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I am very sad but reading your message my heart is sinking
Just accept my hugs
It’s well

Splasshhh:
Darling, I understand totally how you feel.
I have been down this road severally and still faithfully waiting strong on God.

The first time - I was already past 10 weeks, the bleeding came without any body signs or pains. I was rushed to the hospital. The Doctor tried to manage it in so many ways that failed. After much blood loss and cramps that kept me up almost all through the night - my first evacuation experience. It was such a pain, I do not want to remember.

The second time - I was just 8 weeks.
My body kept it. After several confirmations, just like it, I could not agree with them. I home silently. I spoke to God from my heart. I went to the alter. After 1 more week and nothing changed with the results, I finally went for a second evacuation.
I still remember how so much I pleaded with the Doctor for another way out but, he adviced this was best and besides, he will be gentle and fast - it was a lie.
The pains were same - brain aching.

The last miscarriage I just had, my body pushed it out by itself. I was just 6 weeks + and all I remember asking God was - please let it just flow all out - no evacuation and for the first time, I felt like God still hears me.
It is almost a week now and I thank God my body is releasing the blood each day.

Darling, we will all be fine.
The truth is, if you are not ready, wait a lil bit more. Accept it before you do it. Who knows, #whatGodCannotDoDoesNotExist

Did I tell you my 3rd pregnancy was a huddle but God helped me carry her to full term only to lose her just like that on delivery. But do you know what, after I bled so much - had 6 pints of blood with CS, I am here and alive to encourage you.

He is a convenant keeping God.
He knows your name.
Ps 113 vs 9 is our inheritance and indeed the glory of the later will surely be greater than the former.

I am just hesitant on evacuation!!!
Even tho the reality is staring at my face I went to pick up my drugs to flush it out since I am not bleeding and still feels pregnant I suddenly stood up and left

I know now some of my decisions will b foolish but I dnt want to cos more harm than good but my mind keeps telling me to wait for 1 more week

Please mamas who have suffered blighted ovum did you wait to naturally start bleeding
I will include my result so you all see
I was supposed to be 8weeks 2 days yesterday

Pls I sent to a message will like you to share with me what you did

purplerain:
Hey Mama,

My heart bleeds for you cause I know exactly what you are going through. I have had two miscarriages that were due to a blighted ovum.

I want you to know that this was not your fault. It is not because you didn't pray hard enough. It is unfortunate but there is nothing you could have done to cause it. God sees and knows everything. He will give you the babies that will stay, I know this for a fact, because I am now in my second trimester.

Please take the time to grieve, especially with your husband. It willl be well.

Virtual hugs.

Good morning all thanks to all those that consoled me I really appreciate I feel no woman will go through these heartbreak and pain I am going through

But it’s well
I enjoyed the few times I spent here
I still hold on to that memory of my crazy complains I miss being pregnant but it’s well

Thank you all
I exit to come bk better
I wish every pregnant woman a safe delivery
To my October team I love you Nd I wish to see those beautiful kids

I didn’t know I will come to write this but unfortunately I am writing this
God knows best
Blighted ovum

All those symptoms
God you know how much I cried and begged for this gift

You know how I rolled at your alter to ask for this baby why did u give it to me and it didn’t develop
Y do I have to go thru this pain
Baby y did you do this to me
Y did u break my heart
How can I brk this news to your father who is already madly in love with
What will I do with the lovely nursery your dad has already set up

If you wanted to break my heart why didn’t you consider your daddy
God I can’t bear this
You said no one will experience miscarriage do you now lie
You said affliction will not arise the 2nd
My creator this is the 3rd time

What have I not done
I was managed by a specialist
Why am I so different in the family
This is not in my lineage why me
Biko somebody answer me

I am drained
Mentally and physically
Now I am waiting to either evacuate or my body pushes it out

Thanks will send you an email

Best1708:
Ok,it's called Navy Reference hospital,it's good cox they are one of the hospitals that have the best equipments in town but you still need people to give you more informations especially if you're first time mum coz they might not tell you some necessary stuffs there. In case you need help as regards that,you can mail me.

