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ZUBY77: It was Europe. Then USA. Now Asia.
I expect Brazil next.

Then my beautiful Africa will rule the World.

Will we be alive to see that?

kulyie: gbam.nigerians smh.always bringing religion and sermon into everything.reminds me of one lazy secretary that was transferred to my office.always sleeping and eating in the office.once she types for twenty minutes,she will sleep off and when i ask about how far with the work i gave her to do before she closes she will be telling me it is well ma.,you are blessed,you are covered with the blood of jesus,i told her immediately you must be crazy.if it is sleep you came here to sleep why didnt you come with your matress to the office.the next time you say anything about religion,i will give you query.keep our religious vews to yourself,do what you are paid to do and get out by 4 pm.you wont do your work,you will be preaching.maybe it is a fada that employed you,maybe it is xyz company,we will know at the end of the month.that was the day she sat up,did her work and left her religious views outside my office

I almost had an asthma attack reading that post and I don't have asthma.

biolabee: women are a wonderful gender

they wanted security and protection from the beasts and elements; we gave them companionship

they wanted more security and protection; we gave them marriage

they complained we did not trust their children; we gave them virginity before marriage

they complained there were too many unmarried females; we gave them polygamy

they complained that they feel valued in the multitude of their kind; we gave them monogamy

they complained there are too many unwanted kids; we gave them abortion rights

they complained too many foetuses are dying; we say ban before 20 weeks;



You take the decision on their behalf... they complain you give them no choice yet you leave them to their devices they say you are not caring enough

wow.... a wonderful gender

If only they see it is all about taking personal responsibility.

Wooooooooow! All that? Smh. I guess perception is reality huh.

[quote author=Miss_3v3]Apparently to you it seems that way. Next time rather say that a Few Ghanaian men who told me about their sexapades not Ghanaian men. Obviously there are cheaters in every nationality but your post reeks of Generalisations and ignorance. I do not know what kind of "social circle" you run with where men tell you about their sexapades but like i said. You are wrong about the majority and it's like them saying that all Nigerian women are unfaithful and 2/3 Kids they have are not their husbands. All your posts since you came on Niaraland has something to do with Ghana so whatever your agenda is, please leave our men out of it thanks.[/quote]Or next time you can just not read it or sign off the thread if you don't like how its worded. I don't generally have you in mind.

[quote author=igbo_barbie]@ Op are you a learner Lol it is so obvious and well known that the men who cheat the most in Africa are Nigerian men. Unfortunately that is the sad truth. The top 4 African men are:

1. Nigerians
2. South Africans
3. Angolans
4. Congolese

But you have to look inside yourself. If you are a cheap lady then do not expect men to value you and not cheat. Look inside yourself very well. My 2 cents[/quote]Hmmm, don't know any Angolans or many Congolese. Nor do I know women who have dated any.
As I said in my original post, it not really from guys I have dated but more about people I have had to console and stories people have told me.

[quote author=T3 @_@ Amo]Your Post's are so full of Generalisations that you cannot be taken seriously. Men cheat from every nationality and race so to make it seem like South African, Ghanaian and Nigerian men are so bad is simply idiotic. If you had bad experiences with such men, does not mean that they are all bad and that everyone feels the same way. Secondly you are who you attract. [color=#770077]The last part got me a bit confused. So you are saying women allow their men to cheat and have kids with other men? Seriously?Unless you are talking about Pologamy then i do not know which weed you are smoking but there is no such thing. A normal sane woman would not give their partners permission to cheat and have kids outside marriage.
[/quote]No not other men.... I am saying some women are aware that there husbands have girlfriends and kids outside of their home. I don't think its an issue of permission. I think its more like dealing with it. Because really if he wants to do it he will.

[quote author=Miss_3v3]@ op it you seem to be talking from your butt hole. Ghanaian men? Lol, When it comes to cheating, double lifes and co Ghanaian men are not even amongst the top of the list. Just google and see what answer you will find of many women who complain about all the cheating etc and where they come from. Whatever ish you have with Ghanaian men, you do not need to lie to get your point across. Typical[/quote]Maybe you can't read.... As it wasn't top listed or bottom listed.... It was just listed. The original post did not say everyone from that country is a cheater. Ghanaian men not every single have developed the reputation of cheaters, liars and everything I originally said. I stand by that.

When you're not simple minded, untraveled or unapproachable and people come to you with their problems or stories you learn things. And the numbers of women; wives, daughters and girlfriends who have had to deal with infidelity from there Ghanaian companions or parents is notable. In addition to the numbers of grown well to do, high position holding Ghanaian men who have told me (personally) of their SEXcapades.

Double Life= being married to one and having another that the first wife doesn't know about. <---- Definitely happens

Lie about what? For what? How would that benefit me or the post? As the topic states, the question was Which African men are most known for cheating??

But your post seems a little hostile. Worried about something?

[quote author=Mynd_44]Precise and concise[/quote]Kids these days...... Smh.

bejahisky: Your father...

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Written like a guilty child raised in an unstable home.

Truckpusher: I'm not generalizing that all women/girls accepts and condone a cheating spouse or bf ,but if you consider the number of married men out there chasing everything on skirt whilst their wives looks the other way then i can categorically say that cheating for the male folks is widely accepted in our society as a norm and you can always blame this as result of our inability to criminalize polygamy and bigamy.

Even if you fight these two aforementioned elements above to a standstill today ,you still have the political quagmire to deal with.How can you remove polygamy which has been the platform and the bedrock on which cheating springs from and gets nourished in Nigeria when some religion in the country encourages some people to marry four wives......we do have a problem up in our a$$

Yes, these African countries don't realize how much polygamy and scandaless-ness effect the countries all together. Imagine how many more roads could be developed if people were heavily fined for adultery. Better yet, they had to pay the government for illegitimate children until the child turned 18. We would be better develop.

