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When this interview take place so?
I'm not seeing GQ interview with Tems.
Can Tems actually lie like this? Or it's just bloggers again.

shege45:
addiction is in stages. I was once like this,

It's a healthy addiction.
I don't let it get in the way of my normal activities. I've passed the addiction state, now, I just do it because I will it.

To be honest, I've had more control with my life since I started masturbating.

okoroemeka:
masturbation is a safety valve for men and women with high libido,the op says he does that 3 times weekly let's assume that is the minimum,it can be as high as 4-5 times weekly,do you expect him to have a woman he is be nacking almost everyday,don't be surprised but many married men with sidechicks still masturbate because most times they don't have the luxury of time to organise the logistics of meeting a woman regularly due to the nature of their job so masturbation will fill in the gaps

You get oil for head!!

Masturbating issues again ooo!!!

LadyD22:
They say it's bad, then switch off their lights and still do it
I personally think it's healthy , especially for women, what's the point of not getting familiar with your own body , and then grow old and die


Why would your creator give you so many erogenous zones only to warn you not to use them or else you'll perish , I suspect a set up ( his way is not our way )

I love that I know what turns me on and what doesn't , some people have to endure rubbish with people , sometimes the rubbish is still very painful not just annoying , I educated myself with different materials and of course there was practical ,so I know my spots better than anyone will and I'm very pleased with that choice

The religious are ready to cast their first stone and still sin in secret , it's not sin unless you're caught ? Every one has hormones , I'm scared of people who claim to not be moved or not have any thing at all , they're either lying or the living dead , even your religious leaders have hormones and feel Hot and you want me to believe they just stand up and start walking and it vanishes or they start binding and casting and some invisible surgeon comes to perform spiritual castration so their sexual organs automatically cease

Those ones that will be shouting I've never watched porn , I saw it "once" by "accident" since I was born and I'll never watch it again, are always the first to get pregnant in sec school or get someone pregnant

God bless you!!!
I have asked this same question again and again still no one can give me a logical explanation of what makes it a bad practice.

They keep citing trivial reasons.
One said demons are watching you, just waiting for you to do it LMAO.

It helps you to understand your body very well, thanks for saying that.

In this country, we are surrounded by a large number of hypocrites!!

Carcholce:
Masturbation is not a bad thing but it’s nonsense

Lol...That is what you think.
Tell me why you think it's nonsense.

Indaboski007:
Just logged in because of this thread. Masturbation is evil satanic it would destroy your life.

Find a real woman.

Masturbation and sex is not the same

Give me a logical explanation of what makes masturbation satanic and evil and I would desist from it

IceDune:
You mean Pervy demons

Chris2863:
Mtcheeeew, you take a back seat when you are done blabbing

You don't see meaning in what I have said?

Manofvalor1:
Thank you Mr.Advocate for Masturbation.if you are african and you live in Nigeria better run from masturbation. becos when village people put hand for that your masturbation matter,your helpers and opportunities fit begin run leave you.even your penis fit run leave you. with time your life go come become worthless like counterfeit money.do you even know that demons watch you masturbate? And they love it when you do and to some extent they seduce you to masturbate?

Lol,
I didn't know that.
Wow!!!!!!!!!

So demons are watching my every move and waiting for me to masturbate?

Creepy demons!!

For a while now, I've been hearing people condemn the act of masturbating and linking it to problems that they face in their life ( I consider it to be funny ).

There's nothing wrong with you masturbating, it's a healthy habit. If you are the RELIGIOUS TYPE, you have problems with it because of your beliefs and the guilt that results within is as a result of YOU THINKING YOU'VE DONE WRONG!!!

Try to practice healthy masturbation as there are no negative sides to it ( The only negative part to it are the ones you create).

If you have something to do with your life ( something useful) I don't see how masturbating would be an issue.

I do it three times a week and it doesn't affect my work. It makes me even sleep better at night and even in the afternoon. I drink lots of water when I'm done and I feel so relaxed afterwards. It is a nice way to let go of that sexual tension.

