₦airaland Forum

Bkayyy:
There is definitely something wrong with that woman that made her to be unmarried at 59 years

And there's also something so wrong with the man fighting over property when he should have gone to get his

Legendforte:
external forces are trying to truncate our traditional norms and values. A woman's inheritance is in her husband's home and she can also acquire her private property without hindrance and dash to whomever pleases her.

But in your greedy mind she can add veluee to the family right? Wake up. FYI my dad has already shattered that your stupid tradition that holds no water.. Supreme court has also done same.. GREEDY AND LAZY IGBO MEN. GO AND WORK

Anaerobi:
lol... u are right dear...

Keep consoling yourself.. You re so on your own

giftedben:
I don't know if you are Igbo or not but let me educate you a little. Igbo have a tradition and that tradition have been taken care of both male and female child. Before an Igbo male or any male child from any tribe gets married to an Igbo female child. He must perform every traditional right. If you like do white wedding or court wedding.
The same goes for properties. Even if the male child is a mad man, he is the owner of his father's properties. Where by their father feels like given his female child a share of his property, he wills it to her.
You cannot tell me her father gave her the right to look after his properties when he has a grown-up man in the family.
If she had a dead brother, that have children she is looking after their wellbeing. What she would have done is to go to their village chiefs. They will call for a meeting and the properties will be shared between her troublesome brother and her late brother. She can then look after her late brothers children from his own share of the property.
She proving stubborn will lead to her early grave.

Then wake up from your archaic dream cos my dad has even done what you think is a taboo

Bkayyy:
Then it is not right. It is pure wickedness.
Well I still don't believe the 59 year old woman that the father can do such without proof

1.LAZY

2 ENTITLED SON

Bkayyy:
If the son is useless then the father is equally useless for raising a useless son and at such must include him in his will or allow the court to do so.
This is not an excuse for excluding anybody or gender from your will

Die if you can.. People have gone way pass that stupidity

Bkayyy:
There is no reason for you to take this personally, just call a spade what it is and move on.
The woman should share whatever is the property with her brother. You don't know the financial status of the brother and how well he relates with the members of the family and denying him such might ruin his chance of becoming anything meaningful in the near future.
My brother sometimes it is not good to judge everything from your perspective. So because you did not inherit anything from your father another man will not while his 59 year old sister takes everything

Oga face front. He should go hussle. That's how lazy sons behave..

MajohBankz:
Unless the Mr Francis was useless to their father when he was alive which made him transfer his properties to the daughter, the father no try at all.

Thats usually the situation

Bkayyy:
Read the article again, the woman is fully in control of the father's property and doesn't want the younger brother to gain access because as she said "was placed in my custody"

He should go and work..

lekki1444:
my best friend is going through the same thing. from ibusa. born in england and being in england all his life. his pops died and left him some of the property. his brothers and sisters in naija told him if he enters muritala muhammed airport they will bury him alive and he better stay over there in europe and never come back. they cursed him and rained abuse on him. i told my guy, just move on with your life. its not worth dying over property. TRUE STORY. IF I LIE MAKE GOD PUNISH ME

He should also denounce them all as siblings and have nothing to do with them nor their linage forever for such act.

dalass:
I don't know if you're female oh.... Seeing what you wrote above as it concerns females inheriting property in Igbo land or anywhere.

When slavery was being fought against, it didn't happen overnight but took many years of constant struggles everywhere in the world. But here we are.

Traditional beliefs that are against the females will give away sooner or later... Let the change begin.!

It has already given way. Leave them in their foolish dreamland

Bkayyy:
And what is a 59 year old woman still doing in her father's house?
See eh, Nigerian feminists this is just a trip into the future.
Well I'm waiting for the other side of the story before I make mistake in judgment like an average Nigerian

Did you read the write up at all?

frozen70:
Since you are an advocate of not allowing daughters get an inheritance from their fathers properties

That means if such a woman is in a good position like being a president, vice, governor or senator, she should never allow her fathers family members to benefit from her positions as the case may be

Change your mindsets that's a very stupid decision

The Yorubas that gives their daughters a share from their fathers properties have already seen tomorrow

Me am Ibo and I will give my daughters whatever I give to my sons

No mind her or him and likes. They won't mind the girls adding value to the family but want them out when it comes to property.. Thank God my dad isn't with such stupid mentality

Nbotee:
In Igboland, a woman doesn't administer her father's property..

