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Writercruze:
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This post is for the man who breaks a woman’s heart. You knew you needed a one night stand, yet you gave her the impression that you were in love. You even went ahead and bought lovely flowers and greeting cards.

But why would you raise someone’s hope to dash it in the middle of nowhere? It would have been better for her if you had told her you needed a friend with benefits.

I could have sworn that men like you don’t exist, but I was wrong anyway. Are you so heartless that you don’t even consider how she will feel once she realized that you are a scam?

I thought heartbreaks only happen in Nollywood and Zeeworlds. I never imagined someone as heartless as you existed until you broke my heart to pieces. Without a doubt, I was a victim of your sweet words, nice gestures, and fake kindness.

I never knew that behind the kindness and nice gestures was a chronic player and womanizer. You are so wicked!!!

How could you paint a marriage life scenario to me while you know that I was your fling? You coaxed into believing that I’m the chosen one whom you will hold close to your arm and spend the rest of your life with.

But why? Did all these lies worth it? How many other girls are victims of your love scam? You have succeeded in instilling natural hatred for men in my heart.

Your actions made me feel unimportant, and you gave me the impression that I’m a worthless fling. You promised me love, affection, and happiness. But after seeing my unclothedness, you made me cry my eyes out.

I fell for your romantic words thinking I found happiness. But after taking me to bed, you became a different person. That was when you told me that you had a serious relationship. So, you kept your girlfriend as a special reserve while treating me as if I’m worthless.

You may think It’s normal, but it’s heartbreaking. I wish you could see the redness in my heart and how I became a shadow of myself when you left. The way you broke my heart into pieces. Sadly, the next man that comes my way will pay for your sin.

All I ever crave for was true love. But you turn everything into a nightmare. I don’t feel safe with men anymore as they remind me of you. I now find men that are kind towards me very irritating.

Since you have taken advantage of my vulnerability, I may never trust any man again. You want to see me cry and miserable because you derive pleasure seeing women in pain.

I just want to know. Why did you lie about everything? What did you gain from it? I was ready to make all our days together magical. Unfortunately, the only magical day was the day you told me you had a serious girlfriend that you are preparing for marriage.

What baffled me most was the fact that you were smiling when you told me about your relationship with another lady. Perhaps, you were happy that I was crying when you ended things with me.

I want you to know that I will be fine. I won’t allow the fact that you break my heart defines me.

As for you, I hope that one day you will experience real heartbreak. That’s the day you will feel all my pains.

Lastly, I hope another woman will not fall for your deceit and lies again.

Source: https://www.naijalovetips.com/a-message-to-the-man-who-breaks-a-womans-heart/

This person sounds like my ex. In case she's the one, babe am so sorry. I only left because you talk too much. You talk before you think. Secondly the day you said you will not let any of our family members come to stay with us... Seriously, it gave me a lot of concern. But I wasn't bold enough to say all these to your face, hence I lied that I have another person. Besides, forever is too long to marry you out of pity.
I'm so sorry dear. You'll find a better man than me.

Whiteshirtsonly:
Hi all.. It's my turn to say � IT'S PPR
Promised my self I'd share my journey through the process.

[b]Time line:
Decision to jump boat, August 2017 (I just couldn't understand and cope with the way we treat ourselves in this country).

WES - Oct. 2019

1st IELTS Oct. 2017 - Fell short in Listening by 0.5
2nd IELTS Feb. 2018 - Fell short in Reading by 0.5
3rd IELTS Apr. 2018 - Fell short in Writing by 0.5 (remark came back unchanged).
4th IELTS July 2018 - Fell short in Writing by 0.5 (almost lost faith in God, but something made me stay trusting)
5th IELTS Sept. 2018 LRWS // 8.5, 8, 7, 7.5
ITA - Oct. 3, 2018
Medicals - third week in October
AOR - Nov. 19, 2018
Biometrics - Dec. 27, 2018
MEP - Dec. 27/28, 2018 (didn't notice any ghost updates)
SILENCE / WORRY (I became skinny)
ADR (FAMOUS 5) - Apr. 15, 2019
ADR Submission through CSE (as directed in the letter) - Apr. 23, 2019
ADR Submission though profile upload (God directed me to just check my already submitted documents in my profile and saw i needed to upload... did so same day) - May 8, 2019
IP2 - May 15, 2019
PPR - May 30, 2019 (request letter though profile dated May 29, 2019)
Passport submitted May 31, 2019.[/b]

I thank God for the opportunity to go thru the process and seeing it to completion.
As a ghost reader, y'all are great. When it's said to have patience and be prayerful, that's all that's needed through this process... Guidance and direction will surely come.

