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From my view point, the op mind is already made up, the so called prostitute might be better than the regulars girls you see on the street. However, like they say, ignorance is bliss, the fact that you already know her to be a love peddler implies that there might be trust issues between both of you. How would you feel when you go out with your wife and her former customers call her by her okpo name? Think about the public embarrassment you would face when perhaps a close friend, father, male sibling were once her customer. Well. If you are the type that do not care about what people think about you, then you're good to go. But if otherwise, i'll advice you to think twice before venturing into marrying an okpo.

Some men can be so silly, op, you have just one option, divorce him cos it's obvious he married you just because of your father's wealth. This is one of the reasons why rich parents don't allow their children to marry from an humble background.

If this rumour is true, em, 200k is good for a start sha. Jona is trying

Lolz at the ladies' comments. I only collect girls number just for the fun of it 'cos i barely call. I even wonder why girls are always reluctant to give out their numbers. Shey nor be the guy credit dey burn ni? SMH

tellwisdom: Bro, tell her you are a ritualist. She no go near ur street, let alone your doormot .

But try and YANSH her

Lwkmd ritualist ke, well, I'm not interested in yanshing her, i only kissed her in order not to arouse suspicion about the way i feel about her.

joeydozzy: how can you promise to be someone's boyfriend on a phone even without seeing her. who does that?

I did cos i felt she was as cute as her friend. And i never knew her height could turn me off.

slimyem: just withdraw!
No more calls and messages and all..
She should get the message afterwards.

If i refuse to call her for a day, sje will scatter my phone with calls

Yield: Just let her know you're not interested and be honest.
I'm sure there would be someone else out there who
would love + accept her just the way she is.

I'll need to gather courage niyen.

Onegai: "Hi, short gal. How are you. Just wanna say you're pretty and awesome, but I'm not attracted to you. I see you like a sister, and that is NOT going to change. I understand if you don't want to be friends anymore, but if you ever feel like talking, please call. I can't wait for you to meet my gf, you remind me of her in some ways. Thanks"

Borrow one cousin/friend/classmate from somewhere to act as gf for a while. The line about her resembling your gf will work wonders, as no-one likes being compared.

Lolz, you don't get, I've already told her on phone that i would love her to be my girlfriend b4 meeting her in person.

Mynd_44: Well you got yourself into this mess dude.
Unfortunately, the only way to get yourself is to break your promise. Call her up and tell her in explicit terms that after meeting in person you don't see yourself building a future with her.
But dude if her looks is the only problem, you might want to know her personality first.
Just my opinion anyway

Agreed, i got myself into this, but i don't have the gut to tell her I'm no longer interested, it's going to weaken her self confidence.

Galads: Stop the calling,most times don't pick her call, change your altitude towards her but am not saying be bad o. Just don't give her any attention like before...if she get sense in 2weeks she would know your not interested and she go find her square root..shekenah!!!

Thnks bros, i'll try

I seriously need someone to tell me what to do. A female friend of mine gave me the number of her secondary school friend to call, that she needs a boyfriend, she told me the girl is cute, even more beautiful than herself. Knowing how cute this my friend is, i began to envision how a cuter girl would be, so i happily collected the number and started calling this supposed damsel.
After a couple of phone chat with this miss charming, i invited her to my place in lagos only for her to turn out to be a very short (almost the size of a midget) though a bit pretty gal. I had to conceal my displeasure cos i so much detest making someone feel bad. However,i don't think i can date her, having promised her on phone that i would not break her heart. Don't know what led me to making promises to a gal i hadn't seen. Now she is on my neck, i apparently can't date her. Pls nairalanders, i really need to know the best way to let her know I'm no longer interested in the relationship without causing her pain