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SweetMan1:
Dont mind your uncle.Go to school of nursing here. Uk will come for you them self. You will become a salve girl in the USA

Ok

candygist:
Even if you don’t want to travel. For the sake of your unborn kids and your future generation, I will advice you to travel to USA. Your unborn kids will be forever grateful that you made that decision. Imagine say you can find husband there, job and given birth there. No dull yourself. This is a lifetime opportunity.

Tank you

hosey:
Lol. The uncle is very poor and wants free labour.

@OP, Blissbath. Don't mind your family members using you. I am sure your uncle will be bribing them.

Your uncle wants free labour and can't hire nanny. He will sleep with you every time as he has no connection with you. He will use you as a sexual love-vendor for his freinds.

Be in control and have your Nursing qualification. Don't depend on anyone. Squire your work experience, marry and travel overseas with your husband and children if you have one.

Your uncle is a liar.

Tank you

clockwisereport:
Aunty, go for nursing. Forget all these uncles and their fake promises. They will through you out after 15 years and accuse you of being a witch.

Nursing any day any time, twice on Tuesday

Nursing school

BigIyanga:
So you graduated from University and then got another admission to study nursing?? Or are you admitted to a nursing school that doesn offer Bachelor degree?

I don't want to make any mistake

bazzyblings:
This isn’t a topic you bring out for deliberation .. aren’t you seeing what’s going on in the country ? And you have an opportunity to go else where and you’re seeking deliberations about it ??

Na juju b that

I don't know

slimjohn2k5:
Your uncle HV hospital n cannot afford a nanny.
I case my rest

Tank you

shevchenko:
How old is the child? Just be careful 2 years can turn to 5 years or forever

You are 25 years , this is the time you are leaving the peak of potential male interests .

Do your nursing jejely in Nigeria.Family reunion abroad is horrible

I appreciate

nextstep:
What I'm hearing is uncle is looking for cheap in-house nanny that won't get paid anything. All he needs to is put up a ticket, and give you a room. Then mumu you will come and spend 10 years being nanny, no independence, no income, and no chance to meet anyone else. Please stay in your nursing school, and apply on your own to anywhere in the world.


This nanny happened to get restitution from the courts, but I can imagine hundreds who suffered in silence for years.
https://www.nairaland.com/4273063/nigerian-nanny-gets-121000-pay
https://www.mcall.com/news/local/easton/mc-palmer-couple-nigerian-nanny-20161115-story.html

He needs blood relative

saintruky:
Now that u have made ya decision... Abeg tell ur uncle say person dey when go do d nanny work for free.. make he just sponsor me to d US.. I'll not only take care of his child, I'll take care of d full area/town..

Enemyofpeace:
Boat of them are good, but stay with us Nigeria and let’s suffer together

lol...I will definitely leave when I am ready

PastorMIsBack:
The UK is definitely short of nurses. Loads of vacancies in the NHS.

tank you very much

I am not desperate to leave nija ... tanks though

Belial06:
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Sorry ma don't be offended but you sound very poorly educated maybe from a low quality school. Because you are so quick to accept and thank these village people or witches in disguise for this stupid advise below. Please even if you were cursed to never succeed in life learn to be objective and reject such a fate. Follow your uncle!!
See village people and witches in disguise as advisers

He is not paying

Udodiri01:
If you ask this question again.... I go know say ur village people dey work 24 7.....tell him you go run am 3 years.... But try signing a contract... Also know the going rate for Nani work by hours and calculate for two years...
$10 as u no dey pay tax..under the table
$10 X 12 hours a day =120
$120 X 30 days = $ 3,600
$3600 X 24 months = $86, 400

Try define the work of Nani only....
For people talking above, the uncle wants the child to speak African language na why he no go for Yankee nani
Study nursing in two years, and start earning in usd...
Come to Nigeria buy 1 husbands
Live happily ever after

He didn't say anything like that

Yankee101:
Tell him he'll pay for your nursing school abroad or help cosign a student loan for you for an accelerated nursing BSC (B Nursing) since you already have a first degree

Lol

do4luv14:
If you no want, make me and you shook legs for one sokoto, better enter road go airport and fly away to US oooo

Tank you

shevchenko:
How old is the child? Just be careful 2 years can turn to 5 years or forever

You are 25 years , this is the time you are leaving the peak of potential male interests .

Do your nursing jejely in Nigeria.Family reunion abroad is horrible

I have not seen him before

Phyde:
You know your uncle more than we do. With the present country situation, i will advise you move and further your nursing school there, with better opportunities compare to Nigeria.

Tank you very much

hosey:
You better don't go. Your uncle wants free labour and will eventually use you as a love-vendor and sexual trafficking for his male friends.

Finish your Nursing school and get nursing work experience.