- WES was a breeze... A sign of good things to come.
- Wrote the IELTS exam 5 times. The first time would have done it but "shebi I can speak English"... I did one or two sample tests and did very well, I did not know about the whole 8777 thing. God taught me a lesson to be thorough in all and above all, to trust in Him.
- ITA was expected with a score of 456.
- Quickly had my Medicals done at Children's Practice and PCC at Alagbon, Ikoyi.
- POF was gift deed from parent.
- Reference Letters only, from past and present places of employment.
- Submitted and paid all fees on Nov. 19, 2018... Got AOR same day.
- Request for Biometrics letter came in on Dec. 24, 2018 and then went to have it taken on Dec. 27, 2018 after the Christmas holiday.

THE WAIT AFTER THAT IS NOT OF THIS WORLD
I began scouring the internet for similar long waits and following NL. It was "bittersweet" seeing PPR stories coming thru. Your stories and pleas for everyone waiting for one thing or another in whichever stage kept hope alive... I was tempted to request for GCMS notes or submit CSE, but stayed trusting God as I kept seeing "It will end in praise". I was expecting my PPR in Feb. 2019. Nothing, so I decided to quit checking my profile 20 times a day till April when I got a Profile Updated email. Thinking it was PPR, I logged in calmly only to see ADR. It was pretty easy to compile and send through the CSE.
On May 8, 2019, I was to drop off a married couple, friends of mine, at the airport who were also shifting to Canada. Woke up that morning and went straight to my profile only to see I had to upload the same documents. I went to drop them off at the airport and proceeded to upload the same documents.

On the May 15, I logged into my profile (In the ADR letter, it said a decision would be made 30 days from the day of the letter) and saw the IP2. I thanked God and went about my life. Fastforward 15 days later, I didn't receive the PPR mail directly in my email as I read people received theirs. Received a mail that my profile had been updated, so my heart was doing #gbasgbos as I hurriedly logged in, thinking it might be another ADR.
I pinched myself several times to see I wasn't dream (a week before that I dreamed I received my PPR in a box, but somehow I knew I was dreaming, but that gave me hope when I woke up). Called my bro to read the letter... in case I was seeing double lol THE HAPPINESS WAS OUT OF THIS WORLD. Thanked God for his faithfulness, guidance and direction. I'm not very spiritual, but this PR success has changed me
I called family and friends to tell them the good news.

When I got to VFS Lekki on Friday, the crowd... "Jesus! Everyone is freaking jumping ship" I thought. I got there at 10am, left at 3pm.

In other slightly unrelated news... God is the greatest, but satan been on his sh!t.... My phone fell and screen shattered, it also wouldn't stay on. Went to Saka Tinubu thinking "fix the screen and nudge the battery into place".. We know what happens with those boys, instead of spending 10k, I'm spending 30k lol I was calm... You won't see me to exploit soon. A good reminder why I decided to JUMP SHIP.

I'm leaving no later than the middle of July.

To all those, at whichever stage you're at, trust in God, have patience and it will surely end in praise. I've been waiting to say that.
I would try and give advises and lend a helping hand to people asking for direction on this thread, as I have learned a great deal from you all.

Peace!

Please, what Material did you use in preparing for the reading test? You can send me the link on this email keionzi4all@gmail.com. Thank you and congratulations!

Good Day house, please i need your counsel, i just applied for ECA evaluation and i'm asked to send a copy of my masters certificate but presently i don't have that because i recently completed my masters program in unilag, is there something i can substitute for this wes requirement, and if you finished from unilag please how did you go about requesting for your transcript with the wes request form?

Why do folk generalise everything. What about marriages between people from the same state that ended badly. She was right, until she brought in that Anambra and Imo dichotomy.

Abeg, this should be in front page. Seun take note. Thanks for sharing.

glowdot4:
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This man's trouser self eeh. Nice concept.

Valarmoghulis:
Even if buhari wins an award for the most clueless president the Tanzanians will still say we bought it. Not my hand writing.

Congratulations!

In that case the church should have resolved the issue before going on with the wedding.

Has she not been curvy? abi una no get better thing to talk about?

But why?

Strange but true.

mkoabiola:
Inspiration Fm being real with aunt launda
Evening oyoyo with opj d bad mouth

Inspiration Fm all the way.

mccoy47:
With so much errors coming from a graduate, little wonder he failed them!
And that silly girl confessing to bribing a lecturer and then asking for his sack.
If i where the VC i would sack the lecturer alright, but I'd also retrieve the certificates of those that bribed him!
Shekina!
What is good for the geese is good for the gander

And then you wrote 'if I where', instead of 'if I were'. Whose certificate should be retrieved now?

handsomeclouds:
Very ungodly be itch. Who should be closer to God?

Funny you.