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RomanceRe: Has A Friend Tried To Harm You Out Of Jealousy ? by Blessiing(f): 4:21pm On Nov 27, 2021
I remembered when i was still an undergraduate, i had this friend dammy met her when i went to buy fufu and thats how we became friends, we became so close that i started talking her into going to school, she didnt finish secondary school and i talked her into writting her waec and going to poly, she agreed i even helped her with some money too to purchase the form and register for it, when waec started my friend will be sleeping at homr i will be the one to force her to go, i sometimes abandon my own class to follow her to her center, sometimes i beg people to write for her as well,when results came out she passed and registered for poly, i was having this relationship issue that time with my then ex, asin fresh heartbreak, called my friend and told her, she introduced me to this guy, not knowing she planned with the guy, telling him nonesense about me and how my boyfriend broke up with me, long story short this same friend was the one going around telling people i snatched her man, that i am evil, still went to the guy's elder brothers, sisters and family to say nonesense about me, and she will still come to console me.she was very bitter .later i found out everything and how she has been going from church to church to do different stuffs on me spiritually which bounced back on her...the guy too did more harm than good and made me almost commit sucide if not for God's intervention since then i stopped having friends or even relationship because the experience and trauma was too much for me... I am over it now
RomanceRe: Why Can't Women Pick Interest In Struggling Guys And Help Him Back To His Feet by Blessiing(f): 6:48pm On Nov 17, 2021
Kuriosmynd:
It's true men are supposed to get their shit together and help themselves no matter what situation they find themselves.
But these days, it's easy to find intelligent guys struggling to make a head way. While it's also easy to see that women seem to find it easy to get job and look posh especially after school.
.
While many of them remain single, even getting old, or falling into the trap of obviously bad boys, why can't fine girls just pick interest in a struggling guy, understand his struggle, and help him back to his feet. And they live happily ever after
Abi is this a taboo?
Men are finding it hard nowadays and as a result even avoiding relationship while our girls are complaining of no husband...But some of these ladies have connect to help a guy who can eventually be her husband.

Just thinking sha....Or must it Always be that ladies should only have to show up with genuine interest when a man is made?

All of this makes me have certain bias and less respect for female folk though...and it influences my mindset and makes me lose respect for women when they are with me in my state of abundance
Men dey suffer o
I have struggled with most of my exes and at the end of the day when the money came, that was when they knew i wasnt the one for them, that was when they knew i was not the right person.... Honestly as things are now i cant struggle with any man again, na me sabi wetin i face those times....
RomanceRe: For Those Who Haven't Had Sex Since January Up Until Now, How Did U Do It? by Blessiing(f): 2:44pm On Nov 12, 2021
JoyousFurnitire:
Oh I see, may love find you
Amen, thanks...
RomanceRe: For Those Who Haven't Had Sex Since January Up Until Now, How Did U Do It? by Blessiing(f): 12:43pm On Nov 12, 2021
KingDash:
why you dey lie
What would i gain by lying? na me know where my shoe dey pinch me... Been through alot to even think sex is the next thing.... Believe me or not...
RomanceRe: For Those Who Haven't Had Sex Since January Up Until Now, How Did U Do It? by Blessiing(f): 12:38pm On Nov 12, 2021
JoyousFurnitire:
Why tho? undecided
My last relationship was very bad to the extent that i almost took my life, the emotional trauma was just too much for me to bear,ever since then i just decided to keep to myself....
RomanceRe: For Those Who Haven't Had Sex Since January Up Until Now, How Did U Do It? by Blessiing(f): 6:56am On Nov 12, 2021
I havent had sex since june of 2018 till now, its not easy thou but i just have to stay strong...
RomanceRe: Its Been Two Years Since I Was Last Intimate, What's The Longest You've Gone ? by Blessiing(f): 10:19pm On Nov 09, 2021
Its going to 4years for me(since early 2018), that was when i was still with my ex, after breakup i just decided to be myself...
RomanceRe: Its Been Two Years Since I Was Last Intimate, What's The Longest You've Gone ? by Blessiing(f): 6:55pm On Nov 09, 2021
[quote author=Creativeace post=107465005]Yeah !
Sounds stupid for a man right ?

