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LiteratureRe: Ruby's Search For Romance by Blesstar(f): 8:35pm On Jun 01, 2022
heemah:
As the Chief Bridesmaid, I choose Lime and Peach.
Strictly by invitation ooo. Your asoebi is your invitation card��
Haba
Aunty heemah don't drag my position with me na... grin
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LiteratureRe: Ruby's Search For Romance by Blesstar(f): 8:32pm On Jun 01, 2022
Awwwnn...

I love love cheesy
Chai God when o grin
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LiteratureRe: Ruby's Search For Romance by Blesstar(f): 11:57pm On May 31, 2022
Army green, navy blue and airforce white grin

PS. I'm still waiting for the price of the asoebi material o... cheesy
Make i begin to dey sew am now. No time to waste cool
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LiteratureRe: Ruby's Search For Romance by Blesstar(f): 5:11pm On May 30, 2022
Thanks for the update dear OP
Your story always puts a smile on my face cheesy

Can't wait for the grand wedding...
Pls, how much is the asoebi?
I want to buy o grin
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EducationRe: ASUU Strike Called Off by Blesstar(f): 10:27pm On May 26, 2022
esivue007:
cheesy
Abi na.
Well .

Are u looking forward to using ur writing skills to address most of the crisis especially the political inclined one in Nigeria?
Skills kwa... grin

I havn't really given that much thought though..
I just write for the fun of it (when I find the inspiration, which is quite difficult).

But that isn't a bad idea sha...

Will definitely think about it. cheesy
EducationRe: ASUU Strike Called Off by Blesstar(f): 9:57pm On May 25, 2022
esivue007:
yeah I grab.
No offense of any sort. wink

And yes,some are pretenders for real even In many life areas.

U see,
Many females and few males will be a full blown extrovert that was why u(a lady) see no wrong in being an extrovert.

Though I understand
People have different wisdom and also different way of relayin with issues.

But,
There are Many instances in life that requires an extrovert being to let Go of the Extrovert part of him completely.

Eg..if He's held in some positions that will automatically reduce his extrovertness.
Eg in some of our political leaders.

Before most of them assume the positions they're full time extroverts and after they got there,they turned introvert and after their respective tenures,they keep low(introvert to the core) except they raised a public opinion/advices.

Remember my other post, when I labeled myself
(moderately-calm)??
Yes,I know u remember now.

Currently,am in a public position(School)that has let go of that extrovertness.
Cux there are dangers in not letting go of it.(same for our political leaders.)
Therefore
most times,one will need to be who they're not.
Infact completely be who they're not.
To save and protect their asses.
Yea I grab...
Especially in this our school environment where being too outspoken in class can put you in the lecturer's bad books. undecided
Like I had to reduce the way I asked and answered questions in class to avoid lecturer wahala..
Make dem no com talk say I dey do I too know grin.
RomanceRe: Girls Choose Your Body Shape & Boys Choose The Body Shape You Like (pic) by Blesstar(f): 10:49pm On May 23, 2022
Na E I be o... grin

Proudly Agbani... wink
EducationRe: ASUU Strike Called Off by Blesstar(f): 10:34pm On May 23, 2022
esivue007:
your points are quite salient anyway...
But I think ur points are known in Females majorly.
Nowadays,a female could choose to remain Introvert or extrovert.


Most times people who"change" their temperament are only forcing themselves to be who they're not.
These are very good pretenders whose true nature though can be hidden for sometimes, still blows open in the long run...


But a male's nature can be altered completely.
Have been an extrovert right from when I was young
While growing up,omo!!! I saw the need to moderate it Honestly.(Maturity)
Infact,
Environmental factors eg (Med School) angry altered and moderately-Calm my nature.
Except one single part of Me dat defines my phenotype. cheesy
You're right...

But don't you think that's some form of pretense?
Trying to be who you're not?

I see nothing wrong with being an extrovert. You can still act maturely while not trying to change your nature.
Each temperament is unique in their own way

No offence though...
EducationRe: ASUU Strike Called Off by Blesstar(f): 10:03pm On May 22, 2022
esivue007:
cheesy grin
Most Nigerian x x chromosome (girls) turns extrovert d moment they step out there anyway.

Verily,I desire to know what eventually made that ur extrovert part.
Extrovert creatures are usually known to be lively..
I'm quite an extrovert and lively dude(I wouldn't want to say moderately) undecided
But am tryina moderate (balance) it cuz of education and other life-areas...
Sigh!!
Hmm...you think so?

Anyways, my extroverted nature came to the surface when I went to live with my aunt and cousin after my sec sch.
I was exposed to new people, new friends, etc. That was when i realised that I wasn't quite an introvert. I myself was shocked at how easily I flowed with people i just met and made friends so quickly which was quite unlike me.

