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Pastor Desecrates 12-yr-old chorister.
« posted : October 27, 2011, 07:44:03 PM (yesterday at 07:44 PM) »

Sapele-Police in Edo State have arrested a pastor who allegedly violated a 12-year-old choir member of his church at Afuda in Uromi,Esan North-East Local Government Area of the state.Some residents of the area, who were infuriated by the incident, have destroyed some church equipment, while the pastor was detained at the Uromi Police Divisional headquarters and is undergoing interrogation.



Narrating her ordeal to newsmen Tuesday, the victim said she had gone to church for choir rehearsals when the pastor grabbed her and had carnal knowledge of her in his office.She said herself and three other children were in the church awaiting the arrival of other members, when the pastor and founder of the church drove into the premises and asked of their names.She said after they had given their names, the pastor called her into his office, asked her to sit on his laps and later violated her. She said the incident made her bleed.Father of the victim, an operator of a rental service, told newsmen that he was barely two months old as a member of the church.He noted with regret how joining the church had caused him pains, because he never expected that his daughter could undergo such unfortunate experience.He appealed to government and the police to ensure that justice was done in the case to serve as a deterrent to other randy pastors.


http://odili.net/news/source/2011/oct/26/302.html

what kind of punishment is fair enough for people like these??

« posted : October 28, 2011, 04:28:32 PM (22 hrs ago) »

A 28-year old man, Segun Bakare has been charged to Ijeshatedo Magistrate’s court, Lagos State, southwest Nigeria for killing his mother, Mrs. Kudirat Bakare.

Segun was alleged to have used a rope and strangled Kudirat while she was asleep.

While Kudirat was struggling to save her life, Segun ensured that she died by using a broken bottle to stab her.

The incident happened at 3, Musa Street, Mushin, Lagos, in their family house.

The circumstance that led Segun to murder Kudirat was not clear yet. However, P.M.NEWS gathered that Segun had a quarrel with the late Kudirat after which he left their house.

Later, he returned while his mother was asleep and reportedly tied her neck with a rope and strangled her, broke a bottle and stabbed her all over her body.

She bled profusely and died before she could be taken to hospital. After that, Segun attempted to escape but he was held by their neighbours who handed him to the police.

The police later charged him to court.

Part of the charge reads: “That you, Segun Bakare did kill Mrs. Kudirat Bakare by stabbing her to death.”

The offence, according to the police, was contrary to section 319 of the criminal code cap 38, vol. 2 laws of Lagos state of Nigeria 2004.

When the matter came up at the court, the prosecutor, Inspector Ezekiel Ayorinde, informed the court that the nature of the crime was a capital offence and sought the permission of the court to seek the DPP’s advice.

Consequently, the presiding magistrate, Mrs. D. T. Olalokun ordered that he should be remanded at Kirikiri Maximum Prison, Apapa, Lagos pending when the DPP’s advice would be ready.

The matter was adjourned.



Some people can be so heartless!!![url]http://pmnewsnigeria.com/2011/10/28/evil-son-strangles-mother/
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kelechi Onyele

53 Years Old False Prophet Arrested For Desecrating 17 Years Old Daughter
« posted : October 28, 2011, 04:27:44 PM (21 hrs ago) »

An Ogun State Chief Magistrate’s Court, southwest Nigeria, has ordered that a prophet, Elijah Olufemi Soneye, be remanded in prison for allegedly torturing his 17-year-old daughter. He allegedly sucked her bosoms and ordered her to hold his joystick under threat.

The 53-year-old prophet of New Word Covenant Embassy, Cherubim & Seraphim Church, Ijoko, Ogun State, southwest Nigeria, was arraigned before the Ota magistrate’s court on a two-count charge of torture and assault.

The charge reads: “that you Elijah Oluwafemi Soneye, on 14 October 2011, at about 3 p.m. at New Word Covenant Embassy, Oshodi Chamber, Ijoko, unlawfully tortured your 17-year-old daughter by tying her with a cow rope and caning her till she had bruises all over her body, and also assaulting her by sucking her bosoms and ordering her to hold your manhood under threat until you ejaculated, thereby committing an offence punishable under Section 360 of the Criminal Code.”

The accused pleaded not guilty.

The presiding Magistate, Alhaji A. Adenariwo granted him bail in the sum of N120,000 with two sureties.

