Lakeside79:
Okay

Freedom of expression

Please let's not be abusive in our comments let's respect others views she stated her opinion and is free to do so

Agree or disagree respectably

I disgaree men being the head has no correlation with men and women being equal

I believe we are both equals men and women

Your wife is your partner and stands beside you not behind you

But you as the man you lead be the rock and shield for your wife and your children

For example your boss is your head in the office but you are both equals as employees of the company in that you both oay tax, you both has tasks yet he or she is your superior you won't go saying because you are both staff he or she should take on the same responsibility as you (that would be career suicide)

So while you are the head she isn't your surbordinate she is your rib , your best friend your sister your mother
Your world not your slave

Nuff said

Can I say I love you? Lol. 'Cause I really do right now. Mature man.

sanpipita:
Lol reading comments here, you will think its women that get themselves pregnant, its a vicious cycle which one gender gets all the blame.

You've said it all

ubunja:
is the analogy wrong though?

Nope. Doesn't mean men deserve praise for cheating since it is difficult for them. Not like I judge anyway; I am probably a serial cheat myself. Lol

ubunja:
men are studs. because getting lots of sex is never easy for men. while to get lots of sex all a girl has to do is become easy. men cant be "easy" to get sex but have to be brave and hardworking.

Lol. See analogy. I can now see why you are #teamvirginbride! Women in your country must really be something.

Godpolymath:
That is the problem with religious people,they are programmed in such a way not to question authority they were thought...

They were thought from childhood about the false belief so questioning their faith is contractiditive to their mentality..


It takes a superior human to see the falsehood

So true! I am from a religious background and only started questioning religion months ago after being away from the church in years. Sometimes I still feel that fear like "are you sure over 3 billion people are wrong and you are correct?"

But the truth is the moment you free yourself and allow yourself to reason you will see you have been in bondage since birth. But religious fanatics are too scared.

HardMirror:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ODetOE6cbbc

Quite brilliant I must admit.

ubunja:
you are too slow.

Lol. Coming from an alpha male. If you know you know

braunstrowman:
I can freely mail you

Lol. The way u are asking for permission..... scared of rejection much?

braunstrowman:
can I know you beyond Nl

Why not? It's a free world.

braunstrowman:
nne how you

fine nna.

ubunja:
you mean like you just did?

Still he is unhappy. Lol.

braunstrowman:
I hate this

When ever I see people rushing to comment on this girl thread. It weakenings my soul

Load of crap! I don't know why another persons sexuality is of importance to others!!!

RuthlessLeader:
I can see that despite all our education, internet access and exposure, many nigerians are still foolish Human Beings who are still in the dark ages. That was for all the people saying this woman is a feminist or she is just old.

Love you

okenwa101:


what did you agreed on with?

I was just reading to see reasonable person (a lady preferably) who could analyze the message and not attacking the messenger.

A lady could advise men to cut down on this and that, what I will do is to reason what she said and see how I could benefit from it and not why should she advise me or men, you guys should cut down these naija reasoning habit.
Reality is that more ladies are getting frustrated as population of women keeps increasing, husband keep getting scarce with only few cool head to attract appreciable husband, thereby passing their frustration to ALL MEN ARE THESE, ALL MEN ARE CHEAT, ALL MEN ARE THAT, I AM NOT OF ALL MEN. ARE YOU ALL WOMEN try make a difference, stop following the crowd.

But if you saw my post on the matter you would realize you and I are on the same page about the ALL part. So what are you saying?

I agreed with the fact that some women support the derogatory way some men talk to and about women in this forum and that's to their detriment on the long run.

Awaitingkopa:
Ha, who chuk bobrisky mouth, with all d yamayama in his body he is chukin mouth in witchy kemi matter this woman will finish him Aswear waiting for her bomb reply

He is just trying to be part of the current publicity. All publicity is good publicity, they say.

Safiaa:
It’s all for the internet. Offline we know these guys story. I mean the ones above

Lol. If you know you know.

nanakgh:
Some people on this forum are stark raving mad. it's like any chance is taken just to abuse women. and you still get some no self esteem women backing them. sometimes some of you ladies deserve to be treated like trash since you have no respect for each other and your gender.

I totally agree with you

Why did they not post what the the man wrote that she countered because I cant view it.
Modified* I have now seen it.

She was not referring to ALL men, she was referring to THESE men. The type of men that write rubbish like that poster did. So she is quite correct 'cause not all men have sense. Same as women. Lets not get sentimental about it.

