₦airaland Forum

Miniso:
See this ugly laycon even dey talk sef, the guy no dey baff bt him fresh pass you... leave story

My dear I keep saying this.. Always find your level.. Those people aren't his level.. See them bad mouthing and the kidwayya is out there thinking of o much charity work to do. And based on some interviews he had, he intends doing some stuffs with the housemates.. Now see the type of people ..DEAL WITH THEM FROM AFAR.. BAD BELLE KILL THEM ALL

Nwodosis:
Truth is always bitter

Which truth bad belle people . being untidy isn't same as being dirty. Olodo people

FarahAideed:
Being disorganized is different from being dirty so get that into your head ..I am very neat but I don't know how to arrange things and that's why I spend a lot to get people to do such things for me so I can concentrate on doing things that improve the world ..

That's it.. No mind all these bad belle people...

fabiano09:
very careless talk,they forget that not everyone grew up without househelps

Real careless talk.. Being untidy is never same as being dirty.. Even he bathes in 10 secs and at the long run has no body odor , I don't think that's being dirty.. People jut like talking nonsense.. Well I trust kidwayya.. That guy no get time for nonsense.. Very realistic guy.. See dem cheap cheap asses

Chapman801:
I swear that was the biggest mistake he had made so far. That was when I knew a Majority of Yoruba people have this hypocrisy in them. I was in camp that they when they were saying vote for change.

And that's why I keep saying that they ask God for forgiveness first for being or been spiritually blind before disturbing us with prayer for the peace of the land.. RCCG pastors indeed.. Enough yahoo pastors full there

Born again indeed.. Abeg say something else

LikeAking:
Thats the reasons why men should beat their wives.

Especially when she is jonzing.

Kick her out of your life.

Try your best to make you relatives great,

Change their lives so that their ugly wives will respect their relatives.

No ooh oga .. I don't support beating . i never saw my dad do that. but he was always in charge. I just love my dad for that.He treated both families as good as equally. In issues like this, never allow a woman have the final say. NEVER.. A manager is different from a CEO according to my dad. Though i m a female, i learnt all these from him and i grew up to find out that they were true But unfortunately my brothers did opposite and got their bodies burnt.. They had to come back like prodigal sons

LikeAking:
because their husbands are weak men.

And their hus relatives are jonzing.

Very true

Princessbettyj:
Ode you aren't worth my MB biko

You get money buy data before.. Privileged beggar.. Go to your usual spot and start begging for data.. You can flash one of your usual mumus or send your usual call me back message cos we know your type.. AKPERE .. BASKET

Truvel:
Ur Story Is A Little Different Cuz It Has To Do With Crime. D Girl's Mother Was Killed, She Was Hurt & Forced Into Marriage But Dis Has To Do With Married Ladies Who Tend To Be Hostile To D Man's Family Except Hers. When U Love A Man As A Lady, U Av To Love His Family Or Love Ones Too.

Thank you so much for this.. I decided not to continue cos I don't see any correlation .. I really don't understand how a lady ll 'claim ' to love a man and still not want to love nor tolerate his family.. If she can't love and tolerate them ,then she has got no business in that man's life..Marking territory indeed in a man's life she barely 'jamed/met'..SOME WOMEN JUST LIKE WAHALA...

Princessbettyj:
You be mumu big one

You are on first-class level of mumu

Sixfeetbelle:
Please ooh. Read what I wrote before commenting. Comprehension is always key to avoid making a fool of yourself.

To answer your initial question, yes, the woman "owns" the man all his life from birth to adulthood. The man (the kids inclusive although biologically) belong to the woman through marriage so yes, she has to mark her territory. Or how would you feel if your mother didn't give two fvcks about you or your father? That's why they say women are nurturers and we can't nurture what we don't believe is our own (aka man and kids).

