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lofty900:
God bless your business. Amen

Thank you

babythug:
Just stumbled on this!

How are you holding up?

Sending e-hugs your way! It gets easier with time and I pray and believe the good Lord will make a way for you! Amen

Thank you. Living each day as it comes.

kaboninc:
I'd love to put a smile on the faces of your little kids.

If you don't mind, please send me a pm.

Cheers!

Sent sir.

bleble24:
4 days to Xmas, my kids don't av what to wear.

This is really heartbreaking.

Yippeeeee

My Santa has made my dream come true.

Thank you so much ma, edwife.

edwife:
Check your mail.

Ok ma.

edwife:
I don't think you are serious, after i asked you to send me a pm and i even sent one to you which requires you to just click the red link. You could have asked questions on the thread on how to use pm or let me know what was happening since last week but you kept quiet.

Sent ma

4 days to Xmas, my kids don't av what to wear.

This is really heartbreaking.

edwife:
Can you send me a pm?

Sorry I don't know how nairaland pm works.

Buy Xmas clothes for my kids.

[quote author=missingribs post=51941797][/quote]Mmmmm

damiso:
very well said and nothing more to add..

Bleble24 ((Hugs))) there is no manual that comes with parenting especially now having to deal with great loss. Take baby 124's practical advise and I am sure it will be well with you

Thank you.

iliketheSunrise:
based on what you wrote,
you're a good mom and you're doing your best.

i'm sorry for your loss.



what's wrong?

I promised her Xmas cloth but couldn't afford one. She cried ee.. ...i was shattered.
It's well sha.

Thank you baby124.

Debbiemma:
As i read through the comments, tears fill my eyes. It's well with you dear. Tell Jesus everything, He is a reliable friend, He will never leave you nor forsake you.

Thank you

Hernyolar:
I'm so sorry for your loss...
Time heals all wound but the scars still remain, over time you'll be fine.
Tell the kids,that their dad loves them and he has gone to heaven to be with God in order to watch,provide and care for them....let them know their dad loves them but God called him..
It ain't easy raising a child alone but one thing that will keep you going is telling yourself ''I can do it''...you're stronger than you think...
Trust God that you'll be fine.
#hugs#

Thanks

ChemicalReaction:
Too many 'what ifs'

Forget all that. Talk to your mom. Don't let him ruin u.

Talk to your mom.

Thank you.

The truth is I haven't accepted it yet.

Sometimes, I feel like he is going to knock on the door one day and say it was all a dream.

It's not been easy, believe me.

Thank you everyone. His family promise to be there, and they were there at first but later thing change.
I will try and adjust.

He's late.

Sometimes I wish I could make a quick fast forward through my life and see that everything ends OK.

Mummy why don't u like us was the question my 3.6yrs old daughter asked me tonight.... I held her close to my heart and told her that I love them so much and even too much that I can't imagine my life without them.


There are days I come back home tired and I just want to give them food and sleep but they won't let me. Sometimes I scold, or beat them. Sometimes I let them av their way like a child that they are, other days I just can't stand it.


Mummy, I want a new cloth ..... I am sorry dear, we can't afford that now cos we've got bills to pay.
Why don't you give us everything we want.....i know that I don't give up to 20% of what u want but am working very hard to put food on the table for us.

Mummy when is daddy coming back..... This is the question I fear the most, I just let them fall asleep while I cry throughout the night. How do I tell you that daddy isn't coming back. I really wish he was here, we had a perfect dream of raising our kids together.


My fear is will they understand when they grow up?
Won't they grow up hating me thinking I hated them when they were kids??

Who exactly is she referring to Did I read about infection and bringing children home

It's not good Jo, av used it before.

The case is different for me. Growing up I never liked beans but now as a mother I love it ehhhh. ...

uairaland:
start from where you are.

Hmmmm.

The love of a mother

Hmmmmm!! !
Where do I start from? But in all, God de sha.

Nice one.

Suicide isn't the answer.

Lobatan