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PoliticsRe: Nigerians May Be Affected As US Moves To Expand Citizenship Revocation Drive by Bonab: 10:39am On Feb 13
Those without criminal records and no evidence of misrepresentation of information during the naturalization process has nothing to worry.
Foreign AffairsRe: Empty Classrooms: S/Korea Shuts Down Over 4,000 Schools Amid Birth Rate Crisis by Bonab: 2:28pm On Jan 04
It is like the more civilised a society is the more selfish their citizens becomes. Everybody starts pursuing what does not benefit the society, in the name wokeness.
FamilyRe: My Candid Advice For You This 2026 by Bonab: 9:21am On Jan 01
Good advice. Happy New Year!
PoliticsRe: Man Queried Peter Obi Healthcare Policy As Governor, Got This Reply by Bonab: 9:56pm On Dec 30, 2025
The way people challenge Obi,it looks as though he is the president of this country. Whereas everyone overlooks the incompetence of Tinubu.

If people channel that same energy in demanding for a better Nigeria from the current government, maybe this nation would begin to experience positive changes.
FashionRe: Miss Nigeria, Tofunmi Adekola Wins Best Carnival Costume At Miss Cosmo 2025 by Bonab: 7:35pm On Dec 21, 2025
Yoruba amaka..... One Nigeria
FamilyRe: A Nairalander Wedding Anniversary Family Pictures by Bonab: 6:39pm On Dec 13, 2025
Congratulations
PoliticsRe: 2027: "Abia Government House Is Vacant, Free" - Apostle Alozie Declares (Video) by Bonab: 4:49pm On Oct 27, 2025
The same way they prayed and prophesied to Jonathan in 2015, but it later failed.

The current governor is doing well and should continue.
Christianity EtcRe: Jimmy Swaggart Is Dead by Bonab: 7:34am On Jul 02, 2025
Heaven gains. May the King of glory recompense him for his labor of love and the souls he won for the kingdom. Rest in peace.
FamilyRe: My Marriage Is Shaking: I Settle All Bills Abroad by Bonab: 11:25am On Jun 27, 2025
You married a stingy woman.

Specifically tell her the areas where you need her financial support.

You may have to involve her parents or someone she respects a lot if she doesn't change after talking with her .
FamilyRe: Judge This Case If You Will Forgive This Your Wicked Father by Bonab: 5:57pm On Jun 24, 2025
Just like you I blamed my Father a lot, until I got married and understood that he did his very best.
If he fed you, clothed you, paid rent, school fees and other things you may see as his normal responsibility, then I can boldly tell
you that he was not useless at all.

Cars and houses are not the only achievement. Taking care of his Family up to this point is a big achievement.

My advise to you is to stopping hating on him and work hard to improve the living standard of the family. Because most people who blame their parents ended up becoming like them. My Papa no build house, na we build for am.
CelebritiesRe: Empire Star Jussie Smollett Announces Engagement To His Partner (Photos) by Bonab: 6:44pm On Jun 21, 2025
It breaks my heart to see this. See how devil has perverted their mind to believe that wrong is good.
Music/RadioRe: When Last Did You Put On A Radio FM by Bonab: 9:52pm On May 30, 2025
In the days of Cosmo FM in Enugu, I was one of their biggest fan. Always glued to the radio then.
PoliticsRe: Labour Party Suspends Otti, Nwokocha, Kingibe, Others by Bonab: 9:06pm On May 07, 2025
They will soon suspend Peter Obi.
HealthRe: Patients Suffer: Abuja Hospitals Cry Out Over Lack Of House Officers by Bonab: 2:53pm On May 07, 2025
This is serious. If the government are finding it hard recruiting doctors within the country, maybe they should increase their pay and scout for doctors outside the country,as other nations are doing.
RomanceRe: My Fiance Is Too Nasty, What Should I Do? by Bonab: 7:18am On Apr 30, 2025
That's a big red flag. People who indulge in such always have wild sexual fantasy which can make them experiment outside the marriage.

Also, Imagine your kids growing up to see some of these nonsense.

Run o
RomanceRe: Questions For The Matured. Pls Be Sincere. by Bonab: 6:53am On Apr 30, 2025
I will call it quit. Ass is meant for defecation and not for sex.

For him to have that kind of sexual fantasy,I am even suspecting that he might be gay or that he consumes too much porn.

Don't break your values because of marriage, if you do you will regret it later.
PoliticsRe: Islam Does Not Mandate Closure Of Schools During Fasting – Minister by Bonab: 5:24pm On Mar 11, 2025
People don't understand the handwriting on the wall. Nigeria is unofficially an Islamic state; that is why they can shut down schools in some Northern regions where their are Christians and mandate that everybody must comply. Reason am well.
PoliticsRe: Lagos: 80-million Gallons Per Day Adiyan Water Works To Be Finished Soon by Bonab: 8:02am On Mar 09, 2025
This is highly commendable.
FamilyRe: International Women’s Day 2025: Imagine A World Without Women – You Can’t! (Pix) by Bonab: 12:14pm On Mar 08, 2025
Happy international women's day to every Nigerian woman!!🎉
RomanceStop Harassing Men Sexually by Bonab(op): 12:04pm On Mar 08, 2025
Many people do not believe that men can be sexually harassed especially ladies; they simple assume that men enjoys whatever they dish at them,but that's not true.