Yes I am referring to the one around Satelite town! We have just 1 navy barrack in lagos

Best1708:
Where is the barracks?are you referring to Navy town, the one around Satellite town?

Navy hospital is in NAVY BARRACK,new site is around festac area

Best1708:
Where is new site or are you referring to Navy campsite?

Good morning everyone!!!! My October team member how far nah! Everyone is just quiet

I have crossed another week each week looks like milestone to me!all praises to God

Please mamas I have some questions
1)please when is the best time to start antenatal
2)Has any one used navy hospital at new site Lagos for antenatal or child birth pls if you have how is their services
3) pls any recommendations for any good hospital around Satelite town or festac Lagos
4)what should I expect for 12wks scan, so nervous

Thanks mama na

Ibk555:
LOL... Well done Mama, you are doing well.. I'm counting down to the second trimester too oo, this first one isn't easy at all.

Chai una good evening oooo!!! Pregnancy don humble me
24hours I feel drunk
Drowsy
Boobs about to explode
Nipple so big lolz I find that embarrassing cos hubby won’t stop laughing at it! Lolz

Ok lemme go back and sleep
Someone just hug me and tell me weldone �
Can’t wait to finish first trimester as una say 2nd trimester is fun fun

Hey sister I know exactly how you feel after suffering losses it horrible and painful but do not blame yourself God still loves you regardless he has plans for you and try to study Gods words it helps speaking from experience

Before you take in again go for some test
Genetic test
Rhesus factor test
Hormonal test

Immediately you conceive again you can discuss with your doctor on what to do!pls go to hospital that has specialists
Yes if it means you doing 12 weeks bed rest pls go ahead for the goal you want to achieve
Pls avoid sex till after 14weeks

In all never forget to call on God
You are in my prayers mama

Splasshhh:
Well, mommas.

I am just tired.
Funny, I still live God more everyday but, the question is, "when would you bless me right, God?"

I could not come here since last year July to announce my delivery since I lost her to sudden bleeding from placenta abrasion or whatever that was called.

2 miscarriages, 1 still birth and another miscarriage at 6wks yesterday, has left me so quiet and angry in my spirit.

Like why?
What?
When?

Now, I feel like fighting something.
Must I miscarry and no one is giving a particular reason to why?

Do I have to enter 12 weeks bed rest immediately I am confirmed pregnant just to make it past 1st trimester risks?

I am absolutely tired but this time I am not sad but angry.

Please pray for me

I dnt think divorce is the answer OP
Have you found out y the IVF is failing is it low sperm quality or low egg quality

Are you doing the IVF with doctors that know their onions

Did she take time to prepare her body for the ivf procedure like eating healthy and adapting a healthy life style

Doing abortion is bad but some people nature still forgives them and bless them! Do not peg your problem on that

Seek for a better fertility advices
In all na baba God get final say keep seeking his face
Wish you truck load of baby dust on you and your wife

Hahahahaha!!! Thank God for you mama
My taste bud is a little better, my doc said the heart racing is normal cos your body is producing more blood and working extra time to make sure the pregnancy is going well! I am still weak oooo I sleep all day and wake up feeling sleepy
Biko the prayer thing is important to me if we can do it via WhatsApp call I will appreciate or also do it here

ThatPetiteChic:
I always look forward to seeing your post ma . I'm happy your toothache is gone and I pray your healing remains permanent in Jesus name. The weakness has gone as I was able to fight it, so I no longer feel weak. My taste buds is my only problem right now. Trying to cope with it but it's not easy. I can't wait for this morning weakness to pass. I'm also experiencing the heart racing thing but not always though don't know if it's normal.

Hmmm...I'd love the antenatal lectures for we FTM. We can start the prayers if you wish.