I'm not your TYPICAL CHRISTIAN but I'm happy with the way my life is. I pursue meaningful things that add value to myself and masturbating has never been in my way.

My advice is if you are in a tough place in your life and you are masturbating, don't think it's the reason you are there just look for the real problem and address it. Stop blaming poor ol masturbation.

But masturbating isn't a bad thing, you don't just have anything doing that's why you aren't progressing.
I don't fancy your gambling addiction

This is a very interesting story I must confess, I was laughing while reading especially during your service .

You loved your wife despite the fact she was with someone else. You made her pregnant along the way hence you had to marry her. At first, she told you that you were not financially capable from the onset but you kept pushing on ( I love your determination but it was uncalled for ).

You started experiencing financial issues as a result, and your wife's attitude changed ( that is expected from most women if we are to be realistic ).

Despite the various flaws from the onset, your wife is still with you but you aren't happy with her again. I would advise repeating the funny behaviour you exhibited at the beginning of your relationship as it seems your wife has a soft spot for it. Now that everything is alright, learn to love your wife again and she would repeat the same if otherwise, you can then consider the nuclear option lol.

Now to that other lady, I understand you both feel very comfortable with each other and she helped you to be sane again which in turn has HELPED!!! your marriage become PEACEFUL. She's a good FRIEND.
Don't you think that a woman who sees nothing wrong in dating a married man has issues with VALUES?

I don't want to say much, but with what I've said combined with your logical thinking you should be able to come to a nice decision.


N.B don't forget, because she made you happy today doesn't mean she can't also make you sad!!! When you are sad with her would you also jump at the next nice girl that would make you happy!!! Lol.
That's a vicious circle oooo!!!!
Be stable with your finances and let your wife get a job. That should address your problem

apolonius:
I just wanted to say the op is stupid and move on. But your wise comment will make me drop a sentence of two to puncture the OP’s generalizations.

The op is leaning on their narrow experience and limitations to make generalizations. I lived in the UK for many years-studied to the highest levels before moving to Canada. Canada is a million miles apart.

People talk about the US without talking about the costs of healthcare, childcare and all.

I bought a home around Toronto within 2 years of moving to Canada. I lived in a box room in the UK for 11 years!

I am a prime professional who practiced in firms before setting up mine.

I know bankers who left Naija towards the end of last year who are holding down 2-3 jobs (enabled by the pandemic’s remote work) and making 20-30k monthly. I mean these are close friends.

While the traditional professions have rigid licensing processes in every country to test for determination, it is normal. When we went to Nigeria for the law school, even professors of law and accomplished lawyers from the US, UK, Canada et al, had to do Bar 1 with us. They did and some are accomplished politicians and lawyers in Nigeria today.

I know 2 SANs who did their accreditation and bar exams, and are now doing Articling in Toronto. It’s normal.

Yes, doctors like lawyers and all do same too. You either want it enough to soldier through or you stay in your comfort zone. If you push through, the rewards are huge. I have many lawyer colleagues making over $130k and some are immigration panel members (judges) within 2-3 years. I know 2 very close Nigerian professors of law in Canadian universities , they came in as students, who make over $300k.

Canada is today’s heaven. Lazy and unfocused people will promote harsh relativism as the general experience. But it’s crap!

If you come to Canada legally and have your PR, you can settle in 1-2 years and do great. Of course, lawyers and doctors may face a slower transition, but it’s worth it.

Bankers, IT professionals, business analysts among others should get great jobs within 2-4 months, if properly guided, and earn between $70-120k. I have seen tens of close friends go through it and doing great!

As per loneliness, it’s demand and supply. More black/Naija women who are single crowd the Naija community populated by men who largely have families before leaving Nigeria. Yes, professional Naija men are almost always married few years after university. If they use potential husbands to play boyfriend koso, who they go blame? Naija ladies can go back home and find their kind. It’s easier than deluding themselves that they will find Oyibo men here. Those who go home to look for husbands and lovers do find!

Anyway, I rest my purposeful bile at the nonsense morons share here about Canada and politics. Naija youths should get properly enlightened!