The case was adjourned till 17 November 2011.

Meanwhile, mother of the victim, Mrs Soneye, outside the court said that she had been separated from her husband for the past 15 years because he was maltreating her.

She said she narrowly escaped being killed when he allegedly held her by the neck for some minutes until she started urinating on herself.

She stated that her son Michael Soneye and the victim told her that they wanted to go and live with their father because she did not have enough money to take proper care of them, and she obliged.

According to her, after four months, the victim came and told her that the father wanted to make love to her and she ran away from him.

She said on 15 October, her friend called to say that her daughter was in her house. She rushed home and when she saw her daughter , the girl’s body was swollen and there were bruises all over her body.

Mrs. Soneye said her daughter told her that their father was making love to her.

She was taken to a hospital where she is currently receiving treatment.

The doctor also confirmed that the girl has been deflowered.

The girl reportedly stated that her father told her he is the only one that can make love to her and she should never allow any other person to make love to her.


End times!http://pmnewsnigeria.com/2011/10/28/prophet-docked-for-Desecrating-daughter/

Ngo

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Will Not Give You Their Home Phone Number
While it is completely understandable that many people do not want to give out their home number to people they recently met, there is a point in a relationship, especially when you've become emotionally and/or physically involved, that having their home number is reasonable to want and request. Be leery of staying involved with someone who wants to limit your ability to contact them by only a pager or cell phone.




Never Invite You Over to Their Home
Once you've become involved with someone, it is reasonable to want to see where, and how, they live. If the person continuously makes excuses why they do not want to invite you to their home, nor want you to stay there, be leery.




Evasiveness About Career, Family, and Background
Do you ever get the feeling that the answers they give you to questions you ask about them leave you having more questions? Do they seem to get short, defensive, or change the subject, when you ask? Be leery of this person if you often feel this way when asking about their job, family, and background.
Suddenly Changes Plans




Do you often find your mate canceling plans at the last minute, or little notice, because something "suddenly" came up with them? While it's understandable things happen and we have to change our schedules, ask yourself if this is something they regularly seem to do. When possible, most honest people try to give advanced notice of having to change plans out of courtesy and respect for the other person. Consistency is key when considering this.




Sudden Changes in Appearance
Has your mate recently dramatically changed the way they look or dress? New wardrobe? New gym membership? Had they ever mentioned to you before about some things they didn't like and wanted to change about their appearance? Many times, we discuss changes we want to make with our friends, family, and mates. Be leery if other "red flags" also exist.




Insists On Meeting At Odd Times and Places
Does your mate only seem to want to make dates during the week and never weekends? Only in morning for coffee and unavailable after the workday? Only late hours after most people have gone to sleep? Prefers meeting in private, or semi-private places? Be leery of a person who insists on this pattern of dating.





Often Unreachable
Does it seem that you are usually leaving voice messages at their work or cell phone? Do several hours, or even days, often pass before they return your call? Do they rarely call, but rather utilize e-mail as the main platform of starting and/or continuing a relationship with you and primary method of corresponding?




Haven't Met Their Friends
Have you tried to make plans to go out with their friends? Do they always have excuses why you can't meet, or why they don't want you to meet, their friends? Do they seem to be interested in introducing you to their friends? If you have met their friends, How do they seem to respond to you or act around you? Do they seem interested in getting to know you? What do they say about your mate? Let your instincts be a guide here.




Hang-Up Calls at Home
Do you live together and often get hang-ups when you answer the phone or on your answering machine? Is it becoming more regular? Are the hang-ups during times when your spouse or lover is usually home? Do the hang-ups seem to decrease or stop when your husband/wife is out of town?





Changes in intimate Relationship
Does your lover seem to have an increased, or decreased, sex drive? Has their interest in the frequency of sex, intimate positions, or other intimate patterns with you changed? Consider these questions in conjunction with other "red flags."

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adaobi123 (f)

« #20 on: Today at 06:05:06 PM »
who is in the first picture i need to know his name!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@Ada

Mr Ronnie Amadi is a gorgeous hot model in Houston, Texas!

iwemfoo:
Hissssss not all igbo guys oh! Theres good and bad in all tribes. And[b] they tend to be arrogant or ignorant [/b]or both. Inner beauty is as important as outer,  Gimme a rivers guy any day! They tend to have both. PH all the way x

lollz. This comment is very ignorant to say the list, can u please tell me wen a black person is not refereed to in those terms be him hausa, yoruba or American.