Kinda like Kambili right? grin

But why do you have to "moderate" your extrovert nature?
I think that's your nature and you can't change it.
U're either an introvert or an introvert.
Your temperament can't be changed. It's a part of who you are that makes you unique.
My thoughts though....
Music/RadioRe: Mention A Line From A Popular Song & Someone Will Tell You The Name Of The Song by Blesstar(f): 10:31pm On May 21, 2022
5k for anyone who gets this one:

...No mess up, i dey run this town,
Even Darego no fit turn me down...
EducationRe: ASUU Strike Called Off by Blesstar(f): 10:15pm On May 21, 2022
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EducationRe: ASUU Strike Called Off by Blesstar(f): 10:15pm On May 21, 2022
esivue007:
Wow!!
This is getting more interesting! grin
Ladies sha.
Kinda weird grin.
How often do demonstrate the extrovert part of ya apart from social media?
And, am very sure there are things that stimulates you or so..

Girls ought to be a little bit weird, don't you think? grin
I knew I wasn't introverted when I found it quite easy to make friends and just start up a conversation with people I just met.
What stimulates me?
I don't think there's any. It just flows naturally.


Hmmm undecided I can't remember her name anymore though.
According to their belief,if a man can not withstand the sharro beatings,they will assume he's not matured yet for marriage.(imagine someone whipping my spine and ass region just to know how matured I am) lipsrsealed
grin

I don't think they're still practicing(nowadays) such sickling culture though huh
They claim it's to know how man enough the groom to be is. But is physical strength and endurance all that is needed in marriage? I wonder.
I've also heard of another culture where the groom is given a log of wood and an axe to break. In order to know if he's "strong enough" to marry their daughter. Funny right?
Anyways, their life, their culture... lipsrsealed
LiteratureRe: Ruby's Search For Romance by Blesstar(f): 11:36pm On May 20, 2022
Cynthialinlin are you okay dear?
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EducationRe: ASUU Strike Called Off by Blesstar(f): 10:55pm On May 20, 2022
esivue007:
I just refer to this kambili girl stuff sha.

Kambili Achike isnt it?
She's kinda like the central character of the story(purple hibiscus).
She's shy and inhibited because of the years of abuse from her Dad etc..
Abi?? undecided
And,
U think you were kambilli while reading the book?

As for the male writers,I could reckon with chinua Achebe(especially the things fall apart book) cuz I read it in jss3.
There was this book too titled burning grass that I red.
Omo,I could remember the sharro festival insight! grin
The book's author?? Have forgotten his/her name. smiley
Trust you've heard abt sharro festival?
Yea
Kambili felt she was an introvert based on the environment she grew up in. But when she went to Nsukka to visit her aunt and cousins, It turned out to be a journey of self discovery. She then found out that she's not really quite introverted.

I also used to think I was an introvert, but something made me realise I'm not.

Yes, I think I've read that book (years ago, in secondary sch).
Is it an Hausa book about herdsmen and a girl (Fatimah), etc?
I'm not really sure...
CelebritiesRe: Rihanna, A$AP Rocky Welcome Baby Boy by Blesstar(f): 7:36pm On May 19, 2022
Awwn cheesy
Congrats Riri

Chai.. I too love this girl grin
PoliticsRe: Who Has Info About The Sit At Home Order In IPOB States? by Blesstar(op): 7:19pm On May 19, 2022
Slynation:
My dear, he's fine but still in shock thanking God for life...My bro recovered the vehicle parked by the roadside about an hour ago...

Atleast he now knows this St.Unknown Gunmen ain't a fairytale...
Thank God o cheesy


These terrorists will surely meet their doom very soon.
PoliticsRe: Who Has Info About The Sit At Home Order In IPOB States? by Blesstar(op): 5:48pm On May 18, 2022
Localemperor:
Don't mind him.... He is a SIMPle man grin
grin grin grin
LiteratureRe: Story posts by Kayode. Best Comments Receives 500 Recharge Card. by Blesstar(f): 5:47pm On May 18, 2022
So sad cry
Life is so unfair..
Imagine if she got the public's pity that she got in death while she was alive, she would still be alive.
100m would have gone a long way in her treatment.

Anyways, she died so others can live. cry
PoliticsRe: Who Has Info About The Sit At Home Order In IPOB States? by Blesstar(op): 5:29pm On May 18, 2022
triple996:
Imagine
[s][/s]So ibos can't even go home
Una see una live ba[s][/s]
PoliticsRe: Who Has Info About The Sit At Home Order In IPOB States? by Blesstar(op): 5:28pm On May 18, 2022
Localemperor:
Really? What do you need her number for? So because the both of you resides in PH you now fill you can ask for her number?

What for exactly? Your intentions are not noble.

