazz tie am down, and that was after 8yrs, pls d earlier d beta for u, all d best.

OMG! Jazz ?. She went nuclear on that one. She must love the guy to have used science on him for 8yrs. Sound more like a lifetime to me man. I feel sorry for your brother. Xtend ma warm pity to your bro and thanks for your concern.

baybbootz:
urmmmm by VEEVEE, I mean the va.gina. how many have you had in counting??

Whats with all this silly fuss about virginity,is it a title abi award?? spare me all this talk jo, sooner or later the cherry will be popped, so why all the fuss initially.


If u like hate on this gender all you want, you still need US to make your lifes complete.

Yeah virginity is no big deal, you shouldn't have been born tight and sealed. I guess you popped d cherry earlier than i thought anyway Good for you, at least there won't be any measure of how much traffic you entertain. .

About the needing you part . The pope is complete and better without you gurls.Although I don't wish to starve like him, but the risk is kinda higher than the gain now, so i guess i just activate my monk state till things gets better,

[quote author=Capt. Cavey link=topic=442337.msg6012902#msg6012902 date=1273189406]This love of a thing sef,its more like a game of hurts and pains by players involve. . .its like trying to know who can inflict the more pain on the other,who's believed to be emotionally weak. Its ridiculous that,with all these ills,its still widely over-exagerated as PERFECT![/quote]Wahala dey!. See opinion.

baybbootz:
am just stating the obvious, ma dear child. Am too sure you know what am talking about.
why?
Is she the girl in question?
How many veevee's have you discovered an ploughed? Almost every guy is a man-slut!!!!!

I was a Vee till 19. The current statistics shows that only 1% of girls between d age of 15 - 17 are virgins. You thinks its only u people that lives in a Hot world?. Your barely 22 and how many have u counted?. You gurls even made a profession of it. Nonsense gender.

Man-SLut!? . Nothing like that

Akosbaba:
I'll definetely prefer manliness luv to any fkking other type of luv.lol

I wish not to know what u mean.

baybbootz:
Why was mamagee and seuns names mentioned?

This thread doesnt make sense, jezebel ko, delilah ni. Its ok for u guys to be d!.ck heads but its not right for us girls to get smarter Get with the new plan, this is just the beginning

sowi sha at poster, but are you sure that its not karma for the other hearts uve dealt with?

Karma?. lolz Don't change d subject matter.

pheonixChi:
@poster

luv your post really tickled me lol. Listen luvie you like ever man before you and the ones coming will fall in love and continue to do so foolishly, you know why? well its because you dont love women with your hearts ,but your D**ks, the blood rushes from your head to your nether region and what do you get? ,

And if i may ask. Who makes d blood rush from the head to the d*ck?. I loved wisely, but it's so hard to get a pretty face who can stick to one d*ck. They love to test every size and shape of it. Don't feel guilty yet, i didn't mean to prick ur conscience. On the average, how many do u keep at a time?. DOn't worry, i know u wont answer that. But u know d truth?. I didn't mean to say almost every girl is a wh-ore.
No disrespect meant. Just saying ma mind. Mcheww!

Madukaele:
i have worn the shoe for a longer peroid, i know were it hurts . anytime. if u need 1 on 1 help email me gbachano@yahoo.com

I will. Thanks.

baybbootz:
So have u decided to leave her??

If u love her, have u imagined how bleeped her life will be without you?? Maybe your the change she really needs,how long have u guys been battling this behaviour?

And maybe she's the devil that will snap life out of me. We've been together for almost 3yrs, If there is a chance she is something different i would have known before now. I bet u can't imagine what i pass through.

BlueDiva:
Maybe she's a ny.mp.ho.
Ny.mp.ho's can't help themselves.

I saw this somewhere.

What a shame, she's more than a nympho. She is the devil we hear about.

Madukaele:
check her background well, if she was exposed to life early in life bro der is nothing you can do to stop her even after marriage. serious, the sooner you pull out the better but dont leave her at once cos if u do u will end up not leaving her, your mind is fully with her, just take some time like call once in 2 days , once a week continue dat way till your feeling reduce to a controllable state, and try to see other ladies to reduce the pain , dont enter relationship with them just talk them out and chat with them even if u no like them at all, it help me to break out 7 years relationship with a LovePeddler. not easy a stitch in time saves 9. pls dont have se-x with her again if not u will neva leave her.

I feel you on this one bruv. One of the most sincere comment i'v read. I started out with her when she was 18. 2nd yr in school when I was in Final yr. I am trying to convince myself that she is no more needed so that I can move on.
Thanks a bunch.

Flashfast1:
BlackBoi
is it the chic you were referring to here that did this to you?

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-441260.0.html

Now I see why you are so bitter

Yes oo. Thats the devil i was talking about.