Then you can come to UK or USA. You can also bring your husband and kids. When you gain nursing experience after you graduate, let me know so I can tell you various opportunities.

Don't mind all those people telling you to travel. Most of them are kids with no life experience filled with poverty mentality.

I appreciate... tank you

linearity:
hmm....

An uncle in the US, he can't even sponsor you for any US visa except for an invitation letter that anyone else can get. The US visa system does not have any preference category for extended family members, I doubt if your uncle is telling you the whole truth.

But, again...both activities are mutually exclusive, you can still go ahead and pursue your Nursing degree.....because, even if your uncle put in for your visa together, it will be a very very long time before you even go for an interview...unless he is 'packaging' a visitor's visa for your and want to pay all those in-side agents the huge fees that not only will get you in front of the line, but will ensure that pre-visa interview examiners okay your documents and pass them off to the officer who will be interviewing you as 'all clear'.

The open secret on the street is, this level of sort can cost up to N1.5m to N2m.

Tank you...I appreciate

safesurfer:
It seems your uncle is forthright with you, telling you how he's going to do it

Some will tell outright lies from the onset that they want to help you, only to experience something else after you land.

Since you said in your other comment that you plan to relocate to UK after nursing school, I'll say you should weigh your options properly before making a move.

But I don't think your uncle has any ulterior motive. Just a gut feeling though.

Tank you very much

Simran94:
Hello, please don’t listen to those telling you to jump on the USA offer. Poverty sometimes can make people make irrational decisions that they would end up regretting in the end.

Your uncle is a medical doctor who has an hospital over there, which means he should have enough money to pay for a professional nanny. Why can’t he hire one? Why is your uncle giving you a condition to help him take care of his child before he helps you? This sounds more like a trap.

You said it yourself that you have never met this uncle before.

Please, go to your Nursing school. Nursing and other health paths are in shortages in the UK, Canada and USA. When you graduate, apply for many NHS companies abroad and you will be great.

Kelechi009:
Let's even pray and hope the Uncle will not even start sleeping with her.

chisos!lol

titusodem:
Let's put promise fulfill apart, I will rather advise you accept the offer from USA.

hmmm.. tanks

I have a first degree already n d main reason I went for a second degree is to practice outside the country.I am not desperate to leave,i want to take my time.

Chyma231:
so u want to study nursing and end up being nurse Eliza here in this zoo country ?? Oga madam ...tell ur uncle u have a friend who is ready and DM me so I will gladly take the offer , if u can't accept the offer and leave here ...there is no hope in this country . If you leave and enter United state , after two years of being there , u can leave ur uncles house and start life on your own. Yanky no be Nigeria oo ...and he can't turn u to a slave there ....America is a civilised country ...a simple 911 call can put him in prison if he tries that. So my dear ...leave this country ...opportunity comes but once !

I graduated last yr in a federal university and I got admission same year into nursing school

BigIyanga:
So you graduated from University and then got another admission to study nursing?? Or are you admitted to a nursing school that doesn offer Bachelor degree?

Tank uu...I really don't want to make any mistake

bazzyblings:
This isn’t a topic you bring out for deliberation .. aren’t you seeing what’s going on in the country ? And you have an opportunity to go else where and you’re seeking deliberations about it ??

Na juju b that

What he is tring to say is that your english is poor.

MikeMicheal:
After all the TMA, POP, E-exam this one is sayng i dint graduete for noun
i dont half time for argumet.

Tank u all

Congrats

edogu:
In Umuahia, a crate of egg 1800 (small size) and 1900 (big size).

In Akwa Ibom,d big size is 1400 while the small size is 1300

Tank you

Adapapaokoye:
Madam go your Nursing school.
But if you get coconut head like me take your uncle offer ( After one year if you get there and it's not what he promise, please move on and don't let your family back home blackmail you into staying ,
Make friends with Nigerian community,)but be prepared because once you rebel, everywhere go red but if you have a strong heart and resilient, you might get lucky and things will fall in place.
I WAS LUCKY BUT IT WAS NOT EASY MAKE I NO LIE
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QUICK SUMMARY OF MY OWN JOURNEY
I was on my own, out of the blues my aunt asked me to come to UK to do my Masters that she will contribute partly to my education fund.
Meanwhile I got a job in the bank immediately after my NYSC.
I listened to my aunt, my Dad did his part.

I got to the UK and was attending lecture and also looking after her kids when not in school ( mind you she no do her part as agreed and she restricted my access to fund and kept lying to my Dad back home that I was properly taking care etc

Long story short, I dropped out after first semester because I was left in the cold
I gave myself brain .
Luckily for me things fell in place.
I am married with a child and on the right status now.

Ps; I have only met my aunt once when I was little before migrating to Abroad. So I will be justified to say I don't know her well just like you don't know this Uncle of yours