You've said something worthwhile but at the end, I'm just wondering '' are you really that educated".
Just a thought though ( I don't see the reason why you have to be insultive ).
Don't let me think you aren't matured.
I want to believe you are matured

NoFucksToGive:

You cap too much nonsense just for likes... No one sent you to Canada nor did anyone ask you for this trash.

Should we open a thread about why Nigerians are fleeing to Canada?

All these servants of Saboteurs disgusting as advisers .

1.Is making wealth in Nigeria easy ? No! Only through politics or crime is the only way for someone without connection to make it in Nigeria

2. Cost of living in Nigeria is too fvcking high! Just ask anyone

3. Loneliness? Misery loves company that's why Nigerians flock around you in Nigeria

4. Cold... Give me cold over mosquitoes biting me while I slap myself at night while trying to kill them

5. Getting professional jobs ... E still better pass Nigeria 1 million times over and over..

See guys and girls becareful what you read or whom you take seriously. Some people are servants of Satan sent to misguide you .

This is how the Federal government wants to prevent brain drain ? Instead of ADDRESSING why all the doctors lawyers engineers and professionals are running abroad they are employing quacks to come online and type shit.


Run from such people

To wipe this OP USB cord for neck just dey hungry me!

Calm down, she just shared what she has experienced. That shouldn't stop you from going.
She is letting you know what to expect.
Of course Canada is better than Nigeria, she's telling you it's not all goodie goodie over there

You are not alright at all

Staphylococcus:
Online rally!


Mirage that will never come to reality!


Hommie better go invest his money in stocks or real estate. He lacks a true adviser who can look into his eyes and say “Mr. Obi, your ambition is impossible”

I have thought of the possibility of Obi becoming president, and the only instance I could find is if one should abuse hard drugs. Only hallucinations can make Obi president.

You can't be too sure.
Let's just wait and see how everything would play out.
We should be logical and not sentimental when it comes to matters like these.
I'm guessing you are a supporter of Tinubu, even at that you shouldn't be too sure that he might win.
We should all exercise patience

N.B You saying you thought of every possibility!!! Don't make me laugh

That statement alone is flawed!

Una funny for this site oo, can't you share your opinions without insulting someone? I just taya for una. Drop your answer and rest.

What works for Peter cannot always work for Paul, there are levels to this life! Some persons can cope with someone earning 100k a month and others can't. Sure any human being can do anything for survival, eg be with a man that earns less than or exactly 100k a month lol.

The quality of life is something you should also consider. Some people have been raised in a particular way, gotten used to certain things and along the way, some have become a necessity. Unless you are willing to sacrifice for the sake of love and forfiet some of those necessities don't settle for less.

For the ones who are looking for a woman that would assist, how many of you can find one that would fully commit? You self think am now.

For me, I rather focus on establishing myself before I think of bringing in a woman and then having children. There's the kind of life I'm used to already, I'm not going to sacrifice for anything less than it. Forward ever!!

N.B Nor forget say the man wey dey earn 100k or below still get him siblings plus mama and papa to reason oo ( in some cases oo, not all the time)

So for me, 100k or below won't be enough to start a family/ getting married. There is a lifestyle I plan to give them. Until I am assured I can give them just that, I won't consider that big decision

JagabanLagos:
Very useless set of organization.

Very soon, you will support sex with animals. Nah small small craze dey enter.

Sex with same sex is not different from sex with animals. If you want hole, animals also have hole. If nah Virgina you wan lick, animals also have it.



We over here in SouthWest Nigeria don't tolerate it. It will always remain abomination.

Because your culture considers it such

princepee:
WHO bomb dey una head ,
Trying to justify homosexuality
All of una dey mad.
Very soon they will approve bestiality.
All I know is that sex is between man and woman. Any other sex is unnatural.

On what basis do you consider it at being natural?

Try masturbating instead

ObamaMessi:
I finally arrived in America.

Can't believe Victor Divine is in yankee.

I live in Willowbrook, Houston, Texas.

