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Family / Re: Video Of Nigerian Woman Expressing Her Joy As She Becomes A Mrs by Bonab: 10:13am On Mar 09
A woman is happy over her marital status and some people are complaining, if she's not happy now people will still blame her.

Congratulations to her and her hubby.

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Celebrities / Re: Moses Bliss Gets Engaged To His Fianceé by Bonab: 7:36pm On Jan 19
Congratulations to them. The man of God also deserves a good wife .

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Family / Re: When Is The Right Time For A Child To Start School ? by Bonab: 5:48pm On Jan 17
My child started at the age of 2 in kg 1 going to 3 years in June. But before that we put her crèche for one year. The kg class has helped her a lot in learning how to speak very well and in identifying objects.
Romance / Re: What's Your Plan For 2024? by Bonab: 11:51pm On Jan 10
mrnwas:


It takes nothing much.
First you'll have to decide what to blog about.
Business
Fashion
Decoration
Lifestyle
Etc.

2ndly, you'll have to buy a domain name for your blog (Just don't buy till you've written at least 15 posts of at least 1000 words to post on your blog)

Then buy your hosting.

While the domain name is the address of your said blog, the hosting is the land on which you're going to build the blog.

Blogging requires dedication, grit and more learning to finally become successful. You'll need collaboration and patience too!


Please, how much will it take me in 2024, to buy a domain name and the hosting?
Romance / Don't Make This Mistake by Bonab: 10:13pm On Jan 04
I was discussing with a lady the other day and she said to me that her biggest regret last year was putting all her eggs in one basket. By that she meant that being in a relationship with one guy who could dump her to marry another lady is a wrong strategy.
She decided that this year she would date as many guys simultaneously as possible, atleast one of them would marry her.
While I listened to her, I felt pity for her. I could see how desperate she was, but honestly it is not her fault; especially,if you have invested so much into a relationship and it collapses like a pack of card.
But hear me, it is a big risk to date many men at the same time,with the hope that one would marry you. In most relationships, the guys would always ask for sex, so how would you feel jumping from one bed to another trying to satisfy different men so that at least one of them would marry you.
Don't allow desperation to drive you into making hasty decisions. Marriage though it is good and many desires it,but it shouldn't be the only bases for estimating your self worth.
There are somethings that would never happen at the time we want it,but it will still happen. Make peace with that.
Also, don't make decisions based on your emotions. That you are heartbroken today should not be the reason,why you would want to risk your life. Take time to heal from your past, and learn from the mistakes of your past before going into another relationship.

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Family / Re: I Want To Cancel The Marriage Plans. Is It Worth It? by Bonab: 4:20pm On Dec 30, 2023
This babe no respect you at all. If I were you I would leave her immediately. Forever is a long time. Think twice.

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Romance / Re: What's Your Plan For 2024? by Bonab: 5:01pm On Dec 25, 2023
mrnwas:
In 2024, i want to own up to 3 blogs that would earn $xxxx monthly!
This is why i am working so hard to read more about the niche i find interest in and watch a lot of videos too!
I would also like for Facebook to allow Nigerians monetize their pages and earn very well!

I want to start blogging too. Can you tell me how to start and what it will take to start? Thanks
Nairaland / General / Re: Tall People How Do You Survive by Bonab: 5:18pm On Dec 07, 2023
You should be proud of yourself. Don't you see the way girls are insulting short people on nairaland anyhow?

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Family / Re: See Why My Mother Cursed Me by Bonab: 2:11pm On Sep 12, 2023
Bring the matter before those she respects so much, so that they will make her see reasons with you. If she still insist, then she might be a victim of love charm. Why do you think the man is asking her to push you out of the house?
Religion / This Is Why Pastors Children Sometimes Behave Badly by Bonab: 2:01pm On Sep 12, 2023
I was asking myself this morning, that why do some children of the clergies, pastors and God servants behave badly. I understand that irrespectively of whom their parents are, a child can turn out bad for different reasons. But one would expect that for a man who is well revered for his good standing in the society, should influence his children to model what he preached to others.
After all, the Bible recommends that anyone aspiring for the office of a leader in the church, should at least rule well in his family, having his children in subjection (1 TIMOTHY 3:2-4)

Below are my thoughts as to why this anomaly may exist in such a Godly home

1) Busy parents not having time to disciple and mentor their children.

Some of these men of God are too busy with ministerial invitations and functions, that they don’t spare time to mentor their children.

2) Some of their children have not known God personally
Sometimes all the kids know is church and religion; which entails strict ways of doing things, and this can be boring to them. Boredom can make you try things that defame the name of God. Knowing God gives you a strong conviction as to why you should do things a particular way, because then you are not seeking to please your carnal mind but to do the mind of God. In 1Samuel 2:12 Eli’s sons did not know God. Imagine the sons of a high priest not knowing God or having regard for Him.

3) They honor their children more than God.
When you care much about hurting the feelings of your children more than the feelings of God, then you are setting your children up for disaster. You give them everything they ask for because you don’t want to offend them. You fear rebuking them because you want to be loved by them. Eli made that mistakes and he paid greatly for it.

4) Wrong expectations
Every child has their own God given assignment to fulfill. Expecting the child to choose your path especially when they are not as gifted as you are, can lead to frustration which may make them to become rebellious and veer off the right way.

5) Wrong examples shown to them by their Parents and other religious authority around them
Children learn more from what we do than what we say. Assaulting and insulting your spouse at home can turn your kids into violent, in-secured kids. The hypocrisy they witness growing up always affects them as adult, and it is because of such hypocrisy that some of them even abandon the faith.

6) Perception

Some church leaders care more about how people see them than who they are. I have heard of mothers giving abortion pills to their kids ,because why would it be said that a Pastor's daughter is pregnant out of wedlock. so rather than getting to the root of the problem to see what led to it, and help the child to behave better; more focus is given to managing public perception of the pastor and his family. such fake life does not help the kids at all. bring them under the light of the truth and mold them appropriately.

6) Lack of spiritual covering
A successful man of God is always a target of the enemy. The enemy can attack his ministry or his family, and so, such a person should always pray for his family. May God help us and give us the wisdom to do the right thing and to get the right result.

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