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safarigirl:
everyone will eventually calm down, just hope dem no kill you before dem calm down.

lol. Thanks for the back and forth once again. It was truly educational

safarigirl:
this myth was dispelled for me a few years ago.

I have seen mad people inside husband house, no even go there. Those nice guys that everyone thinks will make their wives happy, na them dey marry crase women.

I saw real life representation that disrespectful women get married to good men, no reason am. Since that experience, whenever someone says that marriage is not a reward for good behavior, I dey believe them.

Thanks for your wise words.

Yes. thinking about it now, you're right. However, I feel that craze may not sustain the marriage. They would have to calm down

iSlayer:
My brother you couldn't have said it better. This is my Christmas present from Blueelf, I'm so emotional right now.

You're welcome

dynicks:
Bros , this table u shaking, my hand no dey ooo!!

She left home base off the west coast to go feature in international league..

E just be like say make crystal palace go play champions league match against Barca when them no fit make top 4

Please while we exchange Ideas about feminism and African marriages, lets try to keep the discussions civil even when in banter

cc iSlayer (this is a senstive issue, abeg stop the physical threats )

Please, I want you all to know that I am in no way supportive of men that don't assist their wives in housework when the situation calls for it. And I am in no way implying that marriage shouldn't be a teamwork between man and wife. All I am saying is that some women need to learn to be humble and respectful. It will solve many of their problems in marriage without need for Shiloh 2020.

Although this is a football thread, I must admit that I have learnt a lot about culture and feminism from the respectful (a bit) exchanges between monickers here. Keep up the good work.

I still don't subscribe to the idea of calling unmarried females in their late 20's or early 30's evening newspaper. Its a negative word. A lot of factors could be responsible for late marriages. It could be sickness, late education or even personal choice and not necessarily because the said person wasn't a suitable husband or wife.

However, I must also add that the bad attitude of some females may be responsible for their late marriages. Some are very uncouth and bad-mannered. They may also have a fantastical idea of the kind of suitor they want (tall, well chiselled abs, very rich and handsome like adonis). Very few African men meet these criteria. Also, it doesn't matter how beautiful you are or how many degrees or cars you have, a disrespectful AFRICAN lady will lack good suitors. You attract people of similar behaviours to you.


CC charlesemeka

Safarigirl

islayer

Joebie

iSlayer:
All these you're saying is just a consequence of Westernization and growing Eurocentrism. This thing you're saying is not US. I can say it's not African. And definitely it's not the Igbo life chaachaa. A woman can climb to the highest level and yet be a true AFRICAN mother. They are numerous who have achieved it. This ploy to do away with the family or to reduce it's significance among Africans is not good.

Ezekwesili once gave a talk about how she still cooks for her husband till date. I marvelled at that. A former World Bank Chief Official. Some Naija ladies that are just head mistresses of schools or assistant managers of banks see themselves as tin Gods

Joebie:
This kind beating na wa.. Eze's average ratings has been dropping lately

Maybe the hype has gotten to his head

Joebie:
Rabiu's passes a precise

You watched the match right?

How was he overall?

Joebie:
Watching Rabiu Ibrahim now away to Besiktas. Bratislava lead 1-0

His chances of making the Super Eagles are very slim

Joebie:
hahahaha. I didn't say AITEO pays Rohr DIRECTLY.

No wonder

ChrisKels:
Don't let that bother u, besides Rohr was a gamble. Paul Le Guen was actually the guy the NFF wanted to hire.


That said, that Ghanaian man called Houghton would be my pick.

Ha!

Well, its your opinion sha

Joebie:
no be AITEO dey pay Rohr wages?

Obviously its not. If it was, they wouldn't be owing

AndSunGorilla:
Elegant Porsche meant "Poch". Please get cold water to use to wake me up from my sleep.

Dude

Did you miss road?

ChrisKels:
He must go!!!


Our team must be liberated.


Errrrm lest I forget, I ain't f**king off until Rohr leaves ntoooooorrrr!!!

If I must ask Chriskels, who do you think should replace Rohr should his contract not be renewed?

Since you don't like his approach to the game

Eartquake1:
Preparation for life after Rohr :

I would spend less time on this thread because I've wasted a lot of time on this thread

I would devote more time to learning the French language

I would create a timetable for my daily activities

I would find a second national team to support

I am an avid Netherland supporter

Maybe I will devote my energy to them

simiife:
if I slap this man ehh,if I slap him,let me just keep quiet

john fashanu is a carpentry sports analyst

charlesemeka85:
if it starts from you that won't be a bad idea

If I had the connect or I knew the man/men involved, bros I no go waste time.