It has always been a dream since I was 10, now 19 and my dream is reality.

I will soon work my way to NY to recide in Alabama.

My dream of becoming Governor of New York, U.S Secretary of State and subsequently becoming U.S President (after we amend the constitution to make naturalized citizens eligible to run for the Presidency) is materializing.

Just a week plus here, I know the difference between a first world country and a third world shithole.

I implore all of you to work your ass off to the U.S and live that shithole to your selfish politicians.

#GodBlessAmerica!!!

A person that wasn't given birth to in the USA can't be president

Asianjollof007:
Boss man like you. You are too big for this sir

How do I contact you?
Create a WhatsApp group like someone suggested, 09132630298

Asianjollof007:
Boss man like you. You are too big for this sir

I'm not too big... I wan learn abeg

Asianjollof007:
Agba carder, most hip hop artistes in nigeria are fraudsters. Well if you are interested in learning carding for free, buzz me up.

Modified: For my brothers quoting and willing to learn, abeg no drop number here just mail me. I also learnt for free, i can also provide you free VPN and any format for free. Don't worry about the teaching, it's easy cos every thing has been written and converted into a FILE. Different methods, i go just send you files and guide you, that's ALL. I no too get time like that, i learnt loading for free too.

Boss I wan learn abeg

Kibbs:
400lvl??

That's some balls man!

Omo, if only I could afford private uni, I wouldn't even think it twice. Cus, they're so much better and faster.

People wey we enter together for private uni don dey final year or even finished.

For me, what other people think is not my business, na wetin I want na matter past. Computer science na something wey I fit use very well in the long term but for PEE, no way at all.


Funds dey very important too. Lack of Funds na dey make school dey stressful. If funds they u nor go reason ASUU.


My gees wey dey Uniben dey happy for the strike because them get enough time to take hustle ( me nor go lie give you, na street all of us dey, but most of us here dey use our funds for better thing).



My point be say, if you know what you want in the long term and you wouldn't regret it later in life, just do it!


Person wey take last for race still pass the finish line, the difference between him and who take first na just time.

U gerrit!!!!

Heathrow44:
everything here is a lot of women women women women empowerment,she was a director to advance interests of Facebook not women folks, she's always talking about women as if her role in the company is Gender equality director, this woman should step down and go and focus on women empowerment and give philanthropic assistance to only women in all her long speech there's no place for men!


Anyways the change of name from Facebook to Meta was a disaster

Stop saying what you don't know.
Zuckerberg knew why e went after that woman, her input made Facebook what it is today.

flexyrule:
Billionaire employee.



Motivational speakers: You can never become a Billionaire by working for someone.


Sheryl Sandberg:

My brother tell them!!!!!!!!!
Nonsense set of people, na just to open mouth waaaaa!!!!!!!!

oldienavie:
I said unprotected sex.
Having said that, I have seen it all.
I have dated ladies from all races (I say this humbly) and I can tell you women are the same regardless of colour or race.
Also, there is nothing different from a deeperlife pucci and olosho pucci.
As a matter of fact, it is better to marry a deeperlifer who has a lesser probability of having aborted than your average COZA babe.
There is a level you get to you realise that there is nothing more fulfilling than being content with a faithful woman, no matter how sexy a woman is if you cannot trust her you are doomed.

That is why majority of celebrity marriages are crashing, your purported model image does not always work especially when a man cannot trust his woman.

If you've seen it all, why then are you saying this?

Same issue I had during my IT. I was studying petroleum engineering, 400lv. Took jamb again and got admitted to a private University to study Computer Science ( no time for ASUU). Currently in my 100lv. Although my parents vex, me no send. When I start to collect, na only come dey sponsor myself and to be honest it's quite a relief for me.


Always take a long term view over things, if it would be worth It, just do it. Starting all over again can be scary but if it would get you to where you are going, it's going to be worth the stress.

lordchiz:
And Na person born this one shebi?

Yes and you shouldn't judge

EASYGURU:


What do we mke out of this nonsense

That not all men are bottom