But she an add value to the family right? Greedy lots like you.. My dad has already gone pass that archaic, stupid talks like what you just said

IamD18:
Few weeks ago, I read an article on the decision the Supreme court gave on the note of women inheriting properties in Igbo land and I was just laughing because I know it'll never work.

Many women were forming women right activists, celebrating joyfully over the news on social media with non-Igbos and non-traditional Igbos.

Bruv, there are traditional doings that can't be stopped by social media arguement and ranting.

Not even the Federal government can give women access to their father's properties when there are men in the family. In the settings of inheritance in Igbo land, a woman has no say. The earlier y'all accept this the better.

Most of the things women advocate on social media are things that will lead them to frustration or to their early grave when practiced in reality. Let social media ideas end on social media if you want to live long in this county.

Then you and your likes have got to wake up as you have seen their late father, the owner of the property did and there's nothing anyone can do. So you and your likes just learn to deal with it in tears if possible. And you know what my dad is doing same. So you see that not all men are this archaic and stupid

Kennitrust:
so painful, especially when, it obvious he could rent a room of his own.

Lol. He told me that, he wants to stay with me till he buy land and build his own house so he can leave straight to his own house. A plan that may not be accomplish in the next 3yrs

So sorry you are such a weakling and that's why he is taking advantage of it/you.. He has automatically paused your life till further notice. D

Blessedassuranc:
So sorry you are such a weakling.. Dem never born that person wet go try that to me wet be woman. You are not yet matured fr marriage. Pls don't kill someone's daughter.. No offence plsss.

em never born that person wet go try that to me wet be woman. You are not yet matured fr marriage. Pls don't kill someone's daughter.. No offence plsss.

Kennitrust:
The financial aspects is the hell here.

I should have just done that without seeking for advice. This guy have the cash that would have build him mansions but he mismanage it but still have money to rent somewhere else but choose to punish me with his suggestion

You already know him yet you tolerate him. I CANNOT MARRY A MAN LIKE YOU NEVER. Naa confirm headache. People like you make a woman nag to death. Be a man and tell that guy or sibling off for ye sake of your peace. He won't stop if you don't stand your ground. I have a brother like that and he knows those he throws such trash at.

Anaerobi:
Yes bro. or u don't believe in prayers?

Which kind prayer inside this one now? Abeg he should tell his brother to move. The guy has to move on with his life..squatter wan chase house owner out of him house and you dey talk prayer..

Anaerobi:
if u have d cash, do d needful... if u have d enablement just rent another house Bro. I know it's not easy, but u just have to do it so it won't be like u clashed with ur blood because of a woman or u left ur woman because of ur brother.

You mean he should leave his house cos he has a selfish ,callous and self centred brother? Op. If you like don't set your boundaries right now.. Your brother ll never learn . he ll still do another one. Trust me cos i be seen this happen.. I guess he can't try this trash with some other family members cos he knows they won't tolerate such.. Pls try and sort yourself before you get married. Cos your type ll give your wife headache cos of this boundary issues with your family members/siblings..

Kennitrust:
several time, we did that. My elder, with financial capabilities! Hmm

My dear you made a big mistake taking him. He is callous and you should know never to bring nor keep such person around you. You owe him nothing and you might have to look him straight in the eyes that he has to leave.. Don't bother about where he ll go to cos he never considered you in his actions.. If you like continue with the emotional bs talk that he is your brother..

azadus18:
you can never get d numbers of pple recruited into d DSs ..is classified mehn...

Really?

Okwyjesus:
Torr

I will vote my church ahead of my tribe.
Peter Obi should please forgive me

Really? Another Change saga fall on you

adanny01:
Campaign manager? Is that the new name for a Godfather?

