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NawtiKingRealer:
Your remote buttons are SIMPly blues, thats why she press it at will. Oga, change that remote to bloooody red she go sit up and respect your command anytime you press it by yasef. Girls no dey give simpers better attention o.

My brother, I do follow nairaland very well, o know about ubanja red pills and those simps stuffs. But trying to be careful. That's all. I love her tho but I don't really care, if its not real and true no need.

Dpsychologist:
For a start your instincts are most times 95% correct.
How is your relationship like with this girls cos it seems like you are weak

It seems so, but nope am not.
Am just trying to be fair, not too judge too early.
I don't really care tho. I prefer a broken relationship than a broken heart. Those are 2 different things

Zzor:
Ain't you too young for all these,you better don't loose focus all because of your erection

Am in my late twenties
Currently serving (NYSC)

Hmmmm, I don't know how to say this, but I will just try, I want to know people opinion on it. I want to know if am at fault, or taking it too serious or am doing anything wrong.

Firstly, I like to state that am not a play boy at all. Am the kind of guy that likes to be with one woman and build and good relationship with her that can possibilly lead to something. What am saying is that when am in a relationship I take it serious. If am single fine, I believe I am free too do whatever with as much girls as possible.

Last year I broke up with my ex and its wasn't a good experience at all, I mean d way it all ended, I was in my final year then she was in her 3rd year. The break up affected me alot not only because I love her but because of the things that happened and d way it happened. I caught red handed with the guy that I have always been suspecting her with, that she has always denie ever having anything to do with. What even made me angry more was that she was the one on top of the guy. It broke my heart. It took me months to get my self back together. Cos I was already planning a life with this girl.
Fast forward to this year
Currently am dating a girl, its been just a month now but am already seeing signs. I have discuss it with her several times but she always change and makes it look as if its my fault. she gets and takes calls always with different guys. And they will be calling her baby. And sending her love message. If I ask, she will say he just a friend. Same thing my ex always say.
She says all her friends are guys and try to make me feel bad for suspecting her.


She time will have this conversation. She changes things and start making look like my fault. But me on the other hand. I know what I have experience. My ex used to swear that she has nothing to do with that guys until I caught her.


Right now guys I don't know what to do about this my current girl. I don't know weather she try to play games or what? what do you guys think? How do I go about this? I do not want to waste my time?

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One thing you guys should and always keep in mind, is that women are highly manipulative.


All of them. You can't beat them at it. Unless you study them for what they are

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... It was my final year, i had so many things to do with money, i was broke. No food, nothing. Exam was coming, i had my project on ground. And then my supposed serious gf broke up with me Then i remeet a friend ayo. She let me stay in her place. She feed 3 times a day. She took care of me for over a month. I am very grateful to her.

Guys am beginning to have a rethink. Am thinking of delta state. I have done my registration already awaiting call up letter.


Please guys what do you think?
Going to lagos i think will be more expensive foe me and i won't be able to save. That's why am considering delta state

0kinographix:
Lagos
Lagos
Lagos


If you are determined and not lazy you would enjoy it.

That aside please let me get your contact so you connect me to your guy in your family who does it
I wanna serve in lag, lagos all the way
Just be determined and you would pull through
I dnt know anyone there too but my mind is made up
Same way I applied for the school I graduated from, it's just all about determination

I have been thinking about it. But here my fear,

1. Accommodation. I can only afford say an apartment of about 70-80k. Am willing to manage sha. I was think if i can get like flatmates to contribute. Maybe like 3 or 4 and get a flat. I don't know how possible this can be sha, but that's my challenge.

2. Transport fair. Now that govt is start paying corpers 33k i don't want to waste everything. I plan to save as much as possible. But i don't really know if the t fair there will let me accomplish that.


This are the two reasons in my mind

ikh777:
SEE MY GUY...

you didnt tell us what school you finished from and what course and what VISION you have for your NYSC.

the three hottest states are

LAGOS (solid)
PH (liquid)
ABUJA (gas)

we can not just choose for you.

why didnt you ask your sisters, your coursemates, FRIENDS..... why did you come here....


next time give better detail about yourself and also.... THIS CHOICE IS A PRIVATE MATTER sadly you brought it to the whole world(that does not care about you)

work on your english language too

you already chose lagos.