Well some of us have decided not to live normal lives and celibacy has over the years been the most abandoned norm !

Very few people ever get to practice it not to talk of discovering the benefits !

So back in 2019 i discovered the ways of God
and coupled with TRP wanted to see what life looks like without carnal pleasure !



Its going to 4years for me(since early 2018)
PhonesRe: The Chat Was Going Well Until He/she Said ..... by Blessiing(f): 8:36pm On Nov 03, 2021
Ipisi:
This your story looks very unreal and fake
Its left for you to believe or pass sir... Thank you, i didnt force anyone to believe me...
HealthRe: Painful Menses. Please Help! by Blessiing(f): 6:29am On Nov 03, 2021
Delababe:
Prevention Is better,take ginger and turmeric water too. But don't forget apple cider vinegar(braggs). Take It seriously so it doesn't cause ascites .i never knew such benign illness could lead to that, imagine carrying10 liters of fluid in ur belly. Pray also , there is nothing too hard for God.
But she has ulcer, i thought people with ulcer cant take apple cider vinegar?
PhonesRe: The Chat Was Going Well Until He/she Said ..... by Blessiing(f): 6:22am On Nov 03, 2021
chatinent:
You mah wan do too. Fear God...he is your shepherd.
Hahahahahahhaha
PhonesRe: The Chat Was Going Well Until He/she Said ..... by Blessiing(f): 11:01pm On Nov 02, 2021
computersoft:
Lola shaa, I did not see any love in his lines..or did u put him in that mood?
The guy never talked about love or anything near it
PhonesRe: The Chat Was Going Well Until He/she Said ..... by Blessiing(f): 11:00pm On Nov 02, 2021
emmnprince:
Nothing we no go hear for NL. Na homeboy nigga go be!
Lol
PhonesRe: The Chat Was Going Well Until He/she Said ..... by Blessiing(f): 10:59pm On Nov 02, 2021
Timoleon:
You have seen craze... o ti ri were grin grin grin
Walaii, e tire me o
PhonesRe: The Chat Was Going Well Until He/she Said ..... by Blessiing(f): 9:46pm On Nov 02, 2021
computersoft:
grin grin you, u are soon funny...meanwhile where is your location...or can u reach me on this.zero eight zero 37426664. let's talk.
Thats the honest truth
PhonesRe: The Chat Was Going Well Until He/she Said ..... by Blessiing(f): 9:07pm On Nov 02, 2021
We met on one whatsapp group, started talking and everything this guy was ever saying was hes hungry, if hes not hungry today, hes broke tomorrow, if hes not broke then he wants to come see me so we can Bleep, that it will determine if we would date grin, always disturbing me about coming to see him and bla bla bla, always wanting to come so we can Bleep angry, one time i told him my cousin was around and he said we would lodge my cousin while we stay at my place to enjoy ourselves ..this is someone that is broke o. The one that made me ignore him till now was wwhen he said his friend's girlfriend ordered a surprise meal and some other things too for his friend, that my mate are ordering surprises for their man and am telling him i dont have money, omo i jejely told oga that since he wants to be the wife while i am the husband then no problem, i will double my hustle so he can sit at home and take care of the kids while i go to work and send suprise for him and oga said no problem... Hes fine with it grin grin
RomanceRe: Which Age Does Menstruation Start? by Blessiing(f): 3:40pm On Nov 02, 2021
bisqit:
whats your body count?
grin
RomanceRe: Which Age Does Menstruation Start? by Blessiing(f): 3:39pm On Nov 02, 2021
bisqit:
whats your body count?
grin grin
RomanceRe: DATING GIRLS FROM OTHER AFRICAN COUNTRIES ... by Blessiing(f): 3:37pm On Nov 02, 2021
tillaman:
you don’t need to be depressed
Depression won’t solve whatever it is you are going through
Thanks
HealthRe: Painful Menses. Please Help! by Blessiing(f): 3:22pm On Nov 02, 2021
Lollittaa:
As far as I could remember, I've always had very painful menstruation. To a point that it affects my ability to work or be productive.
Painkillers hardly work, so it's about 4-7 days of Pre menstrual cramps +5 day period of agony. Almost two weeks every month. Sometimes I fall sick during or after my period.
I talked to my doctor. I was thinking family planning pills might pause my periods for sometime. But he said no they don't. He advised I be taking painkillers prior to my period and I have ulcer.

