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@Chinwem Amen! Thank you!
Excellent academic performance is not the sole criteria for being successful in life just that I find it difficult to *roll* with any girl who is not up to a 2:1 just as some male/female graduates wouldnt want to *roll* with non-graduates.

Chinwem: OP you will find your own

The race is truly not to the swift , nor the battle to the strong
Here you are worrying about a 2.2
I remember a family friend who made 3rd class and got married sharp sharp
To one engineer in Exxon mobil sef
While some of us actually went to school to study.....lol

OP you will find your own jare
The person wey make 3.0 no be human being marry am?
There's a match for everyone
Wether na 1st class or 2.1 or 2.2 there's someone out there to suit you

@SLIDE waxie what have I done to deserve that?

SLIDE waxie: Well, u won't find a girl.
And dnt ask me why!

@Aggripa I am not looking for a first class material, I am looking for who dey try. Thanks for contributing!

Aggrippa: op you want to marry a first class material or awizgirl thats your problem keep searching you will find em

@hiden_conyo!!! I am serious and not kidding here.

hiden_conyo: the post refused to hide

OP I would advice you forget about her, *the cow does not know the usefulness of its tail until it loses it*

EagleEyes259: Hello Nairalanders,

Please I need your sincere advice on this;

I have been in friendship with this girl for about three months and our friendship has been going well until a couple of days back! We have been communicating very well before now and her sisters and most of her friends know about our friendship and many of them believe we are dating. She always rings me whenever I am not available to chat at the usual time.

I was planning to ask her out before she goes for service next week but was waiting to see what state she will be posted to before doing that. She was in town to pick up her letter and all has been going well until Wednesday morning when she told me she would want us to stop using slang like *I miss you* etc for the next five months or so and we would need to put our dating on hold till then.

She said she wants to find out if the feelings she has for me is genuine! Ever since then she has been very brief and takes longer time to respond to my chat, sometimes it take a couple of hours for her to respond. When I made my observations known to her she blamed it on network which is not true because we have same service provider and we were in close proximity.

She has been posted to one of the northern states. Please what do you guys advise? Should I continue playing along or should I stop communicating with her or should I call it quit with her or should I just focus on my career? Lines are falling in place for me and I am afraid if I delay in hooking up now, the probability of coming across a golddigger will be much higher!

Thanks for your advice!

@hiden_conyo which post you hide?

hiden_conyo: this post has been hiden

@byvan, if I were to marry myself I won't be here seeking advice. I needed helpful advice so I came to NL. Anyway thanks for your comment!

byvan: Just marry yourself bro.

Hello Nairalanders I am new here and need your sincere advice.

I parted ways with a girl about a month ago. I have been considering a number of replacement but the issue is that I end up finding one or more reasons not to be with them. For example, I was opportuned to come across the grades of one of the girls in view and discovered she is not doing very well academically i.e 2:2. There is another girl in view but the issue is she is my boss' daughter. I am very close to my boss' family and it could be very dangerous if we start rolling but go apart at the end of the day. As at now, I am not a player but my fear is if I get too close to her, I may discover one or two things about her that I may not want to live with in life because marriage is a life time commitment! On the other hand, I believe if it works out well, it will be a plus for me because my boss has reposed much confidence in me.

I was speaking with a friend yesterday and he told me the last girl might have been intimidated by my credentials or something. I don't think I did because I am a very humble fellow.

Let me chip this in:
*I think I will find it a bit difficult to trust a girl now based on the previous experience because the last girl was kind of whimsical.
*I do not fancy girls who wear heavy makeups or dress indecently or wear trousers. I am not saying it is sin!

Please what do you guys think? Are my expectations too high? Thanks for your anticipated contribution!