Thanks alot for your advice


I studied mechanical Engineering (HND)
And also my plans was to settle in the place i will serve and try and work while i do a pdg.


The reason i brought the issue here is to see people's honest suggestion.


As per my English, its just typographical error.
I laughed when i saw what i wrote. Lol. I wrote it in a hurry because i am kindof busy with some research

Registration is 2 days away. And am still confused on which state to select. I have someone who does direct posting for my family. The guy is legit, he did it for my sisters, he doesn't fail and now it's my turn.


But my problem now is that i don't know which state to choose the guy called me yesterday that he has discussed with my parents that i should pick a state i want to serve. I don't really know what state to pick

Initially i wanted lagos, because i had some plans and things i hope to do there and i believe there will be better to do them and get the right connections i need but i later did some research and discovered that the standard of living is very high. Considering t fair, housing and the rest. Am beginning to have second thoughts. I don't know, what do you guys think. Mature ones and those that are ahead of me please

Also...
In picking a state what am looking out for is
1. A well civilized and organized area.
2. A place with alot opportunity
3. Less expensive
4. A place where i can start up something from

...Going Straight to the point

Why is that girls/ladies hate talking about sex or any sexual stuffs but when it comes to f*cking they are pro.

I have notice this alot even here on nairaland, ladies shy away from real sexual talks like they hate it. Create a real sexual topic here now and you will that only guys are commenting. The girls will just be pretending.

My ex for example,she hates anything porn, or sex talk whenever we are alone or in group of people she don't want anything that relates sex to be discussed but na she f*ck pass. If this girl f*ck u. You will buy her anything.

Guys have you noticed?
Ladies come and say your mind

I have the video

The truth is this, there are as equal men, don't be deceived. But some are in jail, some are not financially capable,

3ways you can be scammed as a prospective corp memeber PCM


Don't be a victim
Some people are going to hate for revealing the truth�.

1. Medical cert. And medical report
This is one of the ways pcm are scammed even without them knowing. They might even be thanking their scammers for helping them, this is because they are not aware of the truth. Yes before you can go into camp, you must provide a medical certificate to show that you are fit mentally and physically. Scammers capitalize on this. How ?

What they do is that. They already have a medical cert. Of different name and hospital on a system. So the tell pcm that that are into medical cert stuff. They give you a price 2k or 1500 or 1k.
But all they really do is just change the name of on the medical cert to urs and then some basic information. Then send it to you to color print it.
~Fake one~ This medical cert can be done by going to any cafe and typing and printing it out in colors. If you do this you will spend atleast 400 highest.

But this scammers will do the same thing for for 1500.
Now the truth is this in camp. Nobody is going to question you weather its real or fake. All the need is medical cert with a govt hospital name on it. Scammers know this
How do i know the one scammers are doing is fake ?
there is no hospital that conducts medical test and gives medical report without the person fully persent in the hospital for various test. To get a real medical report you will need to go to the hospital and your blood will be taken and several test will be carried out,

The truth is this at the end of the day. You can't tell the different between a real one and a fake one.
And also in camp nobody will ask you weather its fake. or real. all they need is a government hospital name on it. A stamp and a signature.
Scammers capitalize on this. This is why most of them create WhatsApp and telegram group to gather pcm together and offer them this services. But instead of 300 or 400. They will tell you its from the hospital a then charge you 2000,1500 or 1000. Meanwhile its same thing as going to the cafe and doing it ur self. I know some rich ones will say what's the difference between 1500 and 400. Well imagine it been done for 100 person that's 150k. This guys are making it

2. deployment/ redeployment

To deploy means to be post to a state. To redeploy means even when you have already be posted to a state. The state can be changed.