A serving governor as a campaign manager?

Ganduje nko? How do you even get to reason this way?

adanny01:
You think you have a choice. I don't really have a choice. Political parties have the choice. General elections is just a mere official process, the main choice of leaders is done at Party primaries.

If you believe you have eradicated Godfatherism, wait till Obaseki has finish his tenure and come and tell me if he will not sponsor his own candidate. You let politicians deceive you. Edo people just changed a Godfather, you can't eradicate Godfatherism, the earliest you realise the better.

Why was Wike in Edo, isn't he turning into a PDP Godfather.

So based on what you just said there is no way Nigeria will ever make headway then a split is the only answer.
Fyi campaign manager isn't a godfather.. So Ganduje has become a god father? Don't be too quick to mention Edo.

Toks2008:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/10/a-prophecy-was-made-that-i-will-be-vice-president-yemi-osinbajo/

We have seen that he has really worked as a vice full of LIES LIES LIES and propaganda. And what has that brought or him other than Shame shame shame .. Now he is talking of Nehemiah the rebuilder of wall. No one is fool.. HE ISN'T AND CAN NEVER BE THE NEHEMIAH OF OUR TIME WITH SUCH LIEING TONGUE ... Fake ass pastor

Nchenches:
You have refused to learn: the essence of politics is welfare of the people.
Your own essence of politics is promote ethnoreligious interest and interest of a few political heavyweights in a country.

When will you learn: a country of inequality knows no peace, and that without peace, no development? Mr Sophisticated, you guys have refused to learn: all parts of a country must sign to peaceful co-existence, else the country spends a fortune fighting undeclared wars, gets crippled?

Leave them to continue in their foolishness and yet thy ll be claiming sophistication..

adanny01:
I also feel the SE needs to have the slot for fairness.

Unfortunately, I know that they have never worked for it and are still not ready to work for it.

Buhari gets abused everyday from people especially from the SE.

Tinubu gets the same insults from people of the SE.

These 2 politicians will crown the next president and the SE throw stones at them. These 2 politicians have a huge following in their regions. If SE wants the president, how will they get votes in the north and SW which is 4 geopolitical zones against 2. These 4 geopolitical zones combined have 3 times the population of the SS and SE combined.

Even if APC and PDP pick SE candidates, I assure you both will lose. The SE shouldn't be insulting people that will give them the presidency if they truely want to be voted.

See you and your sense of god fatherism? Don't you know who to vote for? Must someone dictate to you who ll lead you? Unaa never see something for Nigeria.. Continue . no need sef shey VP talk say country be like wetin wan or go scatter..

okewumi:
I prefer to vote Oshibanjo that Tinubu that sold us to bubu

Don't be deceived, Osibanjo is also part of it.. Pls go through their campaign tours and see for yourself.. That man is a chronic liar . fake ass pastor

macjireh:
and who prophesied it? I never heard any prophecy

No mind am. Naa their rccg style dem wan start now.. Real DOA

dangermouse:
Agreed, but he is more better than the other.

A supposed learned prof that could say that , what do you call him? And you think he ll do well as a president? I tell you, he won't be far from Buhari

kayalcomp:
Osinbanjo is the best for the position. Currently as VP, there are some brilliant actions he ought to take, if he is the president. But because of his loyalty to his boss, he may not be able to execute those especially, if such are not okay for the president. that is one of limitation if VP. I pray Tinubu supports him, and let them give us Prof Zulum of Borno State as his VP. that will be great.

And what about all the lies and propaganda he takes along with him wherever he goes?

Nchenches:
Osibanjo a VP who asked Yoruba in 2019 to vote PMB so that north will support a Yoruba for president in 2023.
Could a reasonable VP of a country of multiethnic groups say such a tribal thing?

He has no intelligence for political correctness. That same Area Boy politics.

For 2023, this country needs a seasoned politician for president not inclined to ethnic politics to survive, after 8 years of PMB’s ethnoreligious interest in Aso Rock.

No mind that chameleon. Fake ass pastor...