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A word may change some person reasoning today.
You been married to a man for 26years now. Your marriage was legal and bless in the church. The man provide for you for 24years and he lost his job and was dupe when he try starting a business or the business didn't work out cos of reason unknown . From the 25year of your marriage you started providing for your family needs. In less than 3yrs you re complaining and you have been working since and before you got married. . Is this not wickedness and greed in the part of women.

I love all your comments and contribution to the topic.
let say it how we see it and feel in our hrt.

I'm not. Cococandy
it's not unrealistic for a man to be housekeeping but the respect and the self esteem . Women can be a way and means to lower a man esteem so men get bossy to avoid that. If only a woman can come down and remain loyal to her man ever if she is the breadwinner of her home her man will be @ her will..

I'm not. Cococandy
it's not unrealistic for a man to be housekeeping but the respect and the self esteem . Women can be a way and means to lower a man esteem so men get bossy to avoid that. If only a woman can come down and remain loyal to her man ever if she is the breadwinner of her home her man will be @ her will.

Cococandy hope i've answered your question

Although the importance of hard work cannot be overemphasised in any chosen profession, experts have said that studying some particular degrees will not only give you an edge in the job market, it also determines the amount of income you take home at the end of the day.
For example, in the oil and gas sector, petroleum, mechanical, chemical and electrical/electronics engineers at an entry level earn as much as N3.5m per annum, depending on the organisation.
Other high paying engineering fields include software engineers and computer engineers who employ IT skills, whether they are in the oil and gas sector or the telecommunication sector. They stand to earn as high as N400,000 per month for a start, and it could increase to about N5m to N15m per annum, depending on the years of experience.
A fresh engineering graduate in the oil and gas sector could earn between N7m and N9m per annum, which goes higher to about N12m or N15m per annum after five years of experience.
engineers in the oil and gas sectors earn the same salary, notwithstanding the area of specialisation at the entry level, until they undergo in-house training graduates with non-engineering courses like computer science, information technology, software programmers with professional certifications which include JAVA, CISCO, ORACLE and other networking skills working in the telecommunications companies would get between N200,000 and N750,000 as starters.
An Oracle specialist, database programmer, manager and software experts with five to 10 years’ working experience in a telecoms company will earn between N5m and N15m per annum.
Suffice to say, all the aformentioned top earning degrees have one thing in common ––mathematical skills.

ty444: he who fail to provide for his house is worse than an infidel this is coming from a biblical point of view that is to show u how abnormal and inappropiate it is,under normal situations the man is xpected to wrk no matter how insignificant his contributions are,the only way he can or shuld be exempted is when faced with bodily or imposed barriers such as prison sentence,severe injuries, amd others

i know the verse but life is not a script that we act out. Is it that the man is happy that he can't provide for his family ?

Like i said. You need to break the limits to succeed. They have to discuss and make plans on how the family should be run. Or maybe set up a committee to look into their issues

soonest: Cos it's a misnomer! The same way a man will complain if he starts running d home n caring for d kids. Hope u get me

thanks can you be a little bit more clear in your point of view

crackhaus: Women naturally want to be on the receiving end of favours. They want to be pampered, provided for, and given gifts...essentially, it's in a woman's nature to be cared for.
Now when these roles are reversed and the woman becomes the sole provider, she almost always reaches her breaking point.

Mind you, a woman in this situation might not complain or show any signs of discomfort but trust me, the day that woman gets really upset by her less privileged husband, every single feeling of dissatisfaction that she has ever felt, coupled with the fact that she keeps running into other women who show off their gold, designer shoes and bags, cars, and other perks given to them by their husbands...will come out.

By my statistics, only 1 out of every 20 women is able to stay humble and completely selfless when they are the sole provider/financier in their household over a long period of time.
Heck, women nag and complain even when they're being provided for, not to mention when they're the ones doing the providing.

I tell you, no man should ever have to depend on his wife or girlfriend for more than 6-12 months at a stretch, no man....unless he can stay that long without upsetting her one bit, because if he does, the things that will come out of her mouth regarding his situation will be unbelievable.
I wouldn't wish that for my enemy

so it is because the man get her mad that is why we hear this loud tongue of war

Tallesty1: Money moves everything in them and around them. When she makes more marriage difficulties jump and divorce rates rise by 50%.

but what abt the kids

cococandy: So in your fair analysis,if the man leaves bread winning to his wife,what should be his contribution in the home?

If it is unrealistic to expect him to that,isn't it also unrealistic to expect the wife to do his job?

sometimes we have to go out of our limit to make a success . So i understand you stand

Kanwulia: Because instead of being supportive, u men decide to add insult to injury by being LAAAAAAAAZY and controlling.
In their "LOOZA MENTALITIES", they are quick to forget that SHE who plays the piper chooses the best kind of DANCE!
He would nag too, if he came home to dirty house and children while bringing home the BREAD, SAUSAGE, BACON, BUTTER, TEA, SUGAR AND MILK!

that is true

ty444: of course they are,not the husband sharing from the wife.

lol
when ever we share things one person alway make sacrifices for the other pls note this

Cococandy
i disagree on the shift of duty . For an urhobo man like were i came from that is unrealistic . And men complain but not to the notice of neighbours

Mutuwa
you spoken very well. I presume you are married.

ty444: Cos it aint normal.

re they not suppose to be one and sharing everything together

I've notice it from my neighbor that when the wife have started to provide for her family and the man is not generating any fund and benefits the wife start nagging and making lot of trouble but if it's the the man that paying all the bills and caring for the family it become normal. Why is it like this pls.

Lol lol lol. Is there a name for what is wrong with you?

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I can't get married to them sha

guy you bad. Wetin you come dey talk now? Wetin sweet for tasting point dey bitter in swallowing

Engineering is a art more than science. It is the ability of you to explain why and how the world was designed in a paper form using construction

bluish: cant say cause he is still serving

in your understanding what do you know abt engineering

bluish: i'm answering for a friend,he studied petroleum engineering

you re saying your friend is an engineer can you tell the challenges your friend is having as a petroleum engineer

I want comments and want you to air your views on how engineering can be improve in Nigeria

my president can't lead the army and i you recall the statement ' my president should be in the frontline. Do that guy think this is Greek movies. There re hidden agenda and it might be a trap .

500GP: ALL HAIL THE FOOLISH PRESIDENT EVER RULETH - GOODLUCK

you re shortminded like your words you are very very foolish Person and you should watch what you say. Freedom of speech don't you should start spreading libel and if you think a fool is ruling that makes you a greater and blind fool. Carry your load and leave the country for us that re not fools like you. You child is best reasoning than you. And whatever you have to say just keep it to yourself

Wow the rice pyramid is back. Transformation Goodluck jonathan . The man of the people