But i am sure one or two people here do

stevmatt:
Grandmother Wristwatch

Chisoos, instead of prepaid casket

kaziblake:
You forgot to add short and thick

lol....not all of them

NaijadrivaCars:
Of course, Some places in Akwa Ibom, Cross River(Efik), Rivers (Calabari and Ikwerre), and Imo State (Mbaise/Obowo/Mbano/Owerri), Ngwo (Enugu) are expensive to marry from.

Add Nnewi (Anambra State)

The Question I have always had is this; Why does NFF habitually owe salaries of National Team Coaches?

It seems to have become the norm? Is it that the Sports Ministry doesn't release these monies on time?

Or are there some vile and hellish creatures sitting on it?

In saner climes, sports administrators are sacked for this. We want to be soccer giants yet we can't seem to get the little things right.

God, we are in trouble in this country ooo. What manner of nonsense is this?

charlesemeka85:
the man have the belief that he will rule Africa and shock the world in no distant time with his young team, the signs are obvious.

no sane coach would want to leave a team he nurtured from scratch to become one of the most improved team in African football in the past 3 years now. his job also is made easier with the emerging talents in his possession which is the luxury any coach will love to have.

rohr truly loves his team which is emerging as a power house once again in african football

We talk and talk and talk here but none of our talks gets to the NFF or sports minister

We ought to find a way to make our feelings about Rohr get to the NFF

I want Rohr to continue with his Job and so do the majority of us here. If only there was a way to get NFF to understand that they need top pay him his salaries and free him to work the way he thinks is best. There is no point foisting their ideologies on the man.

tbaba1234:
Nigeria was 63rd in the world and 10th in Africa when Rohr was hired.

Nigeria is now 31st in the world and 3rd in Africa. We would be higher if Imama could coach.

Nigeria had failed to qualify for 2 AFCONs back to back.

We are now qualifying for tournaments with ease.

Westerhof became Nigeria's coach in 1989, his first trophy was in 1994 and he inherited a team that had just won the AFCON silver in 1988.

Rohr's side is starting to peak. The team is only Nigerian team on the rise. Let us not destroy the momentum. We saw how other national teams performed this year.

Gbam. If only we could get this to the ears of the Sport's minister or NFF technical committee

Letting Rohr go means we would start from square one

safarigirl:
thought they said it was a hip injury, but nothing serious?

Just read somewhere that its a stomach injury and he was rushed to the hospital yesterday after he was taken off

I wish Tammy Abraham a quick and Smooth recovery

Just learnt that he was rushed to the hospital yesterday

Taliban:
I am a carpenter and I don't like the joke about my profession. Please use your own profession to make the jokes.

Hahahahaha

Sorry bro. You're a furniture maker or a wood specialist and not a carpenter.

Oh....I forgot to add that I won't stop

Bolowolowo:
We have risen to 31st on the new FIFA rankings!

Good one

Surprised by Tunisia's ranking. They should be in 4th place

Taliban:
Stop demonizing carpenters and carpentry. It is a noble profession. Hope you know that the chairperson of first bank, ibukun awosika is in the carpentry business aka furniture making. You make it seem like carpenters are crude, unintelligent people! Forgetting that you have to be innovative and intelligent to do the job well.

Bros, i am not demonizing them. My cousin owns a little furniture-making coy. And he is doing well.

I am just making jokes. It;s not my problem if you don't like it.

ctleurocollege:
Bra he matched something. This one pass medicine. Visit any prayerful church, na poison be dis or consume Blackstone mixed with palm oil. I'm no local guy but sometimes things like these are not ordinary

Stop being too religious now kai

We have a poor healthcare system and that is why the wrong drugs are prescribed for the wrong ailments

Stories abound of Naija Drs making wrong diagnosis. So, don't bring religion into this. They probably haven't diagnosed it right

Taliban:
Joe tell them o!!!! The bible say wife's be submissive and husband's love your wife as Christ loved the church!!!!! How did Christ love the church? He died for it!!!!!! He got humiliated and badly beaten for it, he washed it's feet. The man get a bigger role to play but no we rather focus on submission and totally neglect our responsibility. Forgetting that when Christ died for the church, the church did not submit to him, and never gave him any respect. Apologies to the non Christian for wetin I write, no vex abeg for derailing the thread.

Your head dey there brother

I made a post about African men loving their hardworking wives the right way. You hit the nail on the head