SIMPle man
My dear pls help me and ask him o
Guys like this makes it difficult for one to be polite.
PoliticsRe: Who Has Info About The Sit At Home Order In IPOB States? by Blesstar(op): 5:24pm On May 18, 2022
Jamesbally:
You are an IGBO Girl, why are you scared to travel to your Republic of BIAFRA? Why will a Citizen of a Country, be scared of going to her Country. You are disgracing Biafra.

Na una dey praise IPOB online. Telling them to keep killing IGBO People in the East. You never thought that, one day you will have a strong reason to travel to the East.
Oga pls explain to me.. In what way did i praise IPOB or encourage them to kill Igbos?

Simple question that i asked and you want to come and show yourself undecided
Mtchew...
PoliticsRe: Who Has Info About The Sit At Home Order In IPOB States? by Blesstar(op): 5:20pm On May 18, 2022
Slynation:
Please don't try it, My dad just told me how he escaped near death experience just this early morning, the location of his car is still unknown...!!

For the records, this guys are not unknown Gunmen, they are Ipob members/ESN
Are you serious! shocked
I hope your dad is okay though?
Na wa for these terrorists o
PoliticsRe: Who Has Info About The Sit At Home Order In IPOB States? by Blesstar(op): 7:06am On May 18, 2022
Ndibuna:
[/s]Go to lagos market
[s]
PoliticsRe: Who Has Info About The Sit At Home Order In IPOB States? by Blesstar(op): 7:04am On May 18, 2022
Ndibuna:
Looks like you're in portharcourt. Which side in PH are you. I'm at Alakahia
Oh wow..
I'm at Aluu.
PoliticsRe: Who Has Info About The Sit At Home Order In IPOB States? by Blesstar(op): 6:54am On May 18, 2022
ajekpaks:
yes
OK
Thanks for your help
PoliticsRe: Who Has Info About The Sit At Home Order In IPOB States? by Blesstar(op): 6:51am On May 18, 2022
Thoh:
Travel to your grave be that.
angry
PoliticsRe: Who Has Info About The Sit At Home Order In IPOB States? by Blesstar(op): 6:49am On May 18, 2022
ajekpaks:
don't oh... today is also sit at home and tomorrow except tomorrow
So I can go tomorrow then?
PoliticsRe: Who Has Info About The Sit At Home Order In IPOB States? by Blesstar(op): 6:48am On May 18, 2022
Ndibuna:
Why do you want to travel to ipob infested area
I wanted to go to Ariaria market
PoliticsRe: Who Has Info About The Sit At Home Order In IPOB States? by Blesstar(op): 6:44am On May 18, 2022
jasper83:
Please no try am ooo, even reputable transport company will not work because the highway will be so unsafe. Wait till tomorrow don't risk your life for nothing. Never pray to meet those boys on highway, they operate like bandits and open fire on travellers. You are warned. And Aba of all places, which is ipob head quarters � is a very risky attempt, the city sef will be deserted, so which keke or taxi will take you inside town? Don't allow agbero rough handle you as a woman ooo. Please be wise.
Seriouslyhuh
See me wey wan go Ariaria market.. cry

But do you know wen it will end?
Tomorrow should be okay right?
PoliticsWho Has Info About The Sit At Home Order In IPOB States? by Blesstar(op): 6:25am On May 18, 2022
Good morning Nairalanders.

Please, I need to know how effective the sit at home order in IPOB states really is. Especially in Aba.

I need to travel there today and i want to know if it's safe to do that.

Pls anyone who has info on that should help me.
I no wan enter IPOB trap. grin
EducationRe: ASUU Strike Called Off by Blesstar(f): 9:21pm On May 17, 2022
esivue007:
grin Omo,dat book's title ehhh,
U could relate with kambili?
I guess someone needs to go check out some info Abt kambili cheesy
Am very sure she isn't a Nigerian.

Na soso females u admire sha
No males? undecided
Do you also read novels?
EducationRe: ASUU Strike Called Off by Blesstar(f): 9:19pm On May 17, 2022
esivue007:
grin Omo,dat book's title ehhh,
U could relate with kambili?
I guess someone needs to go check out some info Abt kambili cheesy
Am very sure she isn't a Nigerian.

Na soso females u admire sha
No males? undecided
grin grin grin
Kambili is a full blooded Nigerian o

I could totally relate with her. At some point in reading the book, i started to think i was Kambili. grin.We just think alike.
See me talking as if Kambili is an actual person. grin

I also have male writers that i admire a lot.
Chinua Achebe (His books exposes so much about the Igbo culture), Cyprian Ekwensi, Chukwuemeka Ike (His 'Bottled Leopard' was boom!), Ola Rotimi, etc.
Going outside Nigeria, Dan Brown is one of my favorites. I've Read almost all of his books.

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