Last year in October, I attended a training and in that training I sat beside an extroverted lady. She enjoyed talking and quite frankly, I learnt from some of our conversations. But she had this funny habit of slapping my laps whenever she was talking. On the second day of the training,she repeated the same thing. What was more confusing was the fact that she had a wedding band on her finger, and at some point she spoke about her husband. On the day third of the training,I had to change my position. I lied to her that the AC was too cold in my former sitting position so I had to change. Truth was that I wasn't comfortable with her touchiness.

Recently,I took a public transport from Cele to Mile 2. I was about entering this bus when a young man from that same bus was coming down. Between us was this chubby lady that dressed in a mini gown. I expected her to come down in other to make room for the guy to come out considering her size. Instead she raised one of her legs and placed it on the seat, exposing her undies. It happened in a flash that before I could look away I had seen what I was not meant to see.

In my former work place, one of the ladies that was serving us lunch made a raunchy joke about her breast. She said isn't her breast more delicious than the food she was serving.Some laughed ,some did not. This is the kind of talk that makes men to see women as sex objects. When men starts making some funny moves ,they would accuse them of sexually harassing them.

Honestly, some men are not comfortable seeing your breasts almost spilling out of your clothes, because when they look at you, you might think that they're looking at your boobs or if you are on a short gown and you are sitting down,they would find it hard to look down because it would look as if they're oogling at your thighs. You are sexually harassing them, if you don't know.

Please let's make it easy for one another. At least the sensible ones will regard you as decent for dressing so. Let's stop sexually harassing one another.
CrimeRe: Man Calls Out Pastor For Defending Vice Principal Who Impregnated 13-year-old by Bonab: 11:22am On Feb 20, 2025
So the pastor is indirectly saying that if a minor seduces you to sleep with her,then you should blame it on the small girl and not on your lack of self control. Nawa o!
EducationRe: Nigerian School Goes Viral For Teaching Students A Foreign Accent (photos/video) by Bonab: 8:05pm On Feb 19, 2025
Teaching kids foreign accent is not the way. What matters is that you tutor then on how to pronounce words correctly.

Chimamanda Adichie is a scholar that would never fake American accent even though she has lived there for a long time now,but her diction is topnotch.
CelebritiesRe: Gospel Singer, Paul Nwokocha’s Second Wife Returns Bride Price, Ends Marriage by Bonab: 8:19am On Feb 09, 2025
One problem with divorce is that once you start, it continues.
PoliticsRe: NAFDAC Proposes Death Penalty For Drug Peddlers by Bonab: 8:13am On Feb 08, 2025
I fully support this.
Christianity EtcRe: What Should A Sermon Be? by Bonab(op): 2:16pm On Feb 02, 2025
Yes, go ahead.
MaxInDHouse:
I'm interested in the topic my name is Maximus one of Jehovah's Witnesses.

Do you want me to participate in the topic of discussion?
Christianity EtcWhat Should A Sermon Be? by Bonab(op): 12:42pm On Feb 02, 2025
These days it seems as if Christians are in conflict as to what a sermon should contain. While some people are of the opinion that a sermon should reveal only the person of Christ to a believer, others believe that beyond revealing Christ to a believer, pastors should be interested in other areas of a believer's life like their finances, marriage, health etc. After all, by talking about the latter Christ is still being revealed through his manifold wisdom captured in the scriptures that addresses those areas of our lives.

Hence it is not out of place for a preacher to sermonize on prosperity using Biblical principles, because if you get a prostitute to believe In God and make the decision to repent, if you leave her after that, hunger will make her to start lusting after the sin she has repented of.

Same as if a man is not taught about the Biblical standard for marriage, but only knows salvation and sanctification such a man would be a terror at home.

Secondly, it is not surprising to see that no matter how balanced or versatile a preacher is, they would always favor a particular topic in the Bible over others albeit unknowingly. It means that whenever they are preaching, they always emphasize more on a particular theme. It shows you that every preacher has a message given to them by God for the body of Christ. The mistake is that some of them tend to make their listeners believe that their message is all that they need or it is more important.

So for me, when I want to work on my marital life I listen more to preachers who are gifted in that area, same as when i want to charge up my prayer life, my family life, my career, my walk with God, my faith life etc.

There's nothing wrong with a preacher sermonizing about various topics, in so far he covers the basics of the Christian doctrines and tries to create a balance in what he says. Depriving believers of an important Godly knowledge that you feel is not essential can have serious effects in their Christian journey.

Let me know what you think in the comment section, as i am ready to learn from others.
Christianity EtcRe: How A Nurse Used The Blood Of Jesus To Save Me From Death - My Testimony (Photo) by Bonab: 12:07pm On Feb 02, 2025
There is power in the blood of Jesus. people would mock but those who have tasted of its wonders will agree.
LiteratureRe: 40 & Single (by Kayode Odusanya) by Bonab: 1:28pm On Jan 25, 2025
You're a good writer. I just wanted to binge read,but your story sucked me in till the end.
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CelebritiesRe: I Am Ready For Burna Boy: Speed Darlington Reveals Another Technique (Video) by Bonab: 11:03pm On Jan 22, 2025
Akpi talks too much.
CrimeRe: EFCC Arrests 37 Suspected Internet Fraudsters In Anambra by Bonab: 11:00pm On Jan 22, 2025
They will pay more attention to Anambra state now, after they lost their staff.
LiteratureRe: Married Man And His Side Chick by Bonab: 12:17pm On Jan 18, 2025
Wahala 😂😂
RomanceRe: My Pre Wedding Pictures by Bonab: 11:59am On Jan 13, 2025
Congratulations

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