Of course you'd see it as the man allowing a woman pull the strings but ultimately forgetting one fact. If your grandparents hated your mother and made life/marriage unbearable for her, chances that she'd stayed are almost non-existent. So invariably how a family treats a wife largely determines if she stays.

Now, moving on. No wife chases any in-law away. Not consciously anyway. Trust me if they could, they'll love their in-laws the way they love their own family. Just like I said earlier, marriage is likened to an adoption that is done when the person is already an adult and already have inbuilt method of living life. If it clashes or collides, expect segregation and separation. The chances that they'll accept everybody is almost negligible. If they can't bond, everyone finds their way.

Don't blame it on the wife alone. Some families are too traight-laced for just any random somebody. Tuehh.

And what does nurturing got to do with marking territory? In all these 'silly"acts by a wife, I will always blame the man ..

virginprincess:
And it really bad.

E don do naa. Haaaba!!! The attention seeking no be today ooh. Lol

thebosstrevor1:
It depends on how she was treated before the marriage by the family.

Not true at all.. Women pretend a lot before marriage. And their true color and motive appears after marriage

Sixfeetbelle:
There's no how you can love your in-laws more than you love your own family. I don't see how that shit is possible. You can tolerate them cause you marrying from their family but in most cases, their family dynamics is way different from yours and bonding with them is pointless. Think of it as being adopted by a new family at 28. You will never truly welcome them or feel welcomed by them. It's a psychological thing. Some don't even try to bond but others just can't bond.

That being said, a woman is very territorial. We don't like sharing. Period. and sometimes the in-laws don't know how to let go of their tag on the guy for us to mark our boundaries and make our tag on him. (Sorry, guys).

It's more like a "We get that Ebuka is your son and your brother, but that tag is ancient. He's now an adult and a man. Most importantly, he's our husband and we want him to be present in our marked zone 99% of the time and be identified by our tag all the time." So when the in-laws don't respect that, expect there to be friction. It's a natural order of things. Don't blame whatever you mentioned up there for that. Capichè?

Marking which territory? Is the wife the sole owner of the guy? Well i blame the man that wont use his head but allow a woman that can/might take a stroll should the things go south..This is one of the major reasons why I don't feel for some widows. You chase everyone away from the man and when the man suddenly dies and they are left all alone to take care of the children , you hear some of them saying the man's family have all abandoned me.. When they actually chased everyone away ..

444crop:
Who wan help you go help with or without manners

Really? Continue

kilonshele101:
I think you are the one that doesn't seems to understand what the post is all about.

Ipob is still an outlawed association. Petition to UN doesn't change that and it doesn't bring you an inch close to biafra, we all know your struggle is to divide Nigeria and create your own nation. The UN, UK, US are all looking into the killing of innocent Christians in Nigeria not your yeye biafra agitation. IPOB is not CAN, ipob is not a religion body so the US, UN, Uk has no business with you or your yeye agitation.
And sooner or later, UN will discover that the said Christian genocide is nothing but a long aged tribal disputes and criminal activities painted as a religious crisis by you people to gain attention and to divided a multi tribal nation by spreading hatred within it brethren and damage her reputation globally.

I am telling You now that it won't work because you can't deceive the UN, they are concerned about innocent Nigeria Christians not outlawed ipob struggle.

Hmmm.. Now I see your frustration.. More frustrations fall on you...

kilonshele101:
so what has iPob done?

If you are counting all These cheap and false propaganda as an achievement then you are foolizh than I thought.

Did you get to read the topic before typing this? Pls go read through first

joepepsy:
Arrogance is irritating,if they can stop being arrogant we all coexist.

I guess you mistake knowledge and foresight for arrogance

Princessbettyj:
Thank you,I think say nah only me dey notice am,very shapeless girl

And your own laycon nko? Terribly UGLY guy..stupid talk wey dey worry unaa

yusufu16:
And she hates Laycon. But she doesnt know he is 100x better than her.

Wetin this one come mean now? Laycon is better than her in was sense?