Madukaele:
i have more experience in the field of heart pain. trust me ,i broke up with my ex 7 years in a relationship , every soul on earth know about us, she sleeps around like no mans biz, i cryed all nite cos of the pain still she neva stoped , i talk and talked  till i got tired of talking, everyone told me to quit but it was neva easy, but i did cos i knew if i dont i will surely die  young. wasnt easy bro, i even enter fasting and prayer, sounds funny but is true. thank God am free but some times the experience over comes me and it kills my day. just got to live with it, bro .

check urself very well. someone u may be hurting hers, may not be tru but surely some one else loves u. tak kia and good luck in your decisions

You fasted and prayed yet your prayers wasn't answered. She is the devil in disguise.
Kinda seems you went through hell while i only stepped into it. Sorry my man. Don't cry again. God will compensate u and give u someone reasonable but she will suffer for her sins. E no easy oo.

[quote author=Diva 2.0 link=topic=442337.msg6011392#msg6011392 date=1273170615]If all advice fails, you can always jump off a cliff.[/quote]Yes Jezebel. We are discussing your type here. If i don't jump maybe u will persuade me. Nonsense.

[quote author=Diva 2.0 link=topic=442337.msg6011183#msg6011183 date=1273168359]You guys are a bunch of brokenhearted losers lol[/quote]Thanks Delilah.

Madukaele:
@poster, sorri for your pain
what you will understand is that once you love someone more than she loves you ,you will always cry. not like she is bad but you loved her more. that also goes to the ladies, dont love a guy more than he loves you,

I had a problem with a lady, i loved her more and she messsed me up. not like she didnt love me but cos i loved her more than she loved me. a good girl. i called her all kinds of name not knowing am doing same evil she did to me cos i also have dis lady dat loves me more than i love her but i didnt notice i was hurting her feelings just like my ex hurt me.

we human find it hard to fancy does that love  us so much. i understand the pain but check well, someone may be in pain cos of the way you r treating her. take kia bro.

Its not the same thing ma brother. Has a girl made you contemplate suicide?. If no, then you barely understand what I am talking about. Life of solitude seems the way. Or maybe a life or emotional war against these Eve's.

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=442337.msg6010686#msg6010686 date=1273163334][color=deeppink]What's this garbage of a thread supposed to imply?

That a couple who are soon to be wedded shouldn't love each other with all of their hearts[/color]? [/quote]I no go blame you. You have the right to defend your wicked gender. Go on and crucify the crudsade, But dudes must be delivered. First Adam then Samson. Now me. I shall never go down gurl.

Flashfast1:
Count me in bro. As long as I'll be the one collecting all the tithe and offering

God go bless you ooo my brother. I shall never hang a leg.

akelliah:
this is not a joke, men please understand that women have decided to control alternatively delete us, this is how they operate.

. I dey feel you.
See people like mama-gee defending their extermination plans.

Someone was said that WOMAN means Woe unto man. I don't know how true that is, but they are really going far to prove that right. Be Wise!

buttkick:
you are simply obsessed at keeping her. you may wish to know that if she stops the promiscous behaviouh the love you so profess will be gone as you have no battle on your hands again. some babes are that way. they believe they have a honey pot that some men will die for and thats their power grip. they will use it even if does not make sence at all. i had a neibourh in an ajourning flat a couple of years back. she was def ok, pretty and ggod dress sence. she also had a decent job in a construction firm also had a regular boyfriend whom she had been with for four years who comes in from lagos every 2-3 months. believe it or not she had tonnes of male sleep overs.

i knew she had a lot of respect for me, so one day i confronted her out of the blues and she was down in tears that she didnt feel loved and since any guy she floored was ever willing to have another dig she gave in since she knew that was one thing she was good at and was appreciated for. you will be fooling yourself that you can change her. the best you can do is to stand by her through whatever phase she is going through. she will do what she wants, when and how.

Me and you don wear the same shoe guy. What i don;t understand is if this is natural or some crazy habit they cultivate to show off how cheap and senseless they can be. Crazzzzy.

Coldheart:
@OP: Ha! Isn't the girl's name Ekaette?

Me Ekatte? God forbid.

asas:
na wa oh women dis women dat men also are heartbreakers users and deceivers,

Thats your opinion. Man was created in Gods own image, woman was created in the likelihood of a serpent. Pretenders and deceitful. You people chased us out of garden of eden. Now u want to chase us out of the world. Thank God for my kind.

Flashfast1:
**laughing already**

I think I get the picture already. Women no go kill us for this world wen we come. Look on the bright side, the thing don make you born again. lol

Look on the brighter side and born again with me.


[quote author=Tink_sh link=topic=442337.msg6008295#msg6008295 date=1273137789]Wow!! Someone has been burned! I am sorry for your pain![/quote]Good thing you admit women are burning fire. Forget the pain I am carrying on with my new ministry and crusade against female wickedness.
That all daughters of jezebel might lose their hold on my brothers.!

Flashfast1:
Thanks for the advice. Oya give us the gist na.

You wan find gist wey u wan take laff me abi?.
Bros if i tell you wetin i pass through for one stupid girl hand eeh. From the heart break, i still dey get serious chest problem ("No Jokes" ). Say i still dey alive na miracle man. Femalehood na possessed gender.