My mamas in the Lord, this week have been beautiful is 24hours weakness for me, sleeping and waking up feeling more tired! My body is doing complete bed rest, I can’t even keep my eyes open for long.
my tongue is now useless cos is no longer working,metallic taste even worsening
I dunno y sometimes my heart will start racing as if I ran 1000meters it usually happen at nights

The good news is my toothache is gone
All thanks to garlic,vit c,calcium and dabur herbal toothpaste �


Other October mamas how una Dey ooooo
How do you feel this week


Please some mamas do antenatal lectures here and also Monday prayers pls y did it stop I use to follow it b4

Amen

senoraaquila:
You will reach full term and deliver safely in Jesus name.

Thanks darling! As mild as my symptoms are I am so lazy in managing them, I no go make mouth again, I tot it was all jolly jolly
By the way make una help me thank God I have never gone past 6weeks b4, but I am a week ahead now! I know and rest assured God is going to see me thru to the end I can’t wait to rock the bump ���now I am just bloated like balloon

ThatPetiteChic:


Sorry ma, ndo. Just manage because anything you use will only last for a short while. I believe that by the end of this month, you'll come out stronger.

Oh really ok
drmon96@gmail.com

Haryanphe:
Can you please help me check if the email address is correct, because it kept bouncing back to my outbox

Ice block I can try tho my mom suggested udara (cherry)

typicaltemi:
Yes I get u, that was y I said urs is better, u can get bitter kola or chew ice-block

No I dnt spit, but just have this weird taste in my mouth everything I eat taste funny

typicaltemi:
Yours is even better, me I have been spitting since I was 6weeks will be 12 weeks tomorrow and the spit still comes, but vomiting has reduced sha..you will be fine

Good morning everyone ! Please is there anything I can use for this metallic taste I am feeling, everything taste funny including water
I have brushed plenty times but no improvement

Wow thanks pls send to drmon96@gmail.com

Haryanphe:
Good morning Mama, I have the book, what is your email by the way?

Please can anyone help me with this book WHAT TO EXPECT WHEN YOU ARE EXPECTING any edition is fine by me

You can send to my email
I appreciate

Hahahahaha honestly everyday comes with a new parcel, yes I have gotten a pant liner it helps alot

zaynie:
Lol
From one package to another.
That discharge ruins underwear like mad.
Use a panty liner. It helps.

Yaaaaaahhhhhhbig hugs to you
Congratulations
And may this pregnancy be a smooth ride

prettmum:
Good morning beautiful Mamas
I just got my bfp
Second time mum
April 2917 mum now
November mama 2021
I hope I'm welcomed...it wasn't easy but my GOD WAS TOO FAITHFUL

Ok yes I did it with urine test no infection my Gynae said is normal,especially in first Nd third trimester

Joydan95:
The swab test for the gross discharge?

Which test pls remind me

Joydan95:
Did you do that test?

Una good evening oooo my sabi mamas, I am really enjoying this thread, please who has dealt with fluctuating pregnancy symptoms
Yesterday I was weak all through

Today my boobs pain has reduced
My strength level is on another level
Insomnia included
Tho I still have that gross discharge

Congrats mama
Try to do blood test too
Call your Gynae if u have any thing to discuss start folic acid and some prenatal vitamins other mamas can say better
Depends on your doc you may get an early scan or you may just wait till 10-12weeks to check for viability of the pregnancy and position

Also most important step is to commit your pregnancy to the ALMIGHTY
WISH YOU SMOOTH RIDE

Exceldamsel:
Good day mummies in the house, please after confirming been positive in your pregnancy test, what's the next step

Sorry dear, but y are you scared of your drugs na
Also sabi mamas pls which is more effective duphaston or injectable progesterone cos I can see most people are on injections, my doc gave me duphaston pls ooo lemme knw if I shld suggest that for my doc

Fruit4me:
Good morning beautiful mothers.My Update; my own tiredness eh I can’t do anything at all, I can’t eat or even drink water, I left my shop around 2pm yesterday to go home and sleep which is unusual, I’m always feeling dizzy, I’m currently on injection, I think progesterone injection which I’m taking twice a week. And I was given some drugs too which I’m even scared to take. Pls mummies advice me on this beautiful sweet journey on what and what to do, especially what I can eat, can I eat pineapple? because I’m craving it so bad. Thanks all