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lol u better do

treetop i once thought u had my interests at heart!
wow so u want me to go thru all that pain and sadness?

Dead!
u werent supposed to know that!
lmao @ parking lot
some kinky places u listing

pc Guru ur an eveel child

guy next door?
i dont think nothing of him
i dont know wat he looks like
im indoors or in school
no point hanging around in the hallway

tpia u were being sarcastic yeah?

im in love with me
how can i have differences with me?

skeen

worahell is dis?
ROFLMAO! @ ur siggy
u should be j smoov-ing
bet phoenix knows wat i mean

oh well, ur the mod
the only mod so the buck stops at ur feet
u need to create awareness and damn all those that think ur biased!
seriouly tho no new write-ups also?

phoenix am sorry for chatting on ur thread
im not a member of the railway association i pwomise!

in order for phoenix not to unleash her GIFs on me
im going to ask u to bring ur nominations ASAP

stephen im going to stalk u now
u deserted ur abode
lit section!!!!

again i wonder how emotionally matured people are when they decide to get married

webpro:
I never wanted to add a comment here because after going through the comments and advices of every1 here and the replies the poster is giving. Wat I can figure out is that the poster is not asking for wat she will do, because she has already concluded that, look my marriage is rocky and dieing, the man i love is back and wants me back, she only wants certain approval from her father, the society, off course we here @ nairaland so that it dosen't seem as if she wants to be the ovarall decider.

Advices to her to continue with her marraige are just waste of time because she dosent want to continue anymore. reasons.

1. she is defending the come back guy in everyway and approves his actions (of asking her for marriage wen he (romeo) knows quite well that she is marride) even though she pretend to tell us she is saying NO.

2. she said the romeo guy loves her daughter so there will be no problem she marrying him with a child.

3. That her father wants her happiness. And what is her happiness? That she leaves her husband and her marriage because she dosen't love him anymore and wants to marry her ex lover which she loves so much and her father is definitely going to approves it because he (father) wants her happiness.

My fellow country people, the lady don decide, so every attempt to change her mind will all be waste of energy to type, brain for big english, and time. I don't know if somebody is getting my point of view. Lets leave her to do her will, sometimes pride will lead to prudence and prudence is a virtue.

She might be successful with her ex if they get married. Lets check other threads and forget this one.

na her business from now on

Thank You ALL.

Kekenapep:
I have been following this story since the beginning and I comment as follows;

1. the story is unfolding like a soap opera (i think there are at least 5 episodes in there). It may be untrue

If it is true;

1. I doubt if you are a born again christian from all the comments u have made. I f u are not then i cant help you, nobody can really. But if u are then obviously God is a bystander in this case and most likely in your life. For the sake of readers i will add the following comments;

2. We (the readers) do not have enough information to make sound judgements. A one sided story can NEVER be entirely truthful. It takes two to tango like they say. One will tell the story to his/her advantage and to justify his/her actions. She/he may be the one most at fault.

3. If there has been continual abuse (especially physical) in the relationship or He really had an issue from another woman then a divorce might be a consideration and a last resort.

4. There is mention that she loved him in the first two years of marriage (what if this ex had showed up then, what happens?) If u marry this other guy and after two years some issues come up (like they always will, believe me) what will u do? Go back to ur former husband or work things out.

5. When people keep saying their happiness i am suspicious what they mean most times is they are SELFISH and they are thinking only of themselves. I am not always happy (show me someone who does) so what life goes on. Your husband is selfish and you are selfish too. Thats is d basic reason for divorce bi-selfishness.

6. When people claim not to be able to live without someone thats a lie. You claim to love him, i disagree, I think you are actually addicted to him (like one is addicted to a cigarette or liquor). Maybe u had sex with him before and there are soul ties. Love says i want to make u happy and I find joy in doing so. Addiction says it/u make me happy and i cant live without it/u.

7. It is absurd and utterly unthinkable that ur ex will approach ur parents (Which kind of parents are those) when u are still married. That is VERY irresponsible of them. Wouldnt want them advising anyone I know for sure. Gosh Help!!!!

You and ur husband should have gone for counselling and realised that Marriage is not just about finding the right peson but mostly being the right person. Marriage is hard work at and not a butterfly- in-the-stomach, evrything-will-work-out-cos-i-love-you, i-will-feel-like-this-always etc

Part 2 later

word!

JJYOU:
tribalism is naija's no 1 religion. it rules from football field to whom you get to sleep with in the bedroom

no doubt but must we jump into a rapid because everyone is doing it?

completeness is relative
i feel complete now, ill feel complete when in a relationship
its the individual that decides

lmao!

its most often the woman
in marriages women tend to sacrifice everything at the thrones of a successful marriage

that said i dont recall seeing the psoter asking for the tribe of cheaters
when will people learn to keep their prejudices out of conversations?

biina

im all for censoring this website
fools and ignoramuses should not be given the same opportunity to voice opinions (or lack there of) as human beings

nice story makes me wanna believe in fairy tales
nywais ive never gotten heart broken thank God
heartbreak really is for those that can trust others with their heart
dont worry, no need to lecture me
im in school for that

it hurts when people say there can not be a platonic relationship between two adults
it is a reflection of the warped mind of whoever says that
that said, its also common knoledge that many friendships of that nature are as a result of undifined feelings


i can and have had male good friends in fact most of my friends are guys
if i get a boyfriend today, he should be cool with them because i dont subscribe to the dating a guy cos he asks u out religion
u wana date me, u have to had been a very steady part of my life-friend, acquintance whatever just dont be some random thing


now, for the jealous boyfriend im tempted to say its only natural but the way u deal with this situation is what will determine ur relationship
the best way will be to befriend this guy
c'mon its general knowledge keep ur friends close n ur enemies closer
if u deem this guy a threat befriend him!
get to know him
u just might be suprised at the kind of person he is when u get to know him
a guy that cares so much for ur girl and has done so even b4 u became her boyfriend in my opinion shouldnt be seen a a threat
rather an asset assuming u have misunderstandings with her n she decides to tell the friend who do u think will uphold ur interests?

again, not all friends are like that but u cant know except u get close to the guy.

love is for those that believe in it

ebumowa:
Cheating: I don't share.

Abuse (of any form): I love myself.

Jealousy: I am not a jealous person so I can't be with a jealous person.
Those are my top three :-)

word ebum!
im with u on these as well

dl_jbd
did u just have ur first sexual experience recently?

phoenix
can i nominate twice?