In the US if a woman seeks government assistance for herself and a child, she has to disclose who and were the father is. If she refuses, assistance decides. If he agrees and lists him info, the government persues him for repayment or child support payment....

[quote author=Mynd_44]It is a vicious cycle[/quote]Indeed and leads to mental health problems. But its easier to say a person has been cursed than to say their spouse drove them crazy.

virgin ice: I don't no abt oda parts of Africa buh Nigerian men are jus BAD! Dey can lie and Cheat like it's innate. Even d women r beginnin to see it as a norm and those married give advice to newly wedded and say 'my dear, u jus av to accept ur fate' wc mumu fate? SMH.

And some women are into hooking up their friends, nieces, etc with married men like its okay. Misery loves company. And those who have been mistreated want others to be mistreated so it doesn't seem so bad.

Truckpusher: Until our women/girls begin to see that material gain in any form of relationship isn't just normal ,men will continuously cheat on them with bravado......After all he who pays the piper dictates the tune.

YOU DON'T JUST MAKE RULES FOR PEOPLE TO OBEY THEM ,BUT YOU MAKE RULES THAT WILL FORCE PEOPLE TO OBEY THEM.








I do not support or subscribe to any ideology that will make people involved to be emotionally unbalanced.

VERY, VERY True BUT not all women know there man is cheating. And not all women stay with him once they find out. And not all men who cheat are Great providers either. IDK, may never be understandable.

I'd rather be with a modest man who is hard working and committed than a wealthy man who has excess time to commit to everyone who is interested.

And it does have a lot to do with ego and self esteem, cause most men who are serial cheaters couldn't handle being cheated on. Not once by their wives. Nor would they support a child that is the product of adultery. But somehow, some women do.

Omen100: I can't speak for others but as for my Nigerian Men/brothers. We, Nigerian men don't cheat and we will never engaged in such immoral act & that's why we are unique, bold, strong & happy but if by any chance find a Nigerian Man cheating then hold his spouse responsible for his actions,

thank you all.

So having more than 1 woman who considers herself your "wife," and having kids with both/all of them. Having separate house for both families.... Unless you're Muslim, what kind of lifestyle is that?

[quote author=Mynd_44]Smh......

Human being cheat, whether they are from Nigeria, China or Uzbekistan[/quote]^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ That was stated in the first line of the post, being as how men and women make up human beings.
And how many Chinese men have 10-20 children.

[quote author=Mrs.Chima]African?

West? East? North? South? Central?

Nigerian
Somalian
Kenyan
Algerian
South African <---- They are absolutely too much
Zambian
Senegalese
Angolian
Cameroonian
.Ethiopian
Sudanese
Rwandan[/quote]12 out of 54. Not that bad unless you want to marry one of your own and they are on the list.

The funny thing is most of the men who have 2 or 3 wives or girlfriends, didn't deserve the first one....

I wanna say Love, but bills and stress can destroy a good relationship..... So I will still say Love and health. I hope that I am healthy enough and of sound mind to find ways too help/eradicate any financial problems. I hate being broke, its too depressing.

lyfe: Please remind me which country these people : Tuface, Iyanya, Jim Iyke, 190, Mr Cork, Omiobo come from?

Ignore him. We all know its true. Even if its not your personal experiences, when you hear stories from friends and relatives it starts to change you. Burden you...

[quote author=-Mr Cork-]...well I have never ever cheated.. sweeery are u light skin? ..please advise! [/quote]

So men cheat, women cheat.... There is no denying that.

But which African men cheat the most? So many African men have developed reputations amongst the people I know, it makes it so hard to seriously date and be optimistic.

In South Africa, its like Sodom & Gommorah. Everybody seems to be doing everybody and if your not down then they think something is wrong with you. And with the HIGH AIDS rate, you'd think people would be a little more scared. West African women say the South African women are very easy and from what I saw all some guys had to do was say a girl was pretty and they'd be making out. She'd be ready to drop her draws.... So in South Africa, West African men Ghanaians and Nigerians get away with murder. Sleeping around and everyone knows it, not coming home.... The South African women worship them because they say they get treated better with them than their own men. But the Nigerian, Ghanaian men still cheat, they are just better providers and more charismatic.

The one story I heard about a Liberian man was all bad. Cheating, fathering children and letting another man think it was his children; even though he (real dad) had DNA test results.... And his family claiming he was tricked by the girl. I don't know many Liberians, so its not as bad as the Nigerian Guys and Ghanaian Guys.

Ghanaian men are known for the lying, cheating, and double lives, secret families abandoning/denying their children. And most Nigerian men say they are cheap.

Nigerian men have become known for all the same as the Ghanaian men plus.... Having multiple wives and kids and different households and everybody knowing about each other and it being okay as long as everyone is taking care of.

But really is it impossible to find a faithful and honest man?

I really wanna hear from women who allow their husband to have other wives and other kids. I mean really how good of a companion and father could he be when his time is split amongst multiple households? Or does that part not really matter? Help me understand.... Growing up with a father with multiple kids everywhere, I didn't have a relationship with him. I think he had anywhere from 10- 13 kids and don't think he took care of any of them.

I don't really wanna hear from men. Just wanna hear what the ladies think.

Really? Suggestions? Maybe Im tempted by the idea of the party....

I have been looking at this FB business page. www.Facebook.com/MadameMobile

They throw hair parties where they come to your home or work with their products do a demonstration and then you can purchase the hair right away. It sounds cool and very fun. I want to see the quality of the hair, so I am thinking about contacting them and seeing if the can ship it here, but Im just not sure.

What do you guys thinks, please look at the hair and help me decide.

Thanks

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