I'm tired. NL doctors, what can I do?
Have you tried using felvin and buscopan? Because thats what i use, i have heavy flow and i see mine for 7 days twice a month which is 14 days... Before it starts i have this serious pains too... But once i use felvin its disapears.. For the felvin i use 2 tablets and 2 buscopan too with warm water, i have been to the hospital alot of times and doctors says its normal and theres nothing wrong but i should try to get married and have babies early because my menopause will start early.... But You can try those two drugs out...
FamilyRe: My Daughter Celebrates Her Birthday Today by Blessiing(f): 2:58pm On Oct 31, 2021
Happy birthday baby, conitnue to grow in wisdom
RomanceRe: Which Age Does Menstruation Start? by Blessiing(f): 2:56pm On Oct 31, 2021
emmyluizzz:
so you like dickshuh
Shey na sweet i for like instead? grin
FoodRe: How Many Of These Soups Have You Tried? by Blessiing(f): 11:39am On Oct 31, 2021
WispyEthereal:
weh done! That is cookastic!
Thank you
RomanceRe: Which Age Does Menstruation Start? by Blessiing(f): 11:39am On Oct 31, 2021
bisqit:
after which you started humping dicks
Abi na grin
RomanceRe: Which Age Does Menstruation Start? by Blessiing(f): 9:36pm On Oct 30, 2021
I started at 10years
FoodRe: How Many Of These Soups Have You Tried? by Blessiing(f): 9:19pm On Oct 30, 2021
iamyemiakins:
How many of the soups in the picture below have you tried/tasted?

I have tried six of them:
Okra
Ewedu
Ogbono
Egusi
Ẹ̀fọ́ rírò
Gbegiri
I can cook all and have also eaten all of them, i actually like trying out new soups and things too.
RomanceRe: I Just Discovered I Have Gamophobia by Blessiing(f): 6:46pm On Oct 21, 2021
SimplyFacts:
We will all heal with time. I had one & now feel like I've had enough of r/ship. grin
Amen i pray..
RomanceRe: I Just Discovered I Have Gamophobia by Blessiing(f): 1:51pm On Oct 21, 2021
[quote author=Lollittaa post=106927994]my case is different. I just lost interest in relationships[/quote.








Same with me sis... I am very sure relationship is not meant for me..
RomanceRe: DATING GIRLS FROM OTHER AFRICAN COUNTRIES ... by Blessiing(f): 1:42pm On Oct 21, 2021
I am depressed too but who cares? Life goes on..... I will keep trusting in God.... Praying earnestly for a miracle to happen.. sad sad
PhonesRe: Which Phone Are You Currently Using by Blessiing(f): 10:08pm On Oct 19, 2021
Huawei y7 prime and samsung galaxy A51
RomanceRe: Choose One Between These Two Girls by Blessiing(f): 7:43am On Oct 19, 2021
EBUBS:
Girl number one prefers to keep quiet when she's angry. (Goes in isolation).. Most of the times says "nothing" when asked what the problem is. But inside she's probably biting.

Girl number puts her anger in plenty words which sometimes results to her raising her voice while trying to express herself.


So guys please which is better and why?... Mature minds please.. kiss
Number 2, atleast she will say her mind and we sort it out, but that first one is a no for me, she can do and undo..

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