190:
thank u, we don hear.now go get a microphone and spread the msg, so that even seun and mamagee would get the msg.

Seun na womanizer?

[quote author=olayinka.j link=topic=442337.msg6004692#msg6004692 date=1273079805]@ 190, u funny die, if seun and mamagee catch u ehn! dem go shake u jigbijigbi. @ poster, i don hear o but i no get GF so i am save abi?[/quote]You safe die!!!. Keep it up man. If u can hold urself well, marriage no be matter.

cpatra:
@OP

kudos 2 the kind girl wey turn you born again over night.

Ha ha ha ha, I think sey na only guys sabi dey break heart? Girls una too much. Keep it up!

Meaning wetin nah. Na your type no dey listen to voice of wisdom. Na from experience i take dey advice una cos if i give una gist ehh.

Woke4all:
True talk. It seems you recently got a heartbreak.

Do i sound like someone speaking from a broken heart or from a heart full of wisdom and deliverance?

Wow.

Thats sexy. Naughty girl,

Guys, I just found out that it is now a known sin to fall in love with a girl you are not married to especially Nija girls. If you care about your emotional well being. "[b]DON'T EVER LOVE A GIRL WITH ALL YOUR HEAR[/b]T". If you have made the mistake before this deliverance message, kindly switch the love from your heart to your head and your driller.

Every Nigerian girl these days carries a spiritual production TAG that reads "I will surely mess up your heart if you entrust it to me". You see?. These people are the descendants of Eve, Delilah and Jezebel. - Show me a genuine loving girl and i will show you a live dragon.-

I know y'all will thank me for this. Pass this message and save lives.

I AM SAVED!.

As for the ladies. No intention to bad market una evil intentions, I am just spreading the life saving message.

sexdoctor:
give me her contact details i can cure her
intimacy doc say so[color=#770077][/color]

Your name is sexdoctor and you want to have her number so that you will complicate the issue worse than it already is?. No way man.

maureena:
You are not under a spell. I think it is what is inbetween her legs that you dont want to loose.

Who knows, may be she gives it to you the way no other girl has. Be wise.

Yes we do have lot of sex, but sex is not love man. Love is in the heart and not in between the thighs. You may have yours between your thighs but my love for her is not a joke and not brone out of sexual desires and escapades. Be wise!

Osama10:
For the last time run run run from that ny%%omaniac.

You want me to run from someone i love just because she has an overbearing sexual behaviour? Where then is the love.

Crude Oil:
Sounds like a nice girl.

Yes She is nice and beautiful just promiscuous.

Osama10:
She's a love addict.Just give her space if you like your life.

I once told her i can't keep up to it anymore, she cried and told me she loses control of her self soemtimes and that I should help her, but I have done everything within my power to either talk her out of it or make her stay close to me but anything she has an opportunity the whole stupid drama starts again. It pains me so much because she has multiple sexual partners not just that she does so with just another guy.

Mhismole:
@ Blackboi, your case reminds me of Hosea. . .some guy in the bible that God instructed to love a love-peddler/intimacy addict (intimacy addict cos she kept going back)

It must be incredibly painful. maybe you could find a therapist?

Where can i get such therapist for sex possessed girl?

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]Wait till when she moves on 2 1 of your family members possibly your fada. . . [/color]

. She hasn't gone that mad. I will kill her before thinking about it.

Girl846:
Poster if I may ask, what is it that you like about this girl exactly? Is it her personality, her conversation, her companionship or her intimacy?
Its not fair that you stay in such a hurtful relationship. This will drain you and break your heart. You need to slowly pull away. Occupy your time with other people and other activities. Not to mention that this is dangerous for you, she could bring home all kinds of diseases and baggage from her wild lifestyle.

If you want to help her sincerely change her ways, start taking her to church with you. Establish a relationship with God.

Nicely said. I honestly can't say what my poison about her is. just love her with all my heart. Your pull away suggestion seems very bright but i wish its that easy girl. The mere thought of ever going away breaks me already. Is there a possibility that I may be under a spell?

Time to strike

johnterry4:
[size=16pt]guy,i understand u.some girls are like dat.especially those that have not learnt their lesson from boys( u know boys are wicked).when a girl is promiscous ,no amount of sitting her down will help until life teaches her a big lesson.i will advice u keep on collecting your own frm her(if u know what i mean).dump her when she starts to get serious with the relationship.[/size]

Easier said than done. I guess u may not have experienced extreme affection towards someone u have absolutely no control over. It's crazy man.

Sarah a:
My brother, just pray that one day she will nt infect you with deadly diseases. Base on wht u av posted it may be a spiritual case which she her selve cnt control except God intervene.Use your head ad nt your mind to conclude on wht to do.pls dnt use MAGUN abeg oh.

Thanks. But Magun seems to be the best option available now, aside that the other thing on my mind is murder.
DO you know how it feels trying to picture her spreading her legs for those dudes to hit!. Gosh,