Lemme run o before those type of men here attack me.

CaptJeffry:
Of course it's not easy but after meeting few emotionally unstable ladies, I've learnt to always move on the hard way.
As far as I'm concerned, if a woman says no or stop, I take the no or stop with capital letters and stop wasting my precious time. I've got things to do biko.

You are right though.

Ebuka2016:

i dont get you.

Please are you saying that more than 50% of women in Nigeria contribute financially more than the men in marriage?

Are you saying only few Nigerian men are self sufficient (well to do)?

Yes. That is EXACTLY what I am saying. And if you look around you quite honestly you would realise that it is true.

I am not talking of women dating men that demand money. I am talking of when those women get into the home and see how things really are, they have no choice but to chip in and this makes many men relax beyond abandon.

So my dear if you really look around you honestly and without bias, you will understand the point I an trying to make.

CaptJeffry:
The moment she's done with me, I move on. I don't like flogging a dead horse because if I eventually flog it back to life, it won't live long before dying again.

Lol. You make it sound so easy. Mind you I am not even the lovey dovey kind but moving on for me really has to do with ego and my narcissistic tendencies. Lol

CaptJeffry:
Whatever made me leave an ex will make me not to have soft spot for her.
If I'm done with A, I move to B and not A recycled.

What if you were not done with A and A was the one that was done with you? Relationships and breaking up can be very tricky. You might think you have all the answers but alas you are confronted with yet another twist. Lol.

Intrepid01:
People are taking the excuse of "this is a faceless forum" to a while new level this days....

I would suggest that all those "boys" who made derogatory comments about women with miscarriages should offer apologies without reservation. ......Those comments are disheartening and I'm sure their mum wouldn't be proud of them if they were to see those comments..........

Yea there are many issues with women, but to use that as an excuse to discredit them is a new low....

To all women and most especially to the woman on this thread who mentioned that she's had 2 miscarriages, I pray that the good Lord that dwelleth in Zion shall give you children like Samuel, David and Esther. ...they shall grow in wisdom , knowledge and respect for women...and their days shall be longer than that of their parents. ........

Many alpha males on nairaland are really small kids waiting for jamb dates to be fixed, looking for cheap likes and mentions to take to the bank. You should realize that.

Fools everywhere! It's amazing how daft some people really are. It's more amazing how people make statements on social media just got attention: Like the one saying "I give you sperm as the man you better give me baby as the woman." Dumbest sh*t I have heard all my life!

millomaniac:
From the video we don't know whom he was referring to. That title is misleading.

I thought I was the only one that thought this. This video was taken out of context. No sane human would say this in front of people. Maybe in a private meeting by not in front of people while being recorded sef.

emmyluizzz:

two bottles of fanta for 100naira

is obvious u are not from Nigeria

100 naira each na making 200 naira. Lol. I will update it.

1. Make sure your phone is fully charged

2. Buy 500MB data with N500

3. Select a new movie she would like to see on on 123Movies

4. Buy fruits with N300 (2 Oranges, sliced watermelon, sliced pineapple, 2 mangoes) make a fruit salad plate with them.

5. Buy 2 bottles of fanta with N200

6. Enjoy your movie on your phone; split the ear phones. Snack on your salad and drinks.

Have a good time

stevodot22:
John fashanu! Play for nauja u no free, we beg u said u preferred emEngland to naija @ the end u only featured in a match for the Three lion. Same thing goes for Tammy Abraham, he ignores NNF with the hope dat he would be called up by England, but dem dissapoint am.

No be by force.

Do whatever makes you feel happy lady! Afterall its YOUR pregnancy; YOUR son! Haters will never be happy for other people's joy.

fairfora:
That she got pregnant does not make her a prostitute either. Nobody is promoting what's not, as you claimed. many married couples out there, including those in this forum and yourself,(if you are married already) cannot claim you touched your wife only after you got married. Many had even aborted several times before they finally got married and that alone is sheer immorality. That she's even keeping that baby is commendable..

So intelligent people are still on NL? Thanks for this. People are so hypocritical!

Disgusting, hateful, spiteful and hypocritical people everywhere!
This same sex she had is what you are having everyday out of wedlock! Is it because she got pregnant as evidence? Is it your pregnancy? Are you her family? Make una no go face your life, continue banging your head on the wall over another persons joy! God will surely reward you for all your hardwork and criticism!