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=790728.msg9430138#msg9430138 date=1319727815]They are not fione like Dsense. [/quote]Who can contest these men on average for real??

Tribalism(greedy,envy,jealous,division and selfishness)

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=790728.msg9429189#msg9429189 date=1319719624]Bliss4Lyfe.  Sweeeery, am not sure what you smoked but  are we referin to the same IBO men with muscular rectangular head?   Hell no they aint! (no offnense) [/quote]^^ So u too have been checking dem out.  huh

lmao. U guys are quite entertaining over here in the romance section. More evidence.

Hey Nayah, How u doin? Yeah, kind of agree on the circumstances and differing relationship amongst couple. However, some people might find the guideline handy. That is, the clueless ones not sure of wat they are doing.

spaced the key need to know, for better reading.

5 Keys to Settling Marital Conflict
© Rick Hanson, Ph.D., and Jan Hanson, L.Ac.

I'm sick of fighting! Enrico and I love each other, but wow do we argue, especially since having children. Help!

No doubt about it, marital squabbles and even ugly fights usually increase after children come along. The causes are painfully familiar to us all: sleep deprivation, little time for oneself, feeling let down, vicious cycles of finger-pointing, the in-laws, etc. etc. We certainly fought more frequently and intensely after having kids than ever before.

To solve these problems - and maintain an intact family in which to raise precious children - we've found five key methods. They're not glib, they're not a TV sound bite, but they're the real deal. Try them yourself - and see if you can get your spouse to go along.








Here they are:

Personal Well-Being - By taking better care of yourself, you'll be able to take better care of your partner, and have a cooler, clearer head in quarrels. This means really doing the fundamentals: protein with every meal, good vitamin supplements (please see our book if you have any questions), sleep as an extremely high priority, personal stress relief practices, and the support of good friends and family.




The 80-20 Rule - Put 80% of your energy into how you can be a better mate, and just 20% on how he/she could be less of a jerk. You have little power to change your partner, but great power to change yourself. Take maximum personal responsibility for whatever is true in your partner's complaints, and then unilaterally make appropriate changes. That will make you feel good about yourself, give you the best odds of getting better behavior from your mate, and put you on the high moral ground.





Empathy - Try to get inside your partner's skin, sensing the being behind the words - and ask firmly for the same. Isn't that why you married each other, that you felt deeply known and listened to? Being empathic doesn't mean you agree or approve or let someone off the hook, just that you understand. And when you understand, you're more able to address what's really at stake for the other person. And when you feel understood, you're more willing to get to the heart of the matter and make peace.





Solutions Focus - Go after what would make things better from now on rather than argue about the past. Be honest with yourself: what are you up to, making a case for why you're right, or making things better in your relationship? Pick a topic and stick with it without jumping around. Then make realistic agreements, keep them, and move on.




Loving At Will - Life is hard for all of us, and we all suffer in a variety of ways, so each of us is called to bring compassion and lovingkindness to other people - even the person we're married to! This both makes us quietly happy and helps the world be a better place. While love may not be top of mind in the midst of a nutty day, any one of us can use the will to reach down inside and pull up a little love. Giving it ennobles us, lifts our own heart, brings dignity and self-respect . . . and often kindles a fire of love in return.

sexkillz:
[color=#000055][size=14pt]Smh @ Inconsequential Observation. . . So how does this affect me?[/size][/color]

sexkillz dis is for da ladies follow beautiful ladies of the east thread. 

Dyt:
op u mean u c, U, Mm,  jst lookin up @ dese pix?

  Mm, screamed and blew kisses.

This is an observation that I have made on Igbo men, most are physically built and handsome. 

Now lets see dis pic of Agbani Darego and Oluchi Onweagba Lucas . 

Was going through the web when I came across this Pic and wasn't sure who was more Beautiful between the 2001 Miss World agbani darego or The Supermodel oluchi onweagba

Odu

kelechi Odu

kelechi

Ray Opara

Brian

^^Thanks and he is definitely gorgeous.

Akunna

Seun dis is not very conducive in the present Nigeria climate of violence. Please scrap this thread before boko gets ideas.

Davis Akunna