What scammers do here is to promise pcm that they will be able to take them to any desire state. And that they are working with Nysc management.
Here is where the twist is. Some of them are not scammers, they are actually working with Nysc management and can be able to deploy a pcm to a desired state. but scammers have capitalize on this. Out of every 10 'deployment man' only 2 or 3 is real.
Pcm that want to deploy or redeploy needs to very careful on this. Its not a joking matter as ur hard earned money could disappear. Deployment goes for as high as 50k 60k.
So it's no joke. There many scammers out there telling people that they do deployment for people but after you pay them. You won't see them again. Many have fallen into this don't be a victim

3. Registration fees
This is one is very funny to me. if you fall for it then you are not wise at all. Nysc never request doe money for you to register.
The only money you are to pay.
1. cafe services
2. Call up letter printing (optional)
If you don't want to pay for call up letter printing, its allowed. Your call up letter will be sent to your school. You can go there and get it.free.
Apart from this during register, you are not pay any other amount
A girl paid 16k for registration. I was like��. Please guys don't fall for this.

*Hint* most of this scammers having created so many Nysc group on Facebook, WhatsApp and telegram to get more customers

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If you are serious.
Am available to write
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The four most powerful elements

Am doing a little research on human behavior (men) and i discovered this. I believe its true. What do you think? Let me know

I will start up by letting you all know these
Nobody is born naturally to be bad or evil, everyone you today that bad or evil or that has done one bad thing or the other, they have done that because of interest.
Interest is d motivation behind everything. When i mean everything i mean everything. The reason you doing what you are doing is because of your interest. You want everything to work fine for you. Infact the reason why you are reading this is because you think you will gain one or two things from it.
Its only naturally for one to safeguard his interest. Protect and pursue it but sometimes our interest collides, this is the reason why conflicts happen but am not going to be talking now, am going to be talking about powerful elements of men. Four plagues that have found to be what drives men and what eventually kills men.
This four elements are the most dominant interest of men, nothing comes close to this four element. The are proven to be a great motivation for men over the years an also a great downfall of men. Every man has this four elements. Some say they are the four of men. Every man thinks about them, pursue them, wants to control them. Nothing comes close than these four.
Infact every action a man takes in life can be traced to the four elements

But in everyman one element seem to be more dominating than the other. I call it the prime element

PRIME ELEMENT
this is the element every man should watch out for. what kills a man can be traced to actions taken in pursuit of this element. Its doesn't mean that all other element are not present in that man. But this particular element seem to be dominant and more powerful.

How do you know a prime element? It is the most valued element


The four Elements

1. Power.
Power is one of the oldest element or interest of man. Power is the ability to control things and people. Men desires power, some will stop at nothing until they have it.
2. Money.
the love of money they say is the root of evil. Money is another power element that have proven to be a very good motivator for both good and evil. God promises his people good wealth so does the devil
3. Women
(for women men. Generally all comfort from the opposite sex)
This is yet another another killer elements that have proven to bring down kingdoms, destroy homes, Cause war and strife among men.

4. Highest
being under the influence of whatever, wether its alcohol,weed, cocaine, name it.
This element should never be under estimated. It has destroyed so many men. But also helped some. Some men can't go a day without it. Its important to them. I can't write very well on this because its a redundant element for me

An element can either be one of these 3 things
Prime mover

Subdominant

Redundant

The prime mover or element carry more of the interest of a man. A man thought is always on the prime element. The prime element is usually one element


Subdominant elements. the element shares rest of any percentage left by the prime element.
It can be the of the remaining element or 2 or only 1 depending on the person.

Redundant. This element is there but it seems not to be. Because little interest is dedicated to it.
Notes
1.What is a prime element for one man can be a redundant element for another.
2. What every man needs to be careful of is the prime element. It can make or destroy you.

So with this you can judge yourself by your self
Mine is (Not proud about it but atleast i can take steps to control it)

Prime element- women ( i swear i feared for my self when i discovered this)
Subdominant money
Redundant power & highest

My brother ( am very close to him)
Prime element is power ( i always use it against him and it works like magic.) This guy doesn't care along as he is in charge or praise or assumed to be in control

Subdominant money And women
Redundant alcohol.

My friend
Prime element alcohol.
Subdominant money power
Redundant women ( i never seen a guy like this)
I always tell if drink no kill you. Nothing go kill you.


So what do u think?
What's yours. Let me know

Bluethong:
The post doesn't makes any sense. The disease no dey show for face. So all this your list are void.

U said if she is pained about this post we should use condom

O boy this one is painned o